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"Yes. Just sex yes, if they were dating I'd need to check in with the other first. Friends shouldn't make a difference." This | |||
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Would I have sex with them if they had sex/were teamed up with another forum user? Interesting question- don’t really want to tread on anyone’s toes! I have been witness to full-on drama for things like this, so I’d probably keep my distance… unless I really fancied them and I’d made sure coast is clear.
If they’re friends, well, I’d probably check if it is cool borrowing said forumite for a while, promising to return them when I am done. but I don’t know- it’s treacherous territory to be honest! | |||
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"Yep; rare from me. Would you have sex with a forum user? Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? What about if the two of them were friends? Would that change anything? Idle thoughts but let's keep it non-bitchy/referring to real things please. Hypothetical is good. "Yes Yes Yes, after checking they're both ok with it. I have no secrets | |||
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"Yes to all three, assuming it was openly discussed and consensual. This is Fabswingers not Fabmonogamy-ers." ^^ absolutely this | |||
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"Would you have sex with a forum user? Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? What about if the two of them were friends? Would that change?" Have done before and would do again Had sex with - yes. Kind of the point of the site so no issues Dating - that depends on a few things for me. Would the other person know? Am I going to be discussed? More of a grey area Just friends then I would be ok with that | |||
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"Yep; rare from me. Would you have sex with a forum user? Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? What about if the two of them were friends? Would that change anything? Idle thoughts but let's keep it non-bitchy/referring to real things please. Hypothetical is good. "If the forum user is a woman then yes I would, yes I would have with if she was dating other people on the forem (within reason) and the last question no it wouldnt change a thing if they were friends | |||
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"Would never say no" This is a winning attitude.
No, being less teasing, there's not a right/wrong answer - it's idle curiosity on a Monday afternoon fuelled by nosiness and a lack of painkillers. | |||
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"Yes to all three, assuming it was openly discussed and consensual. This is Fabswingers not Fabmonogamy-ers." True. But I don't think everyone on here is a swinger so really it's a name not a decree. I also think everyone has different interpretations of non-monogamy/open discussions. It's about finding those that share similar views. | |||
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"I also think everyone has different interpretations of non-monogamy/open discussions. It's about finding those that share similar views. " Yep. Hence the ‘openly discussed and consensual’ bit. Generally though, I think these forums are the best place to find nice sexy people and see if there are any sparks flying. Hence all my yessing. | |||
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"As it stands I don’t think I’ve had sex with a forum user… not a regular forum user anyway.
Would I have sex with them if they had sex/were teamed up with another forum user? Interesting question- don’t really want to tread on anyone’s toes! I have been witness to full-on drama for things like this, so I’d probably keep my distance… unless I really fancied them and I’d made sure coast is clear.
If they’re friends, well, I’d probably check if it is cool borrowing said forumite for a while, promising to return them when I am done. but I don’t know- it’s treacherous territory to be honest! "Ah I really love this reply, mainly because it's thorough and a bit waffle! Yes, drama can happen. Has happened. We've both been here long enough to know the potential! But I think it can be navigated sensibly/respectfully depending on the situation. Maybe. No, I know it can. | |||
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"Yep; rare from me. Would you have sex with a forum user? Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? What about if the two of them were friends? Would that change anything? Idle thoughts but let's keep it non-bitchy/referring to real things please. Hypothetical is good. "1. Yes. 2. Yes, though it would depend on who that other forum user was. 3. Do you mean friends with me? That might change things, but would depend on who/what sort of friend they were etc (see above). | |||
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"Yes No, wouldn't want to step on anyones toes or cause any upset Not sure if that would be weird... I wouldn't want people talking about me. It's a fine line... I guess it depends on boundaries!" I agree with Mimi  | |||
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"Yes to all three, assuming it was openly discussed and consensual. This is Fabswingers not Fabmonogamy-ers. True. But I don't think everyone on here is a swinger so really it's a name not a decree. I also think everyone has different interpretations of non-monogamy/open discussions. It's about finding those that share similar views. " And some people might only want to meet as a couple, once they team up. | |||
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"Yep; rare from me. Would you have sex with a forum user? " Yes " Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? " Had sex - Yes Dating - No " A What about if the two of them were friends? Would that change anything? " No " Idle thoughts but let's keep it non-bitchy/referring to real things please. Hypothetical is good. " | |||
