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Don’t judge yourself

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By *rtyIan OP   Man
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

When you go out into the woods, and you look at trees, you see all these different trees. And some of them are bent, and some of them are straight, and some of them are evergreens, and some of them are whatever. And you look at the tree and you allow it. You see why it is the way it is. You sort of understand that it didn’t get enough light, and so it turned that way. And you don’t get all emotional about it. You just allow it. You appreciate the tree.

The minute you get near humans, you lose all that. And you are constantly saying ‘You are too this, or I’m too this.’ That judgment mind comes in. And so I practice turning people into trees. Which means appreciating them just the way they are.”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only it was that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its hard OP.

BUT deep down we all know you are right. I do for sure.

I almost shred a tear reading this.. fragile flower lately

Thank you for this!

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By *rtyIan OP   Man
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons


"If only it was that simple "

It is if you make it so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really easy to say.

Really difficult to put into practice.

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By *assie101Woman
over a year ago

Kent

This was just lovely. Thank you

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

When I look at the forest of people, I do allow and accept for what they are and the conditions in which they exist.

But I don't have so much leniency for myself. I could be better, I should be better. The choices I make define who I am, regardless of environment or necessity.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Humans aren't trees though.

If someone is horrible to me or a bit of a danger I'm judging, hard. In the same way as I'd judge a damages tree that was in danger of falling on my head, regardless of the life experiences that lead to that damage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and sometimes you take a chainsaw into the woods and you cut down all the trees and use them as firewood!

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

That was so beautifully written

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By *rtyIan OP   Man
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons


"That was so beautifully written"

Not my words but seeing a few threads today I felt very pertinent xx

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"That was so beautifully written

Not my words but seeing a few threads today I felt very pertinent xx"

Oh damn. I was actually impressed with you for a brief moment

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Thank you darling OP for the beautiful words as always. They are absolutely spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i judge myself the worst . beautful words tho OP x

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By *rtyIan OP   Man
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons


"That was so beautifully written

Not my words but seeing a few threads today I felt very pertinent xx

Oh damn. I was actually impressed with you for a brief moment "

The first that are not mine Miss Peaks

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