FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it us or is this place getting worse and worse for time wasters and no shows?

We get so many messages we literally can't respond to all of them then when it comes to the crunch people constantly disappear and ghost on the day of the meet

It's so frustrating as we go through allt of trouble to sort out sitters and make free time for a bit of fun then poof just like that the evening planned is ruined.

Alot of guys talk the talk but when it comes down to it they can't walk the walk.

Another evening wasted.

Vent over haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The night is young. Go to a club.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I can't say because I've never had a no show in 6 years or been one.

Maybe I'm doing something differently but it may be time to look at your own approach rather than expecting different outcomes if it's not working for you?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

This is why I go to organised socials. At least I know they actually want to meet

The instant gratification level is high on here atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it us or is this place getting worse and worse for time wasters and no shows?

We get so many messages we literally can't respond to all of them then when it comes to the crunch people constantly disappear and ghost on the day of the meet

It's so frustrating as we go through allt of trouble to sort out sitters and make free time for a bit of fun then poof just like that the evening planned is ruined.

Alot of guys talk the talk but when it comes down to it they can't walk the walk.

Another evening wasted.

Vent over haha. "

Talk the talk.... did you give them sex chat to wank over?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've never had anyone not show when I've arranged to meet someone,so far anyhow. So I can't say if it's gotten worse.

I chat for a good while first though and don't do sex talk or send sexy pics as I find that just encourages those who just want wank material.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't really get issues of no shows though I see a lot of men wanting waNk fodder. I leave them to get it some other way

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Yep we feel your pain. Although we don’t have to worry about sitters etc. but each time we open our profile to men most cancel or don’t show. Couples cancel at last minute even when we’ve booked hotels rooms and traveled. I rarely come on fab now due to disappointment and leave organising things to my hubby! I laugh when I read though the message threads as most never come back to us when we suggest meeting for a social!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes it all the more frustrating for guys such as myself who are genuine and would not let anyone down.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

This is why I stick to just going to a club when I get a free evening. I don’t have to rely on anyone, or get let down, I can see my friends and have a drink, anything more is a bonus. Investing time into 1 person just isn’t worth it in my eyes anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get precious little time together in a private environment so a no show isn't an issue for us. It's happened a couple of times and we pulled someone else instead

We don't do endless messaging and have back up plans for any travel to meet dates.

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