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"I'd have, and already have had sex with forum users. I'd be hesitant about sex with anyone in a relationship with another forum user, purely for the privacy issues. Not knowing who's doing whom on here though, we might have sex with someone who is in a relationship, and not know. " . That's very true. You might remember a few years ago the idea of meeting a forum user was abhorrent (or at least widely touted as being so, reality different). It's nice the zeitgeist has changed.  | |||
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"I would hope that someone on here wouldn't ask to meet me if they knew it would cause problems with someone else. " Exactly this, what does it say about the person suggesting the meet? | |||
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"Yes to all three, assuming it was openly discussed and consensual. This is Fabswingers not Fabmonogamy-ers. True. But I don't think everyone on here is a swinger so really it's a name not a decree. I also think everyone has different interpretations of non-monogamy/open discussions. It's about finding those that share similar views. And some people might only want to meet as a couple, once they team up." True, very true. I also like that you included my comment about Fabswingers not being a decree because it's one of my slight bug bears of a justification/reason on here. | |||
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"Yes. Yes. Depends. As long everyone is having good time. Heck yeah !" I like it. And the clause. | |||
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"Yep; rare from me. " " Would you have sex with a forum user? " Yes, up the arse. " Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? " Yes, I’d put my balls in as well. " What about if the two of them were friends? Would that change anything? " I’d bum their friend as well " Idle thoughts but let's keep it non-bitchy/referring to real things please. Hypothetical is good. " | |||
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"Meli it's a swinging site if they were friends it may be different then a conversation would need to be had I suppose" I know what the site's original purpose was, that's not quite the question.
I'm being nosy (as stated before) and seeing how different people feel about things. It's an interesting discussion. | |||
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"Yes to all on the condition neither of us verify each other or mention it publicly. No drama! " Exactly this | |||
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"Would you have sex with a forum user? " Yes " Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? " If it was just sex, yes. If they were dating I'd need to check that it was consensual all round. " What about if the two of them were friends? Would that change anything? " If I know both of them I'd still need to check. People have different boundaries and I wouldn't like to assume. However, if they're just friends and I don't know the other one I wouldn't feel the need to ask for "permission". Nell | |||
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"Meli it's a swinging site if they were friends it may be different then a conversation would need to be had I suppose"
If they are in a relationship that doesn’t involve meeting others then they shouldn’t be arranging meets with others anyway and if they do then the drama/backlash should be to their partner. | |||
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"Super cute _eli" 
My neediness has been sated for today, thank you. | |||
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"Would you have sex with a forum user? Yes Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? If it was just sex, yes. If they were dating I'd need to check that it was consensual all round. What about if the two of them were friends? Would that change anything? If I know both of them I'd still need to check. People have different boundaries and I wouldn't like to assume. However, if they're just friends and I don't know the other one I wouldn't feel the need to ask for "permission". Nell" Ah the permission thing! Yes, asking for permission from someone you don't know is a bit... well. You can probably guess my thoughts on that Nell. Maybe that's part of their dynamic? Checking in with someone if they're a good friend of yours is different isn't it? Friendship is valuable. I once hurt a friend quite a lot by putting my quim first. Try and avoid repeating that (she types knowing full well she may occasionally mess up even now ). | |||
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"Yes I would. If they were friends with, or seeing other forum users that wouldn't be an issue for me. " Classic cold cucumber _ickshawed... | |||
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"Absolutely not, you'd never catch me doing such a thing! Seriously though, even if I were looking to meet, I'd be wary after past experiences. Too small a pool and all that. Someone that a friend was seeing? Nope, for me that's one of those unwritten rules like not dating a friend's ex. Friends are far more important than a shag. " Oh same Lily. Same. Imagine wanting to meet one of those dodoheads. Eurgh. Do you think you'll ever change your mind on your wariness or is it a case of lesson learned? Dating a friend's ex/having sex with a person a friend is seeing is an interesting one - does it matter how close the friendship is? And the chemistry with the person? I kind of see it in my mind as being a graph of what's acceptable and what's not. | |||
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"Yep; rare from me. Would you have sex with a forum user? Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? What about if the two of them were friends? Would that change anything? Idle thoughts but let's keep it non-bitchy/referring to real things please. Hypothetical is good. "Yes. Yes. Yes. Depends who of course. There are of course some that I suspect would cause my dick to recede so far inside my body it may never again be seen by the human eye..... 
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"There are of course some that I suspect would cause my dick to recede so far inside my body it may never again be seen by the human eye.....
