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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had my fist visit to Xtasia last night. I was fine when i got there and was shown around, then we hit the bar and the dance floor. I was right in my comfort zone and was happy, when we had seen midnight in it was decided that we would all go upstairs for some fun. As i laid back on a bed with a very lovely couple my nerves kicked in big time and i was shaking from head to foot i asked Pork to take me back to the hotel. Now i have no idea why that happened, but i am hoping that on my next visit everything will go to plan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had my fist visit to Xtasia last night. I was fine when i got there and was shown around, then we hit the bar and the dance floor. I was right in my comfort zone and was happy, when we had seen midnight in it was decided that we would all go upstairs for some fun. As i laid back on a bed with a very lovely couple my nerves kicked in big time and i was shaking from head to foot i asked Pork to take me back to the hotel. Now i have no idea why that happened, but i am hoping that on my next visit everything will go to plan. "

This is the club I want to visit, not been to one before. Would you recommend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had my fist visit to Xtasia last night. I was fine when i got there and was shown around, then we hit the bar and the dance floor. I was right in my comfort zone and was happy, when we had seen midnight in it was decided that we would all go upstairs for some fun. As i laid back on a bed with a very lovely couple my nerves kicked in big time and i was shaking from head to foot i asked Pork to take me back to the hotel. Now i have no idea why that happened, but i am hoping that on my next visit everything will go to plan. "

Dont be put off, just go at your own pace. Many just watch on their early visits and ease into it that way, others just take the plunge. It works differently for everyone but the main point is, it is what you make it and there is no pressure to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had my fist visit to Xtasia last night. I was fine when i got there and was shown around, then we hit the bar and the dance floor. I was right in my comfort zone and was happy, when we had seen midnight in it was decided that we would all go upstairs for some fun. As i laid back on a bed with a very lovely couple my nerves kicked in big time and i was shaking from head to foot i asked Pork to take me back to the hotel. Now i have no idea why that happened, but i am hoping that on my next visit everything will go to plan. "
Nerves hit us all at times next time it will go like a dream for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves are natural, you did the right thing and took yourselves out of the situation that at the time you were not comfortable with. Go at your own pace, good luck for next time. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't do much on my first visit lady month. Did meet a lovely couple and fooled around a little, but that's all I was comfortable with.

Really looking forward to going back again in a few months and doing more.

Would definitely recommend xtasia dirtyeyes. I was nervous going by myself, but the staff were fantastic and really looked after me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for your support. We both knew Crackling would be nervous, but I think even she was 'surprised' at just how badly it hit her. On the plus side, we had an otherwise great time at Xtasia in great company with some of our friends and both want to go back as soon as we can.

Pork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were very nervous for a while which is why we took it very slowly. We have always been interested in clubs etc so decided to go and the first time at Chams we sat at the bar with our mouths hitting the floor at what people were wearing (or not wearing).

We only played with each other for quite a while really, people watching us was enough. We then soft swung for a long while.

Always go at your own pace and dont bother about what others may say or expect. Its not the who have to deal with the emotional aspect of it and its not worth regreting and being upset if youve pushed your boundaries too far too soon

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By *r and Mrs BiteMeCouple
over a year ago

Belbroughton, Stourbridge

Hugs x x I think everything one step at a time x it is always going to be odd when you step out of that comfort zone. X I think it's lovely that you all know to stop and pork took you back xx

At least you know you want to go again xxx glad you hd a good night z think I recognised you on the dance floor x

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By *r and Mrs BiteMeCouple
over a year ago

Belbroughton, Stourbridge

Hugs x x I think everything one step at a time x it is always going to be odd when you step out of that comfort zone. X I think it's lovely that you all know to stop and pork took you back xx

At least you know you want to go again xxx glad you hd a good night z think I recognised you on the dance floor x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hugs x x I think everything one step at a time x it is always going to be odd when you step out of that comfort zone. X I think it's lovely that you all know to stop and pork took you back xx

At least you know you want to go again xxx glad you hd a good night z think I recognised you on the dance floor x "

Grovelling apologies for any embarrassment caused by my 'Dad dancing' or Crackling 'getting on down... y'all' - well, she is from Essex..... Lol!

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By *r and Mrs BiteMeCouple
over a year ago

Belbroughton, Stourbridge


"Hugs x x I think everything one step at a time x it is always going to be odd when you step out of that comfort zone. X I think it's lovely that you all know to stop and pork took you back xx

At least you know you want to go again xxx glad you hd a good night z think I recognised you on the dance floor x

Grovelling apologies for any embarrassment caused by my 'Dad dancing' or Crackling 'getting on down... y'all' - well, she is from Essex..... Lol!

"

Loved the dancing - I was too embarrassed to dance oddly!

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