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"Change the way you look for partners. " What do you mean?? | |||
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"Quite a few success stories on here, Tinder and the Beard, Posh and her partner, sure there was a wedding recently of people who met on here. So it does happen!" xx | |||
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"Keep an eye out for the dating threads and message someone from there?" Is this how you managed to wangle your first date this week? | |||
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"Keep an eye out for the dating threads and message someone from there?" I haven’t seen any of those? Where? | |||
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"Keep an eye out for the dating threads and message someone from there? Is this how you managed to wangle your first date this week? " Something about a 69 I believe | |||
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"Keep an eye out for the dating threads and message someone from there? I haven’t seen any of those? Where?" There’s been a few | |||
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"I like to have a person. One person who is just for me. Someone who has my back, who I know would catch me if I needed, who is my biggest fan and most honest soundingboard. Someone who will smother me with attention (in a healthy way) and kinkify my bratty ass to the highest high but lets me breathe and grow and change. I WOULD like to find that person is what I should say. Haven't yet. It's why I joined fab when other sites were totally meh. I'd not be living in eachothers pockets as I have a lot of commitments but it's lovely to have a connection with just one special person. To know them inside and out and be known and seen in return " You are genuinely speaking my mind. Fingers crossed for us, that we find out person. | |||
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"I like to have a person. One person who is just for me. Someone who has my back, who I know would catch me if I needed, who is my biggest fan and most honest soundingboard. Someone who will smother me with attention (in a healthy way) and kinkify my bratty ass to the highest high but lets me breathe and grow and change. I WOULD like to find that person is what I should say. Haven't yet. It's why I joined fab when other sites were totally meh. I'd not be living in eachothers pockets as I have a lot of commitments but it's lovely to have a connection with just one special person. To know them inside and out and be known and seen in return " | |||
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"It is possible to find that someone I’ve also been really fortunate to attend two fab weddings the last few years " Two? Wow | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? " Frankly this is what I want too. Despite my best efforts It's hard enough getting a reply let alone a date that could actually lead somewhere. Should I PM you? | |||
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"It is possible to find that someone I’ve also been really fortunate to attend two fab weddings the last few years Two? Wow " Organised social events have a lot to answer for The weddings were both wonderful affairs and I was lucky to be bridesmaid at one | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? Frankly this is what I want too. Despite my best efforts It's hard enough getting a reply let alone a date that could actually lead somewhere. Should I PM you?" Your profile is hidden? | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? Frankly this is what I want too. Despite my best efforts It's hard enough getting a reply let alone a date that could actually lead somewhere. Should I PM you? Your profile is hidden? " Don't know why so is yours | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? " I think I’m the male version of you , but I’m confident it will happen , for guys it’s a lot slower burn , but we have the advantage that someone showing an interest in us is probably not putting an act on just to get us inti bed - cynical I know , but deep down probably true | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? Frankly this is what I want too. Despite my best efforts It's hard enough getting a reply let alone a date that could actually lead somewhere. Should I PM you? Your profile is hidden? Don't know why so is yours " Have you blocked me for some reason? | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? " It's not a dating site if that's what you are looking for. | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? It's not a dating site if that's what you are looking for." I beg to differ, its a site. How you choose to use it, is up to you. If you are a single, looking for someone like-minded then here is as good a place as any. At least the idea of permissive non monogomy won't be alien. | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? It's not a dating site if that's what you are looking for. I beg to differ, its a site. How you choose to use it, is up to you. If you are a single, looking for someone like-minded then here is as good a place as any. At least the idea of permissive non monogomy won't be alien." Clue's in the site name. | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? It's not a dating site if that's what you are looking for. I beg to differ, its a site. How you choose to use it, is up to you. If you are a single, looking for someone like-minded then here is as good a place as any. At least the idea of permissive non monogomy won't be alien." This! | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? It's not a dating site if that's what you are looking for. I beg to differ, its a site. How you choose to use it, is up to you. If you are a single, looking for someone like-minded then here is as good a place as any. At least the idea of permissive non monogomy won't be alien. Clue's in the site name." If you want to date someone who enjoys swinging I can't think of anywhere better. | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? It's not a dating site if that's what you are looking for. I beg to differ, its a site. How you choose to use it, is up to you. If you are a single, looking for someone like-minded then here is as good a place as any. At least the idea of permissive non monogomy won't be alien. Clue's in the site name." I don't see it stated anywhere that only couples and confirmed singletons can join. Who are you to be trying to make rules up and telling folk they can or can't anything? People are free to suit themselves. | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? It's not a dating site if that's what you are looking for. I beg to differ, its a site. How you choose to use it, is up to you. If you are a single, looking for someone like-minded then here is as good a place as any. At least the idea of permissive non monogomy won't be alien. Clue's in the site name. I don't see it stated anywhere that only couples and confirmed singletons can join. Who are you to be trying to make rules up and telling folk they can or can't anything? People are free to suit themselves. " Wow aggressive much! The point I am making is, time and time again threads come up with people complaining that this site isn't what it used to be and it's not real swinger's anymore... But there's definitely more singles now than couples with more