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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm with a woman that loves being dominated, any ideas to help a guy out and take her places shes never been?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her where she wants to go.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Do your own researching.

And plan things properly so that when you are with her it feels like you got it all under control.

Learn to choose her meals, wine, clothes, make up etc so it just becomes normal. Learn to shop for her clothes and make up.

Just learn man !

Hope this helps

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I'm with a woman that loves being dominated, any ideas to help a guy out and take her places shes never been?"

That depends on the domination dynamic you have.

For instance. I'd go wherever I wanted to go and he would love it regardless, because he loves pleasing me. We are in a pleasing dynamic.

I wouldn't choose his clothes, food, looks etc as we are not in a M/s dynamic.

Clear Consistent Communication with a partner, is key to any dynamic you might be in. Good luck OP

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

^ that sounds very sweet

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I'm with a woman that loves being dominated, any ideas to help a guy out and take her places shes never been?"

Has she been to the Tower of London? Bitches love the tower!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with a woman that loves being dominated, any ideas to help a guy out and take her places shes never been?

Has she been to the Tower of London? Bitches love the tower! "

They lose their heads over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to take a woman to heaven and back…

*someone had to say it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to take a woman to heaven and back…

*someone had to say it. "

I'd rather go to IKEA.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to take a woman to heaven and back…

*someone had to say it.

I'd rather go to IKEA. "

You want meatballs!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do your own researching.

And plan things properly so that when you are with her it feels like you got it all under control.

Learn to choose her meals, wine, clothes, make up etc so it just becomes normal. Learn to shop for her clothes and make up.

Just learn man !

Hope this helps "

It is only helpful if this is the sort of Dominant dynamic the Submissive enjoys. It isn’t always about the Dominant (D) making the selection for the Submissive (S).

It can be the S has seen something they like and asking the D for their opinion on it.

OP, if you’re unsure about where to begin, try asking her what type of places she’d like to go. The best D/s dynamics are the ones where you take the time to understand each other rather than conform to a stereotype.

M

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I'm with a woman that loves being dominated, any ideas to help a guy out and take her places shes never been?"
lol like a holiday

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Do your own researching.

And plan things properly so that when you are with her it feels like you got it all under control.

Learn to choose her meals, wine, clothes, make up etc so it just becomes normal. Learn to shop for her clothes and make up.

Just learn man !

Hope this helps

It is only helpful if this is the sort of Dominant dynamic the Submissive enjoys. It isn’t always about the Dominant (D) making the selection for the Submissive (S).

It can be the S has seen something they like and asking the D for their opinion on it.

OP, if you’re unsure about where to begin, try asking her what type of places she’d like to go. The best D/s dynamics are the ones where you take the time to understand each other rather than conform to a stereotype.

M"

Great insightful advice , if you don’t know what to do ask her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do your own researching.

And plan things properly so that when you are with her it feels like you got it all under control.

Learn to choose her meals, wine, clothes, make up etc so it just becomes normal. Learn to shop for her clothes and make up.

Just learn man !

Hope this helps

It is only helpful if this is the sort of Dominant dynamic the Submissive enjoys. It isn’t always about the Dominant (D) making the selection for the Submissive (S).

It can be the S has seen something they like and asking the D for their opinion on it.

OP, if you’re unsure about where to begin, try asking her what type of places she’d like to go. The best D/s dynamics are the ones where you take the time to understand each other rather than conform to a stereotype.

M

Great insightful advice , if you don’t know what to do ask her

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The OP is asking for advice on how to please the woman he is with in a Dominant dynamic. It’s a very broad dynamic that isn’t advisable to approach based on one stereotype and with what little information we have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have to ask, then you aaaaaain't it, babe.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"If you have to ask, then you aaaaaain't it, babe."

I have to say, this is pretty much my feeling. Of course that's not to say Dominants mystically know everything. There are endless things one has to learn, depending on predilections, about shibari, or particular painplay, or other techniques.

But when it comes to fundamental dynamics such as 'How do I become Dominant in this relationship' - well, it's a dynamic, which means infinitely variable, a rope under tension. The best person to learn from is them, and yourself. What works for you both?

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