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Are you a sulker? Or can you get over it and move on in a moment? | |||
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"Usually about 37 minutes, then I’m ok "Do you set a timer?  | |||
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"Usually about 37 minutes, then I’m ok
Do you set a timer? "No, but don’t upset me now or I’ll be sulking until tomorrow….. just | |||
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"I should be sulking about something that happened to me this week but the horn has taken over. I things don’t improve can I get a cuddle op and a bum squeeze to cheer me up?" You’re on. Might have to wait until June 3rd though | |||
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"Dont sulk op I read it and you did nothing wrong " Meh. Maybe I did. I probably replied one too many times. I don’t usually, don’t like to monopolise a thread that isn’t mine, but I really wanted to understand  | |||
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"Dont sulk op I read it and you did nothing wrong Meh. Maybe I did. I probably replied one too many times. I don’t usually, don’t like to monopolise a thread that isn’t mine, but I really wanted to understand "What thread | |||
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"Dont sulk op I read it and you did nothing wrong Meh. Maybe I did. I probably replied one too many times. I don’t usually, don’t like to monopolise a thread that isn’t mine, but I really wanted to understand "
I could see that! It's the reason I say you did nothing wrong | |||
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"Dont sulk op I read it and you did nothing wrong Meh. Maybe I did. I probably replied one too many times. I don’t usually, don’t like to monopolise a thread that isn’t mine, but I really wanted to understand "That OP from the other thread didn't help themself, and they have posted something equally confusing elsewhere, so please don't sulk it's definitely not you.  | |||
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THEN I will process through a massive emotional hangover worse than any migraine you can imagine 
If amends are needed I own it and make things right. It's a matter of honour and integrity for me to walk the walk.
And then bounce back like you wouldn't believe.
Resilience is a life skill. | |||
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"Why did Disney kill Bing Bong in, Inside Out? Yeah, I’m still sulking about that! Bastards! " Who's your friend who likes to play! | |||
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"Don’t mind me. I’m over here sulking
Are you a sulker? Or can you get over it and move on in a moment?"Jaysus Mary and Joseph that thread was a right shitshow Red.. you had no chance | |||
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"Why did Disney kill Bing Bong in, Inside Out? Yeah, I’m still sulking about that! Bastards! Who's your friend who likes to play!" ‘Take her to the moon for me….’  | |||
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I love this!!!!! Totally stealing it | |||
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"I don't sulk I hulk
I love this!!!!! Totally stealing it "Use it wisely young padawan  | |||
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"I don't sulk I hulk
I love this!!!!! Totally stealing it
Use it wisely young padawan "With great power comes great responsibility. I’m learning! | |||
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"Don’t mind me. I’m over here sulking
Are you a sulker? Or can you get over it and move on in a moment?
Jaysus Mary and Joseph that thread was a right shitshow Red.. you had no chance " | |||
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"Don’t mind me. I’m over here sulking
Are you a sulker? Or can you get over it and move on in a moment?
Jaysus Mary and Joseph that thread was a right shitshow Red.. you had no chance
"He’s still talking nonsense but we gave him shit for being rude 
I think we worked pretty hard to get his question out of him. | |||
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"Ohhhhhh I have one bad habit. If I am profoundly hurt or pushed beyond the not-inconsiderable limits of my self-control I. Will. Lose. My. GiveAShit-o-meter It's not an immature indulgence, it's like a safety valve on an overworked last nerve. And it's never pretty. Filter? Gone. Patience? Gone. Temper? Lost. I don't sulk I hulk
THEN I will process through a massive emotional hangover worse than any migraine you can imagine
If amends are needed I own it and make things right. It's a matter of honour and integrity for me to walk the walk.
And then bounce back like you wouldn't believe.
