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"I would LOVE to do jury service. I’ve only ever met men who’ve been drafted in to do it, which is odd. I know a guy who’s done it twice!?" I've done it twice, called for a third time but I was excused due to ill health. Really enjoyed it. Interesting.... Winston | |||
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"Do you feel guilty about it?" Not guilty. Just uneasy. | |||
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"can you refuse.." I don’t think so. Unless I can prove I’m a nut job. | |||
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"I would LOVE to do jury service. I’ve only ever met men who’ve been drafted in to do it, which is odd. I know a guy who’s done it twice!? I've done it twice, called for a third time but I was excused due to ill health. Really enjoyed it. Interesting.... Winston But it might be something disgusting like abuse of a child. I have 3 children and the fact that someone is accused of it makes me feel sick. Or animal cruelty. All nasty stuff. " But look at it another way,if that was the case you could help put the person responsible behind bars. | |||
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"can you refuse.." No but there are some exemptions so maybe look up and see if any apply. Sometimes a real hardship can be applied and make them relieve you of the duty. But you can be recalled to do it at any time, it’s not a never it’s just a postponed issue. My son had a holiday booked so they changed his for a couple weeks later but his employer kicked off because he had just had 3 weeks off for the holiday so they gave him temp exemption as he was ‘indispensable’ to go at that time. I’ve never been called and would love to do it. | |||
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"I would LOVE to do jury service. I’ve only ever met men who’ve been drafted in to do it, which is odd. I know a guy who’s done it twice!?" Done it twice, once at Croydon on an alleged r#pe case and at Guildford in a fraud case.. The former we had 7 women and the latter it was an even split.. | |||
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"Just been pinged to do it. Not looking forward to it to be honest. " I'd love to do it | |||
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"Just been pinged to do it. Not looking forward to it to be honest. " • Once you've done it you will NEVER drink coffee ever again (or tea). | |||
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"Just been pinged to do it. Not looking forward to it to be honest. " any doubt in your mind..... Innocent | |||
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"Just been pinged to do it. Not looking forward to it to be honest. " Can be a quick thing or a lingerie drawn out process. Just loom at it as your one direct opportunity to help deliver justice one way or the other. Just follow thr facts | |||
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"I've been pinged for it 3 times. Only once did I actually have to go to court. When I got there I was there for half an hour and got told to go home because I wasn't chosen for the actual jury." Doesn’t that seem strange? That some people get pinged 3 times, and some people never at all? | |||
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"I would LOVE to do jury service. I’ve only ever met men who’ve been drafted in to do it, which is odd. I know a guy who’s done it twice!? I've done it twice, called for a third time but I was excused due to ill health. Really enjoyed it. Interesting.... Winston But it might be something disgusting like abuse of a child. I have 3 children and the fact that someone is accused of it makes me feel sick. Or animal cruelty. All nasty stuff. " Indeed. A work colleague ended up on a very unpleasant case and it really traumatized him. He can't tell us anything about it, other than it was a murder case, but knowing the day his service ended, it wasn't hard to guess from local media reports. That whole jury is now exempt for life from future service, such is what they had to deal with. | |||
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"I've been pinged for it 3 times. Only once did I actually have to go to court. When I got there I was there for half an hour and got told to go home because I wasn't chosen for the actual jury. Doesn’t that seem strange? That some people get pinged 3 times, and some people never at all?" Neither of us has ever been called up. | |||
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"No smoke without fire. Guilty. Unlucky if I’m on your jury. " Have to say if that's your true mindset then I hope you never get called.. | |||
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"No smoke without fire. Guilty. Unlucky if I’m on your jury. Have to say if that's your true mindset then I hope you never get called.." I would tell the judge the same thing and so be dismissed. | |||
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"No smoke without fire. Guilty. Unlucky if I’m on your jury. Have to say if that's your true mindset then I hope you never get called.. I would tell the judge the same thing and so be dismissed. " Good.. | |||
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"Just been pinged to do it. Not looking forward to it to be honest. " It’s shit. Wouldn’t wish it on anyone. I’ve not been called yet but worked on so many trials J x | |||
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"Do you feel guilty about it?" This post was wasted..... Winston | |||
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"I would LOVE to do jury service. I’ve only ever met men who’ve been drafted in to do it, which is odd. I know a guy who’s done it twice!?" Woman here. Got asked! Sadly had to get excused as had a newborn who was exclusively breastfed. Bad timing. | |||
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"I would LOVE to do jury service. I’ve only ever met men who’ve been drafted in to do it, which is odd. I know a guy who’s done it twice!?" No you wouldn't because you don't know what type of case you'd be asked to be on the jury off , don't ever wish to be inside the doors of a court house , it's not a nice place to be on a jury , you could be doing lots of other things rather than be on a jury . | |||
