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By *rtyIan OP   Man
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

Are you a visual person or auditory person

Would you prefer an image or words to engage your mind.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm about the least visual person I know.

I'm not sure it's a focus on words instead. Everything I think is sensation and emotion, forcing it into words comes only because that's the only method of expression in a lot of situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words, I love conversation and I love to have a healthy debate.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I have performed this experiment, the viewing room behind a 2 way mirror off a room where a really hot 3some was on - but no noise. Then later blindfolded and listen to the sounds of moaning, squelching and ball-slapping.

I can tell you I had a much, much stronger hard on from listening.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I'm about the least visual person I know.

I'm not sure it's a focus on words instead. Everything I think is sensation and emotion, forcing it into words comes only because that's the only method of expression in a lot of situations."

I think maybe it's the emotion it provokes in the situation, words or sights alone may not do much but it only takes one thing to push that emotional trigger then you can gain a real connection with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Words, I love conversation and I love to have a healthy debate."

So if lots of people joined your debate

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Words. All day long

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

I'm greedy and like the combination of both

Sweet

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By *rtyIan OP   Man
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons


"Words. All day long "

You have had one or two words penned x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A combination of both. I need to see pictures sometimes as I can't visualise a scene from words

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I have very strong image based imagination. Which I then try to get down into words that will paint the same image to someone else.

So both I guess.

When I read I have strong images too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I *think* in pictures

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By *rtyIan OP   Man
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons


"A combination of both. I need to see pictures sometimes as I can't visualise a scene from words "

you have not had the words written for you x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A combination of both. I need to see pictures sometimes as I can't visualise a scene from words

you have not had the words written for you x "

I have and I write myself but if I'm reading a book I can't envisage a landscape for instance, from a written description

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By *eaqueenWoman
over a year ago

Heathrow


"A combination of both. I need to see pictures sometimes as I can't visualise a scene from words

you have not had the words written for you x

I have and I write myself but if I'm reading a book I can't envisage a landscape for instance, from a written description "

It sounds like you may have aphantasia as I do. No minds eye.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A combination of both. I need to see pictures sometimes as I can't visualise a scene from words

you have not had the words written for you x

I have and I write myself but if I'm reading a book I can't envisage a landscape for instance, from a written description

It sounds like you may have aphantasia as I do. No minds eye. "

Possibly. I don't see images as such but I can imagine a scene in words in my head.

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By *eaqueenWoman
over a year ago

Heathrow


"A combination of both. I need to see pictures sometimes as I can't visualise a scene from words

you have not had the words written for you x

I have and I write myself but if I'm reading a book I can't envisage a landscape for instance, from a written description

It sounds like you may have aphantasia as I do. No minds eye.

Possibly. I don't see images as such but I can imagine a scene in words in my head. "

There is a fb group and articles on line if you’re interested.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A combination of both. I need to see pictures sometimes as I can't visualise a scene from words

you have not had the words written for you x

I have and I write myself but if I'm reading a book I can't envisage a landscape for instance, from a written description

It sounds like you may have aphantasia as I do. No minds eye.

Possibly. I don't see images as such but I can imagine a scene in words in my head.

There is a fb group and articles on line if you’re interested. "

I might take a look. I didn't even realise it was a thing until someone mentioned it on here, I thought everyone was the same. It does explain why I can't visualise a room layout until it's actually drawn on paper for me.

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By *eaqueenWoman
over a year ago

Heathrow


"A combination of both. I need to see pictures sometimes as I can't visualise a scene from words

you have not had the words written for you x

I have and I write myself but if I'm reading a book I can't envisage a landscape for instance, from a written description

It sounds like you may have aphantasia as I do. No minds eye.

Possibly. I don't see images as such but I can imagine a scene in words in my head.

There is a fb group and articles on line if you’re interested.

I might take a look. I didn't even realise it was a thing until someone mentioned it on here, I thought everyone was the same. It does explain why I can't visualise a room layout until it's actually drawn on paper for me. "

I only found out recently, I’ve also discovered I have SDAM so no autobiographical memory either. Which explains I don’t remember much. My brain is like a computer without a monitor. I have a lot of facts but no way to see them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arty you have a way with words and by fuck you can take a photo, i have seen your stuff away from here you are a talented Mister xx

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Words as are more powerful

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By *rtyIan OP   Man
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons


"Arty you have a way with words and by fuck you can take a photo, i have seen your stuff away from here you are a talented Mister xx"

shhhh I am just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arty you have a way with words and by fuck you can take a photo, i have seen your stuff away from here you are a talented Mister xx

shhhh I am just me "

they say a picture paints a thousand words and some of yours so do

then they say the pen is mightier than the sword and some of your poems blow my mind x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe a picture is far more effective than a mere verbal description.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very visual for me

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over a year ago

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Words are my preferred medium. I can construct what I want to say much more effectively using words. I can plan their impact, their meaning and their structure and placement to support what I want to say.

I cannot do that with voice.

Thought however is hyper-visualised. I think in imagery. It's hard to explain but if you tell me to think of an apple, I will conjure an exquisitely detailed image of an apple, with blemishes on the skin, dew where it has been freshly picked on a lightly-misted morning, a small tear where a curious baby starling pecked it to investigate its food potential. And by this point, I'm salivating and tasting the apple.

It's worse when I am trying to sleep as the hyper-visualisation goes in to overdrive.

Some folks count sheep.

I count passengers on a platform and each one has to be mentally e-fitted down to the last detail. It's flipping annoying.

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