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By *undayGirl 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coalville

Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…”

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…” "
but would you meet a person without one

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We like to see a potential meet’s veris. It’s a big factor on whether we’d like to chat or not x

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"We like to see a potential meet’s veris. It’s a big factor on whether we’d like to chat or not x"

This

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By *isbehavingWoman
over a year ago

Huntly


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…” "

I’m in agreement. I find them a bit tasteless at times and too many would put me off. Seeing certain people on someone’s list of veris would also put me off. I’d definitely meet someone without a verification though

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By *undayGirl 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coalville


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…” but would you meet a person without one "

Yeah… I think I have done.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…” "

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Dear OP, what exactly is it about them that puts you off? What makes you baulk at the very concept of a verification?

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By *undayGirl 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coalville


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…”

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Dear OP, what exactly is it about them that puts you off? What makes you baulk at the very concept of a verification?"

Lmao I don’t baulk at the very concept of them… I’ve left veris when asked, i think like someone else in the thread said… too many put me off, n seeing certain people in there can turn me off. For various reasons. A veri has never contributed to me meeting someone.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…”

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Dear OP, what exactly is it about them that puts you off? What makes you baulk at the very concept of a verification?

Lmao I don’t baulk at the very concept of them… I’ve left veris when asked, i think like someone else in the thread said… too many put me off, n seeing certain people in there can turn me off. For various reasons. A veri has never contributed to me meeting someone. "

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Righty-ho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…”

I’m in agreement. I find them a bit tasteless at times and too many would put me off. Seeing certain people on someone’s list of veris would also put me off. I’d definitely meet someone without a verification though "

Same. I'd prefer to see no veris at all on profiles.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

They're a weird thing but I do really appreciate reading them so not too keen when people hide them totally. Veri gives me an insight to them before agreeing to anything

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

You just got to see it's useful for vetting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it depends what they say.

For us we like to see some veris. Makes it feel safer to meet or more likely that the people will turn up. If the veri is from someone else we have met and know then that’s also a plus.

I don’t like really long ones or those which make it appear that parties have starred in an all night porno together. Something left to the imagination and a bit of intrigue is a good thing.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Agreed, most , but not all, put me off the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…” "

To me ,veri's only show that the person is real , l don't read them or l don't place any value on them, if there's a connection in chatting there, well and good , if not , that's the way the cookie crumbles, a veri will never stop me chatting or sending a message if l feel there is a connection there , in other words l don't need veri's to influence me, what other people think has absolutely no influence, that's their choice , their decision, like l said , to me , veri's only prove the person is real .

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Sometimes yes. It depends on what's in them really. Who by. I don't like lots of veris which is weird because I've accumulated a erm... few over the years.

But I like to read a few. I love seeing how people describe others, it gives an insight into the giver, their voice, you can read if someone is doing it to match, to be polite, to have a dig, is genuinely enthused... it's fascinating.

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By *anrad22Man
over a year ago

Radcliffe

Too many is definitely a turn off

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough/ Kettering

If a profile doesn't have any verifications, especially if they joined months / years ago I tend to think that they are dreamers or fantasist and have no intention of meeting anyone.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I only look at veries for two reasons.

1. To make sure they are consistent with the rest of their profile and not telling a story all by themselves.

2. To give them a wide berth dependent on who they have been verified by.

The six degrees of separation trail is a veri (pun intended) useful tool.

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By *unthum62Man
over a year ago

Benidorm

Despite not having any veris, an older single male does not get overwhelmed with offers, I can see that veris give some kind of indication the profile is real but to me, it still comes down to that "click".

Some confirm the person was real and turned up, some OTT, also some just go too far.

As for someone being on here a long time with no veris, some people are very choosey, some lack opportunities and some are only here for the chat.

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By *opilotMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

I like to see veris as it confirms they are genuine and more likely to meet, as we all know there are too many fakes and wannabees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to see veris as it confirms they are genuine and more likely to meet, as we all know there are too many fakes and wannabees."

Do they though? I trusty opinion on someone more than some strangers. Also, just because they met someone else, is no guarantee they'll meet you. I've met 2 guys before that were unverified, they were awesome.

I don't give or ask for them.

And I have been put off by who guys have met previously.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Not into LOTS of veri's but wouldn't arrange to meet anyone who didn't have one. It shows - if nothing else - that somebody is actually prepared to put a bit of effort in.

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

They’re just there to show the person’s genuine. So long as they’re not crude and leave something to the imagination I find them a worthy tool. Certainly not put off. We are all allowed a life before another’s affections.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for a car, Air fryer, holiday I read the reviews...

Same as looking for a partner, I read their reviews.

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough/ Kettering

There's also the safety factor to consider! I've never read a veri that says "yeah they tied me to the bed and locked the door and wouldn't let me leave for 5 days continuously threatening me with a knife" !!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I like to see veris as it confirms they are genuine and more likely to meet, as we all know there are too many fakes and wannabees."

Actually in some cases verifications confirm they are anything but genuine.

I'm fully aware of people who have devoted their time on here to demonising other individuals while body shaming them in private messages and sharing their personal details in group chats.

They have classed others as dangerous and mentally unwell.

Strangely though they have then gone out of their way to meet these people and verify them.

There is nothing genuine about that.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I think veris give you a feel for the person. I don’t like it when people don’t have any on display - makes me wonder what they are hiding.

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…” "
on here once we were turned down for a Social because we didn't have enough veris ?? What's that all about notches on the bed post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…” "

We have made it a rule now to only meet guys that have been on Fab over a year and have several verifications.

Appreciate that this doesn’t help new guys but that’s not our problem.

Filters out quite a few fantasists.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I think they are a good laugh.

You people overthink everything.

I’m glad our varies turn you off… we’re not compatible.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't have an issue with them, some over graphic ones make me cringe a little, I've no desire to know if a wet patch was left or where your load was shot, but still shows they are real.

We only show social veris our other ones are private.

Mrs

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Veris are great. I like reading them and some are absolutely hilarious. They add a perfect dimension to a profile.

Quantity doesn't bother me at all, it's not a true reflection of how many people we have met. Many once out of that desirable number simply set up a new profile. Almost like resetting their speedometer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…”

To me ,veri's only show that the person is real , l don't read them or l don't place any value on them, if there's a connection in chatting there, well and good , if not , that's the way the cookie crumbles, a veri will never stop me chatting or sending a message if l feel there is a connection there , in other words l don't need veri's to influence me, what other people think has absolutely no influence, that's their choice , their decision, like l said , to me , veri's only prove the person is real ."

