FabSwingers.com forum: At what age where you when you questioned your sexuality.

By *cutebum9 OP Couple
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12 or 13 I think. Though not really questioning it, I didn’t really question why I had a crush on male pop stars, or a boy at school.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Just before my 21st when I realised men were actually quite attractive and not half as annoyingly vag drying as I thought before.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Only a couple of years ago. It's not something I've admitted openly yet though.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

4 or 5, when I realised my interests diverged somewhat from typical fairytales. As I matured, I understood from an adult perspective.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

As strange as it might seem, I don't think I ever have questioned my sexuality. Probably because I don't question myself about anything. I just wasn't brought up that way.

Sure, there was a first time with a girl of legal age and I had an experience. There was a first time with a boy of legal age and I had an experience. I've never "compared" them to each other nor considered the biological differences. Just made the most of what was available at the time.

I didn't think (and still don't think), “I did this, so I must be that”.

I thought then (and think now), "I did this, and it was nice."

I guess, from reading forums and other folk's own personal experiences, I have been very very lucky indeed and I do count my blessings and feel very sad for others because of their difficulties with self-identification.

It's one of the reasons I support any individual wishing to change their gender, or express themselves in any way that makes them happy.

I can think of nothing more soul-destroying than not being happy in your own skin. Let alone how others might make that feeling even worse for the individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 18, I got d*unk with a (gay) friend of mine and he convinced me to have a BJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought some of my female friends were very pretty from a young age.

It was only as I got onto my teenage years that I realised not everyone felt that way and it was something that you kept quiet about because it wasn’t considered “normal”

I never questioned it.

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By *edonist79Man
over a year ago

Trowbridge

I never questioned it. Always was attracted to women but not men. But also knew I liked the idea of playing with another guys cock. I've pretty much always thought I'll try most things and only say I don't like them after I've tried a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

36, when I realised not straight as I'd liked to have believed - thanks to a chance meeting with a Brazilian Goddess at a New Year's Eve party; (some have said I was unlucky, but I believe was blessed to have met such a wonderful human being that led to a steady 6# months relationship).

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

From a very early age upon discovering a video tape of same gay porn in my parents room... Didn't admit it to myself for years, but I knew I liked what I saw.

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By *it-chrissyTV/TS
over a year ago

sw. london

Always...still always

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By *yorks4couplesMan
over a year ago

doncaster

Always thought I was straight till 18, relationship with soon to be ex at the time went flat that's when I got curious. Now fully by sexually but only wants relationship with a female.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I thought about it a little around 14 and again about 37.

Alice had an experience with a girl at 14, then a 4some that involved play with another woman at 30. But she didnt really consider herself bisexual until 43.

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By *yorks4couplesMan
over a year ago

doncaster

"I thought about it a little around 14 and again about 37.

Alice had an experience with a girl at 14, then a 4some that involved play with another woman at 30. But she didnt really consider herself bisexual until 43. "

Still evolving and only just getting comfortable with that at 37.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only a couple of years ago. It's not something I've admitted openly yet though.

Mr or mrs? What havent you admitted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't so much question my sexuality ... Rather, It questioned me.

Can't remember what age all this 'questioning started' .... Only wish I hadn't erroneously seen it as a problem for so many years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always been greedy…

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Can someone explain to me your interpretation of this question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a young age, before hitting teenage years. I just knew.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Very young, I didn't need to question it as I already knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can someone explain to me your interpretation of this question "

I interpreted the question as to whether you realised if you were bi, gay etc

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Is this about questioning whether your gay bi or straight

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Is this about questioning whether your gay bi or straight "

I'm fairly confident you know what the OP meant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never did, it just was never an issue or an internal conflict.

My first kiss and sexual experiences were with a girl before any notion of right/wrong was even on my horizon. We were young and curious etc.

Maybe because I crossed that line early and naturally there was no 'should I/would I' internal debate.

