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Maybe your goal for this month is just to celebrate getting to the end of the longesssssst month and cheers to all of you as you’re such badasses for that!
Maybe you have big goals for the month or just prefer to take each day as it comes but here’s a space to share what you’re hoping to do/achieve in February and get a bit of encouragement 
For me, this month I am wanting to try and save a bit more and look at my finances. On top of that I am hoping to mark out my year in terms of trips, big socials, events etc as I haven’t even done that yet! And I’m going to hit the gym everyday and actually meal prep….not necessarily healthy 100% of the time but Dec and Jan I have spent a lot on eating on the go and not taking much control I’m that area.
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"This month I will be: Working out regularly. Trying to drink less. Do some adulting I've been putting off. Get my nose pierced. Have the sex. " Oh my days a nose piercing! How exciting!! are you looking to have a stud or a hoop?
Ugh I need to do adulting but I just don’t want to  usually I treat myself with wine if I have to do adult stuff but that does seem counter productive! | |||
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"Hopefully make some progress on building my patio after getting ripped off by someone who was supposed to have done it!" Oh jeeeeeeez! That sounds like such a headache and stress they’ve caused you! I hope the repairs go smoothly for you | |||
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"Hopefully make some progress on building my patio after getting ripped off by someone who was supposed to have done it! Oh jeeeeeeez! That sounds like such a headache and stress they’ve caused you! I hope the repairs go smoothly for you " OUCH So meny rip of builders out there. How far did they get | |||
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"To find another job To find fwb Win lottery "Good luck on the job search…though technically if you win the lottery first then that saves you the stress of job hunting a little  | |||
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"To find another job To find fwb Win lottery
Good luck on the job search…though technically if you win the lottery first then that saves you the stress of job hunting a little "Yes it would And thank you | |||
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"Hopefully make some progress on building my patio after getting ripped off by someone who was supposed to have done it! Oh jeeeeeeez! That sounds like such a headache and stress they’ve caused you! I hope the repairs go smoothly for you " Thank you xx at the moment my garden looks like a pile of rubble and mud lol | |||
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"Hopefully make some progress on building my patio after getting ripped off by someone who was supposed to have done it! Oh jeeeeeeez! That sounds like such a headache and stress they’ve caused you! I hope the repairs go smoothly for you OUCH So meny rip of builders out there. How far did they get " They took the decking down! | |||
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"It’s that time again…..a new month quickly approaches and I always get excited about the idea of starting afresh….as well as being a nosy nelly at what y’all are planning for the month!
Maybe your goal for this month is just to celebrate getting to the end of the longesssssst month and cheers to all of you as you’re such badasses for that!
Maybe you have big goals for the month or just prefer to take each day as it comes but here’s a space to share what you’re hoping to do/achieve in February and get a bit of encouragement
For me, this month I am wanting to try and save a bit more and look at my finances. On top of that I am hoping to mark out my year in terms of trips, big socials, events etc as I haven’t even done that yet! And I’m going to hit the gym everyday and actually meal prep….not necessarily healthy 100% of the time but Dec and Jan I have spent a lot on eating on the go and not taking much control I’m that area.
Feel free to share yours and let’s all get motivated to smash this month! "Pretty much the same as January Look after my physical health Look after my mental health Look after my home That's a lot at the moment and is absolutely draining me. Tomorrow smash two pubs to celebrate the end of f-ing dry January. Hate January but I did have some January sex so that's something. My usual January was to hide under the duvet and never leave...but in accordance with the look after my health and home....I had to implement some activity strategies against the dreaded January winter blues. | |||
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"Try to get through the month with some money left in my bank account " Mate 1p is money left over as far as I'm concerned as long as I don't owe anybody anything. | |||
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"Turn 48 in February so just going to hide!" As drum banger about mental health...hiding from your birthday doesn't seem to do anyone any good. I hide myself on my birthday on a beach with margaritas, pina coladas and rum punches. The 40th was a smash. 5 hours of drinking then I had to spend 2 hours sobering up so I could drop my mates home....in Barbados...flew Premium Economy for 28 days...used covid as an excuse. last birthday I went around to the local bar and was walked home by a nice chap who knew one of my FWB. This 2023 is already booked.
