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By *nigmatic x Divinity OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up town top ranking

I'm a saiposexual.

I'm curious, what are more appealing to you?

Intelligence or physical attributes?

Looking forward to the comments

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Definitely intelligence. Ideally both, but I've found people attractive purely because of their mind before. Never just because of their body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To paraphrase Casanova: Beauty without wit offers nothing but the enjoyment of its material charms, whilst witty ugliness captivates by the charms of the mind, and at last fulfils all the desires of the man it has captivated

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Physilligence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their credit score.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both ideally.

Had some interest from a real Adonis recently but jeez he was dense.

Lost all interest.

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It's a bit sad not to want both? We don't have to fuck people that are only half the recipe

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

Bit of both I would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a saiposexual.

I'm curious, what are more appealing to you?

Intelligence or physical attributes?

Looking forward to the comments "

Intelligence for sure , I need to be able to have deep conversations with someone.

The human body is always a beautiful thing it’s only society that forms misconceptions of beauty in people.

A healthy liberated mind is far more beautiful than the false beauty fed to us by social and all media

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's an MFV (minimal fuckable value) when it comes to looks but intelligence is non-negotiable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too am a sapiosexual. So, in an ideal world, enjoy huge swathes of both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To paraphrase Casanova: Beauty without wit offers nothing but the enjoyment of its material charms, whilst witty ugliness captivates by the charms of the mind, and at last fulfils all the desires of the man it has captivated"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's an MFV (minimal fuckable value) when it comes to looks but intelligence is non-negotiable "

Is there a mathematical formula for this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physicality.

You want to fuck then not have them as your phone a friend !!!!!!!

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"Physicality.

You want to fuck then not have them as your phone a friend !!!!!!!"

Not everyone wants a meaningless shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's an MFV (minimal fuckable value) when it comes to looks but intelligence is non-negotiable

Is there a mathematical formula for this? "

AC = DC²

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know intelligent people with great bodies and shit personalities, the last is the most important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Physicality.

You want to fuck then not have them as your phone a friend !!!!!!!

Not everyone wants a meaningless shag."

I’m not speaking for everyone. Think the OP was asking for individual opinions.

Besides mine was bit tongue in cheeky anyway. Know what I mean ?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Physical attributes. I'm not particularly intelligent, I just want something pretty to look at in bed.

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By *nigmatic x Divinity OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up town top ranking


"To paraphrase Casanova: Beauty without wit offers nothing but the enjoyment of its material charms, whilst witty ugliness captivates by the charms of the mind, and at last fulfils all the desires of the man it has captivated"

This right here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a saiposexual.

I'm curious, what are more appealing to you?

Intelligence or physical attributes?

Looking forward to the comments "

Intelligence, stimulate the mind the rest will follow, so much deeper at play psychology wise. Aesthetics are only skin deep, a great body can hide a multitude of sins

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm always curious when people describe themselves as sapiosexual.

So, you're saying that above anything else, you're attracted to your perception of someone's intelligence? Their physicality is a byproduct that's of little importance to you, it's the keenness of their mind, the curiosity of their soil, their love of learning and retaining.

There's a rather large group of sapiosexuals on the fora. And yet, when it comes to threads like the "my friend fancies you" you get those people posting. To the standard "hotties/cuties" whatever. How does that align with sapiosexuality?

And no, that's not a dig, I'm more curious as to how people view something they identify as and their behaviour. It's something I don't quite understand.

I'm not sapiosexual. I like intelligence. I like passion. Personality. I like people who can waffle on about something they adore and their eyes light up. But I'm not sapiosexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's an MFV (minimal fuckable value) when it comes to looks but intelligence is non-negotiable

Is there a mathematical formula for this? "

Not that I know of....

Not feeling the need to shower when I think of any part of them touching any part of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always curious when people describe themselves as sapiosexual.

So, you're saying that above anything else, you're attracted to your perception of someone's intelligence? Their physicality is a byproduct that's of little importance to you, it's the keenness of their mind, the curiosity of their soil, their love of learning and retaining.

There's a rather large group of sapiosexuals on the fora. And yet, when it comes to threads like the "my friend fancies you" you get those people posting. To the standard "hotties/cuties" whatever. How does that align with sapiosexuality?

And no, that's not a dig, I'm more curious as to how people view something they identify as and their behaviour. It's something I don't quite understand.

I'm not sapiosexual. I like intelligence. I like passion. Personality. I like people who can waffle on about something they adore and their eyes light up. But I'm not sapiosexual."

You've noticed this too

Im guessing women with the biggest boobs have the best personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words. Conversation. Mental stimulation will win for me every single time.

Looks are nothing compared to two minds colliding and being in sync

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always curious when people describe themselves as sapiosexual.

So, you're saying that above anything else, you're attracted to your perception of someone's intelligence? Their physicality is a byproduct that's of little importance to you, it's the keenness of their mind, the curiosity of their soil, their love of learning and retaining.

There's a rather large group of sapiosexuals on the fora. And yet, when it comes to threads like the "my friend fancies you" you get those people posting. To the standard "hotties/cuties" whatever. How does that align with sapiosexuality?

And no, that's not a dig, I'm more curious as to how people view something they identify as and their behaviour. It's something I don't quite understand.

I'm not sapiosexual. I like intelligence. I like passion. Personality. I like people who can waffle on about something they adore and their eyes light up. But I'm not sapiosexual.

You've noticed this too

Im guessing women with the biggest boobs have the best personality.

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it's where personality is kept. Obviously.

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By *nigmatic x Divinity OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up town top ranking


"Words. Conversation. Mental stimulation will win for me every single time.

Looks are nothing compared to two minds colliding and being in sync"

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always curious when people describe themselves as sapiosexual.

So, you're saying that above anything else, you're attracted to your perception of someone's intelligence? Their physicality is a byproduct that's of little importance to you, it's the keenness of their mind, the curiosity of their soil, their love of learning and retaining.

There's a rather large group of sapiosexuals on the fora. And yet, when it comes to threads like the "my friend fancies you" you get those people posting. To the standard "hotties/cuties" whatever. How does that align with sapiosexuality?

And no, that's not a dig, I'm more curious as to how people view something they identify as and their behaviour. It's something I don't quite understand.

I'm not sapiosexual. I like intelligence. I like passion. Personality. I like people who can waffle on about something they adore and their eyes light up. But I'm not sapiosexual."

Now I'd agree with that, intelligence isn't attractive without humility plus the rest and physical attributes are nothing without personality amongst other things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Physicality.

You want to fuck then not have them as your phone a friend !!!!!!!

Not everyone wants a meaningless shag."

Im with you on that

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

Needs to be both.

An abundance of one will never make up for a lack of the other.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’m the opposite as I generally like going out with idiots on the same level as me…

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By *nigmatic x Divinity OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up town top ranking


"I’m the opposite as I generally like going out with idiots on the same level as me…"

Great reply, Love your sense of humour

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Physical. I couldn't possibly fuck someone I didn't find attractive. No matter how much I had bonded with their brain. That's what friendzones are for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Physical. I couldn't possibly fuck someone I didn't find attractive. No matter how much I had bonded with their brain. That's what friendzones are for"

As a person who has recently being friendzoned, I don’t agree is always the case of lack of physical attraction or mental affinity what puts you there…so not the exact use of a friend zone

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