FabSwingers.com forum: Sex deprived

By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

I’m in a long term drought

It’s been forever n a day since

Just wondering when was your last time ?

How long is your longest drought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time was 9months.

Before that 2 years.

Next will be about 3 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.

I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy.

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

It was a couple of weeks ago.

Feel for you OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yesterday"

Mine was yesterday too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yesterday

Mine was yesterday too

She’s never gonna shag you you know

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Yesterday"

Lucky you

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Last time was mid November. I'm fine with that.

My longest drought was five years. That bothered me a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yesterday

Mine was yesterday too

She’s never gonna shag you you know "

She already has

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Last time was 9months.

Before that 2 years.

Next will be about 3 weeks.

Yeah that’s nothing

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well over a year ago and I won't be having it again

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"It was a couple of weeks ago.

Feel for you OP x"

Aww thanks miss pink

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

My last time was a couple of days ago.

I still feel sex deprived. Joy of a high libido.

I'm not okay with that.

Going to resolve it very soon.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

christmas morning,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 8mths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last May

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish

About 8 years my longest until a fab member took pity on me and set the clock back to zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yesterday

Mine was yesterday too

She’s never gonna shag you you know

She already has "

Where’s the proof?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

45 years drier than a bedouin nun in the Sahara

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thursday night.

Pretty disappointed my husband didn't wake me up lastnight when he wanted sex, because I went to bed wanting it too but I knew he was tired so let him sleep

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I wouldn't consider weeks or months a drought.

I've gone 10 years without any physical contact at all.

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

Yesterday as you can see from my vids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way my wife goes on she is so sex deprived. She is a sex pest, can't keep up with her.

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan
over a year ago

Lymington

Before here and in my last relationship it was 4.5years

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan
over a year ago

Lymington

"Thursday night.

Pretty disappointed my husband didn't wake me up lastnight when he wanted sex, because I went to bed wanting it too but I knew he was tired so let him sleep

I don't think any man would be upset to be woken up for sex.

As long we can sleep after lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yesterday

Mine was yesterday too

She’s never gonna shag you you know

She already has

Where’s the proof?"

In your verifications

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.

I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy."

You have my vote for president/priminister

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Longest time without was nearly 3 years. And that was before Covid! Just wasn't interested.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

About 6 years, I think. It was soul-destroying. Completely eroded my self-confidence, self-worth, everything.

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Yesterday as you can see from my vids

Lucky you

I wish I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yesterday

Mine was yesterday too

She’s never gonna shag you you know

She already has

Where’s the proof?

In your verifications

Mic drop

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Yesterday

Mine was yesterday too

She’s never gonna shag you you know

She already has

Where’s the proof?

In your verifications

Wait.

You were Mr Didn't Appreciate The LBD for very long at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thursday night.

Pretty disappointed my husband didn't wake me up lastnight when he wanted sex, because I went to bed wanting it too but I knew he was tired so let him sleep

I don't think any man would be upset to be woken up for sex.

As long we can sleep after lol"

I'm sure he'd have something to say when he's up at 3am for work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.

I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy."

I don't know, I find other things a lot more pleasurable. If someone told me I'd never have sex again, meh, I think I'd be ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.

I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy."

Ruby, Ruby, Ruby, Ruby (ah-ah-ah-ah-ah-ah)

Do ya, do ya, do ya, do ya (ah-ah-ah-ah-ah-ah)

Know what your doing, doing to me? (Ah-ah-ah-ah-ah-ah)

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

About 7 years. Tbh, I don't give a fuck.

Literally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wed twice

in need tho and reg is away

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

It’s been 84 years

So wish I could post the gif to go with that

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan
over a year ago

Lymington

"Thursday night.

Pretty disappointed my husband didn't wake me up lastnight when he wanted sex, because I went to bed wanting it too but I knew he was tired so let him sleep

I don't think any man would be upset to be woken up for sex.

As long we can sleep after lol

I'm sure he'd have something to say when he's up at 3am for work

Then he should be woken at 2:30 and allow you to sleep after :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yesterday"

Show off

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan
over a year ago

Lymington

"6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.