Resilience is a life skill."I love how self aware you are, Ms F | |||
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"I don't sulk. I'm a bottler that rages when I'm full up, in a safe place "Haha same | |||
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"Don’t mind me. I’m over here sulking
Are you a sulker? Or can you get over it and move on in a moment?"Got to move on quickly OP…that’s not saying don’t allow yourself to feel what it is …but allow that and then move on…. Life’s too short | |||
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Although, a cuppa is always welcomed if you think you've bothered me. | |||
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"I can get over it in milliseconds. I don't have the energy to let things bother me anymore
"The art of simply not giving a fuck is greatly underrated | |||
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"I know quite a few people, only some of them on here who sulk by proxy. They are offended on other peoples behalf to such a degree they believe every negative comment is aimed at them even when they aren't in the room or the conversation. On the flip side they accept every compliment including those not intended for them and then sulk when they cop on. " Love this comment | |||
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"Ran out of fucks to give a long time ago. Think I and the Mrs have a permanent poker face. "Great looking couple BTW | |||
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"Still don’t know what that thread was about "Not got a scooby You was patiently trying to decipher it but the op was very rude to you You have zero reason to be upset I for one like and enjoy your input in tbe forums | |||
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Ps. They’re not as good as Mrs Mistys but they should do the trick | |||
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"Don’t mind me. I’m over here sulking
Are you a sulker? Or can you get over it and move on in a moment?"I'm a sulker, a ruminater it ruins days... But I'm working on it. Took me years to work out made no difference to anyone else if is sulked and was only bad for me... But its surprisingly hard. Wonder where that behaviour comes from and why? | |||
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"Still don’t know what that thread was about "Hope you’re feeling better this morning! Muppets, weirdos and fuckwits are two-a-penny on this site and they somehow feel the need to assert themselves through rudeness. They mostly disappear as quickly as they arrive so take comfort in the nice ones who think you’re cool. There’s a lot of us! x | |||
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"Still don’t know what that thread was about
Hope you’re feeling better this morning!
Muppets, weirdos and fuckwits are two-a-penny on this site and they somehow feel the need to assert themselves through rudeness.
They mostly disappear as quickly as they arrive so take comfort in the nice ones who think you’re cool. There’s a lot of us! x"Well said | |||
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"Ohhhhhh I have one bad habit. If I am profoundly hurt or pushed beyond the not-inconsiderable limits of my self-control I. Will. Lose. My. GiveAShit-o-meter It's not an immature indulgence, it's like a safety valve on an overworked last nerve. And it's never pretty. Filter? Gone. Patience? Gone. Temper? Lost. I don't sulk I hulk
THEN I will process through a massive emotional hangover worse than any migraine you can imagine
If amends are needed I own it and make things right. It's a matter of honour and integrity for me to walk the walk.
And then bounce back like you wouldn't believe.
Resilience is a life skill.
I love how self aware you are, Ms F "Thank you for that, its not easy but I try my best. I make mistakes along the way. It keeps me accountable to myself as well as anyone else. Clears the head as well as the heart
And I never expect perfection of myself or others. That's just not reality as humans.
I love honesty and integrity and accountability above almost any other traits.