A"That would be a truly sad day for us all Obi, shedding a tear just thinking about it now. Don't let that happen. | |||
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"That's very true. You might remember a few years ago the idea of meeting a forum user was abhorrent (or at least widely touted as being so, reality different). It's nice the zeitgeist has changed. "I did not know it was abhorrent before. I had sex with a forum user a number of years ago and have seen her socially since - need to get diaries synchronised, always something else going on with one or other of us (like work or domestic crap) | |||
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"Simple questions, not so simple answer! I’m not sure if I would visit bonetown with someone from the forum. I’d meet a few socially though. I started typing this then realised the answer to my first question sort of rules me out of being answer the second two. We should get coffee so I can waste your time in person " If by coffee you mean steak and a theatre show where you won't be left for a dicking and that will be promised daily until said theatre and steak, why yes, yes we should. | |||
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"Simple questions, not so simple answer! I’m not sure if I would visit bonetown with someone from the forum. I’d meet a few socially though. I started typing this then realised the answer to my first question sort of rules me out of being answer the second two. We should get coffee so I can waste your time in person If by coffee you mean steak and a theatre show where you won't be left for a dicking and that will be promised daily until said theatre and steak, why yes, yes we should. " Send the deets I’m invested in this totally hypothetical situation. | |||
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" Oh same Lily. Same. Imagine wanting to meet one of those dodoheads. Eurgh. Do you think you'll ever change your mind on your wariness or is it a case of lesson learned? I suppose if I were ever looking to meet again it would greatly depend on how attractive I found someone...never say never, but I'd still think twice even if it were Johnny Depp or Cillian Murphy. Lessons learned, there'd be less being mature and taking the moral high ground, and more throat punching if it ever happened again 
Dating a friend's ex/having sex with a person a friend is seeing is an interesting one - does it matter how close the friendship is? And the chemistry with the person? I kind of see it in my mind as being a graph of what's acceptable and what's not.
I don't class people as friends easily, so with someone that I do consider a friend I'd stay away. Too much potential to mar the friendship. Acquaintances? Unless I knew that both parties had agreed on a monogamous relationship then they're fair game. I'd never take one person's view on it on here, I've seen far too many mins-matched expectations to do that. " | |||
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"As it stands I don’t think I’ve had sex with a forum user… not a regular forum user anyway.
Would I have sex with them if they had sex/were teamed up with another forum user? Interesting question- don’t really want to tread on anyone’s toes! I have been witness to full-on drama for things like this, so I’d probably keep my distance… unless I really fancied them and I’d made sure coast is clear.
If they’re friends, well, I’d probably check if it is cool borrowing said forumite for a while, promising to return them when I am done. but I don’t know- it’s treacherous territory to be honest!
Ah I really love this reply, mainly because it's thorough and a bit waffle! Yes, drama can happen. Has happened. We've both been here long enough to know the potential! But I think it can be navigated sensibly/respectfully depending on the situation. Maybe. No, I know it can. "LOL! I like my waffling, Meli!
But seriously-I have seen SERIOUS drama unfolding and I also have to sheepishly admit I was involved in some drama a couple of years ago  when I really shouldn’t have reacted the way I did, haha.
So now I like things clear and transparent- if someone wants to get it on with me and I do too but it’s more than obvious that they have an arrangement with someone else on here I’d like to hear that they know and it’s cool with them and I’d expect the same courtesy in return.
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"Yep; rare from me. Would you have sex with a forum user? Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? What about if the two of them were friends? Would that change anything? Idle thoughts but let's keep it non-bitchy/referring to real things please. Hypothetical is good. "What are your thoughts Meli? | |||
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" Would you have sex with a forum user? . Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? . What about if the two of them were friends? Would that change anything? " Yes, I have had sex with forum users (both past and current). One person in particular was an avid forum user fucker, but it only bothered me once they started using excuses to ditch us in favour of other people. I’m no ones plan B! The others have fucked other fab users, but I’m not sure they were forum users. I’m happy if they are happy and having fun. I even encourage my current play mate to meet others. But again, I’m no ones plan B. | |||
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"If by coffee you mean steak and a theatre show where you won't be left for a dicking and that will be promised daily until said theatre and steak, why yes, yes we should. Send the deets I’m invested in this totally hypothetical situation. " Let's... Make sure this totally hypothetical doesn't become anticlimactical because there's nothing quite as classical as the theatrical. And yes, there's a little ditty in my head that the words accompany. (I think I may need help) | |||
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"Yes to all on the condition neither of us verify each other or mention it publicly. No drama! " Is that why you refused to hold my hand in public?  | |||
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"Yep; rare from me. Would you have sex with a forum user? ON VERY RARE OCCASSIONS I HAVE BUT THEY MET CERTAIN CRITERIA Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? ON VERY RARE OCCASSIONS I HAVE BUT THEY MET CERTAIN CRITERIA What about if the two of them were friends? Would that change anything? NO. Idle thoughts but let's keep it non-bitchy/referring to real things please. Hypothetical is good. " | |||
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"Yes to all on the condition neither of us verify each other or mention it publicly. No drama! Is that why you refused to hold my hand in public? "Sorry dude. | |||
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Thinking about it, I have...... 
Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? Yes, if the 3rd party was aware and ok with it, and m'lady knew and was OK with it.
What about if the two of them were friends? Still a yes.
Would that change anything? Finally a no.
My only caveat is that this person I'm having the sex with should be female.
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"Would you have sex with a forum user? Yes. But only if they wanted to. Thinking about it, I have......
Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? Yes, if the 3rd party was aware and ok with it, and m'lady knew and was OK with it.
What about if the two of them were friends? Still a yes.
Would that change anything? Finally a no.
My only caveat is that this person I'm having the sex with should be female.
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"Yep; rare from me. 1. Would you have sex with a forum user? 2. Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? 3. What about if the two of them were friends? Would that change anything? Idle thoughts but let's keep it non-bitchy/referring to real things please. Hypothetical is good. "1. Past: yes but they don't all know it was me. Future: no. 2. Past: yes, with no issues. Future: Hell no because privacy would be unlikely. 3. Same as 2. | |||
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"Yep; rare from me. Would you have sex with a forum user? Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? What about if the two of them were friends? Would that change anything? Idle thoughts but let's keep it non-bitchy/referring to real things please. Hypothetical is good. "Yes of course otherwise I’d not be here
Yes, that’s to be expected and I don’t have a problem with it.
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"Would you have sex with a forum user? Yes. But only if they wanted to. Thinking about it, I have......
Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? Yes, if the 3rd party was aware and ok with it, and m'lady knew and was OK with it.
What about if the two of them were friends? Still a yes.
Would that change anything? Finally a no.
My only caveat is that this person I'm having the sex with should be female.
Winston "That's my caveat too!
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"Would never say no This is a winning attitude.
No, being less teasing, there's not a right/wrong answer - it's idle curiosity on a Monday afternoon fuelled by nosiness and a lack of painkillers. "Wow I finally got a right answer lol | |||
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"Yeah, I would and it wouldn't bother me if they were friends with other forum users although it can be awkward after because it makes flirting with them in the forums a bit tougher as it's essentially broadcasting saying "Hey! We've had sex everyone!" and that makes me cringe hard even though we may be flirting even if we hadn't met." You're actually really rather wholesome Joe. | |||
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"Yeah, I would and it wouldn't bother me if they were friends with other forum users although it can be awkward after because it makes flirting with them in the forums a bit tougher as it's essentially broadcasting saying "Hey! We've had sex everyone!" and that makes me cringe hard even though we may be flirting even if we hadn't met. You're actually really rather wholesome Joe. " Tell you what's wholesome. My penis being edged | |||
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"I'd have, and already have had sex with forum users. I'd be hesitant about sex with anyone in a relationship with another forum user, purely for the privacy issues. Not knowing who's doing whom on here though, we might have sex with someone who is in a relationship, and not know. . That's very true. You might remember a few years ago the idea of meeting a forum user was abhorrent (or at least widely touted as being so, reality different). It's nice the zeitgeist has changed. "Someone once said it would feel like fucking a family member (not sure the actual word is allowed). | |||
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"Yeah, I would and it wouldn't bother me if they were friends with other forum users although it can be awkward after because it makes flirting with them in the forums a bit tougher as it's essentially broadcasting saying "Hey! We've had sex everyone!" and that makes me cringe hard even though we may be flirting even if we hadn't met. You're actually really rather wholesome Joe. Tell you what's wholesome. My penis being edged "I was going to flirt outrageously with you but it might make Joe blush.
I'd happily edge you Brucey. You have to know, it will last for some time. And I won't be happy unless you're thrusting into the air, desperate to come.
