FabSwingers.com forum: Fed up with fake timewasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been doing this a number of years enjoying swinging. But lately the amount of time wasters an fakes omg... can't we start a petition that all users in the first 24hrs have to get photo verified or the account gets deleted ?... or something ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah they're everywhere....

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By *ogglesMan
over a year ago

essex and norfolk

Same here,getting fed up with it

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

"I've been doing this a number of years enjoying swinging. But lately the amount of time wasters an fakes omg... can't we start a petition that all users in the first 24hrs have to get photo verified or the account gets deleted ?... or something ?????"

I don't see how being photo verified would rectify that..

There is always going to be the dreamers & fakes..

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

Yrah and they ruined fab for us.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Are the fakes and time wasters you interact with not photo verified? If so then surely you just need to change who you talk to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lie detector more Registered lol

Honesty

And over 50 not taboo lol

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Photo veried doesn't mean much. But if you think it's important just don't interact with anyone who isn't photo veried.

Fakes are pretty easy to spot anyhow and to avoid. Time wasters also are easy enough to spot if you take time to chat a bit rather than rush to meet I found.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Is a fake timewaster different to a real timewaster?

In 6 years here I've never had a no show or been one.

I've never been asked for money or favours.

I've never been scammed.

I've never called any conversation that has fizzled out a waste of time.

If you find your fab experience is like groundhog day then surely it's time to look at the common denominator which isn't the site itself or everyone else.

Take a long hard look at how you vet those you choose to speak to.

If you keep doing the same thing over and over expecting a different outcome that's not really on anyone else.

It's an adult site not a creche.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've ever come across anyone that's a fake or a time waster.

I've been called both multiple times though.

Trouble on here is people think too much with their downstairs brain instead of applying a bit of common sense.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

So many fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"….,

If you find your fab experience is like groundhog day then surely it's time to look at the common denominator which isn't the site itself or everyone else.

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If you keep doing the same thing over and over expecting a different outcome that's not really on anyone else.

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Thanks. It Saves me typing it !!

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

"I don't think I've ever come across anyone that's a fake or a time waster.

I've been called both multiple times though.

Trouble on here is people think too much with their downstairs brain instead of applying a bit of common sense. "

Same. Sometimes the more I get to know someone, the less I want to meet them. And apparently then I'm a time waster...

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"Is a fake timewaster different to a real timewaster?

In 6 years here I've never had a no show or been one.

I've never been asked for money or favours.

I've never been scammed.

I've never called any conversation that has fizzled out a waste of time.

If you find your fab experience is like groundhog day then surely it's time to look at the common denominator which isn't the site itself or everyone else.

Take a long hard look at how you vet those you choose to speak to.

If you keep doing the same thing over and over expecting a different outcome that's not really on anyone else.

It's an adult site not a creche."

(Stands up and applauds every single word.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely totally and utterly agree!!

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

A lot of coming and going on here and not sexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think I've ever come across anyone that's a fake or a time waster.

I've been called both multiple times though.

Trouble on here is people think too much with their downstairs brain instead of applying a bit of common sense.

Same. Sometimes the more I get to know someone, the less I want to meet them. And apparently then I'm a time waster..."

Yep! Which is why I hardly ever get into conversations anymore.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I don't think I've ever come across anyone that's a fake or a time waster.

I've been called both multiple times though.

Trouble on here is people think too much with their downstairs brain instead of applying a bit of common sense. "

The only time I've been called a timewaster directly was when a couple contacted me out of the blue and wanted me to meet them at a club the following night.

When I explained that would involve a 10 hour round trip on a Sunday night to a club that only holds ticketed events and doesn't allow walk-ins apparently I was then wasting their time?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I think you must be chatting to the wrong people. They are easy to spot

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By *ee_78Woman
over a year ago

IT changes

"I don't think I've ever come across anyone that's a fake or a time waster.

I've been called both multiple times though.

Trouble on here is people think too much with their downstairs brain instead of applying a bit of common sense. "

I agree….I’ve been called fake in last month because after very limited chat:

1. I’m not meeting you right now.

2. I won’t send a random guy my phone number

3. Don’t send face pic after 2 msgs

4. Won’t share pics of down there

Sorry but yes I will stop chatting as these all make me uncomfortable.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Is a fake timewaster different to a real timewaster?

