FabSwingers.com forum: Excuses people give for not meeting…

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What excuses do you hear all the time for folk not meeting after you’ve arranged something with them?

The most common ones I hear are:

‘I got called into work.’

‘My car is in the garage’

‘I had a family emergency’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cats getting newted

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Wife came home early

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Work,

Family emergency

Illness

Issues with transport

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

They say - Your face pic made me vomit….

so I tell them look - im not meeting you if you smell of sick - let’s rearrange!!!

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

I forgot.

Kids are ill.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

“I forgot” seems to be an ongoing issue in my case (not me, them).

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

My phone died

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I rarely get given excuses I just get stood up lol...

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

"“I forgot” seems to be an ongoing issue in my case (not me, them)."

I arranged to meet a bloke at 8pm once. We arranged it at 10am on the same day.

He forgot

knob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to walk my Llama

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"Had to walk my Llama "

My wife didnt know as it was meant to be a surprise for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum told me I couldn’t come out to play

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Sorry I got stuck in work

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"The cats getting newted "

As in “pissed as a……”?!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"“I forgot” seems to be an ongoing issue in my case (not me, them).

I arranged to meet a bloke at 8pm once. We arranged it at 10am on the same day.

He forgot

knob. "

Oh dear

His loss, I’d say.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"I rarely get given excuses I just get stood up lol... "

Tells more about them, really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I decided to carry on with my life instead.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

She's at work

She's out with friends

She's on holiday

She's ill at the moment

Followed with so it will just be a solo meet with me the Mr atm

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I had ‘I was busy at work, there was no WiFi and it slipped my mind’ last week for a social when someone didn’t turn up. I wouldn’t have minded but it was her that messaged me in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something came up at work, happened twice with the same guy, won't happen again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had ‘I was busy at work, there was no WiFi and it slipped my mind’ last week for a social when someone didn’t turn up. I wouldn’t have minded but it was her that messaged me in the first place!

And that's what happened to me, he was the one kept asking and then said he couldn't make it

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Something about trains and strikes

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I rarely get given excuses I just get stood up lol...

Tells more about them, really."

True..still smarts though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One I had recently...the electricity has been cut off and need to sort it out..

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Couldn't get out of work (why are you arranging to do anything in work hours)

Car trouble, blown tire/traffic

Forgot they had kids

Just forgot...

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

Im a danger to sweet old ladies...guys organise a meet with me and their poor granny ends up in hospital x

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By *irginLad32Man
over a year ago

Catford

There's a thing I need to be doing

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"Something about trains and strikes

That’s an absolutely rubbish excuse. I hope you ceased all contact and didn’t give them a second chance…

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

And that's what happened to me, he was the one kept asking and then said he couldn't make it"

Maybe we could hook them up together so they can stand each other up simultaneously!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't invited, so I couldn't make it

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By *uckoldDesiresMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I had a first day a while ago (vanilla world) and when I went out to my car to head to meet her I had a flat tyre. Had driven over a nail the evening before and got a slow puncture.

Needless to say she didn't believe me despite sending a few photos on WhatsApp. That was all she wrote sadly.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"I had a first day a while ago (vanilla world) and when I went out to my car to head to meet her I had a flat tyre. Had driven over a nail the evening before and got a slow puncture.

Needless to say she didn't believe me despite sending a few photos on WhatsApp. That was all she wrote sadly.

Sounds like it was the final nail for her…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a first day a while ago (vanilla world) and when I went out to my car to head to meet her I had a flat tyre. Had driven over a nail the evening before and got a slow puncture.

Needless to say she didn't believe me despite sending a few photos on WhatsApp. That was all she wrote sadly.

Sounds like it was the final nail for her…"

Nails before males

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By *uckoldDesiresMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I had a first day a while ago (vanilla world) and when I went out to my car to head to meet her I had a flat tyre. Had driven over a nail the evening before and got a slow puncture.

Needless to say she didn't believe me despite sending a few photos on WhatsApp. That was all she wrote sadly.

Sounds like it was the final nail for her…

Nails before males

The only time I got nailed on first date

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Lanson

Called into work is a common one...

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By *eadjeyecMan
over a year ago

Bucks/London

Who forgets that they are due to have a meet, especially with you lot you are stunning you could tell me to meet in 152 days, 17 hours, 32 minutes and 12 seconds and I would remember lol

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

"Something about trains and strikes

That’s an absolutely rubbish excuse. I hope you ceased all contact and didn’t give them a second chance…"

Dead to me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a first day a while ago (vanilla world) and when I went out to my car to head to meet her I had a flat tyre. Had driven over a nail the evening before and got a slow puncture.

Needless to say she didn't believe me despite sending a few photos on WhatsApp. That was all she wrote sadly.

Sounds like it was the final nail for her…

Nails before males

The only time I got nailed on first date

made nail contact before eye contact

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By *itonthesideWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

My favourite is had to go work,

Followed by a new verification shortly after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No excuse, just didn't show up after exchanging messages for weeks??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My favourite is had to go work,

Followed by a new verification shortly after "

And that for me is an instant block

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Amnesia or simply evaporating into thin air before the meet

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Something about trains and strikes

That’s an absolutely rubbish excuse. I hope you ceased all contact and didn’t give them a second chance…"

To be fair I know a lady who travels to meets on a train. She’s had to cancel a meet this week.

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By *etasubTV/TS
over a year ago

West of Newcastle

Was away for a couple of nights this week staying at an hotel. Posted interested in a meet. Lots of interest, the keyboard wankers disappeared. 3 tgurls said yes, all pulled out, the following reasons given:-

1. Cancelled day before as had changed hospital appointment.

2. Left her clothes on the bus.

3. Road shut stuck in traffic.

Could all be true, meets weren't meant to be that night. At least they all said they couldn't cum

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

The dog ate my homework

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot seems to be the big ticket one for Pumpkin

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

"Im a danger to sweet old ladies...guys organise a meet with me and their poor granny ends up in hospital x"

Ha ha this is me everytime I sell something on facebay!!!

Re meets. Sudden onset illness despite being Billy big bollox all week.

Mr Dot operates a one strike policy.

Personally I probably wouldn't be that strict and would give people a second chance. But I'm soft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have more car trouble than the arches I've found.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

My best one was a guy who I had actually met before. He messaged a couple of times telling me that ha was running late. Like literally out running. Whilst messaging me on Fab. Whoever said that men can't multi-task

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My grandmother has tried to posion me again

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Three weeks ago, the best one ever;

My brother is returning from South Africa, and I’m having to sort a car for him to use. The delivery company still haven’t arrived with the car, so is it ok if we postpone…..?

We have met since, but this did make me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She fell asleep. * True story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This from a guy who I'd been chatting to for ages.

'Sorry, I didn't think you would turn up so I didn't set off'

Blocked!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This from a guy who I'd been chatting to for ages.

'Sorry, I didn't think you would turn up so I didn't set off'

Blocked!!

That's a self fulfilling prophecy if there ever was one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This from a guy who I'd been chatting to for ages.

'Sorry, I didn't think you would turn up so I didn't set off'

Blocked!!

That's a self fulfilling prophecy if there ever was one! "

Yes - his own expectations must have influenced his actions.

Also my blocking him may have been what he expected also

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