What do you mean it proves the person is real?

Do cabbages or cans of pop have profiles?

Babysitting service for 'adults'.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Crude veris put me off, the rest are just little stories with hidden meanings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crude explicit and loads of verries put me off

I have met an unverified male before

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…” "

Not the only person obviously, but it does make me question why you want to be on this site.

I think they’re a very useful tool, along with the block button and message filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…”

Not the only person obviously, but it does make me question why you want to be on this site.

I think they’re a very useful tool, along with the block button and message filters."

Why? Is this site only about verifications?

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By *iss Boot LoverTV/TS
over a year ago

Tetbury

Yes, turned off by a list as long as your arm and new veris every week.

Just a few to prove you are not a time waster is all that I need to see.

Have met unverified as well as a way to get them started, someone did it for me in the beginning.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…”

Not the only person obviously, but it does make me question why you want to be on this site.

I think they’re a very useful tool, along with the block button and message filters.

Why? Is this site only about verifications? "

No, but your attitude to them suggests a mindset that’s not really in keeping with a swingers mentality. Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…”

Not the only person obviously, but it does make me question why you want to be on this site.

I think they’re a very useful tool, along with the block button and message filters.

Why? Is this site only about verifications?

No, but your attitude to them suggests a mindset that’s not really in keeping with a swingers mentality. Just my opinion "

So Swingers should fuck everyone who asks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…”

Not the only person obviously, but it does make me question why you want to be on this site.

I think they’re a very useful tool, along with the block button and message filters.

Why? Is this site only about verifications?

No, but your attitude to them suggests a mindset that’s not really in keeping with a swingers mentality. Just my opinion "

What is a "swingers mentality?"

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes I'm the same.

I just want to know they are who they say they are and they didn't murder the last person they met.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…”

Not the only person obviously, but it does make me question why you want to be on this site.

I think they’re a very useful tool, along with the block button and message filters.

Why? Is this site only about verifications?

No, but your attitude to them suggests a mindset that’s not really in keeping with a swingers mentality. Just my opinion

So Swingers should fuck everyone who asks?

"

Not at all, but being put off by the awareness that someone has had fun with others ( or maybe just visited clubs and socials) is quite a strange mindset for someone on a swingers site.

Everyone is entitled to see things their own way however.

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast

Personally we think you can tell a lot about a person’s personality from their veris for instance if they have a good mix of social verification as well as sexual verification it suggest their not all about sex and enjoy the social side as well . Don’t understand how anyone can be turned off by verification

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast


"Yes I'm the same.

I just want to know they are who they say they are and they didn't murder the last person they met. "

Well you wouldn’t know as the last person they met and murdered wouldn’t be at round to verifie them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris are just one person's or a couples opinion....like aresholes we all have them.....maybe form your own opinion about ppl and not take others on......my work is done here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…”

Not the only person obviously, but it does make me question why you want to be on this site.

I think they’re a very useful tool, along with the block button and message filters.

Why? Is this site only about verifications?

No, but your attitude to them suggests a mindset that’s not really in keeping with a swingers mentality. Just my opinion

So Swingers should fuck everyone who asks?

Not at all, but being put off by the awareness that someone has had fun with others ( or maybe just visited clubs and socials) is quite a strange mindset for someone on a swingers site.

Everyone is entitled to see things their own way however."

Some people understand privacy and discretion. Some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…”

Not the only person obviously, but it does make me question why you want to be on this site.

I think they’re a very useful tool, along with the block button and message filters.

Why? Is this site only about verifications?

No, but your attitude to them suggests a mindset that’s not really in keeping with a swingers mentality. Just my opinion

So Swingers should fuck everyone who asks?

Not at all, but being put off by the awareness that someone has had fun with others ( or maybe just visited clubs and socials) is quite a strange mindset for someone on a swingers site.

Everyone is entitled to see things their own way however."

Oh I didn't mean it this way. I mean by the type of person they've met. If it's someone who I think is the exact opposite of me then I'm pretty sure me and them wouldn't get on.

Though this is more for people on the forums as you tend to know personalities more on here.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…” "
nope I'm not a fan

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

We wonder why the desire for an echo chamber??!!

Why would it be beneficial to make every profile more palatable?

We want some to turn us off.

Whether that be their photos, bio or forum rant's (and please note, we have not listed our preferences on those elements)..

We'd suggest it makes for a fairly good filter..

50 odd veris for us, as you can't view atm.. (mostly from club's and parties)

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By *undayGirl 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coalville

I’ve never been swayed by what someone tells me about someone else.

I like to find out for myself. N we all have different ways in which to decide whether a person is worth meeting or not.

I was just curious as to other peoples thoughts on it.

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By *undayGirl 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coalville


"Veris are just one person's or a couples opinion....like aresholes we all have them.....maybe form your own opinion about ppl and not take others on......my work is done here "

This!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I like to read veris. I also like to see if they've left a veri for the other person too.

Obviously not all verifications actually read as appealing, but they're good to know a little more about the person that isn't quite as curated or constructed as a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the site needs to improve some of its features.

I get the argument that someone with no veris is maybe better than someone with 200 but there's not much to help u find out about compatibility.... I suppose a clue is chattiness.

Btw glad I don't live in the North West as two posters here have perhaps ironically not said where they are, I mean they could put 2 different places perhaps and I'm lazy..... I wanna know early on whether someone lives close by!

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast

From the thread I’m getting that most people who are upset by veris are the ones don’t have any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From the thread I’m getting that most people who are upset by veris are the ones don’t have any "

Maybe that's by choice??

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"From the thread I’m getting that most people who are upset by veris are the ones don’t have any "
out of choice, i go to clubs occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Veris are just one person's or a couples opinion....like aresholes we all have them.....maybe form your own opinion about ppl and not take others on......my work is done here

This! "

Thank me later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I'm pretty new around here. The issue I have with veris is that you can only get them from someone who is verified. So lots of unverified people can see each other but can't tell the world how wonderful and genuine the people they've seen are..

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Yes I'm the same.

I just want to know they are who they say they are and they didn't murder the last person they met.

Well you wouldn’t know as the last person they met and murdered wouldn’t be at round to verifie them "
lol we have killers amongst us...... Who knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I'm the same.