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"Yeah, I would and it wouldn't bother me if they were friends with other forum users although it can be awkward after because it makes flirting with them in the forums a bit tougher as it's essentially broadcasting saying "Hey! We've had sex everyone!" and that makes me cringe hard even though we may be flirting even if we hadn't met. You're actually really rather wholesome Joe. Tell you what's wholesome. My penis being edged
I was going to flirt outrageously with you but it might make Joe blush.
I'd happily edge you Brucey. You have to know, it will last for some time. And I won't be happy unless you're thrusting into the air, desperate to come.
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"Yep; rare from me. Would you have sex with a forum user? Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? What about if the two of them were friends? Would that change anything? Idle thoughts but let's keep it non-bitchy/referring to real things please. Hypothetical is good. "yes, yes unless I thought they were not open, friends feels less contentious. But in the end, I need to trust people are observing the boundaries of people they are close to. | |||
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"Yeah, I would and it wouldn't bother me if they were friends with other forum users although it can be awkward after because it makes flirting with them in the forums a bit tougher as it's essentially broadcasting saying "Hey! We've had sex everyone!" and that makes me cringe hard even though we may be flirting even if we hadn't met. You're actually really rather wholesome Joe. " Well this is awkward, it didn't really come from a wholesome place but more of a "We get it, you had sex. For the love of God, give it a rest" kinda place | |||
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"I don’t know actually. I think it might feel weird, at this stage. I also think it might feel a bit like fucking a work colleague. And I NEVER do that, so… "*leaves the forum*  | |||
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"If by coffee you mean steak and a theatre show where you won't be left for a dicking and that will be promised daily until said theatre and steak, why yes, yes we should. Send the deets I’m invested in this totally hypothetical situation. Let's... Make sure this totally hypothetical doesn't become anticlimactical because there's nothing quite as classical as the theatrical. And yes, there's a little ditty in my head that the words accompany. (I think I may need help)" Has a Gilbert and Sullivan ring to it, I think | |||
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"If by coffee you mean steak and a theatre show where you won't be left for a dicking and that will be promised daily until said theatre and steak, why yes, yes we should. Send the deets I’m invested in this totally hypothetical situation. Let's... Make sure this totally hypothetical doesn't become anticlimactical because there's nothing quite as classical as the theatrical. And yes, there's a little ditty in my head that the words accompany. (I think I may need help) Has a Gilbert and Sullivan ring to it, I think" I sang it in my head to the tune of I am the very model. | |||
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"If by coffee you mean steak and a theatre show where you won't be left for a dicking and that will be promised daily until said theatre and steak, why yes, yes we should. Send the deets I’m invested in this totally hypothetical situation. Let's... Make sure this totally hypothetical doesn't become anticlimactical because there's nothing quite as classical as the theatrical. And yes, there's a little ditty in my head that the words accompany. (I think I may need help) Has a Gilbert and Sullivan ring to it, I think I sang it in my head to the tune of I am the very model." Ha, that's the sort of energy and melodies that accompany my daily thoughts. I'm going to have to sing it to her in a voicenote now. | |||
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" Let's... Make sure this totally hypothetical doesn't become anticlimactical because there's nothing quite as classical as the theatrical. And yes, there's a little ditty in my head that the words accompany. (I think I may need help) Has a Gilbert and Sullivan ring to it, I think I sang it in my head to the tune of I am the very model." Exactly that one! | |||
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"If by coffee you mean steak and a theatre show where you won't be left for a dicking and that will be promised daily until said theatre and steak, why yes, yes we should. Send the deets I’m invested in this totally hypothetical situation. Let's... Make sure this totally hypothetical doesn't become anticlimactical because there's nothing quite as classical as the theatrical. And yes, there's a little ditty in my head that the words accompany. (I think I may need help) Has a Gilbert and Sullivan ring to it, I think I sang it in my head to the tune of I am the very model." Oh wait! It is this! Yes, this. That's exactly what I was thinking of. Oh I need to stop with the musicals. | |||
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"Yep; rare from me. Would you have sex with a forum user? Would you have sex with a forum user if you knew they had sex with/were dating another forum user? What about if the two of them were friends? Would that change anything? Idle thoughts but let's keep it non-bitchy/referring to real things please. Hypothetical is good. "Yes No No | |||
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"Oh I need to stop with the musicals. "Weirdly for me it played in my head specifically in the style of the Animaniacs (remember them?) doing one of their Gilbert & Sullivan parodies. | |||
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Ah it depends. If they are nothing more than friends it wouldn't bother me, but if something deeper was going on I wouldn't get involved because I will never want to be one of many. | |||
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