In 6 years here I've never had a no show or been one.

I've never been asked for money or favours.

I've never been scammed.

I've never called any conversation that has fizzled out a waste of time.

If you find your fab experience is like groundhog day then surely it's time to look at the common denominator which isn't the site itself or everyone else.

Take a long hard look at how you vet those you choose to speak to.

If you keep doing the same thing over and over expecting a different outcome that's not really on anyone else.

It's an adult site not a creche."

Don't think it needs to be added but why not?

This should apply across the board and isn't just a rule of thumb for single men.

Lots of whinging by women and couples who seem incapable of using the tools the site offers and prefer to blame everyone else for their negative experiences.

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

We wouldn't sign that petition, we'd just use our filters.

Winston

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

So easy to spot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think I've ever come across anyone that's a fake or a time waster.

I've been called both multiple times though.

Trouble on here is people think too much with their downstairs brain instead of applying a bit of common sense.

Same. Sometimes the more I get to know someone, the less I want to meet them. And apparently then I'm a time waster...

Yep! Which is why I hardly ever get into conversations anymore. "

…………*sighs……..

Can you just get in bed with me then?…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just filter more effectively?

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

What's the most common tendencies in fake profiles you guys tend to find ?

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"Just filter more effectively? "

Too simple. It'll never catch on.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If swinging was easy everyone would be doing it

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I block newbies for this reason, tweak your filters to help you find more people that you want.

However...time wasters you have no protection from, apart from trusting your gut. People can and will string you along without any intentions to meet you. I'm quite brutal now, after experiencing it twice after a lengthy period of time, and if we are not moving forward at the same time then, then into friendzone they will go.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Constantly get messages from men saying I'd love to see my wife suck or fuck your big cock.. why isn't she on here then as a couple profile .. pointless

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I block newbies for this reason, tweak your filters to help you find more people that you want.

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it just does yr nut in. Why start a conversation. If you have no intention and just want to f****** screw with someone's head

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Just sad lonely time wasters

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Lanson

The thread title makes me laugh

"Fed up with fake timewasters"

So are you saying the time wasters aren't real!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OrdinaryFemale is fake.

Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OrdinaryFemale is fake.

Just saying."

That's not what your penis said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OrdinaryFemale is fake.

Just saying.

That's not what your penis said. "

Damn you woman

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Use your filters it’s not difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate those fake time wasters too, I much prefer the real ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OrdinaryFemale is fake.

Just saying.

That's not what your penis said. "

I pm u. Ordinaryfemale. Yr not fake.. yr amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Constantly get messages from men saying I'd love to see my wife suck or fuck your big cock.. why isn't she on here then as a couple profile .. pointless "

They are just dreamers and fantasists. If you are interested in couples genuinely then just engage with couples accounts that have verifications from various other genuine users (i.e not just a small closed loop of accounts set up to verify each other). If the veris mention or come from real life events such such as club event or a social event or similar even better). Same applies to any type of account single males, females, couples, TV TS etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe apply a joining fee as opposed becoming a site supporter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OrdinaryFemale is fake.

Just saying.

That's not what your penis said.

I pm u. Ordinaryfemale. Yr not fake.. yr amazing "

Grab your coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would a photo verification prove? It's not a babysitting service.

Why are you wasting people's time?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Honestly I think. And everybody is entitled to their opinion..

To keep it safe. Or as safe as anything is.

Must be a face pic as verification and not body as an option.

Should have the date on the verification pic. Maybe ??

Should have to get verified in the first 24-hours or your account is deleted.

And possibly pay £5 for a month or a special deal.. with lovehoney. Everyone loves a special deal for joining something..

Keep the site more for people that want to have the right kind of fun which is why we join this site..

My opinion go mental.. loving the forum posts.. agree with most of u that said with changing the settings and filters.. it's more with the people that want to waste your time.. when something as simple as sex shouldn't be a drama.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

" when something as simple as sex shouldn't be a drama.

..............................

There's nothing simple about sex, especially in this lifestyle.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

You will still get time wasters even if they pay.