I just want to know they are who they say they are and they didn't murder the last person they met.

Well you wouldn’t know as the last person they met and murdered wouldn’t be at round to verifie them lol we have killers amongst us...... Who knew "

Maybe this is why we don't have verifications.....

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast


"From the thread I’m getting that most people who are upset by veris are the ones don’t have any

Maybe that's by choice??"

Or maybe it’s because they’re not who they’re making out to be . Without verification we will never know .

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By *undayGirl 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coalville


"From the thread I’m getting that most people who are upset by veris are the ones don’t have any "

Well we wouldn’t we? Lmao

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Veris are to check the person is real. I've found that they don't prove the person will turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy reading veris, find them interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the site needs to improve some of its features.

I get the argument that someone with no veris is maybe better than someone with 200 but there's not much to help u find out about compatibility.... I suppose a clue is chattiness.

Btw glad I don't live in the North West as two posters here have perhaps ironically not said where they are, I mean they could put 2 different places perhaps and I'm lazy..... I wanna know early on whether someone lives close by!"

Who? Why do you want to avoid them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From the thread I’m getting that most people who are upset by veris are the ones don’t have any

Maybe that's by choice??

Or maybe it’s because they’re not who they’re making out to be . Without verification we will never know ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From the thread I’m getting that most people who are upset by veris are the ones don’t have any

Maybe that's by choice??

Or maybe it’s because they’re not who they’re making out to be . Without verification we will never know ."

Babysitting service

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"We like to see a potential meet’s veris. It’s a big factor on whether we’d like to chat or not x"

This

I'm only out off if they are too graphic or they have a new 1 every other day like when do they have time to get checked (STI's) before meeting someone new

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

No veris is a turn off, particularly if a profile seems to good to be true.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Yes I'm the same.

I just want to know they are who they say they are and they didn't murder the last person they met.

Well you wouldn’t know as the last person they met and murdered wouldn’t be at round to verifie them lol we have killers amongst us...... Who knew

Maybe this is why we don't have verifications....."
we're already dead omg

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

If people aren’t verified we are not interested

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"If people aren’t verified we are not interested "
you're what this threads about ce la vie

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I tend to make up my own mind about people so take veris with a pinch of salt. I've had people message me all sort of abuse on here because I won't meet them and yet their veris tell me what a lovely person they are.

I do read veris though and the only time they ever influence my decision is when I see they are showing a veri from someone who loves stirring drama on here, especially if it's a recent veri I just just pass on the person,as I can't be bothered getting dragged into the shitshow that can follow,even if you only meet for a coffee and chat.

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast


"No veris is a turn off, particularly if a profile seems to good to be true. "

Exactly you’ve nailed it . Why are some people happy to show loads of pics of how fantastic their body is but not happy to show a veri ?pmsl

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay


"If people aren’t verified we are not interested you're what this threads about ce la vie "

I would imagine you have a long line of people waiting to meet you.....

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By *undayGirl 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coalville


"No veris is a turn off, particularly if a profile seems to good to be true.

Exactly you’ve nailed it . Why are some people happy to show loads of pics of how fantastic their body is but not happy to show a veri ?pmsl "

Lmao my profile deffo ain’t to good to be true.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"If people aren’t verified we are not interested you're what this threads about ce la vie

I would imagine you have a long line of people waiting to meet you....."
well actually i don't do to bad to be honest but you'll never know lol

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast


"No veris is a turn off, particularly if a profile seems to good to be true.

Exactly you’ve nailed it . Why are some people happy to show loads of pics of how fantastic their body is but not happy to show a veri ?pmsl

Lmao my profile deffo ain’t to good to be true. "

Ok for those turned off by veris or using the excuse of being discreet fab come up with this great idea of only showing verification summory . Still showing people are genuine whilst being discreet so what’s the issue with that one ?

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By *izequeenCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think yeah but often made me think “no thanks…”

Not the only person obviously, but it does make me question why you want to be on this site.

I think they’re a very useful tool, along with the block button and message filters.

Why? Is this site only about verifications?

No, but your attitude to them suggests a mindset that’s not really in keeping with a swingers mentality. Just my opinion

So Swingers should fuck everyone who asks?

"

FFS Im doing my best

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By *undayGirl 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coalville


"No veris is a turn off, particularly if a profile seems to good to be true.

Exactly you’ve nailed it . Why are some people happy to show loads of pics of how fantastic their body is but not happy to show a veri ?pmsl

Lmao my profile deffo ain’t to good to be true.

Ok for those turned off by veris or using the excuse of being discreet fab come up with this great idea of only showing verification summory . Still showing people are genuine whilst being discreet so what’s the issue with that one ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people aren’t verified we are not interested "

And this is a classic example of judging a book by its cover, potentially robbing yourselves of meeting great ppl....basing it on a veri or the lack off, where the truth is there good be a whole host of reasons for the lack of a veri, but are nit intresried simply because of no veri.... but each to there own

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By *undayGirl 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coalville


"No veris is a turn off, particularly if a profile seems to good to be true.

Exactly you’ve nailed it . Why are some people happy to show loads of pics of how fantastic their body is but not happy to show a veri ?pmsl

Lmao my profile deffo ain’t to good to be true.

Ok for those turned off by veris or using the excuse of being discreet fab come up with this great idea of only showing verification summory . Still showing people are genuine whilst being discreet so what’s the issue with that one ? "

There’s none… if there was a button that just said I confirm this is a genuine profile that would be enough…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They kind of feel like a product or service being reviewed. Not a massive fan. If I get any I just hide them. I don’t need verifications to meet people on normal dating apps so don’t really need them on here here either. I use my own judgement and try to be safe when meeting anyone online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No veris is a turn off, particularly if a profile seems to good to be true.

Exactly you’ve nailed it . Why are some people happy to show loads of pics of how fantastic their body is but not happy to show a veri ?pmsl

Lmao my profile deffo ain’t to good to be true.

Ok for those turned off by veris or using the excuse of being discreet fab come up with this great idea of only showing verification summory . Still showing people are genuine whilst being discreet so what’s the issue with that one ?

There’s none… if there was a button that just said I confirm this is a genuine profile that would be enough… "

That would be perfect

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Don't do lurid veris. Only use them for proving people are real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read them all... The cringe ones, the funny ones, the rude ones, the formulaic ones

Definitely an insight to both parties - can be interesting.. And sometimes a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No veris is a turn off, particularly if a profile seems to good to be true.