I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy.

I don't know, I find other things a lot more pleasurable. If someone told me I'd never have sex again, meh, I think I'd be ok. "

Im not saying I'm it, but yours obviously having the wrong sex.

Coffee and sex is my survival

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By *ikingandMaiden2Couple
over a year ago

Mid Cornwall, South West

Early hours of this morning as wife couldn't sleep. Slept well after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yesterday

Mine was yesterday too

She’s never gonna shag you you know

She already has

Where’s the proof?

In your verifications

Wait.

You were Mr Didn't Appreciate The LBD for very long at all?

Oh I absolutely did appreciate it, she looked stunning! However......she'd hidden a chocolate hobnob in her underwear that I had to get out before it melted everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t remember the last time I had sex and unfortunately for me and my libido, dry spells are way too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.

I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy.

I don't know, I find other things a lot more pleasurable. If someone told me I'd never have sex again, meh, I think I'd be ok.

Im not saying I'm it, but yours obviously having the wrong sex.

Coffee and sex is my survival "

I'm more coffee and snacks.

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By *orksguy1965Man
over a year ago

Howden

Just over 2 years ago for me, way too long without any

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By *urrey SpecialMan
over a year ago

Chertsey

Not since I joined Fab well over a year ago. I am yet to meet anyone on here. No violin necessary however as I realise it's the same for most single guys across all apps.

Won't lie it annoyed me at first but after gaining a more solid understanding of the dating market and it's heavily skewed ratios I no longer feel so bad.

I think a small percentage of guys on here get all the action whilst the rest of us are invisible. Meh, it is what it is! Learn to live without it and you'll be a lot happier, takes a little internal re-wiring but not impossible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

February just before covid - that's when FWB would not all a Matt Hancock and after that she lost her libido. So coming up to three years.

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By *hris885Man
over a year ago

drogheda

Constant drought it's a joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"February just before covid - that's when FWB would not all a Matt Hancock and after that she lost her libido. So coming up to three years."

* 'allow' not 'all' (sodding typing)

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By *ayna20Couple
over a year ago

Kent

8 days

Just the way life rolls sometimes

Work

Kids

But when we do

Ohhhh yum

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Since November at the moment

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan
over a year ago

Lymington

"6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.

I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy.

I don't know, I find other things a lot more pleasurable. If someone told me I'd never have sex again, meh, I think I'd be ok.

Im not saying I'm it, but yours obviously having the wrong sex.

Coffee and sex is my survival

I'm more coffee and snacks. "

What snacks will have you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few days before Xmas, my left wrist has had to do since

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Yesterday"

2 weeks ago longer drought three years

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By *idsman2019Man
over a year ago

Worcester

5 years celibacy!!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I went without sex for over 2 years after my marriage broke down.

Rarely go more than a few days without these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yesterday

Mine was yesterday too

She’s never gonna shag you you know

She already has

Where’s the proof?

In your verifications

Wait.

You were Mr Didn't Appreciate The LBD for very long at all?

Oh I absolutely did appreciate it, she looked stunning! However......she'd hidden a chocolate hobnob in her underwear that I had to get out before it melted everywhere

Love the sound of that, great motivation

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By *akedMMan
over a year ago

Witney

It's been just over 4 years for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 days ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been a long time and probably my longest drought.

I don't care It's only sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last night but I do quite often go long periods when I just can't be bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2-3 years after a bad breakup. I didn’t want to be around anyone in that way until I sorted myself out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming up on 8 years now.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Oct 2017...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last time was mid November. I'm fine with that.

My longest drought was five years. That bothered me a lot."

Why would it bother you so much ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has been about 7 mths ish. This is about the longest I have ever been without I think, but it is making me realise what I do and dont want.

What I do want is sex

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

"Yesterday as you can see from my vids

Lucky you

I wish I could

Can't understand why you're having a dry spell- pics look hot

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

2020.

