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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the best way to bring partner around to the idea of being spit roasted or gang banged then actually arranging it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to them.

Ask if the idea appeals.

Proceed according to the answer.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Tell them its a cure for covid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe drop it into conversation over drinks. She what her reaction is and depending on what the way she reacts what your next move would be.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Tell her it’s a new fitness regime and it works wonders!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk about it see what they say

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Ask them what's better than one cock.

If they say two cocks or more then you should be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Threaten to tickle them until they submit to your demands.

OR

Talk to them, as everyone else has said.

And if they’re not into it, drop it, and never mention it again, because it’s uncomfortable having someone nagging on about something you’ve said no to.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

talk after all only you know your partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Surprise birthday party gift

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Take them to the supermarket where they do the spit roast chickens, then say " I wonder what that feels like in human form", see what the answer is.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you need to bring someone round to something I'd suggest that it's not a good idea. There's literally nothing apart from a guarantee of world peace, an end to hunger, making me a billionaire and an end to poverty that would bring me round to the idea of a gangbang because it simply isn't my thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask them what's better than one cock.

If they say two cocks or more then you should be fine "

Best answer ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put a chicken in the oven and then take it out (make sure she's watching) and then spit on it and give her a box of chocolates with a card that says "will you let me and my bestie spit roast you?".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put a chicken in the oven and then take it out (make sure she's watching) and then spit on it and give her a box of chocolates with a card that says "will you let me and my bestie spit roast you?".

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Put a chicken in the oven and then take it out (make sure she's watching) and then spit on it and give her a box of chocolates with a card that says "will you let me and my bestie spit roast you?".

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It reminds of those food preparation videos where the man fingers a butterflied chicken breast. Food and sexual overtones is always a winner.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Talk to them, then talk to them again..

If they're up for it all good..

If not respect that..

Good luck..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks talking hasn't worked which is why I asked here she's always reading vampire sex books but when I ask do you want to have threesome gang bang or go with another woman all I get is I don't know maybe lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there’s your answer then.

She’s not sure.

Leave it alone.

Don’t try to force the subject upon her.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

You can't bring anyone round to doing something they're not into op.

I'd say if she was interested she'd have said a straight out yes to it.

It has to be her fantasy not yours I'm afraid.

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By *alamity clungeWoman
over a year ago

Clungetown

You go first and let him/her watch to see how much fun it looks.

If they're not troubled by your arsehole looking like it should be hung in a butcher's window then you could be onto something.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

If you watch porn that’s a good way to bring it up by putting on the wrong porn movie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You go first and let him/her watch to see how much fun it looks.

If they're not troubled by your arsehole looking like it should be hung in a butcher's window then you could be onto something. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks talking hasn't worked which is why I asked here she's always reading vampire sex books but when I ask do you want to have threesome gang bang or go with another woman all I get is I don't know maybe lol"

Erm vampire sex books?

Title?

Author?

Where can you purchase?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks talking hasn't worked which is why I asked here she's always reading vampire sex books but when I ask do you want to have threesome gang bang or go with another woman all I get is I don't know maybe lol"

So why are trying to force the issue exactly?

Pxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not trying to force the issue I just want her to be fulfilled and if she reads a lot about women being dominated by powerful men and has said maybe it's something she'd maybe like to but not sure I was asking for advice how not to make her feel bad or overwhelmed by it but for some reason I appear to be coming across like I'm an arse lol

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Ask her to pick two blokes she wants to be spit roasted by and hope your one of them

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Thanks talking hasn't worked which is why I asked here she's always reading vampire sex books but when I ask do you want to have threesome gang bang or go with another woman all I get is I don't know maybe lol

Erm vampire sex books?

Title?

Author?

Where can you purchase? "

Possibly the Anita Blake series by Laurell K Hamilton.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make a kink 'checkbook' for their birthday that they get to 'cash-in'

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Not trying to force the issue I just want her to be fulfilled and if she reads a lot about women being dominated by powerful men and has said maybe it's something she'd maybe like to but not sure I was asking for advice how not to make her feel bad or overwhelmed by it but for some reason I appear to be coming across like I'm an arse lol "

Reading about it and fantasising is very different to wanting to actually do it. In a fantasy you can control *every last detail*, you look perfect, everything goes exactly how you want.

Maybe ask her to put a bookmark on her favourite scene. Tell her why it was hot. Let her know you'd be up for recreating it with toys. If and only if she enjoys that you could mention that you'd be up for making it real.

J

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you jandb that was a kind and good answer.

Yeah she reads those plus the likes of j.r ward and Nalini Singh etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the best way to bring partner around to the idea of being spit roasted or gang banged then actually arranging it?"

Does she enjoy watching you be spit roasted and gangbanged?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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These two things are quite extreme, if a woman isn't 100 per cent sure it's what she wants I can imagine being gang banged what be absolutely horrifying, and shouldn't be something you should talk someone into experiencing.

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