Exactly you’ve nailed it . Why are some people happy to show loads of pics of how fantastic their body is but not happy to show a veri ?pmsl

Lmao my profile deffo ain’t to good to be true.

Ok for those turned off by veris or using the excuse of being discreet fab come up with this great idea of only showing verification summory . Still showing people are genuine whilst being discreet so what’s the issue with that one ? "

No issue. I'm just not particularly bothered about proving I'm "genuine" to random strangers. Surprisingly i still do ok.

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast


"They kind of feel like a product or service being reviewed. Not a massive fan. If I get any I just hide them. I don’t need verifications to meet people on normal dating apps so don’t really need them on here here either. I use my own judgement and try to be safe when meeting anyone online. "

Ooo please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They kind of feel like a product or service being reviewed. Not a massive fan. If I get any I just hide them. I don’t need verifications to meet people on normal dating apps so don’t really need them on here here either. I use my own judgement and try to be safe when meeting anyone online.

Ooo please "

Oh please what?

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast


"No veris is a turn off, particularly if a profile seems to good to be true.

Exactly you’ve nailed it . Why are some people happy to show loads of pics of how fantastic their body is but not happy to show a veri ?pmsl

Lmao my profile deffo ain’t to good to be true.

Ok for those turned off by veris or using the excuse of being discreet fab come up with this great idea of only showing verification summory . Still showing people are genuine whilst being discreet so what’s the issue with that one ?

No issue. I'm just not particularly bothered about proving I'm "genuine" to random strangers. Surprisingly i still do ok. "

Lol that’s great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They kind of feel like a product or service being reviewed. Not a massive fan. If I get any I just hide them. I don’t need verifications to meet people on normal dating apps so don’t really need them on here here either. I use my own judgement and try to be safe when meeting anyone online.

Ooo please "

Yeah never trust your own opinion over someone else's.

I've had a lot of guys offering to verify me without even meeting. How do you know a verification is even real?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people aren’t verified we are not interested "

And yet all of us were unverified to begin with, even you!

Everyone has to start somewhere

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

They do say 'the proof is in the pudding' or ' a friend in need is a god send'

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"No veris is a turn off, particularly if a profile seems to good to be true.

Exactly you’ve nailed it . Why are some people happy to show loads of pics of how fantastic their body is but not happy to show a veri ?pmsl

Lmao my profile deffo ain’t to good to be true.

Ok for those turned off by veris or using the excuse of being discreet fab come up with this great idea of only showing verification summory . Still showing people are genuine whilst being discreet so what’s the issue with that one ?

No issue. I'm just not particularly bothered about proving I'm "genuine" to random strangers. Surprisingly i still do ok.

Lol that’s great "
bet you'd meet her without a veri wouldn't you?

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay


"If people aren’t verified we are not interested you're what this threads about ce la vie

I would imagine you have a long line of people waiting to meet you.....well actually i don't do to bad to be honest but you'll never know lol "

We are fine with that

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"If people aren’t verified we are not interested you're what this threads about ce la vie

I would imagine you have a long line of people waiting to meet you.....well actually i don't do to bad to be honest but you'll never know lol

We are fine with that "
so am i xx

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast


"They kind of feel like a product or service being reviewed. Not a massive fan. If I get any I just hide them. I don’t need verifications to meet people on normal dating apps so don’t really need them on here here either. I use my own judgement and try to be safe when meeting anyone online.

Ooo please

Yeah never trust your own opinion over someone else's.

I've had a lot of guys offering to verify me without even meeting. How do you know a verification is even real? "

Let’s cut to the chase and quit the crap , 99.9% of people on here un verified have either never met or are not who they say they are and before you start I’m not making accusations ( you Mayb in the 1%i dont know I don’t care ) I’m just stating facts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never seen a bad one so are they really indicative of the person

Prefer to chat and figure out for myself.

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast


"No veris is a turn off, particularly if a profile seems to good to be true.

Exactly you’ve nailed it . Why are some people happy to show loads of pics of how fantastic their body is but not happy to show a veri ?pmsl

Lmao my profile deffo ain’t to good to be true.

Ok for those turned off by veris or using the excuse of being discreet fab come up with this great idea of only showing verification summory . Still showing people are genuine whilst being discreet so what’s the issue with that one ?

No issue. I'm just not particularly bothered about proving I'm "genuine" to random strangers. Surprisingly i still do ok.

Lol that’s great bet you'd meet her without a veri wouldn't you? "

Errr actually no

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay


"If people aren’t verified we are not interested

And yet all of us were unverified to begin with, even you!

Everyone has to start somewhere "

It’s not about people starting it’s about people who refuse to use / show verifications. Some people will meet them some won’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They kind of feel like a product or service being reviewed. Not a massive fan. If I get any I just hide them. I don’t need verifications to meet people on normal dating apps so don’t really need them on here here either. I use my own judgement and try to be safe when meeting anyone online.

Ooo please

Yeah never trust your own opinion over someone else's.

I've had a lot of guys offering to verify me without even meeting. How do you know a verification is even real?

Let’s cut to the chase and quit the crap , 99.9% of people on here un verified have either never met or are not who they say they are and before you start I’m not making accusations ( you Mayb in the 1%i dont know I don’t care ) I’m just stating facts "

Accusations no but assumptions yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, I'm out now.

Off to scratch my balls and watch the footie.

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay


"They kind of feel like a product or service being reviewed. Not a massive fan. If I get any I just hide them. I don’t need verifications to meet people on normal dating apps so don’t really need them on here here either. I use my own judgement and try to be safe when meeting anyone online.

Ooo please

Yeah never trust your own opinion over someone else's.

I've had a lot of guys offering to verify me without even meeting. How do you know a verification is even real?

Let’s cut to the chase and quit the crap , 99.9% of people on here un verified have either never met or are not who they say they are and before you start I’m not making accusations ( you Mayb in the 1%i dont know I don’t care ) I’m just stating facts "

Completely agree! Especially the single males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing top comment for men and women would be

Sucks like a Dyson.

Such a tempting comment

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast


"They kind of feel like a product or service being reviewed. Not a massive fan. If I get any I just hide them. I don’t need verifications to meet people on normal dating apps so don’t really need them on here here either. I use my own judgement and try to be safe when meeting anyone online.

Ooo please

Yeah never trust your own opinion over someone else's.

