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By *omRach OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

Worst one yet - ghosted and timewasted by a couple (although it's most probable only one of the couple was involved) with FIFTEEN veri's.

Some people really do need to get themselves a life, what a fuckin sad individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In what way? Maybe they got bored of chat? Changed their minds??? Numerous others reason but better just chalking it down to experience and moving on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People with 16 veris?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust no one

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By *omRach OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wirral


"People with 16 veris? "

15

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By *omRach OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wirral


"Trust no one "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worst one yet - ghosted and timewasted by a couple (although it's most probable only one of the couple was involved) with FIFTEEN veri's.

Some people really do need to get themselves a life, what a fuckin sad individual."

Is this even news ?

Do we really need a thread about it ?

If I had a thread for all my negative experiences on here I would fill up the FAB disk storage system.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People with 16 veris?

15"

I think she may have meant people with 15 veri's can't be trusted but people with 16 can as a light hearted comment?

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By *omRach OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford


"Worst one yet - ghosted and timewasted by a couple (although it's most probable only one of the couple was involved) with FIFTEEN veri's.

Some people really do need to get themselves a life, what a fuckin sad individual.

Is this even news ?

Do we really need a thread about it ?

If I had a thread for all my negative experiences on here I would fill up the FAB disk storage system. "

If it’s so bad, leave…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worst one yet - ghosted and timewasted by a couple (although it's most probable only one of the couple was involved) with FIFTEEN veri's.

Some people really do need to get themselves a life, what a fuckin sad individual.

Is this even news ?

Do we really need a thread about it ?

If I had a thread for all my negative experiences on here I would fill up the FAB disk storage system.

If it’s so bad, leave…"

Mostly here for the forums now. But when I do go I will make sure it’s in true ‘Dan59’ style !

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

DTA - don't trust anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worst one yet - ghosted and timewasted by a couple (although it's most probable only one of the couple was involved) with FIFTEEN veri's.

Some people really do need to get themselves a life, what a fuckin sad individual."

Well some people believe veris are 100% reliable...

Have they been online?

We were once ghosted a few days before the meet. He reappeared a few days later and said he'd fallen off scaffolding so couldn't message as he was in hospital.

We met him a couple of weeks later and he still had the bruises. Sometimes shit happens. And he was a brilliant shag.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Trust no one

Expect nothing

Zero disappointment

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly here for the forums now. But when I do go I will make sure it’s in true ‘Dan59’ style !"

Oh good grief. No! I like Dan, but come on now.

Be classy. Don’t strop out like a toddler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My expectations of this site are so low they’re subterranean. But trust is earned not given so I’m mostly avoiding disappointment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worst one yet - ghosted and timewasted by a couple (although it's most probable only one of the couple was involved) with FIFTEEN veri's.

Some people really do need to get themselves a life, what a fuckin sad individual."

As the song says...Welcome to the Jungle .

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Worst one yet - ghosted and timewasted by a couple (although it's most probable only one of the couple was involved) with FIFTEEN veri's.

Some people really do need to get themselves a life, what a fuckin sad individual.

Is this even news ?

Do we really need a thread about it ?

If I had a thread for all my negative experiences on here I would fill up the FAB disk storage system.

If it’s so bad, leave…

Mostly here for the forums now. But when I do go I will make sure it’s in true ‘Dan59’ style !"

Sorry to the OP for the derailment, but what did he do??

But on the OP, I don't think there's any cast iron guarantee with anyone, but I still think the good peeps vastly outweigh the bad. That's my experience anyway.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

How did they ghost if you never met them? Just stop chatting? Or not turn to to an arranged meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did they ghost if you never met them? Just stop chatting? Or not turn to to an arranged meet?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

& the to fuck things up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has the right to back out of a meet at any time and for any reason and do not owe anyone an explanation. Simple.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Worst one yet - ghosted and timewasted by a couple (although it's most probable only one of the couple was involved) with FIFTEEN veri's.

Some people really do need to get themselves a life, what a fuckin sad individual."
put your faith in jesus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss S x

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Always follow stone cold's advice, DTA.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


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If it’s so bad, leave…

Mostly here for the forums now. But when I do go I will make sure it’s in true ‘Dan59’ style !"

