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By *BootyfulDay OP   Woman
over a year ago

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There’s been lots of dating threads popping up and I have been thinking more that I might want to actually put myself out there a bit and even go on a date….maybe!

But what would be your ideal idea of a date be? Obviously it depends on the person you’re on the date with and that kind of vibe you have with each other but this thread is all about you

Do you tend to go with the more traditional dinner and drinks or do an activity of some sort? Set the scene for me as I’m in a romancey mood

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By *offeePlzMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

My old go to when I was in London was the Tate Modern, do an exhibition and have a chat in the members bar after. Always thought it was a good place to out uninteresting people. Didn’t like the art, no problem but why didn’t you like it? Got an interesting answer, on to a winner.

Cheeky detail is that it closes pretty early, so if the dates a dud, you’ve got an early morning. Date goes well, let’s get some late dinner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

activity

bowling, climbing, crazy golf and gigs

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I've had some charming dates alongside rivers, in Botanic Gardens, on riverside walks, in pubs, restaurants, museums...I think, as with gifts, the most important thing is not the place itself as much as the idea that it is personally-chosen to suit the person you are with.

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By *BootyfulDay OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"My old go to when I was in London was the Tate Modern, do an exhibition and have a chat in the members bar after. Always thought it was a good place to out uninteresting people. Didn’t like the art, no problem but why didn’t you like it? Got an interesting answer, on to a winner.

Cheeky detail is that it closes pretty early, so if the dates a dud, you’ve got an early morning. Date goes well, let’s get some late dinner. "

Oooo I like this idea! I would be so keen for that actually! I would be the silly one though making up my own interpretations of the art as I’m not very good at being cultured but I guess that’s part of the fun of this date! Plus always got talking points if the other person isn’t very chatty

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By *BootyfulDay OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"activity

bowling, climbing, crazy golf and gigs "

Oooo I think I’m secretly quite competitive so a ln activity like those would definitely make me wanna beat them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ikea genuinely!

A Chase and Status gig

Crazy golf

The Crime Museum

I’ll stop there. I like an unusual date

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By *edstockings2Couple
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

My (female) perfect dete would be him turn up with wine and chocolate and we never get around to eating or drinking them as we head straight for the bedroom. Xx

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

A date with a random woman from North East Scotland in a big city in Northern England

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not long ago had the most perfect dates. One in a very cozy pub with a fireplace and fairylights and another one in a natural history museum. There's no one size fit all, but knowing the person you're taking on that date and their likes, it's usually a good indicator.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would probbaly enjoy a walk somewhere, not uphill unlesss you dont mind carrying me when I start wheezing and my knees creak. Take in a pub on the way or a little tea shop.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Depends on the season but as spring is coming up a nice walk by a river or in some woods with the spring flowers out and if we want to carry it on a nice country pub.

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By *offeePlzMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

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By *offeePlzMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


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Oooo I like this idea! I would be so keen for that actually! I would be the silly one though making up my own interpretations of the art as I’m not very good at being cultured but I guess that’s part of the fun of this date! Plus always got talking points if the other person isn’t very chatty "

Oh yeah, silliness just adds to the fun. If arts an interpretation of life, there is definitely some room for a few giggles.

Silliness is equal to or greater than actual art critique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"activity

bowling, climbing, crazy golf and gigs

Oooo I think I’m secretly quite competitive so a ln activity like those would definitely make me wanna beat them "

2 out of 3?

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By *BootyfulDay OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"I've had some charming dates alongside rivers, in Botanic Gardens, on riverside walks, in pubs, restaurants, museums...I think, as with gifts, the most important thing is not the place itself as much as the idea that it is personally-chosen to suit the person you are with. "

Aww a botanic gardens sounds lovely! To be honest the times that I’ve actually tried new things where I love have been on dates, normally I’m so bad at actually exploring and appreciating what is around me!

But yes it does depend on the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gym

Hot tub/jacuzzi

Food

Kissing

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Drinks. Followed by more drinks. Then more drinks. Then probably a kebab.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

First date... Always just a coffee, maybe a walk in the park/beach/gardens.