I've had a lot of guys offering to verify me without even meeting. How do you know a verification is even real?

Let’s cut to the chase and quit the crap , 99.9% of people on here un verified have either never met or are not who they say they are and before you start I’m not making accusations ( you Mayb in the 1%i dont know I don’t care ) I’m just stating facts

Completely agree! Especially the single males"

And the unverified woman either blokes or attention seekers with no intention of ever meeting. ( sorry just the way I see it and in fairness probably the way it is ? )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a profile doesn't have any verifications, especially if they joined months / years ago I tend to think that they are dreamers or fantasist and have no intention of meeting anyone. "

Or maybe their age puts them out of reach, they don't feel comfortable in big social groups and clubs, well clubs on your own as a single guy, I wouldn't enjoy unless I went with someone just so I had someone to chat to.

Basically that sums me up, I had a social meet last week from fab, she left the site 2 days later but I'm still in contact with her.

Fab to me isn't always a place to meet people but to keep in touch.

I'm very active but just not "fab" active, does that make me a fake, I'll leave that to you to decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They kind of feel like a product or service being reviewed. Not a massive fan. If I get any I just hide them. I don’t need verifications to meet people on normal dating apps so don’t really need them on here here either. I use my own judgement and try to be safe when meeting anyone online.

Ooo please

Yeah never trust your own opinion over someone else's.

I've had a lot of guys offering to verify me without even meeting. How do you know a verification is even real?

Let’s cut to the chase and quit the crap , 99.9% of people on here un verified have either never met or are not who they say they are and before you start I’m not making accusations ( you Mayb in the 1%i dont know I don’t care ) I’m just stating facts "

I’ve been on and off here for 10 years. I’ve got good judgment and can smell out the fakes. I don’t have a rule to only meet verified people and I don’t need to be verified to get meets. That being said despite my opinions on verifications I do meet verified people too obviously. Like I said I use my judgment and lots of factors before deciding to meet anyone. I’m just not a fan of them as most are graphic and read like a review.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to read verification to get a feel for the person/people and also just to check they are real. I have had some very exciting and some very adventurous requests!!

I have also had quite a lot of messages from people referencing my verifications and saying they want the same sort of fun and excitement and knowing I will turn up (apparently other people don't?)

So verification are good.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"They kind of feel like a product or service being reviewed. Not a massive fan. If I get any I just hide them. I don’t need verifications to meet people on normal dating apps so don’t really need them on here here either. I use my own judgement and try to be safe when meeting anyone online.

Ooo please

Yeah never trust your own opinion over someone else's.

I've had a lot of guys offering to verify me without even meeting. How do you know a verification is even real?

Let’s cut to the chase and quit the crap , 99.9% of people on here un verified have either never met or are not who they say they are and before you start I’m not making accusations ( you Mayb in the 1%i dont know I don’t care ) I’m just stating facts "
lol hey this is a debate about the usefulness of veris, all they do is give an insight into you and the people you meet and peoples choices can vary so much, whats good for one person can be way off for another, ok they say the person turned up I'll give you that but does it mean they aren't a murderer no it doesn't, it just means they didn't murder you, if you meet a person a couple and get on surely thats what counts but some here don't because no veri, i have had veris in past but I've decided i don't require them, personal choice which is another common phrase here.

I meet people all the time in life on beaches and get on, no veris involved, good luck if you insist on a veri

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

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"They kind of feel like a product or service being reviewed. Not a massive fan. If I get any I just hide them. I don’t need verifications to meet people on normal dating apps so don’t really need them on here here either. I use my own judgement and try to be safe when meeting anyone online.

Ooo please

Yeah never trust your own opinion over someone else's.

I've had a lot of guys offering to verify me without even meeting. How do you know a verification is even real?

Let’s cut to the chase and quit the crap , 99.9% of people on here un verified have either never met or are not who they say they are and before you start I’m not making accusations ( you Mayb in the 1%i dont know I don’t care ) I’m just stating facts lol hey this is a debate about the usefulness of veris, all they do is give an insight into you and the people you meet and peoples choices can vary so much, whats good for one person can be way off for another, ok they say the person turned up I'll give you that but does it mean they aren't a murderer no it doesn't, it just means they didn't murder you, if you meet a person a couple and get on surely thats what counts but some here don't because no veri, i have had veris in past but I've decided i don't require them, personal choice which is another common phrase here.

I meet people all the time in life on beaches and get on, no veris involved, good luck if you insist on a veri "

Fine but l call bullshit on that ( just my opinion)

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

It's odd how many people are so militant about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to read verifications and I use them as a small factor to help me decide whether to meet them.

I wouldn't meet anyone who had been on this site a while but didn't have any verifications as that says to me they aren't genuinely interested in swinging.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"They kind of feel like a product or service being reviewed. Not a massive fan. If I get any I just hide them. I don’t need verifications to meet people on normal dating apps so don’t really need them on here here either. I use my own judgement and try to be safe when meeting anyone online.

Ooo please

Yeah never trust your own opinion over someone else's.

I've had a lot of guys offering to verify me without even meeting. How do you know a verification is even real?

Let’s cut to the chase and quit the crap , 99.9% of people on here un verified have either never met or are not who they say they are and before you start I’m not making accusations ( you Mayb in the 1%i dont know I don’t care ) I’m just stating facts lol hey this is a debate about the usefulness of veris, all they do is give an insight into you and the people you meet and peoples choices can vary so much, whats good for one person can be way off for another, ok they say the person turned up I'll give you that but does it mean they aren't a murderer no it doesn't, it just means they didn't murder you, if you meet a person a couple and get on surely thats what counts but some here don't because no veri, i have had veris in past but I've decided i don't require them, personal choice which is another common phrase here.

I meet people all the time in life on beaches and get on, no veris involved, good luck if you insist on a veri

Fine but l call bullshit on that ( just my opinion) "
lol you would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meh, I'm out now.

Off to scratch my balls and watch the footie.

"

Don't forget to tip the couples on the best way for u to use fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's odd how many people are so militant about it."

I was just thinking the same, getting quite bent outta shape over something pretty trivial.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"It's odd how many people are so militant about it."
people here are so militant lol left right left right

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay


"They kind of feel like a product or service being reviewed. Not a massive fan. If I get any I just hide them. I don’t need verifications to meet people on normal dating apps so don’t really need them on here here either. I use my own judgement and try to be safe when meeting anyone online.