Spa, holiday, swinging...whatever it is you love to do. It's your day. I celebrate actually making it this far alive despite life trying to un-alive me. | |||
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"Hopefully make some progress on building my patio after getting ripped off by someone who was supposed to have done it!" Hugs. Hopefully I can take some college courses and do some work experience with builders before I have to do any of this type of home maintenance. Now all I have to do is call the landlord. That's what my dad did. Work 9-5 during the week and did some building work on the weekend. He's got a good working knowledge but he didn't show me growing up because....i'm a girl..but dude he has no other children who are interested in home maintenance. At least he had me paint (most of) the kitchen last year. He still won't let me up on the roof.  | |||
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"Hello gorgeous Booty!! What a nice thread. I wish you the very best of luck in achieving your goals. I think meal planning and prep has to be the most cost effective and efficient way of ensuring you get good nutrition. Having said that, I’m shit at it haha. Here’s hoping I get to see you at a social soon. I’m moving back down south, to Oxford from carlisle, in February. I’ve sold the gaff and that’s all going through, just got to pack my meagre possessions into a small envelope and move back into my little flat. I’ll be sad to leave Cumbria, but it’ll be nice to be back home again." When I do cook I tend to forget I’m one person and do tend to make massive pots and usually cook several things at once and portion them out. It’s just my flat is a total mess so I need to clean my kitchen and make it a nice space and then get my cooking on
Oooooo I’ve heard there’s lots of socials down that way and I do enjoy travelling to new places for socials
Congrats on selling! What a big change for you but that’s so exciting! Woohoo! New adventures await you | |||
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"Work less, same goal every month. I averaged a little over 325 hours a month last year. Just under 300 for January this year, not a huge change but it's a start. " are you a workaholic? Or is that because you've got some sort of goal to attain? | |||
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"Go on holiday. Have a birthday. Stay alive till March." Where are you off to on holidays? Happy birthday month to you for tomorrow
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"I'm going to continue being a badass. As advised by a very bright creature
T"That creature does sound like a smart cookie 
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"Hopefully make some progress on building my patio after getting ripped off by someone who was supposed to have done it! Hugs. Hopefully I can take some college courses and do some work experience with builders before I have to do any of this type of home maintenance. Now all I have to do is call the landlord. That's what my dad did. Work 9-5 during the week and did some building work on the weekend. He's got a good working knowledge but he didn't show me growing up because....i'm a girl..but dude he has no other children who are interested in home maintenance. At least he had me paint (most of) the kitchen last year. He still won't let me up on the roof. "One of the best courses I did was plumbing. Saved me loads over the years.  | |||
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"It’s that time again…..a new month quickly approaches and I always get excited about the idea of starting afresh….as well as being a nosy nelly at what y’all are planning for the month!
Maybe your goal for this month is just to celebrate getting to the end of the longesssssst month and cheers to all of you as you’re such badasses for that!
Maybe you have big goals for the month or just prefer to take each day as it comes but here’s a space to share what you’re hoping to do/achieve in February and get a bit of encouragement
For me, this month I am wanting to try and save a bit more and look at my finances. On top of that I am hoping to mark out my year in terms of trips, big socials, events etc as I haven’t even done that yet! And I’m going to hit the gym everyday and actually meal prep….not necessarily healthy 100% of the time but Dec and Jan I have spent a lot on eating on the go and not taking much control I’m that area.
Feel free to share yours and let’s all get motivated to smash this month! "Make good on our friend connections! | |||
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"Probably setting up a factory for the business in Bulgaria or Slovakia, so will investigate that. Quite like to revisit Japan for the cherry blossom too as enjoyed that or Canada around fall" That is a very busy month | |||
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"Work less, same goal every month. I averaged a little over 325 hours a month last year. Just under 300 for January this year, not a huge change but it's a start. " Over November and December I was averaging that over 2 jobs and I think I’m still recovering….I am working less now when I can but I am trying to really focus on saying no. It’s hard though. Well done for making a start on it and I hope this month continues and you put yourself first….you deserve it! | |||
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"Go harder. Try to improve on my profile pic basically. " What about placing a rock on each shoulder? | |||
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"I turn 40 in March
My plan is to plan a FFM and probably fail in planning my plan for my birthday "My first FFM was originally arranged as a celebration for a 40th birthday. Fingers crossed for you! | |||
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"I turn 40 in March
My plan is to plan a FFM and probably fail in planning my plan for my birthday
My first FFM was originally arranged as a celebration for a 40th birthday.
