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Reasons for no pics???

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By *aldonia OP   Man
over a year ago

Burbage

Most of us (surely) only meet others after seeing their pic first. Why is it that people think they can meet without pics? I’ve heard every excuse. “I wanna be discreet “…… what’s the difference on sending a pic and me opening the door…. I’m still gonna see ya!!!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Most of us (surely) only meet others after seeing their pic first. Why is it that people think they can meet without pics? I’ve heard every excuse. “I wanna be discreet “…… what’s the difference on sending a pic and me opening the door…. I’m still gonna see ya!!! "

Ahem .........

I've been here getting on for approx 16 years.

I do not need to show a picture so I don't.

If I get the feeling i'd like to meet someone then I speak to them on the phone.

If the phone call is sparky then I non sexual cam with them. I can see them in real time. What they actually look like. How they actually move. How they interact. Whether they come across as creepy or safe...... Levels of confidence etc.... the lot.

Still pictures are not worth much. There's no way of telling what the person is like.

My pictures have NEVER left my computer.

And that's the way I like it.

Plus I don't want a pic of anyone's cock , shadow , wedding photo with the wife scratched out, him 10 years and 5 stone previous....

The camera lies .... the video camera less so.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

The honest answer OP is because they can. Hope this helps

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

P.S.

People don't want to meet without pics.. they just don't want to send pics to someone they might not want to meet. There is a difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh oh oh oh mysterious boy

I wanna get close to you

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Oh oh oh oh mysterious boy

I wanna get close to you "

Peter you've changed.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Oh oh oh oh mysterious boy

I wanna get close to you "

Ooh she's reincarnated...

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

If people don't want to post pics, that's okay. If someone is interesting and their personality shines through to me in a good way, then the aesthetics are irrelevant to me anyway.

It's no pictures and no attempt to make an actual connection crowd I don't understand. I know some people will literally fuck anything though so.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's their choice ,but I wouldn't meet anyone who wouldn't share a pic with me.Same as I wouldn't chat to a profile with no public pics ,just move on op if it's not for you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Several people have met us without seeing our faces. I suppose it shows what's important to them, I like to see a face.

The difference between sending s photo and seeing someone in person is that you can save a photo and use it for purposes other than it's original intention you can't do that face to face.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Several people have met us without seeing our faces. I suppose it shows what's important to them, I like to see a face.

The difference between sending s photo and seeing someone in person is that you can save a photo and use it for purposes other than it's original intention you can't do that face to face."

Well you can but it's a bit more difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people don't want to post pics, that's okay. If someone is interesting and their personality shines through to me in a good way, then the aesthetics are irrelevant to me anyway.

It's no pictures and no attempt to make an actual connection crowd I don't understand. "

I know some people will literally fuck anything though so.

Can you point them out please

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Several people have met us without seeing our faces. I suppose it shows what's important to them, I like to see a face.

The difference between sending s photo and seeing someone in person is that you can save a photo and use it for purposes other than it's original intention you can't do that face to face.

Well you can but it's a bit more difficult "

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

I filter our the 'black silhouettes'. Everyone has their own reasons for wanting privacy but at least make an effort with a clothes torso pic. It doesn't have to be X rated just shows a little effort lol

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"If people don't want to post pics, that's okay. If someone is interesting and their personality shines through to me in a good way, then the aesthetics are irrelevant to me anyway.

It's no pictures and no attempt to make an actual connection crowd I don't understand. I know some people will literally fuck anything though so."

Could you define “anything” for me please. I literally find this the most insulting statement on fab, who are these “anything’s”? Because it must be a person right, a human being, because we are talking in the context of fab.

Sorry I appreciate that this response could be viewed as aggressive I just find the statement derogatory to both the men and women that the person stating it considers to be “anything’s”

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I love you DD .....

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"It's Could you define “anything” for me please. I literally find this the most insulting statement on fab, who are these “anything’s”? Because it must be a person right, a human being, because we are talking in the context of fab.

Sorry I appreciate that this response could be viewed as aggressive I just find the statement derogatory to both the men and women that the person stating it considers to be “anything’s” "

To me the anything is any willing piece of flesh regardless of the humanity that comes along with it. The point is that to some people the actual person doesn't matter at all, which isn't my scene.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I don’t question why they do it as people have all sorts of their own reasons to do things differently. However, I’m not one to spend days and hours to get to know/talk someone without seeing any presence. I need to see how they present themselves- one decent pic, nice bio and few verifications would do… Otherwise it’s not a match for me anyway hence they are blocked for messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of us (surely) only meet others after seeing their pic first. Why is it that people think they can meet without pics? I’ve heard every excuse. “I wanna be discreet “…… what’s the difference on sending a pic and me opening the door…. I’m still gonna see ya!!! "

Because we all have choices

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Most of us (surely) only meet others after seeing their pic first. Why is it that people think they can meet without pics? I’ve heard every excuse. “I wanna be discreet “…… what’s the difference on sending a pic and me opening the door…. I’m still gonna see ya!!! "
their level of success will be thwarted by no pics but their choice, its always about choice

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

maybe camera shy,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a man it's definitely a hindrance not to use every tool you can on your profile. However, for any women whose priority is meeting over getting fabs, I'd recommend it as the way to go! It's a far more pleasant experience only sharing with those you're interested in

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"For a man it's definitely a hindrance not to use every tool you can on your profile. However, for any women whose priority is meeting over getting fabs, I'd recommend it as the way to go! It's a far more pleasant experience only sharing with those you're interested in "

Those luscious breasts live on in the memory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a man it's definitely a hindrance not to use every tool you can on your profile. However, for any women whose priority is meeting over getting fabs, I'd recommend it as the way to go! It's a far more pleasant experience only sharing with those you're interested in "

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