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"Awful experience, cases were mixed but bad enough, but the worst part was the other jurors who considered the cases on personal experience and own opinions rather than any evidence. Totally lost all faith in the judicial system, sad experience " Indeed, are there any controls over that sort of thing, or is it just a case of other jurors trying to guide those making emotional choices etc? I've often wondered how on earth a fair decision can be made in all sorts of cases. | |||
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"Awful experience, cases were mixed but bad enough, but the worst part was the other jurors who considered the cases on personal experience and own opinions rather than any evidence. Totally lost all faith in the judicial system, sad experience Indeed, are there any controls over that sort of thing, or is it just a case of other jurors trying to guide those making emotional choices etc? I've often wondered how on earth a fair decision can be made in all sorts of cases. " No influence at all, basically all the jury alone in a room together until a decision is made. Some swaying to the majority to get home early or letting emotions decide above evidence, quite shocking really...... | |||
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"I would love to do it! How are names chosen?? How come some people do it multiple times " I believe they pick NI numbers at random and some come out (randomly) more than once per others are never randomly selected. | |||
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"Awful experience, cases were mixed but bad enough, but the worst part was the other jurors who considered the cases on personal experience and own opinions rather than any evidence. Totally lost all faith in the judicial system, sad experience Indeed, are there any controls over that sort of thing, or is it just a case of other jurors trying to guide those making emotional choices etc? I've often wondered how on earth a fair decision can be made in all sorts of cases. No influence at all, basically all the jury alone in a room together until a decision is made. Some swaying to the majority to get home early or letting emotions decide above evidence, quite shocking really...... " Yes, I suppose not surprising in many ways, but you'd hope that people would take it seriously and examine the facts. The past 3yrs has, however, reinforced to me that a lot of people aren't that fussed with facts at all | |||
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"Just been pinged to do it. Not looking forward to it to be honest. " Have to be honest I've never done jury service and would prefer not to ever have to. My dad did years ago, one was quite simple but the other was a traumatic sexual violence case. I know my dad found it hard but also that it was important to make a decision based on facts and evidence. Sadly, not everyone on a jury is able to do that. | |||
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"Awful experience, cases were mixed but bad enough, but the worst part was the other jurors who considered the cases on personal experience and own opinions rather than any evidence. Totally lost all faith in the judicial system, sad experience Indeed, are there any controls over that sort of thing, or is it just a case of other jurors trying to guide those making emotional choices etc? I've often wondered how on earth a fair decision can be made in all sorts of cases. No influence at all, basically all the jury alone in a room together until a decision is made. Some swaying to the majority to get home early or letting emotions decide above evidence, quite shocking really...... Yes, I suppose not surprising in many ways, but you'd hope that people would take it seriously and examine the facts. The past 3yrs has, however, reinforced to me that a lot of people aren't that fussed with facts at all " | |||
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"I would love to do it! How are names chosen?? How come some people do it multiple times I believe they pick NI numbers at random and some come out (randomly) more than once per others are never randomly selected. " Oh i might go and investigate the odds! | |||
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"I would LOVE to do jury service. I’ve only ever met men who’ve been drafted in to do it, which is odd. I know a guy who’s done it twice!? No you wouldn't because you don't know what type of case you'd be asked to be on the jury off , don't ever wish to be inside the doors of a court house , it's not a nice place to be on a jury , you could be doing lots of other things rather than be on a jury ." I’m interested in criminology. I do a lot of my own research on cases, including court footage. So yes, I would be very interested in attending as a member of the jury, thanks. | |||
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"I would absolutely hate it and would find any reason I could to get out of doing it. In no way would I want the responsibility of finding someone guilty or not guilty. " me to not interested, not that they would pick me | |||
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"I would LOVE to do jury service. I’ve only ever met men who’ve been drafted in to do it, which is odd. I know a guy who’s done it twice!? No you wouldn't because you don't know what type of case you'd be asked to be on the jury off , don't ever wish to be inside the doors of a court house , it's not a nice place to be on a jury , you could be doing lots of other things rather than be on a jury ." Curious to know why you feel qualified to tell people what they would like to do? I have spent the last 20 years experiencing courtrooms and, whilst they are mostly stuffy, boring places absolutely buried in bureaucracy, they can also be fascinating. Not least for those with an interest in the case or subject. Yes, there are some traumatic cases we wouldn’t wish people experience. And, yes, some cases involve the dregs of society. But put aside the televisual dramatics and most cases are routine criminality (which isn’t to belittle anyone’s experience as a victim). For those interested but unaware, all criminal courts have public galleries and you are perfectly at liberty to spend all day watching any case. | |||