Ooo please

Yeah never trust your own opinion over someone else's.

I've had a lot of guys offering to verify me without even meeting. How do you know a verification is even real?

Let’s cut to the chase and quit the crap , 99.9% of people on here un verified have either never met or are not who they say they are and before you start I’m not making accusations ( you Mayb in the 1%i dont know I don’t care ) I’m just stating facts

Completely agree! Especially the single males

And the unverified woman either blokes or attention seekers with no intention of ever meeting. ( sorry just the way I see it and in fairness probably the way it is ? )"

I think your conclusion is bang on, As you said previously most of the people especially men who refuse to show verifications is because they have none

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"It's odd how many people are so militant about it.

I was just thinking the same, getting quite bent outta shape over something pretty trivial.

"

Like, I like to read veris to get a feel for how other people perceive a person. And if they have none I'm a little more wary but not that fussed. First meet is always only a social somewhere public for me anyway.

If someone chooses not to show any, okay. If someone has 300, also okay. If someone doesn't want to meet the unverified, also also okay.

But it's all getting a bit aggressive in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I really the only person turned off by veris?

Veris have never once made me think tyeah but often made me think “no thanks…”

•

Dear OP, what exactly is it about them that puts you off? What makes you baulk at the very concept of a verification?"

Perhaps it’s because everyone is fabulous in the sack and in particular has magic fingers leaves wanting more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They kind of feel like a product or service being reviewed. Not a massive fan. If I get any I just hide them. I don’t need verifications to meet people on normal dating apps so don’t really need them on here here either. I use my own judgement and try to be safe when meeting anyone online.

Ooo please

Yeah never trust your own opinion over someone else's.

I've had a lot of guys offering to verify me without even meeting. How do you know a verification is even real?

Let’s cut to the chase and quit the crap , 99.9% of people on here un verified have either never met or are not who they say they are and before you start I’m not making accusations ( you Mayb in the 1%i dont know I don’t care ) I’m just stating facts

Completely agree! Especially the single males

And the unverified woman either blokes or attention seekers with no intention of ever meeting. ( sorry just the way I see it and in fairness probably the way it is ? )

I think your conclusion is bang on, As you said previously most of the people especially men who refuse to show verifications is because they have none"

If they have none they can't show them can they....I'm loving the way it's gone down clear gender routes....I've been on and off fab for years and have seen plenty of ppl without veris and guess what they weren't all males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They kind of feel like a product or service being reviewed. Not a massive fan. If I get any I just hide them. I don’t need verifications to meet people on normal dating apps so don’t really need them on here here either. I use my own judgement and try to be safe when meeting anyone online.

Ooo please

Yeah never trust your own opinion over someone else's.

I've had a lot of guys offering to verify me without even meeting. How do you know a verification is even real?

Let’s cut to the chase and quit the crap , 99.9% of people on here un verified have either never met or are not who they say they are and before you start I’m not making accusations ( you Mayb in the 1%i dont know I don’t care ) I’m just stating facts

Completely agree! Especially the single males

And the unverified woman either blokes or attention seekers with no intention of ever meeting. ( sorry just the way I see it and in fairness probably the way it is ? )"

Or maybe a new member who hasn't met anyone yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No veris is a turn off, particularly if a profile seems to good to be true.

Exactly you’ve nailed it . Why are some people happy to show loads of pics of how fantastic their body is but not happy to show a veri ?pmsl

Lmao my profile deffo ain’t to good to be true.

Ok for those turned off by veris or using the excuse of being discreet fab come up with this great idea of only showing verification summory . Still showing people are genuine whilst being discreet so what’s the issue with that one ? "

It shows the person has issues with popularity. They need a number of reviews to 'prove' how popular they are. Whether that's social or fuck reviews.

Insecurity.

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over a year ago

I'm into meeting experienced people and the verifications give additional insight into thier likes and dislikes. Add extra info that maybe not covered in their profile

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast


"No veris is a turn off, particularly if a profile seems to good to be true.

Exactly you’ve nailed it . Why are some people happy to show loads of pics of how fantastic their body is but not happy to show a veri ?pmsl

Lmao my profile deffo ain’t to good to be true.

Ok for those turned off by veris or using the excuse of being discreet fab come up with this great idea of only showing verification summory . Still showing people are genuine whilst being discreet so what’s the issue with that one ?

It shows the person has issues with popularity. They need a number of reviews to 'prove' how popular they are. Whether that's social or fuck reviews.

Insecurity. "

Pmsl more classic excuses

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"They kind of feel like a product or service being reviewed. Not a massive fan. If I get any I just hide them. I don’t need verifications to meet people on normal dating apps so don’t really need them on here here either. I use my own judgement and try to be safe when meeting anyone online.

Ooo please

Yeah never trust your own opinion over someone else's.

I've had a lot of guys offering to verify me without even meeting. How do you know a verification is even real?

Let’s cut to the chase and quit the crap , 99.9% of people on here un verified have either never met or are not who they say they are and before you start I’m not making accusations ( you Mayb in the 1%i dont know I don’t care ) I’m just stating facts

Completely agree! Especially the single males

And the unverified woman either blokes or attention seekers with no intention of ever meeting. ( sorry just the way I see it and in fairness probably the way it is ? )

I think your conclusion is bang on, As you said previously most of the people especially men who refuse to show verifications is because they have none"
On the way to getting your veris if you have them, you didn't meet any unverified people then, do you only meet from here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever seen a bad veri?

I like reading between the lines.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They kind of feel like a product or service being reviewed. Not a massive fan. If I get any I just hide them. I don’t need verifications to meet people on normal dating apps so don’t really need them on here here either. I use my own judgement and try to be safe when meeting anyone online.

Ooo please

Yeah never trust your own opinion over someone else's.

I've had a lot of guys offering to verify me without even meeting. How do you know a verification is even real?

Let’s cut to the chase and quit the crap , 99.9% of people on here un verified have either never met or are not who they say they are and before you start I’m not making accusations ( you Mayb in the 1%i dont know I don’t care ) I’m just stating facts lol hey this is a debate about the usefulness of veris, all they do is give an insight into you and the people you meet and peoples choices can vary so much, whats good for one person can be way off for another, ok they say the person turned up I'll give you that but does it mean they aren't a murderer no it doesn't, it just means they didn't murder you, if you meet a person a couple and get on surely thats what counts but some here don't because no veri, i have had veris in past but I've decided i don't require them, personal choice which is another common phrase here.