I wouldn't call myself deprived coz I could get it if I wanted it simply by posting a meet (that's not to say it would be a good or safe meet mind)

I just ain't been in the headspace to want sex. It almost feels to me like access to my body is the only thing in this world I have any control over, and I'm too afraid to let it go.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Not deprived as such but full proper bumping uglies was October (and it had an added extra) just quick fumbles since.

Life has just got in the way with work, studies, commitments etc (although the act is not the be all and end all of everything) we'll certainly make up for it though when we do

Tinder x

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"2020.

I wouldn't call myself deprived coz I could get it if I wanted it simply by posting a meet (that's not to say it would be a good or safe meet mind)

I just ain't been in the headspace to want sex. It almost feels to me like access to my body is the only thing in this world I have any control over, and I'm too afraid to let it go."

That’s a good way to think about it to be honest

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Ongoing; about 10+ years of two, maybe three times a year.

"I don't know, I find other things a lot more pleasurable. If someone told me I'd never have sex again, meh, I think I'd be ok."

Is it possible to learn this power?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

August 2021 was my last fab date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"August 2021 was my last fab date "

My new favourite username, I wish I’d thought of that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh it’s been an age. I’ve probably forgotten how!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 12 years

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Don't see any reason for sex deprivation unless by choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"August 2021 was my last fab date "

Awwww I've only had 1 x 30 min fab date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh it’s been an age. I’ve probably forgotten how!"

Makes 2 of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m in a long term drought

It’s been forever n a day since

Just wondering when was your last time ?

How long is your longest drought

June.

3 years.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I am on the longest drought now, the last time was 6 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m in a long term drought

It’s been forever n a day since

Just wondering when was your last time ?

How long is your longest drought

Your 8th Feb 2019 photo is making me wild

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By *azpiz1Man
over a year ago

Camberley

"It was a couple of weeks ago.

Feel for you OP x"

Very happy to help change that!

It's been a couple of months for me..

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Oh it’s been an age. I’ve probably forgotten how!"

Me too

I’m going to have to watch the discovery channel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last August I think. I get plenty of offers on here, I just don’t like most people enough to want to meet them

Last few times I’ve met up with people it’s been people I’ve met previously. A fair few years since I’ve met someone new.

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By *cottish jockMan
over a year ago

london

"I’m in a long term drought

It’s been forever n a day since

Just wondering when was your last time ?

Still in it not had any since before last summer shame to say

How long is your longest drought

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By *cottish jockMan
over a year ago

london

"6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.

I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy."

Please tell my partner gave up asking lol

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Just short of a month lol...

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Two weeks but before that it was 5 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longest I've been without since teen years was 1 and a half. I'd broken up with a gf and was sad

Since then luckily I somehow manage to do ok!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 weeks ago after a social night out and its killing me..... I need another go!

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Wednesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of hours

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By *mperfectwomanWoman
over a year ago

Near Morley

April last year.

I am back to virgin hood.

They call me Marie :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yesterday

Mine was yesterday too

She’s never gonna shag you you know "

Nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 weeks ago after a social night out and its killing me..... I need another go! "

Oooh who did you screw boo?!

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By *eastXMan
over a year ago

London

This Morning.

But you shouldn't compare, just follow your desire !

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By *cottish jockMan
over a year ago

london

"April last year.

I am back to virgin hood.

They call me Marie :-/"
same it's killing me especially over the summer when folks wore hardly any clothes and when I go to gym and see sweaty bodies doing various moves it not fun at all

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

December 2021

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 weeks ago after a social night out and its killing me..... I need another go!

Oooh who did you screw boo?!"

You, in my dreams you total stud!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last time was around 10am today.

I have gone 2 years without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 weeks ago after a social night out and its killing me..... I need another go!

Oooh who did you screw boo?!

You, in my dreams you total stud! "

Would love to have that booty smacking back into me to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 weeks ago after a social night out and its killing me..... I need another go!

Oooh who did you screw boo?!

You, in my dreams you total stud!