Guys have always been my primary romantic attraction but there are certain types of female body or personality/energy that just make me go Oooooft

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Is this about questioning whether your gay bi or straight "

Not so much for whether more like when you started to feel something else as in sexual attraction

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Is this about questioning whether your gay bi or straight

Not so much for whether more like when you started to feel something else as in sexual attraction "

Something else like what

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Is this about questioning whether your gay bi or straight

Not so much for whether more like when you started to feel something else as in sexual attraction

Something else like what "

Curious

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Is this about questioning whether your gay bi or straight

Not so much for whether more like when you started to feel something else as in sexual attraction

Something else like what

Curious "

About what

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Is this about questioning whether your gay bi or straight

Not so much for whether more like when you started to feel something else as in sexual attraction

Something else like what

Curious

About what "

You'll figure it out

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Is this about questioning whether your gay bi or straight

Not so much for whether more like when you started to feel something else as in sexual attraction

Something else like what

Curious

About what

You'll figure it out

Weird why you can't say it.. you mean you was curious about trying a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never questioned my sexuality I've always been a horny guy when I started to spank the monkey looking at bras in a catalogue lol

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

If a man could suck his own cock do you reckon he's now bi or gay even though he doesn't have any attraction to men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a man could suck his own cock do you reckon he's now bi or gay even though he doesn't have any attraction to men "

What’s that got to do with the thread?

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By *he_turtle_movesMan
over a year ago

york

About the age I first watched "The Mummy" for the first time.

Everyone in that film was making me question who I fancied

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never questioned it which may be strange to some.

There has never been any need to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, I always knew I was bi. Had girlfriends before boyfriends but I knew I liked both

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I never really questioned it. I was at the age that you didn't talk about sex I thought everyone was the same as me. It wasn't until I was quite a bit older that I realised not everyone was bisexuality. I didn't even know what bi sexual was as I'd never heard the word

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Forty something.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

When I had to make choices and tick boxes on here 3 years ago so at the age of 55

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From as young as I can remember tbh

I remember "exploring" with friends.

Miss S x

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

High school

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By *ertslady1984Woman
over a year ago

Herts

I was 13 when I started to I was different.

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By *ustoursecret1Man
37 weeks ago

Plymouth

Same think I was about 13

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By *rPeachyMan
37 weeks ago

Bristol

Never did.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"As strange as it might seem, I don't think I ever have questioned my sexuality. Probably because I don't question myself about anything. I just wasn't brought up that way.

I didn't think (and still don't think), “I did this, so I must be that”.

I thought then (and think now), "I did this, and it was nice."

It's one of the reasons I support any individual wishing to change their gender, or express themselves in any way that makes them happy.

I can think of nothing more soul-destroying than not being happy in your own skin. Let alone how others might make that feeling even worse for the individual.

This. Exactly.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
37 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Whatever age I was when I first saw Batman Returns and Michelle Pfeiffer was in the shredded catsuit surrounded by broken glass

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Never did. I just like what i like as it comes along and appeals to me.

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By *ansoffateMan
37 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Around 14-15 I think. When my mates where having all those conversations - like who is 'fit' and I could answer that but it became more 'would you fuck her?' and I was like: how am I supposed to know that?

Later that became are you gay or something? I guessed it must be the something after exploring the possibility of the gay.

Later that synthesised socially to my mates saying. Ee ar darling bit much for me, talk to Hans he likes gobby lessers.

Most of them still talk like that and drink in the same pub 30 years later.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Chichester

around puberty

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By *KBIMALE2025Man
37 weeks ago

WEDNESFIELD, WOLVERHAMPTON

I was gay for many years and it has only been the last 5 or so years I turned to being bi.

Sexuality is very fluid from my experience.

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By *weet LisaTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Crawley

21 years old.

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By *2000ManMan
37 weeks ago

Worthing

I liked looking at womens bodies from around the age of 13.

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By *punk n gushCouple
37 weeks ago

deal

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Hit puberty at 9

I was a big lad still am interested in girls when I saw a tit and some pubes on a girl

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By *ertslady1984Woman
33 weeks ago

Herts

12/13 myself.

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By *essTTWoman
33 weeks ago

Birmingham

I always have, it's only been the past few years I've admitted to myself that I am bi

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I haven’t got around to it yet.

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By *oxy jWoman
33 weeks ago

somerset

i never question mine i knew i liked women and men it felt good and thats that really

hubs said he was the same when younger boys will be boys and then later women he knew he liked both too

so both of us have been fully bi right from the begining of our sexual lives ...

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