Fingers crossed for you!"Thank you, would definitely be memorable and 40th should be one to remember | |||
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"I bought a new bike so hopefully some bike fitness. Keep my head down, not buy any clothes. Pay off a few bills. " Do you normally enjoy buying new clothes? Oooo enjoy the new bike if you pay off yours and are enjoying it I can throw you over a couple of mine? hehe | |||
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"My goals in Feb is to accomplish the goals I set in Dec, which I should of done in Nov, because I made a promise in Oct which I planned in Sept. " Take your time with it… | |||
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"Work less, same goal every month. I averaged a little over 325 hours a month last year. Just under 300 for January this year, not a huge change but it's a start. " What 10 hours a day | |||
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"Go on holiday. Have a birthday. Stay alive till March. Where are you off to on holidays? Happy birthday month to you for tomorrow
Keep your head up sunshine x "Off to India for 2 weeks mix of work and travelling | |||
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"Work less, same goal every month. I averaged a little over 325 hours a month last year. Just under 300 for January this year, not a huge change but it's a start. are you a workaholic? Or is that because you've got some sort of goal to attain?" I probably am a workaolic, it helps that I love what I do. Plan is to retire very comfortably before I'm 55. | |||
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"My goals in Feb is to accomplish the goals I set in Dec, which I should of done in Nov, because I made a promise in Oct which I planned in Sept. Take your time with it… "I aint rushing there always March | |||
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"Work less, same goal every month. I averaged a little over 325 hours a month last year. Just under 300 for January this year, not a huge change but it's a start. are you a workaholic? Or is that because you've got some sort of goal to attain? I probably am a workaolic, it helps that I love what I do. Plan is to retire very comfortably before I'm 55." Had same plan, 55 next month retired at 49 got depressed suicidal saw a psychologist and he told me to get a job done 16 hours to day have a call to make to Chicago at 1.30 GMT then back to accounts. Am happier when I'm busy my down time is chating hear. But good luck. | |||
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"I bought a new bike so hopefully some bike fitness. Keep my head down, not buy any clothes. Pay off a few bills. Do you normally enjoy buying new clothes? Oooo enjoy the new bike if you pay off yours and are enjoying it I can throw you over a couple of mine? hehe "Haha erm.... Doubtful
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Get my fitness routine back and eat healthier too less chocolate maybe.
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"The big one To collect my 10 year chip sobriety
Get my fitness routine back and eat healthier too less chocolate maybe.
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"The big one To collect my 10 year chip sobriety
Get my fitness routine back and eat healthier too less chocolate maybe.
"Amaxing 10 years, fucking inspirational from one in recovery to another thats freekin awesome | |||
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Valentines weekend in Manchester 
Plan and book our next adventure
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"Such a boring goal, but I've completely lost track of what food is in my cupboards and freezer. In the next week I'm going to write a full list of every single thing I've got, so I can plan some meals around the stuff I already have in. I bulk-buy my preferred toiletries when they're on offer, so at some point I'm also going to make a list of what I have there so I know what offers I should be on the look-out for." Totally no a boring goal! That actually sounds like it would be a nice time just getting to organise and sort everything. I kind of need to do the same actually….had a clear out of my cupboards last year but I know that I had lots of things accumulating again! | |||
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"I'd like to get back out running, albeit at a snail's pace! Will see if my health will play ball. Also have that loooooooooong overdue social, OP
Mrs TMN x"Oooooo yes I have been terrible at making plans so yes! Let’s social good luck with the running, I found the Nike run app useful as you had someone talking you through the run, especially with those first few when you’re just getting back into it | |||
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"Train harder and longer Eat better Try and be more sociable Do some sex Try and financially survive the month" I feel like you need a montage style for your goals of you training super hard and eating all the healthy things! good luck though, I will be cheering you on from the gym! | |||
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"It’s that time again…..a new month quickly approaches and I always get excited about the idea of starting afresh….as well as being a nosy nelly at what y’all are planning for the month!
Maybe your goal for this month is just to celebrate getting to the end of the longesssssst month and cheers to all of you as you’re such badasses for that!
Maybe you have big goals for the month or just prefer to take each day as it comes but here’s a space to share what you’re hoping to do/achieve in February and get a bit of encouragement
For me, this month I am wanting to try and save a bit more and look at my finances. On top of that I am hoping to mark out my year in terms of trips, big socials, events etc as I haven’t even done that yet! And I’m going to hit the gym everyday and actually meal prep….not necessarily healthy 100% of the time but Dec and Jan I have spent a lot on eating on the go and not taking much control I’m that area.
Feel free to share yours and let’s all get motivated to smash this month!
Make good on our friend connections! "Ooooo you social butterflies! I like this! I need to try and do similar….well if you two are happening to pop past Aberdeen make sure you say hello | |||
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