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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why set up a profile and type ‘fill in later’, and months later, still not done just that?

I’m genuinely curious.

Have you done this? Why did you do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll post later…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This one makes no grammatical sense

But you catch my drift

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By *ischiefManaged69Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Why set up a profile and type ‘fill in later’, and months later, still not done just that?

I’m genuinely curious.

Have you done this? Why did you do it?"

Sorry, utterly mesmerised by your cleavage......

What was the question again?

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

It's frustrating and annoying.....It's a red flag to me that they are pic hunters/dreamers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just screams laziness. Either that, or they can't think of a single interesting thing to say about themselves, or what they're looking for.

Neither scenario is appealing in the slightest

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

(Imagined) Maximum punani/minimum effort is likely the driving force behind such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

L8r.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just laziness

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Surely the whole point of the profile is information, looks/likes/dislikes/personality/location?

So weird to just not bother doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've struggled for inspiration on rejoining, but never sank to those depths.

I wonder if they're simply profiles created to quickly nose and access the forums and others profiles, with no intention of meeting?

Mind you, I bet a few still get messages informing them they're gorgeous and exactly what they're looking for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just laziness"

I could have provided a far more analytical response than that, but I just couldn't be arsed

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Think about it as another filter.

Certainly does the job for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More focused on themselves getting on and looking than on being looked at. Maybe assume they won't be looked at. Or have done the join/leave/rejoin dance too often to care.

So mostly pic hunters and lurkers.

Or lazy I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can’t understand it.

Especially when these same posters turn out to be highly intelligent and have no issues with typing out messages.

It’s a great big flashing sign that they’re lazy, I reckon. Lazy, and over reliant on their looks and (superficial?) charm…perhaps…

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

It's the same fill in later months later as you say, that gets me. And yet I've often seen those profiles with lots of success!? How, why... What the fuck!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll post later…"

They pop up, can’t be arsed with any effort, and know that their photo image is enough to have the messages roll in… and then they can cherry pick a suitable candidate.

ego before anything else. Just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just genuinely forget?

I know if I don't do something straight away I have a tendency to not do it at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will fill you later.

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By *rooperRedMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

By being intentionally vague you sort of answer everyone's questions with saying anything. It can be whatever. Schrödinger's Profile basically, it both is and isn't a profile.

Btw, hi Red, great photos.

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

It's lazy, not attractive, just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of imagination ?

My photos and interest boxes should speak for themselves ?

Not taking it seriously and mostly using place for perving?

Expecting results without investment?

Just few ideas;)

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why set up a profile and type ‘fill in later’, and months later, still not done just that?

I’m genuinely curious.

Have you done this? Why did you do it?

Sorry, utterly mesmerised by your cleavage......

What was the question again? "

Never mind the cleavage, wow what fabulous boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 31/01/23 16:20:20]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I somehow manage to derail my own threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying all that, long time ago I've met someone who had zero text on his profile and one photo. Verified both ways, nothing concerning in that aspect. His dedication to messages though was outstanding and I always felt nurtured and desired. We had few nice meets.

Could be though just an exception.

T

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Dear OP, it's called "prerogative" and "irreverence".

It's not laziness or apathy or whatever. They have chosen to direct their profile in whatever way they feel fit.

I tend to just ignore them.

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By *ralGuy77Man
over a year ago

Oldbury

Also the profiles that demand a face pic on a profile and have non themselves

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Maybe its just a profile set up to have a nosey around the site.

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I always assumed they'd joined and wanted to browse profiles before deciding if it was worth making an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always assumed they'd joined and wanted to browse profiles before deciding if it was worth making an effort."

Plausible. Realising they don't want to invest more effort or time but still enjoy being passive observer? If something happens unexpectedly they might enjoy it but equally they won't moan if nothing does? Neither here or there kind of profile.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I assume they've nothing good to say about themselves, works as a good filter.

Mrs

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I’m able to write. I send messages quite ably. But I must admit our profile was an unenjoyable experience to write.

If I (we) hadn’t done it when we did, I may not have gone back to it later!!!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they are voyeurs here for the wanky pics and vids. Or here for chat.

Meeting and fucking isn't mandatory.

It makes me laugh when men message asking for a meet. Then they complain my profile is shit.