Would love to have that booty smacking back into me to be fair

It makes ripples everytime it bounces back n forth ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I told you, you wouldn’t believe me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I told you, you wouldn’t believe me"

Go on Rex. Tell your ol pal Red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 weeks ago after a social night out and its killing me..... I need another go!

Oooh who did you screw boo?!

You, in my dreams you total stud!

Would love to have that booty smacking back into me to be fair

It makes ripples everytime it bounces back n forth ha ha "

I love a galaxy ripple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My last time was around 10am today.

I have gone 2 years without

*raises a glass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My last time was around 10am today.

I have gone 2 years without

*raises a glass.

I have nothing to do with this by the way, I’m just happy for someone.

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By *yresMan
over a year ago

Midland town

"About 6 years, I think. It was soul-destroying. Completely eroded my self-confidence, self-worth, everything."
yes I've felt like that for years.

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

7 months..

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.

I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy.

I don't know, I find other things a lot more pleasurable. If someone told me I'd never have sex again, meh, I think I'd be ok. "

We are all different

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By *ot a hot wifeMan
over a year ago

glasgow

About 6 months by choice sometimes you need a break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About 6 years, I think. It was soul-destroying. Completely eroded my self-confidence, self-worth, everything. yes I've felt like that for years."

Ditto.

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By *untime40Man
over a year ago

Greenwich

6 months now

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"About 6 years, I think. It was soul-destroying. Completely eroded my self-confidence, self-worth, everything. yes I've felt like that for years.

Ditto. "

This was whilst being married, which felt worse. Every single day was a fresh rejection. Not only a rejection. A rejection by the person who supposedly wanted you more than anyone else in the world, so if she didn't want you...

Plus, of course, it meant no one else could have you, even if they did want you (which they wouldn't because see above), because you were married.

I've never felt so lonely in all my life as when I was never alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last time I had sex was yesterday but the longest I been without it was for 3 years

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

The whole of January! I’ve had covid

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By *am450Man
over a year ago

North Kent/Greater London

Three and a half years (roughly)

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

Not been fucked or spanked or used in months and months

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Last time was mid November. I'm fine with that.

My longest drought was five years. That bothered me a lot.

Why would it bother you so much ?"

Because I felt invisible and undesirable. Because I want sex like many people do.

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By *jay38Man
over a year ago

melton

Wait a minute ….. what is sex ?

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By *eediousMan
over a year ago

Smallville

"Yesterday"

Go on then, rub it in, you Harlot!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

About 8 hours ago.

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By *eediousMan
over a year ago

Smallville

"Thursday night.

Pretty disappointed my husband didn't wake me up lastnight when he wanted sex, because I went to bed wanting it too but I knew he was tired so let him sleep

I don't think any man would be upset to be woken up for sex.

As long we can sleep after lol"

I would. I love my sleep that much so.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Thursday night.

Pretty disappointed my husband didn't wake me up lastnight when he wanted sex, because I went to bed wanting it too but I knew he was tired so let him sleep

I don't think any man would be upset to be woken up for sex.

As long we can sleep after lol

I would. I love my sleep that much so. "

Nothing better than waking up to a blowjob

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

With a guy about three weeks ago.

With a woman about 3 months ago.

Longest drought would be about 18 months.

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Many years, soul destroying ,expensive, occasional casual sex is in no way a satisfactory replacement for a man who desires a loving and sexual relationship with his wife/partner.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Yesterday

Mine was yesterday too

She’s never gonna shag you you know

She already has

Where’s the proof?

In your verifications

Is this like peeing on your lamp post

Next you'll be rubbing your ass across the carpet.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Research says lack of sex can contribute to dementia onset!

Can't remember when I last had some haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.

I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy.

Please tell my partner gave up asking lol"

You need to have a talk with your partner and ask them why they no longer want sex and how they think it's fair on you to go without sex if you still want it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m in a long term drought

It’s been forever n a day since

Just wondering when was your last time ?