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By *ixie BeanMan
over a year ago

Wallasey

Fake timewasters are annoying

I much prefer those real timewasters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You will still get time wasters even if they pay. "
yes. But i will feel better. That they have wasted money. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OrdinaryFemale is fake.

Just saying."

Proof of the pudding will be in the eating

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"You will still get time wasters even if they pay. yes. But i will feel better. That they have wasted money. Lol. "

Clubs are best these days no fakes there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, if you keep on getting the same thing happening, maybe it's your selection process.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Honestly I think. And everybody is entitled to their opinion..

To keep it safe. Or as safe as anything is.

Must be a face pic as verification and not body as an option.

Should have the date on the verification pic. Maybe ??

Should have to get verified in the first 24-hours or your account is deleted.

And possibly pay £5 for a month or a special deal.. with lovehoney. Everyone loves a special deal for joining something..

Keep the site more for people that want to have the right kind of fun which is why we join this site..

Except your definition of the right kind of fun could be completely different to everyone elses. Not everyone is here for the same thing.

I've no interest in lovehoney.

I've no interest in having to pay monthly.

I've no interest in having to give a facepic.

I've no interest in changing the site just to suit me.

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By *g0359Man
over a year ago

Widnes

Yeah fed up of it myself too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block newbies for this reason, tweak your filters to help you find more people that you want.

it just does yr nut in. Why start a conversation. If you have no intention and just want to f****** screw with someone's head"

So people aren't allowed to change their mind about meeting you?

If someone chats for a while they HAVE to fuck?

What actually happened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block newbies for this reason, tweak your filters to help you find more people that you want.

it just does yr nut in. Why start a conversation. If you have no intention and just want to f****** screw with someone's head"

This is why a lot of messsges go unresolved to. The idea that someone thinks there is a agreement to meet just from exchanging a few messages. It doesn’t work like that.

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

local

I think it’s quite sad that you can’t engage in a conversation with some people even if you don’t want to fuck them without being called a timewaster . Guess there’s some very anti social people about

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Have you thought that maybe you’re part of the problem OP going after the ‘fresh meat’ all of the time……….

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"I think it’s quite sad that you can’t engage in a conversation with some people even if you don’t want to fuck them without being called a timewaster . Guess there’s some very anti social people about "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame, but let’s all focus on the good people here x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you thought that maybe you’re part of the problem OP going after the ‘fresh meat’ all of the time………."
fresh meat. On this site.. where do i need to look for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its when you see the same username pop up all the time as a new account , what's the point ? A silhouette as a picture, no profile description then a few days later new account same username same headline , which is usually something like ...I need fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a fake timewaster different to a real timewaster?

In 6 years here I've never had a no show or been one.

I've never been asked for money or favours.

I've never been scammed.

I've never called any conversation that has fizzled out a waste of time.

If you find your fab experience is like groundhog day then surely it's time to look at the common denominator which isn't the site itself or everyone else.

Take a long hard look at how you vet those you choose to speak to.

If you keep doing the same thing over and over expecting a different outcome that's not really on anyone else.

It's an adult site not a creche."

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Honestly I think. And everybody is entitled to their opinion..

To keep it safe. Or as safe as anything is.

Must be a face pic as verification and not body as an option.

Should have the date on the verification pic. Maybe ??

Should have to get verified in the first 24-hours or your account is deleted.

And possibly pay £5 for a month or a special deal.. with lovehoney. Everyone loves a special deal for joining something..

Keep the site more for people that want to have the right kind of fun which is why we join this site..

Sex for most people isn't simple. Even on a swinging site you have to be compatible with the the person you are meeting.

I am no fake, I've had meets with plenty of men. All of which I have chatted with for quite a while before meeting.

That chatting is done on here, I won't move to other apps to chat to someone. (Apparently to some that makes me fake).

I also won't meet without getting to know someone first and I don't mean 3 or 4 messages. I mean actually finding out if we click.

To some again wanting to chat makes me a timewaster.

At the end of the day I do this in a way I feel comfortable if that doesn't suit you I'm sorry but I simply don't do things your way.