Perfectly imperfect and perfect for me is my ideal
I just do my best as I go and if I wobble I suck it up and make things right as best as I can | |||
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"Gave up sulking when I became an adult." See.. That's interesting. How? Did you just decide and flick a switch or did you have to work at it at all? | |||
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"Gave up sulking when I became an adult. See.. That's interesting. How? Did you just decide and flick a switch or did you have to work at it at all? " I don't think it's that simple as childishness versus adult. It's a mild put down to anyone honest enough to fess up to emotional reactions. We're all in different places and stages. If you're doing your best then I applaud you, keep working on yourselves
If a sulk helps you decompress and doesn't hurt or harm or isn't weaponised as passive aggressive, then do what you need to do and feel better | |||
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"[Poster had a little sulk at 02/02/23 10:37:36]" | |||
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"Gave up sulking when I became an adult. See.. That's interesting. How? Did you just decide and flick a switch or did you have to work at it at all? I don't think it's that simple as childishness versus adult. It's a mild put down to anyone honest enough to fess up to emotional reactions. We're all in different places and stages. If you're doing your best then I applaud you, keep working on yourselves
If a sulk helps you decompress and doesn't hurt or harm or isn't weaponised as passive aggressive, then do what you need to do and feel better "Hear hear. My sulking is more like rumination. I take myself away from the situation and use the time to reflect and rebalance. I find I can then come back with things in perspective and feeling positive. | |||
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"I plod on. In the end, like Crom, no one cares." Just keep on swimming | |||
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"I'm a sulker, a ruminater it ruins days... But I'm working on it. Took me years to work out made no difference to anyone else if is sulked and was only bad for me... But it’s surprisingly hard. Wonder where that behaviour comes from and why? " For me, it’s definitely hereditary. Both my parents sulk. My longest relationship (marriage) taught me that the opposite is also not great - being followed around and having someone go on and on at you culminating in a shouting match - I felt at one point we got to a happy medium of giving each other space and time to process our thoughts, discussing our gripes and moving on. It’s pretty tough resisting that default setting though, and my most recent relationship was with the Grandmaster of Sulks, so… | |||
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"I'm a sulker, a ruminater it ruins days... But I'm working on it. Took me years to work out made no difference to anyone else if is sulked and was only bad for me... But it’s surprisingly hard. Wonder where that behaviour comes from and why? For me, it’s definitely hereditary. Both my parents sulk. My longest relationship (marriage) taught me that the opposite is also not great - being followed around and having someone go on and on at you culminating in a shouting match - I felt at one point we got to a happy medium of giving each other space and time to process our thoughts, discussing our gripes and moving on. It’s pretty tough resisting that default setting though, and my most recent relationship was with the Grandmaster of Sulks, so…" It's one of those things isn't it that... If it serves you well... Then keep on keeping on. If it doesn't serve you well, then consider changing it... But there's the problem. Making change to a "go to" conditioned response is bloody hard. | |||
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"This thread has actually surprised me, Red. You certainly aren't a stranger to the forums. And its shocked me that one buffoons comment had this effect on you. Were there other factors/events during the week that maybe added to your reaction? Ill admit, it was very random the way he singled you out, especially as you weren't even taking the p**s, but in fact asking for clarification. All that clowns done is commit fabicide. Onwards and upwards, as they say. " I started this thread as an attempt at humour, genuinely. I was faux sulking. But it also started me thinking - ok, that happened, can I do things differently so I don’t have that effect on people in future. You know? I see that as a positive thing. Sometimes I won’t be able to do anything, and it would be incredibly egocentric to think everything is about me. But there are times when I could adjust my behaviour. | |||
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"Don’t mind me. I’m over here sulking
Are you a sulker? Or can you get over it and move on in a moment?"Life’s too short. If it’s outside your circle of influence don’t even give it a second thought. (Easier said than done but comes with practice). | |||
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"This thread has actually surprised me, Red. You certainly aren't a stranger to the forums. And its shocked me that one buffoons comment had this effect on you. Were there other factors/events during the week that maybe added to your reaction? Ill admit, it was very random the way he singled you out, especially as you weren't even taking the p**s, but in fact asking for clarification. All that clowns done is commit fabicide. Onwards and upwards, as they say. I started this thread as an attempt at humour, genuinely. I was faux sulking. But it also started me thinking - ok, that happened, can I do things differently so I don’t have that effect on people in future. You know? I see that as a positive thing. Sometimes I won’t be able to do anything, and it would be incredibly egocentric to think everything is about me. But there are times when I could adjust my behaviour." I think it was clear you started this thread in jest. Being mindful of how your actions affect others is a trait I think we should all be practicing but humans are also inherently self-absorbed so many of us can often forget about being socially empathetic. In some instances, like on that other thread, there's simply nothing you can do if you're met with irrationality. There's only so much you can do. You consistently come off as thoughtful, inquisitive, intelligent, and generally kind. Keep doing you Red | |||
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"Don't sulk red! We all love you here! " • Speak for yourself mate. White-knighting is optional; it's not National Service. | |||
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"Don't sulk red! We all love you here! • Speak for yourself mate. White-knighting is optional; it's not National Service. " | |||
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"Don't sulk red! We all love you here! • Speak for yourself mate. White-knighting is optional; it's not National Service. "You mean you don’t love Red?  | |||
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"Dont sulk op I read it and you did nothing wrong Meh. Maybe I did. I probably replied one too many times. I don’t usually, don’t like to monopolise a thread that isn’t mine, but I really wanted to understand "Ill admit, Red, i thought initially you were joking. Then saw other peoples replies and your above comment, and then assumed id got it wrong. I should've known better. You are more than capable of holding your own...(and others. ).