I meet people all the time in life on beaches and get on, no veris involved, good luck if you insist on a veri

Fine but l call bullshit on that ( just my opinion) "

Is there really any need for that comment in a forum discussion.

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By *undayGirl 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coalville


"It's odd how many people are so militant about it."

Who knew it was such a hornets nest!! Lol

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"It's odd how many people are so militant about it.

Who knew it was such a hornets nest!! Lol "
lol how long you been here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people aren’t verified we are not interested

And yet all of us were unverified to begin with, even you!

Everyone has to start somewhere

It’s not about people starting it’s about people who refuse to use / show verifications. Some people will meet them some won’t "

The quote is literally : If people AREN'T verified we are not interested

If hidden makes no difference, they are verified

I was meeting for a couple of years, but refused veris until i wanted to use video

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's odd how many people are so militant about it.

Who knew it was such a hornets nest!! Lol "

It's the perfect way to filter people/couples through their views on the forums, it's much more affective that a verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No veris is a turn off, particularly if a profile seems to good to be true.

Exactly you’ve nailed it . Why are some people happy to show loads of pics of how fantastic their body is but not happy to show a veri ?pmsl

Lmao my profile deffo ain’t to good to be true.

Ok for those turned off by veris or using the excuse of being discreet fab come up with this great idea of only showing verification summory . Still showing people are genuine whilst being discreet so what’s the issue with that one ?

It shows the person has issues with popularity. They need a number of reviews to 'prove' how popular they are. Whether that's social or fuck reviews.

Insecurity.

Pmsl more classic excuses "

Excuses for what exactly?

Do you understand what your own point is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally find when they have 100’s a massive turn off, but I wouldn’t necessarily hold it against someone/people if we got on

Mrs

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Verifications are essential for me to understand their interactions with others and yes some

of them can be off-putting which is a good thing, helps me to decide whether I can meet or not

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay


"No veris is a turn off, particularly if a profile seems to good to be true.

Exactly you’ve nailed it . Why are some people happy to show loads of pics of how fantastic their body is but not happy to show a veri ?pmsl

Lmao my profile deffo ain’t to good to be true.

Ok for those turned off by veris or using the excuse of being discreet fab come up with this great idea of only showing verification summory . Still showing people are genuine whilst being discreet so what’s the issue with that one ?

It shows the person has issues with popularity. They need a number of reviews to 'prove' how popular they are. Whether that's social or fuck reviews.

Insecurity.

Pmsl more classic excuses

Excuses for what exactly?

Do you understand what your own point is? "

Excuses why you don’t have verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verifications are essential for me to understand their interactions with others and yes some

of them can be off-putting which is a good thing, helps me to decide whether I can meet or not "

As a matter of interest what criteria do you use when reviewing a verification as to whether you would consider taking matters further?

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

They are like another filter for me... if there's one from months ago and that member has a hidden profile then it's a red flag, as more than likely a guy who'd waste my time.

Plus if there's endless page scrolling of veris (and not just from socials but actually doing the deed) every week with every other woman, then also a red flag.

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By *undayGirl 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coalville


"It's odd how many people are so militant about it.

Who knew it was such a hornets nest!! Lol lol how long you been here? "

Ha ha I never used to come into the forums… but when I’ve thought of my next question... I’ll be back lmao

Any suggestions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They kind of feel like a product or service being reviewed. Not a massive fan. If I get any I just hide them. I don’t need verifications to meet people on normal dating apps so don’t really need them on here here either. I use my own judgement and try to be safe when meeting anyone online.

Ooo please

Yeah never trust your own opinion over someone else's.

I've had a lot of guys offering to verify me without even meeting. How do you know a verification is even real?

Let’s cut to the chase and quit the crap , 99.9% of people on here un verified have either never met or are not who they say they are and before you start I’m not making accusations ( you Mayb in the 1%i dont know I don’t care ) I’m just stating facts lol hey this is a debate about the usefulness of veris, all they do is give an insight into you and the people you meet and peoples choices can vary so much, whats good for one person can be way off for another, ok they say the person turned up I'll give you that but does it mean they aren't a murderer no it doesn't, it just means they didn't murder you, if you meet a person a couple and get on surely thats what counts but some here don't because no veri, i have had veris in past but I've decided i don't require them, personal choice which is another common phrase here.

I meet people all the time in life on beaches and get on, no veris involved, good luck if you insist on a veri

Fine but l call bullshit on that ( just my opinion) "

Again opinions are like arseholes we all them, and entitled to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's odd how many people are so militant about it.

Who knew it was such a hornets nest!! Lol lol how long you been here?

Ha ha I never used to come into the forums… but when I’ve thought of my next question... I’ll be back lmao

Any suggestions? "

Best way to infuriate self entitled people...is a suggestion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris tell me what the user is proud of.

So if I see behaviours proudly displayed that conflict with my limits or with what they have said in chat or have on their profile then I know they're a liar.

If I see veris describing meets or similar that I consider unsafe or an instant turnoff or just plain offensive then I cut them off.

Life's too short to piss it away wasting time

There's always another day and another friend you haven't met yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to read veries as I’m nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be both slightly off putting and a turn on depending on the mood. If a woman's got loads of 'sucked me in my car' veris than depending on how horny I am I either love it or think....that doesn't sound special!

Usually I'm the former though obviously

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La


" I think veris give you a feel for the person. I don’t like it when people don’t have any on display - makes me wonder what they are hiding."

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

I dont read veris, I only look to see if they have multiple veri tick/number ..... zero interest in reading them ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to read veries as I’m nosey "

Don't read mine

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"Verifications are essential for me to understand their interactions with others and yes some

of them can be off-putting which is a good thing, helps me to decide whether I can meet or not

As a matter of interest what criteria do you use when reviewing a verification as to whether you would consider taking matters further?"

Whether they are fitting to my personal preferences which I’m not comfortable sharing on public forums or in my bio.

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

Absolutely like Veris, really like reading them, seeing what different people say and what kind of people they meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to read them, I think it gives you a sense of what kind of person they are, depending on how graphic they are or not. As in I would not choose to display something overly graphic, for example x

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I like to read veries as I’m nosey

Don't read mine "

Oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see what kind of person they are generally. However that time they had cum in their nostrils from deep diving for HOURS.. don't need to know.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


" I think veris give you a feel for the person. I don’t like it when people don’t have any on display - makes me wonder what they are hiding."