After that, the zoo, a gig, a show... Not really a fan of dinners.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I also like going to a museum or zoo I've done both from here on a dating thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheese board tapas vimto by the bins of Iceland, who's on board

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By *BootyfulDay OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Ikea genuinely!

A Chase and Status gig

Crazy golf

The Crime Museum

I’ll stop there. I like an unusual date "

IKEA! Never ever thought about it before but now yi have I love it more and more! You could even have a wee cuddle in the demo bed….maybe not super romantic/appropriate in public but oooo then have meatballs too!

The crime museum would be so fascinating!

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"I've had some charming dates alongside rivers, in Botanic Gardens, on riverside walks, in pubs, restaurants, museums...I think, as with gifts, the most important thing is not the place itself as much as the idea that it is personally-chosen to suit the person you are with. "

Or sometimes just by accident & chance. That’s a good date!

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"I've had some charming dates alongside rivers, in Botanic Gardens, on riverside walks, in pubs, restaurants, museums...I think, as with gifts, the most important thing is not the place itself as much as the idea that it is personally-chosen to suit the person you are with.

Or sometimes just by accident & chance. That’s a good date!"

That is beautiful, yes, when you that kind of serendipity. Or, if it were me, more likely just accidentally screwing up by walking in the wrong direction. I am quite capable of ending up in entirely the wrong place. I like to think I'm also capable of making the most of wherever I am.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"Ikea genuinely!

A Chase and Status gig

Crazy golf

The Crime Museum

I’ll stop there. I like an unusual date

IKEA! Never ever thought about it before but now yi have I love it more and more! You could even have a wee cuddle in the demo bed….maybe not super romantic/appropriate in public but oooo then have meatballs too!

The crime museum would be so fascinating! "

Oh cuddles and meatballs sounds great…. Let’s do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ikea genuinely!

A Chase and Status gig

Crazy golf

The Crime Museum

I’ll stop there. I like an unusual date

IKEA! Never ever thought about it before but now yi have I love it more and more! You could even have a wee cuddle in the demo bed….maybe not super romantic/appropriate in public but oooo then have meatballs too!

The crime museum would be so fascinating!

Oh cuddles and meatballs sounds great…. Let’s do that "

I need some cushion pads

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Perfect date?

That's a tough one. I'd have to say April 25th. It's not too hot, not too cold...all you need is a light jacket

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"I've had some charming dates alongside rivers, in Botanic Gardens, on riverside walks, in pubs, restaurants, museums...I think, as with gifts, the most important thing is not the place itself as much as the idea that it is personally-chosen to suit the person you are with.

Or sometimes just by accident & chance. That’s a good date!

That is beautiful, yes, when you that kind of serendipity. Or, if it were me, more likely just accidentally screwing up by walking in the wrong direction. I am quite capable of ending up in entirely the wrong place. I like to think I'm also capable of making the most of wherever I am."

One of my best dates was just that….

Hilariously - I would never have known had he not told me because I’m thick.

But if someone tries to take you somewhere they genuinely think you’ll enjoy, or should see…. Perfection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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One of my best dates was just that….

Hilariously - I would never have known had he not told me because I’m thick.

But if someone tries to take you somewhere they genuinely think you’ll enjoy, or should see…. Perfection "

It is…unless you think it’s a date and turns out it wasn’t

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

The one I had almost 2 years ago...technically not a date (more a meet) x

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"

One of my best dates was just that….

Hilariously - I would never have known had he not told me because I’m thick.

But if someone tries to take you somewhere they genuinely think you’ll enjoy, or should see…. Perfection

It is…unless you think it’s a date and turns out it wasn’t "

Oh yeah. I’ve done that too. Slightly embarrassing, but you just have to style it out…

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

But more to the point …

booty. Are you just wanting me to take you on a date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I love quaint country pubs, so my ideal date would be chatting over a few drinks,getting to know one another,then a quiet stroll ,then take it from there

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