Just because this is a site where people are looking for sex doesn't mean it's basic or simple and the fact you think it is would actually a big red flag to a lot of people.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Don't talk to unverified people, you're wasting your own time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly I think. And everybody is entitled to their opinion..

To keep it safe. Or as safe as anything is.

Must be a face pic as verification and not body as an option.

Should have the date on the verification pic. Maybe ??

Should have to get verified in the first 24-hours or your account is deleted.

And possibly pay £5 for a month or a special deal.. with lovehoney. Everyone loves a special deal for joining something..

Keep the site more for people that want to have the right kind of fun which is why we join this site..

Sex for most people isn't simple. Even on a swinging site you have to be compatible with the the person you are meeting.

I am no fake, I've had meets with plenty of men. All of which I have chatted with for quite a while before meeting.

That chatting is done on here, I won't move to other apps to chat to someone. (Apparently to some that makes me fake).

I also won't meet without getting to know someone first and I don't mean 3 or 4 messages. I mean actually finding out if we click.

To some again wanting to chat makes me a timewaster.

At the end of the day I do this in a way I feel comfortable if that doesn't suit you I'm sorry but I simply don't do things your way.

Just because this is a site where people are looking for sex doesn't mean it's basic or simple and the fact you think it is would actually a big red flag to a lot of people. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly I think. And everybody is entitled to their opinion..

To keep it safe. Or as safe as anything is.

Must be a face pic as verification and not body as an option.

Should have the date on the verification pic. Maybe ??

Should have to get verified in the first 24-hours or your account is deleted.

And possibly pay £5 for a month or a special deal.. with lovehoney. Everyone loves a special deal for joining something..

Keep the site more for people that want to have the right kind of fun which is why we join this site..

Sex for most people isn't simple. Even on a swinging site you have to be compatible with the the person you are meeting.

I am no fake, I've had meets with plenty of men. All of which I have chatted with for quite a while before meeting.

That chatting is done on here, I won't move to other apps to chat to someone. (Apparently to some that makes me fake).

I also won't meet without getting to know someone first and I don't mean 3 or 4 messages. I mean actually finding out if we click.

To some again wanting to chat makes me a timewaster.

At the end of the day I do this in a way I feel comfortable if that doesn't suit you I'm sorry but I simply don't do things your way.

Just because this is a site where people are looking for sex doesn't mean it's basic or simple and the fact you think it is would actually a big red flag to a lot of people. "

Well said

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

local

Don't talk to unverified people, you're wasting your own time "

To be fair looking at his profile if he messaged us we’d consider him a Time waster

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

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By *moothcut84Man
over a year ago

Warrington

Really annoying and frustrating and ruins it for genuine people

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Honestly I think. And everybody is entitled to their opinion..

To keep it safe. Or as safe as anything is.

Must be a face pic as verification and not body as an option.

Should have the date on the verification pic. Maybe ??

Should have to get verified in the first 24-hours or your account is deleted.

And possibly pay £5 for a month or a special deal.. with lovehoney. Everyone loves a special deal for joining something..

Keep the site more for people that want to have the right kind of fun which is why we join this site..

Sex for most people isn't simple. Even on a swinging site you have to be compatible with the the person you are meeting.

I am no fake, I've had meets with plenty of men. All of which I have chatted with for quite a while before meeting.

That chatting is done on here, I won't move to other apps to chat to someone. (Apparently to some that makes me fake).

I also won't meet without getting to know someone first and I don't mean 3 or 4 messages. I mean actually finding out if we click.

To some again wanting to chat makes me a timewaster.

At the end of the day I do this in a way I feel comfortable if that doesn't suit you I'm sorry but I simply don't do things your way.

Just because this is a site where people are looking for sex doesn't mean it's basic or simple and the fact you think it is would actually a big red flag to a lot of people. "

and I have also changed my mind about meeting some men that I've chatted to because of things they have said while.It's a good way to spot red flags of course then I've been called a time waster because how dare I chat for a while then not give them sex .The cheek of me to do that

It's also why now when I'm not doing new meets I don't do chats with anyone new because even when you tell people from the very start you aren't meeting at the moment you chat for a handful of messages and they then expect you to meet them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really annoying and frustrating and ruins it for genuine people "

Can you give an example of what you class as fake/time wasters? Just curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really annoying and frustrating and ruins it for genuine people "

I don’t believe that’s wholly true.