How long is your longest drought

Since (1984) when we first saw the 'Ethiopians' on TV, lol.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

My (Jack) last time was Saturday and the orgasms were so intense it was almost scary!

Alice's last time was this afternoon when she cut a shopping trip short.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

Just over 4 months, for the first time in my life though that's through my own choice

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Last time for us was around 9pm tonight

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By *ill1411Man
over a year ago

Durham

Ten years

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Last Sunday morning with one of my tenants when her heating packed up. It wasn't just the electric heaters that got things warmed up between us that day as always. Let's see what today brings when I go to check the new boiler installation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last session was Sunday it had been nearly 3 weeks

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Lol there are lots on here who have no real comprehension of true sex deprivation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try 14 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last session was Sunday it had been nearly 3 weeks "

^^^

Glad your landlord sorted the heating out anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m in a long term drought

It’s been forever n a day since

Just wondering when was your last time ?

How long is your longest drought

18 long ass months!!

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By *issminxandmrcCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

Due to my partners prostate cancer .. it’s been well over 4 years !!!

I’ve supported his total erectile situation ( as a result of the cancer removal) ..& can’t say it hasn’t been very hard to abstain from sex totally

But after over 4 years .. he’s realised that it isn’t fair to me … that I also have to not have a

So with his blessing fully … & his best wishes

I’m now back on this fab

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By *issminxandmrcCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

Due to my partners prostate cancer .. it’s been well over 4 years !!!

I’ve supported his total erectile situation ( as a result of the cancer removal) ..& can’t say it hasn’t been very hard to abstain from sex totally

But after over 4 years .. he’s realised that it isn’t fair to me … that I also have to not have a

So with his blessing fully … & his best wishes

I’m now back on this fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Due to my partners prostate cancer .. it’s been well over 4 years !!!

I’ve supported his total erectile situation ( as a result of the cancer removal) ..& can’t say it hasn’t been very hard to abstain from sex totally

But after over 4 years .. he’s realised that it isn’t fair to me … that I also have to not have a

So with his blessing fully … & his best wishes

I’m now back on this fab"

That's a nice story x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Yesterday

Mine was yesterday too

Me too. Although it was only a little bit

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By *ornyguyMan
over a year ago

Hillsborough, NI

Just over 2 years now for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time was new years eve/day

Longest drought...was probably 3 months.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Just over 2 years now for me. "

You poor Fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My longest drought was 2 years. I just didn't need sex. I was perfectly fine satisfying myself with toys.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Wednesday night, a lovely hot wife meet in my hotel room……sheer pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 months after a botched episiotomy repair following the birth of my first child. Probably the first nail in the coffin of my marriage too

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

2 days ago, handjob off her last night and sex maybe tonight or the weekend, at 55 and 23 yrs married i think we're doing ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

today 3 times

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

How many of you guys are married and your wife will not have sex with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 3 years

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP sending you hugs.

Longest for me is 3/4 months…just awful. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh, Friday I think I am not sure. My sex drive is very low at the moment so it's only a few times a month.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Too long ago but only 2 more sleeps to wait x

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

"Yesterday

Show off

Also yesterday but was tempted to wait til midnight to post so I could say the day before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Highly active, only time had to abstain was when having contracted a STI and had to take course of antibiotics to make sure cleared of symptoms and wait to get retested before resuming play. 2-3months, otherwise play most weekdays and weekends.

Yes get myself tested regularly and am on PrEP.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Sunday morning but it was a good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last time was mid November. I'm fine with that.

My longest drought was five years. That bothered me a lot.

Why would it bother you so much ?

Because I felt invisible and undesirable. Because I want sex like many people do."

I want sex too but you shouldn't feel undesirable. I look at it like this.. it's a game and I don't always get invited. It's no loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 months ago.

I’ve been known to go without for well over a year at a time. Sort of through choice.

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By *nnandElleCouple
over a year ago

Brackley

Friday night and Saturday morning with Elle, then nailed by three guys on Sunday in a 6-hour, 4-way at a sauna (yes, Elle is fully aware)

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

About 6 months ago

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