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"I was excited when I was called up. Sadly I got stuck on a trading standards case for 3 1/2 weeks. It was incredibly boring and the court room was freezing! Most of the jurors did try to make their decision based on the evidence, but 2 female jurors were reluctant to convict because the defendant “had a nice smile”. Fortunately they also bowed to the majority. It was a fascinating insight into how messed up the legal system is. " I used to collate evidence for Trading Standards prosecutions & had to sit behind Barristers taking notes…. It was mainly boring | |||
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"I would absolutely hate it and would find any reason I could to get out of doing it. In no way would I want the responsibility of finding someone guilty or not guilty. " Can relate to that having done it, it's a daunting thought that the person in the docks future is at the time down to how 12 strangers interpret the evidence.. I still think it's a better system than other countries have despite not being perfect and mistakes being made, certainly preferable to a judge only which some Tories in government were saying is quicker as it's cheaper .. | |||
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"I would absolutely hate it and would find any reason I could to get out of doing it. In no way would I want the responsibility of finding someone guilty or not guilty. Can relate to that having done it, it's a daunting thought that the person in the docks future is at the time down to how 12 strangers interpret the evidence.. I still think it's a better system than other countries have despite not being perfect and mistakes being made, certainly preferable to a judge only which some Tories in government were saying is quicker as it's cheaper .." A better system than others but still not great. I know of an innocent person who was sent down, I don't want to ever be part of that sort of injustice. Some people sit in jury service who don't have the brain cells to string a sentence together, let alone look at evidence and make life changing decisions. It's scary. | |||
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"”I would LOVE to do jury service. ……..” No you wouldn't because you don't know what type of case you'd be asked to be on the jury off , don't ever wish to be inside the doors of a court house , it's not a nice place to be on a jury , you could be doing lots of other things rather than be on a jury ." WTF!!! I get that YOU don’t want to do it, but why do you think the other poster shouldn’t? First, even though the general public often seem disinterested in the process, it nevertheless remains an important civic duty. It’s important. I doubt anybody actually enjoys donating blood or bone marrow, but many do because it’s important. The jury is a very flawed process, as you can see by the many comments above, but it’s better than nothing. Secondly, not all cases will be traumatising or boring. Some will be interesting. Look how many Netflix shows there are these days that go into detail about murders. Third, some people actually cope with the trauma well. People volunteer to become police officers, fire fighters, paramedics, mortuary attendants or undertakers. Me personally, I’d rather do jury service ten times than watch the Football World Cup. (Ps I voluntarily undertook more than one of those roles above). Gbat | |||
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"I would absolutely hate it and would find any reason I could to get out of doing it. In no way would I want the responsibility of finding someone guilty or not guilty. Can relate to that having done it, it's a daunting thought that the person in the docks future is at the time down to how 12 strangers interpret the evidence.. I still think it's a better system than other countries have despite not being perfect and mistakes being made, certainly preferable to a judge only which some Tories in government were saying is quicker as it's cheaper .. A better system than others but still not great. I know of an innocent person who was sent down, I don't want to ever be part of that sort of injustice. Some people sit in jury service who don't have the brain cells to string a sentence together, let alone look at evidence and make life changing decisions. It's scary." Agree that there's injustice within and that's beyond wrong and can see how that would be something to not want to a potential part of.. | |||
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"I would LOVE to do jury service. I’ve only ever met men who’ve been drafted in to do it, which is odd. I know a guy who’s done it twice!?" Only reason I register to vote (joke) but always hope to be called! | |||
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"Done it a few times myself.. oh wait on the jury no never been on that side.... possibly on the side as someone wonderfuly labelled the dregs of society side " The actual statement was *Some cases involve the dregs of society* Not *all people in court cases involve the dregs of society* There’s a difference. | |||
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"Ah potatoe potato your honour " Some people see what they want to see | |||
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"Done it a few times myself.. oh wait on the jury no never been on that side.... possibly on the side as someone wonderfuly labelled the dregs of society side The actual statement was *Some cases involve the dregs of society* Not *all people in court cases involve the dregs of society* There’s a difference." Beat me to it!! | |||
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