This is why I always show the most recent ones, just so people can get an idea of the type of person I am, and I am indeed genuine. They're mostly only socials though, I don't need ones for actual meets.

I like to see what the people I'm chatting to have written about others, that can be very telling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to read veries as I’m nosey

Don't read mine

Oops "

There not real, I'm really Lord lucan but shussh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to see what kind of person they are generally. However that time they had cum in their nostrils from deep diving for HOURS.. don't need to know."

A true sailor

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

I have lots of verifications because I've hosted events and been on this site for years. I honestly don't care what people think about my profile or me on a swingers site. They can meet me or not, their choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d likely meet someone with a veri rather than without. It gives me an idea of what the person is like and what type of women they go for. Also someone who’s been on here for over a year with no veris and no photo verification doesn’t appeal to me haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people feel the need to justify what they do / don’t do on here?

It’s laughable .

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Why do people feel the need to justify what they do / don’t do on here?

It’s laughable ."
Its an advert...... We're popular you're not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to read veries as I’m nosey

Don't read mine "

Too late done that ages ago

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I tend to assess each profile on individual merit.

I would meet a woman with verifications. I would meet a woman without verifications. I'm not fussed either way in the grand scheme of things.

Whenever women message me I sometimes 'skim-read' their verifications for no clear purpose. However, if all their verifications are from men with 9" appendages I can gauge the longevity of our conversation in proportion to my 'average proportion'.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I’d likely meet someone with a veri rather than without. It gives me an idea of what the person is like and what type of women they go for. Also someone who’s been on here for over a year with no veris and no photo verification doesn’t appeal to me haha xx"

Agreed! Also for me a positive feedback from another person is not necessarily positive for me as we may well be looking for different things. Also some veris go into a lot of sexual detail which for me (others may find it sexy) is not enticing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d likely meet someone with a veri rather than without. It gives me an idea of what the person is like and what type of women they go for. Also someone who’s been on here for over a year with no veris and no photo verification doesn’t appeal to me haha xx

Agreed! Also for me a positive feedback from another person is not necessarily positive for me as we may well be looking for different things. Also some veris go into a lot of sexual detail which for me (others may find it sexy) is not enticing. "

^^ for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people feel the need to justify what they do / don’t do on here?

It’s laughable .Its an advert...... We're popular you're not "

I didn’t mean showing veris. I meant justifying why they choose to show them or not. Some do . Some don’t . End of. It’s a personal thing and just respect everyone’s choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind them, I'll happily meet people who are verified. But in saying that, I can easily be put off someone too depending on what the verification describes and seeing who they meet with. I think verifications say a lot about someone and sometimes not in the best way.

*says the woman with two hidden verifications*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d likely meet someone with a veri rather than without. It gives me an idea of what the person is like and what type of women they go for. Also someone who’s been on here for over a year with no veris and no photo verification doesn’t appeal to me haha xx

Agreed! Also for me a positive feedback from another person is not necessarily positive for me as we may well be looking for different things. Also some veris go into a lot of sexual detail which for me (others may find it sexy) is not enticing. "

Magic fingers and tongue not your gig I take it?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Why do people feel the need to justify what they do / don’t do on here?

It’s laughable .Its an advert...... We're popular you're not

I didn’t mean showing veris. I meant justifying why they choose to show them or not. Some do . Some don’t . End of. It’s a personal thing and just respect everyone’s choice. "
I'm always respectful but some who've commented here aren't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind them, I'll happily meet people who are verified. But in saying that, I can easily be put off someone too depending on what the verification describes and seeing who they meet with. I think verifications say a lot about someone and sometimes not in the best way.

*says the woman with two hidden verifications* "

And hidden profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind them, I'll happily meet people who are verified. But in saying that, I can easily be put off someone too depending on what the verification describes and seeing who they meet with. I think verifications say a lot about someone and sometimes not in the best way.

*says the woman with two hidden verifications*

And hidden profile?"

Yeah exactly! Who do I think I am?

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham

A couple of veris, hidden or not are important.

Sometimes I wonder why ones are posted that are like mini readers wives takes that the writer sounds like they are having a wank over

Profile - classy, intelligent, not here to fuck the site, discrete

Veri - took my cock like a good thing and begged for it deeper, stretched her tight pussy and cream pied her ass

Me - ok…. Which is it?

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By *undayGirl 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coalville


"A couple of veris, hidden or not are important.

Sometimes I wonder why ones are posted that are like mini readers wives takes that the writer sounds like they are having a wank over

Profile - classy, intelligent, not here to fuck the site, discrete

Veri - took my cock like a good thing and begged for it deeper, stretched her tight pussy and cream pied her ass

Me - ok…. Which is it? "

But he’s showing his maculine prowess cuz us gals all love that! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple of veris, hidden or not are important.

Sometimes I wonder why ones are posted that are like mini readers wives takes that the writer sounds like they are having a wank over

Profile - classy, intelligent, not here to fuck the site, discrete

Veri - took my cock like a good thing and begged for it deeper, stretched her tight pussy and cream pied her ass

Me - ok…. Which is it? "

Yes it can say so much about a person! You get a chance to see a different side. I've been surprised by some people who contradict themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple of veris, hidden or not are important.

Sometimes I wonder why ones are posted that are like mini readers wives takes that the writer sounds like they are having a wank over

Profile - classy, intelligent, not here to fuck the site, discrete

Veri - took my cock like a good thing and begged for it deeper, stretched her tight pussy and cream pied her ass

Me - ok…. Which is it? "

Can be both in that case! You can be classy and intelligent and love your ass being pumped

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"A couple of veris, hidden or not are important.

Sometimes I wonder why ones are posted that are like mini readers wives takes that the writer sounds like they are having a wank over

Profile - classy, intelligent, not here to fuck the site, discrete

Veri - took my cock like a good thing and begged for it deeper, stretched her tight pussy and cream pied her ass

Me - ok…. Which is it? "

spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the site is 95% populated by single men* then when they get a gig their comments will be effusive bordering on sycophantic in the hope they are invited back for similar encounter.

Personally a verification list that resembles the closing credits on Cecil B DeMille**movie shows either the vericant(s) are either in possession of a great deal of leisure time or nymphomaniacs.

*or those who purport to be single

** producer and director of lavish movies involving a cast that numbered thousands

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