Anyway, now that's sorted, get your knickers back on and make me a brew. Coffee, one sugar.
(Ps..before anyone kicks off, im joking, of course...she doesn't need to put her knickers back on!!) | |||
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"Don't sulk red! We all love you here! • Speak for yourself mate. White-knighting is optional; it's not National Service.
You mean you don’t love Red? "I think last night we found one of the few guys who doesn’t!! | |||
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"This thread has actually surprised me, Red. You certainly aren't a stranger to the forums. And its shocked me that one buffoons comment had this effect on you. Were there other factors/events during the week that maybe added to your reaction? Ill admit, it was very random the way he singled you out, especially as you weren't even taking the p**s, but in fact asking for clarification. All that clowns done is commit fabicide. Onwards and upwards, as they say. I started this thread as an attempt at humour, genuinely. I was faux sulking. But it also started me thinking - ok, that happened, can I do things differently so I don’t have that effect on people in future. You know? I see that as a positive thing. Sometimes I won’t be able to do anything, and it would be incredibly egocentric to think everything is about me. But there are times when I could adjust my behaviour." Just having that self-awareness is half the battle, always good to look inwards too. A bridge too far for some but they'll figure out their best way too eventually. | |||
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"Don't sulk red! We all love you here! • Speak for yourself mate. White-knighting is optional; it's not National Service.
You mean you don’t love Red? "• It's quite apparent that she loves me, but it's an unrequited type of love. ••—  —•• | |||
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"Don't sulk red! We all love you here! • Speak for yourself mate. White-knighting is optional; it's not National Service. "Nero! This is the sort of brilliance that could make a woman fall in love.
P.S Red, hope you're okay now. | |||
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"[Poster had a little sulk at 02/02/23 10:37:36] "My poor husband trying to figure out how to reply on the forums | |||
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My poor husband trying to figure out how to reply on the forums "Oh bless his cotton socks | |||
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"Don’t mind me. I’m over here sulking
Are you a sulker? Or can you get over it and move on in a moment?"I have a small tantrum and get over it quite quickly, you not being in my box might start one haha | |||
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"Don’t mind me. I’m over here sulking
Are you a sulker? Or can you get over it and move on in a moment?"What are you sulking about | |||
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"Don't sulk red! We all love you here! • Speak for yourself mate. White-knighting is optional; it's not National Service.
Nero! This is the sort of brilliance that could make a woman fall in love.
P.S Red, hope you're okay now. "• Thank you, ex-wife.  | |||
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"Don't sulk red! We all love you here! • Speak for yourself mate. White-knighting is optional; it's not National Service.
Nero! This is the sort of brilliance that could make a woman fall in love.
P.S Red, hope you're okay now.
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Thank you, ex-wife. "Excuse me I'm the dark knight. I just love everyone here! I'd even protect your ass Nero. Protect not destroy x | |||
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"Don't sulk red! We all love you here! • Speak for yourself mate. White-knighting is optional; it's not National Service.
Nero! This is the sort of brilliance that could make a woman fall in love.
P.S Red, hope you're okay now.
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Thank you, ex-wife.
Excuse me I'm the dark knight. I just love everyone here! I'd even protect your Ass Nero. Protect not destroy x"• Young sirrah, if you wish to protect my Ass you will find it yonder, in the Paddock. | |||
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"Overthinker so my mind is often too busy to sulk" I can sulk while I'm overthinking about something | |||
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"Don’t mind me. I’m over here sulking
Are you a sulker? Or can you get over it and move on in a moment?"I get over it but if I am right I am right and don’t let people wind me y | |||
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