FabSwingers.com forum: What’s more attractive

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A physically good looking person with no sense of humour or personality? Or, a person with a face for radio with a banging personality that can make you laugh?

For me, it’s the latter…. And you can’t say both!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Generally if someone has a banging personality I tend to find their face becomes more attractive.

Pretty things that are boring stop being pretty fast.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Generally if someone has a banging personality I tend to find their face becomes more attractive.

Pretty things that are boring stop being pretty fast."

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Generally if someone has a banging personality I tend to find their face becomes more attractive.

Pretty things that are boring stop being pretty fast."

Said it perfectly.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Pretty things that are boring stop being pretty fast."

One of these days you’re going to post an opinion I disagree with. But not today.

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

Definitely a good personality & sense of humour....

But everyone defines what's attractive physically differently.

Also you can have attractive people with ugly personalities..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Everyone has a sense of humour and a personality otherwise they'd be a boulder

It is possible to be attractive, funny and personable too.

I choose physically attractive, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally looks for me they couldnt laugh me in to bed i need attraction.. if they are funny then thats a bonus

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Personality, I’m more attracted to the mind than a physical body

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Generally if someone has a banging personality I tend to find their face becomes more attractive.

Pretty things that are boring stop being pretty fast."

I agree fully. Though more often than not those "less attractive" don't have the chance to let their personality shine through. It's pointless being perfect 10 personality if nobody will interact because physically the attraction is lacking both personal and universal.

And here is the overall bullshit with the physical or personality question. Both are equal except in specific cases.

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By *z20Man
over a year ago

Swindon

Not the response you’re probably hoping for but physical attraction will get my attention but the personality and mental attraction is what will keep it.

I’d value personality higher, however a situation to show off that trait may never arise if the initial attraction isn’t there.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"Generally if someone has a banging personality I tend to find their face becomes more attractive.

Pretty things that are boring stop being pretty fast."
This...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The latter. But sometimes you get lucky and find both in one person which is a joyous occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find ppl standing in there own truths and not just pandering to others in the hope of some trade off. And personality comes in so many forms there is beauty in all of them if im willing to see it , I find looks attractive....and and again that comes in many forms if I'm willing to get past my own set "types"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Why is being physically attractive seen as indicative of poor personality and a good personality as a compensation for being less attractive? If someone likes me personally and finds me funny does it mean I'm unattractive physically?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"The latter. But sometimes you get lucky and find both in one person which is a joyous occasion "

… and ends up leading to lots more joyous occasions if you’re really lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The latter. But sometimes you get lucky and find both in one person which is a joyous occasion

… and ends up leading to lots more joyous occasions if you’re really lucky. "

I was obviously referring to myself. I’ve had plenty of joyous occasions with myself

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Needs all three, if I'm not attracted to someone in some way, then I wouldn't be wasting time having long arse conversations with them to get to the sense of humour and personality part.

Needs attraction to some degree.

I wouldn't go for someone I found unattractive for whatever reason just because they're funny!

Shallow maybe, but I'm honest!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"A physically good looking person with no sense of humour or personality? Or, a person with a face for radio with a banging personality that can make you laugh?

For me, it’s the latter…. And you can’t say both!

They’re not mutually exclusive…

Besides I like lived in faces.. and someone who likes themselves

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Attitude is everything.

I would take a filthy mind over a perfect body every time.

But sometimes you find someone with both.

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

Neither of those options work for me, they need to have both.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Generally if someone has a banging personality I tend to find their face becomes more attractive.

Pretty things that are boring stop being pretty fast."

Spot on!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Not the response you’re probably hoping for but physical attraction will get my attention but the personality and mental attraction is what will keep it.

I’d value personality higher, however a situation to show off that trait may never arise if the initial attraction isn’t there.

This

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"A physically good looking person with no sense of humour or personality? Or, a person with a face for radio with a banging personality that can make you laugh?

For me, it’s the latter…. And you can’t say both!

I find it hard to sploodge all over someones personality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality is everything for me as I'm much better riffing off people if we have the same sense of humour and they can make me laugh. Even if I don't find them facially attractive to start with, I feel that once they show their personality, they can become more attractive over time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Attitude is everything.

