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By *anrad22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Radcliffe

Whats the best female advisor for men to meet females on here . Girls point of view most definitely welcome

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Use the search function and look for previous threads about the topic you asked about

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By *anrad22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Radcliffe

I wanted a fresh outlook. Maybe some with great things to say missed said threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quark, is that you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you be interested in your profile?

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By *anrad22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Radcliffe

I would I have upto date photos I have a verification from recently I have a membership I'm not pushy or creepy

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside

To be fair these threads never go well for the poster. You'd be better using the search function and seeing what advice previous posters have been given regarding the subject. My answer along with many others would be go to a club night and meet people face to face. It's a lot easier to meet nice people that way and people will get more of a feel for your personality that you won't get via trying to inbox someone as your message may be lost amongst the many that most women get daily.

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By *anrad22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Radcliffe

Would you go alone to the club

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Whats the best female advisor for men to meet females on here . Girls point of view most definitely welcome "
Its the only point of view you want lol

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By *anrad22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Radcliffe

I know but didn't want to exclude anyone

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside


"Would you go alone to the club "

Yes, have been for years. Going to Jaydees club alone on Friday. Trust me just pluck up a bit of courage and go you won't regret it.

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Check out local socials too and get to know people. Your public pic is lovely but you've chosen a profile pic that isn't public and won't appeal to non-smokers. Think about your profile as your shop window. There's another 100 shops on the high street- what are you offering that's unique? Who are you wanting to attract?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Would you go alone to the club "

Yes I would and I have.

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By *anrad22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Radcliffe

Yeah very interesting. I agree I could delve more in my profile

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By *anrad22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Radcliffe

I'm just shy at first so a club is daunting but I'd like to try one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club.

*a man’s point of view.

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By *anrad22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Radcliffe

Club it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just shy at first so a club is daunting but I'd like to try one "

Clubs aren’t a panacea if you’re shy. A gentler step into the scene could be to attend some organised socials first.

However, you’ll need to be brave and make the effort to mingle and be social with other guests.

Look in the Meet Requests and Parties forum for something that suits you.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I would I have upto date photos I have a verification from recently I have a membership I'm not pushy or creepy"

Personally I like to read a verification. I am suspicious of what it says if it's hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would I have upto date photos I have a verification from recently I have a membership I'm not pushy or creepy"

It made me laugh. If I was looking I'd offer to meet you.

The ratios of men to women is huge, especially when you factor in how many women aren't meeting. Good luck.

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By *anrad22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Radcliffe

Yeah I mean I've done okay but it's still so much to even get a message alot of the time

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"Yeah I mean I've done okay but it's still so much to even get a message alot of the time "

If you use the reply+quote we can figure out who you're replying to.

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan
over a year ago

Lymington

One and a half lines on your profile isn’t really telling a story of who you are.

Women need to understand if you’re a axe murderer by how you come across.

That limited info means you haven’t been discredited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we received a message from you it would be deleted.

On the plus side, no dick pic, but you do need more photos to show off who you are.

More text about you, to show more of your personality. What you like, what interests you.

In the message, we'd want to see that you had read our profile, and mention something about it that appeals to you.

I think the majority of fabbers would suggest similar.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Make sure your profile is the best it can be and if you're genuinely interested in swinging and don't just join here expecting a quick easy shag, then get yourself along to swinging social events and clubs. As with such a lot in life, effort put in often equals the rewards reaped.

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