Someone tell me what happened? I missed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has the right to back out of a meet at any time and for any reason and do not owe anyone an explanation. Simple."

If someone has arranged a meet and changed their mind, they should at least let the other person/ people know. It's incredibly rude if they don't.

If there was an emergency they could let them know later.

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey


"Trust no one

Expect nothing

Zero disappointment

Mrs "

Best advice ever!

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Worst one yet - ghosted and timewasted by a couple (although it's most probable only one of the couple was involved) with FIFTEEN veri's.

Some people really do need to get themselves a life, what a fuckin sad individual."

That's a fine trig you got there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liz. 'Trust' Truss. lol.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We generally don't use this site for arranging meets. Seems like a right potential for wasted time and fuckery. We generally stick to clubs, parties and vanilla people we seduce on nights out.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

It's frustrating so fuck it and go to a club and never look back.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Worst one yet - ghosted and timewasted by a couple (although it's most probable only one of the couple was involved) with FIFTEEN veri's.

Some people really do need to get themselves a life, what a fuckin sad individual."

Before I take sides......

Can you give us your definition of 'timewasted' and 'ghosted' ?

I'm assuming the latter means they've just cut contact dead and/or blocked you, but as for the timewasting side of thing - that's open to wide interpretation.

Maybe it was something you said? Maybe they've actually done nothing wrong and just changed their mind? As for the 15 veris? How recent was the newest one?

We've cut people dead before based on something they've said, an activity they suggested or just because the tone of conversation has changed to something that puts us off. Usually we'll send a 'sorry we've changed our mind' message (before blocking) but not always.

Everyone can change their minds - even you OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly here for the forums now. But when I do go I will make sure it’s in true ‘Dan59’ style !

Oh good grief. No! I like Dan, but come on now.

Be classy. Don’t strop out like a toddler "

So it wasn't just me that thought that?!!

That's a relief.

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Maybe you started to bore them so they couldn’t be bothered to talk to you anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If it’s so bad, leave…

Mostly here for the forums now. But when I do go I will make sure it’s in true ‘Dan59’ style !

Someone tell me what happened? I missed it"

*tumble* ... we're all a bit scared to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give up! Trying to post tumblewxxd!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can trust my mother, arrr what she still answered my email

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you ghost someone it shows a lack of respect and lack of basic communication skills. It's simple to say you've changed your mind or not interested anymore and everyone moves on no harm done.

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

The issue is, maybe they were liking you because of some specific reasons, and then you said something to counter that.

For example, Mrs has a very specific type of meet she enjoys, no matter how good the conversation is going, if you went down the wrong path, she'd lose interest. Sometimes it's like "oh can't be bothered to reply now and say no" then before you know it, you've got 250 new messages above in your inbox and that conversation is in the distant past.

It's no lie when women say they get hundreds of messages. If she has a status on her profile, it can easily generate 2-300 messages in an evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ain't 'fraid of no ghost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't get it..... You have to talk to people to establish if you are compatible... Is that time wasting? And then stopping the conversation when you know its not for you - surely that is precisely because you don't want to time waste?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You will not meet most people who you engage in chat with here. And those who wisely stop chatting, owe you no explanation or goodbye. Be realistic - most people are not mutually well matched. Dtop the drama.

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By *enrythe8thMan
over a year ago

worthing

Hiya all sexy people

I read all your mixed posts

I thought it was just me

But allsorts of us get same feelings regarding what I thought were timewasters!?

But some interesting points across the board..

Personally I’m a mega horny rascal

I find it weird after reading an xxx rated ad and xxx pics and nsa etc etc

That they start asking various personal ???

Won’t display or send pics but ask me for face pics etc

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"Hiya all sexy people

I read all your mixed posts

I thought it was just me

But allsorts of us get same feelings regarding what I thought were timewasters!?

But some interesting points across the board..

Personally I’m a mega horny rascal

I find it weird after reading an xxx rated ad and xxx pics and nsa etc etc

That they start asking various personal ???

Won’t display or send pics but ask me for face pics etc "

It can be a case of 'you send a face pic first...' scenario! I guess everyone has certain things they must know before agreeing to meet...

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