I would take a filthy mind over a perfect body every time.

But sometimes you find someone with both."

You can’t say both.

apparently

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"A physically good looking person with no sense of humour or personality? Or, a person with a face for radio with a banging personality that can make you laugh?

For me, it’s the latter…. And you can’t say both!

If it was just about personality, then I'd be surrounded by ladies. OK maybe 1 or 2.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I was obviously referring to myself. I’ve had plenty of joyous occasions with myself

When do I get my joyous occasion? Still waiting, here …

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Attitude is everything.

I would take a filthy mind over a perfect body every time.

But sometimes you find someone with both.

You can’t say both.

apparently "

Just say it. Be a rebel

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

The personality can make someone attractive.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone with a banging personality with a face for radio, no one gets to know your personality if they don't find you attractive enough in the first place to talk to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Banging personality gets me every time, if a person can hold a decent conversation and make me laugh, my interest is there.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"As someone with a banging personality with a face for radio, no one gets to know your personality if they don't find you attractive enough in the first place to talk to you. "

This is the bit people often forget/ignore.

Sure it's different if you are friends first, or in random passing etc. But intentionally trying to spark something like on here or a dating site personality doesn't help much if you don't appear attractive.

That is where the forum helps a lot though much more than first messages, personality can be seen (even just a small part of it) first.

That said I still stand by just because the personality is perfection does not mean you are suddenly attractive to all or even any.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Attitude is everything.

I would take a filthy mind over a perfect body every time.

But sometimes you find someone with both.

You can’t say both.

apparently "

I did express my preference.

But in real life, it's rarely one or the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely a person with a good personality, looks fade as we age,personality doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality is a big thing, if you have a dead personality it really isn't going to work and you can be the hottest person and it won't change anything

I find getting to know someone and the more I do and if they have a great personality they become more attractive.

Obviously there has to be to some extent as if I'm really not attracted then no it won't work.

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hope you could have both

A sense of humour is top of the list for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would hope you could have both

A sense of humour is top of the list for me

xx "

After 30 seconds in the bedroom with me, you'll be in stitches

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Generally if someone has a banging personality I tend to find their face becomes more attractive.

Pretty things that are boring stop being pretty fast."

Same

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Second one...get bored in minutes if there is no personality or humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmmmm don't really think everyone is being honest lol

The women with blank profiles who say they will only talk to men with profile pictures ha ha .

Truth is , personality will never be enough without physical attraction . ( Unfortunately for me ) lol

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I would hope you could have both

A sense of humour is top of the list for me

After 30 seconds in the bedroom with me, you'll be in stitches

Ditto. Many a time, I have made a woman howl with laughter by getting naked. Sometimes, they're laughing so hard we never go further.

- Jack

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I don’t look at her personality when I’m ploughing away in her knicker badger

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan
over a year ago

Lymington

Unrelated but does anyone know when the next open mic night is, my last was a huge success…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what for?

Sex? I'll take the adonis please.

A friend and to have a laugh with? Personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Second one...get bored in minutes if there is no personality or humour."

Minutes is all I need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first one.

I don't want to date them, just shag them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Compassionate soul wins every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im shallow .. ive got to like the look of someone first ..........

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

"Not the response you’re probably hoping for but physical attraction will get my attention but the personality and mental attraction is what will keep it.

I’d value personality higher, however a situation to show off that trait may never arise if the initial attraction isn’t there.

Totally agree

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

"im shallow .. ive got to like the look of someone first .........."

Me too

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"A physically good looking person with no sense of humour or personality? Or, a person with a face for radio with a banging personality that can make you laugh?

For me, it’s the latter…. And you can’t say both!

Yep the latter.

Can I ask how many of you who gave the same answer insist on swapping face pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The latter

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By *uer MalusMan
over a year ago

Narnia

"A physically good looking person with no sense of humour or personality? Or, a person with a face for radio with a banging personality that can make you laugh?

For me, it’s the latter…. And you can’t say both!

Really don’t buy it. Stage 1 is always a visual which is the gate way to the next stage which determines is you connect on a personal level.

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