Time wasters and fakes haven’t ruined anything for me. They’ve not been a barrier to my successfully meeting people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really annoying and frustrating and ruins it for genuine people "

It really doesn't.

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By *resh8585Man
over a year ago

Poulton

Photo verified and site supporter only messages, or they jump to the top of your messages. I'm sure many genuine people get lost in the mountains of messages.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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I’m not photo verified….am I a ‘fake’ time waster….I also don’t reply to blank silhouettes or profiles that are one jumble of words so I guess I should be labelled doubly for that too

Good luck OP, lots of good advice on this thread. Yes it’s frustrating when you actually get stood up but timewasters aren’t those who don’t reply to messages or don’t want to fuck you after replying to you. You can tell most of the time quite easily whos just looking for fantasy/photo collecting so you can avoid them. There’s also a filter to stop brand new profiles from messaging you that you may find useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really annoying and frustrating and ruins it for genuine people

It really doesn't."

Not paying any attention to what you say, ya big faker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the most common tendencies in fake profiles you guys tend to find ? "

New profile

No pictures or pictures too good to be true.

No verifications.

Fill in later or very short bios.

Zero effort in first message or a cut and paste spam.

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By *resh8585Man
over a year ago

Poulton

I think you're verified by meets though right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block newbies for this reason, tweak your filters to help you find more people that you want.

it just does yr nut in. Why start a conversation. If you have no intention and just want to f****** screw with someone's head"

Just because I start a conversation with someone it doesn't automatically mean I want to have sex with them...?

I wouldn't even know that until I'd spent time in their company.

I might change my mind at any point in time, and the reality is most people I don't want to have sex with...I might have to look at 100 or more profiles, have even more false starts before finding someone I'm interested in pursuing something with

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Really annoying and frustrating and ruins it for genuine people

It really doesn't."
oh yes it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people think that just looking at their profile means the person wants to have sex with them..........

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Some people think that just looking at their profile means the person wants to have sex with them.........."

Which is exactly why I have my settings so I don't show on who looked at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I wink someone and they don't respond within 60mins (Golden hour), then I banish them to the block list.

Time wasting heathens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just thinking (it does happen now and again), if someone is a 'fake" timewaster, does that infact mean they are genuine?

They are pretending to be a timewaster...

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

"Some people think that just looking at their profile means the person wants to have sex with them..........

Which is exactly why I have my settings so I don't show on who looked at me. "

Me too...

Though doesn't stop some..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had loads of them fake time wasting ball bags…. I’m all for naming and shaming as they cost genuine people time and money

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

Never felt the need to photo verify, it's never affected our Fab experience and we've plenty of verified meets that show that it means little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had loads of them fake time wasting ball bags…. I’m all for naming and shaming as they cost genuine people time and money

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

"Some people think that just looking at their profile means the person wants to have sex with them.........."

Exactly

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

The only person who stood me up and wasted my time was well verified .

That's what I class as a time waster,arranging to meet with no intention of turning up.

Just don't chat to unverified profiles ,but that doesn't guarantee they'd turn up just because they have a photo showing they're a woman/couple etc.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

who are these time wasters ?? ive not had one for years dont get me wrong i know they are here but they are so easy to work out that they just dont affect me ...block button is your best friend ..

problem for guys is ...guys ..with fake women/couples accounts .. fancy that guys ruining it for guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"who are these time wasters ?? ive not had one for years dont get me wrong i know they are here but they are so easy to work out that they just dont affect me ...block button is your best friend ..

problem for guys is ...guys ..with fake women/couples accounts .. fancy that guys ruining it for guys"

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

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By *he force is strongeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere

We have had a few no shows and they had verifications,maybe they got a better offer and just did not want to tell us.

Just because someone is verified doesn't mean they will show up,that is the main reason we like going to clubs,everyone there is there for the same reason

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Have you thought that maybe you’re part of the problem OP going after the ‘fresh meat’ all of the time………. fresh meat. On this site.. where do i need to look for that "

The same place where you’re finding all these fakes that have joined within 24hrs. You know, the fresh meat section

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