and more treating it like a dating site. But people can do what the hell they want and they will regardless. Why so aggressive? I was stating a fact not an opinion. | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? It's not a dating site if that's what you are looking for. I beg to differ, its a site. How you choose to use it, is up to you. If you are a single, looking for someone like-minded then here is as good a place as any. At least the idea of permissive non monogomy won't be alien. Clue's in the site name. If you want to date someone who enjoys swinging I can't think of anywhere better." | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? It's not a dating site if that's what you are looking for. I beg to differ, its a site. How you choose to use it, is up to you. If you are a single, looking for someone like-minded then here is as good a place as any. At least the idea of permissive non monogomy won't be alien. Clue's in the site name. If you want to date someone who enjoys swinging I can't think of anywhere better." That’s exactly what I’d like | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? " One of our friends (male) was single on here for about 3 or 4 years looking for exactly what you are, he’s just found somebody although early on in their relationship and the world of swinging for her, all seems to be going well, so don’t give in, there are people out there | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? " This is what I’m looking for too, whilst I love this lifestyle I’m now living it would be lovely to have someone special in my life to share it with . | |||
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"I like to have a person. One person who is just for me. Someone who has my back, who I know would catch me if I needed, who is my biggest fan and most honest soundingboard. Someone who will smother me with attention (in a healthy way) and kinkify my bratty ass to the highest high but lets me breathe and grow and change. I WOULD like to find that person is what I should say. Haven't yet. It's why I joined fab when other sites were totally meh. I'd not be living in eachothers pockets as I have a lot of commitments but it's lovely to have a connection with just one special person. To know them inside and out and be known and seen in return " This is so well put and exactly what I’d like also. | |||
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"Quite a few success stories on here, Tinder and the Beard, Posh and her partner, sure there was a wedding recently of people who met on here. So it does happen!" It can happen yes, we met on here and decided to carry on in the lifestyle (well when life gives us the chance to ), Lorna and Ash got married recently, thevonmatterhorns, vanilla masquerade, pixie and her king, nice but very naughty are all other couples who met on here So it can happen Tinder xx | |||
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"I like to have a person. One person who is just for me. Someone who has my back, who I know would catch me if I needed, who is my biggest fan and most honest soundingboard. Someone who will smother me with attention (in a healthy way) and kinkify my bratty ass to the highest high but lets me breathe and grow and change. I WOULD like to find that person is what I should say. Haven't yet. It's why I joined fab when other sites were totally meh. I'd not be living in eachothers pockets as I have a lot of commitments but it's lovely to have a connection with just one special person. To know them inside and out and be known and seen in return " That pretty much describes us, we're long distance but we're each others person and we enjoy the things fab will bring us Tinder | |||
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"I would love to find a partner for a relationship, but that's easier said than done " Never say never, he snuck up on me and took me by surprise Tinder x | |||
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"I would love to find a partner for a relationship, but that's easier said than done Never say never, he snuck up on me and took me by surprise Tinder x" Is he hiding cos he never seems to post now | |||
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"I would love to find a partner for a relationship, but that's easier said than done Never say never, he snuck up on me and took me by surprise Tinder x Is he hiding cos he never seems to post now" He's just been super busy with work so took a step back for a while and left me to my own devices he'll be back when he gets a quiet moment Tinder x | |||
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"Im not looking to "date" right now after getting seriously burnt. But i always think that eventually i will want find my person to be with forever. Ive always assumed this would be a monogamous relationship, im quite new to swinging and have only really been a unicorn, ive never shared my partner before. However, as im into what some might consider kink i dont know if i would be able to find that on a regular dating app. I worry that people not in the lifestyle will judge me for some of the experiences ive had, and for being on here. So maybe this is a good place to find someone more openminded sexually to have a relationship with. Good luck to all with whatever they are looking for on here x " This is a little of my experience here too. | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? " I've never classed my left hand as a bit on the side... | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? " It is possible. We know at least one couple that swung separately before they dated, who now swing together. My advice would be to be upfront with a potential partner. That gives them the get out early card so that you aren’t wasting your time. | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? " Is it me you're looking for | |||
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"I have found this liberating world of swing very recently. It’s very much what I always wanted, but I want to find my person. My guy. Someone I will settle down with, but that is in the lifestyle. Not sure that’s possible. After almost 2 years in this lifestyle, most guys are attached, so frustrating. Is everyone in here just having a little dish on the side? Is it me you're looking for " Hello? | |||
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"I like to have a person. One person who is just for me. Someone who has my back, who I know would catch me if I needed, who is my biggest fan and most honest soundingboard. Someone who will smother me with attention (in a healthy way) and kinkify my bratty ass to the highest high but lets me breathe and grow and change. I WOULD like to find that person is what I should say. Haven't yet. It's why I joined fab when other sites were totally meh. I'd not be living in eachothers pockets as I have a lot of commitments but it's lovely to have a connection with just one special person. To know them inside and out and be known and seen in return " This is for me too | |||
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"Oh it can certainly happen It’s all about the right time and place. Finding that special someone, you just click with. It’s like magic, when you find the one you’re looking for. I am so lucky to have found my diamond on here " Aw | |||
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