Err yeah so why message me you time waster??!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually assume it's not a real profile if it's a woman that's done it.

Also why doesn't everyone just photo verify? It's so easy to do. I'm going off topic but it grinds my grapes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually assume it's not a real profile if it's a woman that's done it.

Also why doesn't everyone just photo verify? It's so easy to do. I'm going off topic but it grinds my grapes."

What would photo verification prove?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually assume it's not a real profile if it's a woman that's done it.

Also why doesn't everyone just photo verify? It's so easy to do. I'm going off topic but it grinds my grapes.

What would photo verification prove? "

That they have a face and are remotely who they say they are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they are voyeurs here for the wanky pics and vids. Or here for chat.

Meeting and fucking isn't mandatory.

……. "

Why oh why isn’t this in the front page of the site. it would have saved me so much time !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will fill in this answers later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never understand it and it puts us off, we don't bother with them types of profiles.

Miss S x

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Why set up a profile and type ‘fill in later’, and months later, still not done just that?

I’m genuinely curious.

Have you done this? Why did you do it?"
i think i do have mention of this on mine but and i do update when i notice something else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually assume it's not a real profile if it's a woman that's done it.

Also why doesn't everyone just photo verify? It's so easy to do. I'm going off topic but it grinds my grapes.

What would photo verification prove?

That they have a face and are remotely who they say they are?"

Would it though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they are voyeurs here for the wanky pics and vids. Or here for chat.

Meeting and fucking isn't mandatory.

…….

Why oh why isn’t this in the front page of the site. it would have saved me so much time ! "

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

You know when you first make the profile is "fill in later" pre-typed for ya?

I can't remember but I'd find it really fucking odd if it wasn't and hundreds of people all typed the same thing.

Even "fuck knows" would be better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my chat up line

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"You know when you first make the profile is "fill in later" pre-typed for ya?

I can't remember but I'd find it really fucking odd if it wasn't and hundreds of people all typed the same thing.

Even "fuck knows" would be better "

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She's ready for woo'ing.... ^ Fact.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"You know when you first make the profile is "fill in later" pre-typed for ya?

I can't remember but I'd find it really fucking odd if it wasn't and hundreds of people all typed the same thing.

Even "fuck knows" would be better

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She's ready for shoo'ing.... ^ Fact."

Like a pigeon with a manky leg pecking on a fag butt.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"You know when you first make the profile is "fill in later" pre-typed for ya?

I can't remember but I'd find it really fucking odd if it wasn't and hundreds of people all typed the same thing.

Even "fuck knows" would be better

•

She's ready for shoo'ing.... ^ Fact.

Like a pigeon with a manky leg pecking on a fag butt."

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

They're usually the profiles moaning on updates that nobody replies to them

I think many join now expecting a quick shag with minimum effort .

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Same as "ask me" I don't want to have to ask you, I want some idea of what you want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same as "ask me" I don't want to have to ask you, I want some idea of what you want!"

You tell him. Typical Morrissey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why set up a profile and type ‘fill in later’, and months later, still not done just that?

I’m genuinely curious.

Have you done this? Why did you do it?"

It’s the ‘not meeting during the pandemic’ ones I like. News flash….!

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Why set up a profile and type ‘fill in later’, and months later, still not done just that?

I’m genuinely curious.

Have you done this? Why did you do it?"

Sometimes over a year. Laziness of the highest order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t bother to read the profile xx

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I would say this is one of the greatest conundrum of this alternative universe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t bother to read the profile xx "

Just perv on the photos instead, don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t bother to read the profile xx

Just perv on the photos instead, don't you? "

You got me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t bother to read the profile xx

Just perv on the photos instead, don't you?

You got me "

Suppose it's only fair though considering I've done the same with yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To make you message them and find out who they are.

Another way of saying ask to find out perhaps.

Or maybe not writing anything to give away who they are to those that might realise and pick up on their writing style etc and catch them out?

A way of hiding in plain sight where you can deny its you?

Or hiding till you have sussed out the site and how it works?

To hunt your way and not be hunted by giving them nothing to go on?

Or they just don't know what to write, fear sounding a twat, and never go back to it distracted by all the pics instead?

T

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