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By *lack4WhiteFem OP   Man
over a year ago

Closer 2 U

Bizarre seeing profiles with infos I can't work out. So if you can help explain or add to it, Knock yourself out.

Examples:

Cannot Accommodate and Cannot Travel!

Or profiles with no pics or verifications asking for photos with 1St message!

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

Cannot accommodate - not bringing anyone to their home

Cannot travel - like to meet local and are unable to travel further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot accommodate - not bringing anyone to their home

Cannot travel - like to meet local and are unable to travel further"

Exactly

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Some people take travel to mean long-distance. Others take it to mean ‘meet at your place’.

Best just to talk with people and see what they mean, rather than make assumptions.

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Cannot accommodate - not bringing anyone to their home

Cannot travel - like to meet local and are unable to travel further"

This.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

For me its more the single profile complete woth photos of them with people, or the “safe sex only” crowd posting BB content.

No I don’t care if its with your FB or partner!

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

It's difficult. Can accommodate doesn't always mean at your home. You can accommodate at a hotel. I think if they are clear on their bio, it's easier to determine the meaning behind it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not meeting, only meeting locally, here to cam, only meeting in clubs or dogging.

Anyone can ask for anything they want. Whether you think it's worth giving to them is another matter.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"Not meeting, only meeting locally, here to cam, only meeting in clubs or dogging.

Anyone can ask for anything they want. Whether you think it's worth giving to them is another matter."

Exactly this.

If someone says they can’t accommodate or travel there are many reasons behind it.

Travel can typically be taken to mean a car journey, but they could use buses/trains/walking/short taxi journeys.

It could mean they’re only here to meet in clubs, chat in the forums or on cam, not meeting anyone new, dogging etc etc.

Not displaying pictures and information on their profile is their prerogative. They are equally entitled to ask for all that on a first message.

Whether you want to engage with that person is entirely up to you. If you aren’t interested, scroll past!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Fab should ideally have more chpices for meeting options. Clubs, hotels, etc.

I avoid those who say they don't travel. They may have meant not long distances but I'm looking for people who leave their place.

Expanding Fab choices and letting users search on everything that is input, would make things much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"In "

Oo a queue for something - joining

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Cannot accommodate - not bringing anyone to their home

Cannot travel - like to meet local and are unable to travel further"

This applies to me I do explain that. That's what hotels are for

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Well we don't travel but will accomodate once we know people but as already posted the ones demanding face pics ?? yet....and even funnier are the ones demanding/asking for cock pics ?? when 90% of updates all feature a cock ( in our area) ??xxx

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Not really any different to me saying I can travel and accommodate except travelling means a max of an hour and accommodating will always been in an hotel.

However no-one really needs that additional info if we haven't already met for a social and may be discussing taking it further. Up to that point it's irrelevant.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Bizarre seeing profiles with infos I can't work out. So if you can help explain or add to it, Knock yourself out.

Examples:

Cannot Accommodate and Cannot Travel!

Or profiles with no pics or verifications asking for photos with 1St message!

...

"

No answer to the question....

But a question for you OP. Would you really bother spending more than 2 seconds looking at a profile with no photos and no veris, let alone consider messaging one?

Really? With no idea what they look like, no idea if the actually exist and the worry of where any potential meet could actually take place?

Or....and bear with me on this wild and crazy idea!! Would you just move on to a profile with pretty pics that could either travel or accom, thus reducing any dilemma as to that question?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the profiles with very revealing photos where they state ‘if you send dick pics, I will block!’ … well, you’ve shown me yours so in theory, I’m obliged to show you mine!!

But, each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones with no photos, no effort in the bio, then they’re in the forums after 2 weeks whining they not getting any meets.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Cannot accommodate - not bringing anyone to their home

Cannot travel - like to meet local and are unable to travel further"

Hardly rocket science is it?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I don't travel or accommodate and I explain in my status, and in my profile that I only meet at clubs.

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By *hegirlwiththepeachtattooWoman
over a year ago

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Or profiles with no pics or verifications asking for photos with 1St message!

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I don’t understand people who moan about this. You’re under no obligation to contact anyone. If you don’t like what they’re asking for, don’t contact them?

I don’t have any face pics public on mine, I won’t respond to messages without face pics but i will respond with mine if I’m chatting with someone who’s sent one. I’m not insisting that anyone else has public face pics, there’s a huge difference between displaying them publicly and sending them privately. If you don’t like what someone asks for, just leave them alone and find someone you do like

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

The one I find most confusing is:

Looking for: Couples, Females

Go to message them from our couples profile

"Sorry, the user has blocked everyone of your sex"

Pardon? :-S

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames


"Cannot accommodate - not bringing anyone to their home

Cannot travel - like to meet local and are unable to travel further"

This!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The one I find most confusing is:

Looking for: Couples, Females

Go to message them from our couples profile

"Sorry, the user has blocked everyone of your sex"

Pardon? :-S "

I'm looking to meet men, couples, and women, as a general rule.

However, as I pretty much don't meet at the moment, I don't want the Fabmin of a normal single female inbox. (Most of the time it's a pain in the arse, it's worse when it's a guaranteed to be fruitless pain in the arse)

So I block them from messaging me, and, where appropriate, message them myself.

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale


"The one I find most confusing is:

Looking for: Couples, Females

Go to message them from our couples profile

"Sorry, the user has blocked everyone of your sex"

Pardon? :-S

I'm looking to meet men, couples, and women, as a general rule.

However, as I pretty much don't meet at the moment, I don't want the Fabmin of a normal single female inbox. (Most of the time it's a pain in the arse, it's worse when it's a guaranteed to be fruitless pain in the arse)

So I block them from messaging me, and, where appropriate, message them myself."

That all makes logical sense, I'm just more confused with how it works from a site point of view. From memory when I delved into the settings I don't recall a way to actually block an entire class of people other than by removing them from what is being looked for.

Clearly it must exist, but I didn't find it :-S

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By *lack4WhiteFem OP   Man
over a year ago

Closer 2 U

Actually , I do look at such if they message me. Profiles could be new or owner very discreet and willing to disclose once chatting is underway .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one I find most confusing is:

Looking for: Couples, Females

Go to message them from our couples profile

"Sorry, the user has blocked everyone of your sex"

Pardon? :-S

I'm looking to meet men, couples, and women, as a general rule.

However, as I pretty much don't meet at the moment, I don't want the Fabmin of a normal single female inbox. (Most of the time it's a pain in the arse, it's worse when it's a guaranteed to be fruitless pain in the arse)

So I block them from messaging me, and, where appropriate, message them myself.

That all makes logical sense, I'm just more confused with how it works from a site point of view. From memory when I delved into the settings I don't recall a way to actually block an entire class of people other than by removing them from what is being looked for.

Clearly it must exist, but I didn't find it :-S "

Use the mail filters. You can turn them off for each type

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By *lack4WhiteFem OP   Man
over a year ago

Closer 2 U

Well, cheers for the observations . Bottom line is profiles or Fabs should be more specific for the travelling and accomodation.

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By *lack4WhiteFem OP   Man
over a year ago

Closer 2 U

Totally agree on that point!!

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By *lack4WhiteFem OP   Man
over a year ago

Closer 2 U

Profile should explain local travelling is fine.

Cheers.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Bizarre seeing profiles with infos I can't work out. So if you can help explain or add to it, Knock yourself out.

Examples:

Cannot Accommodate and Cannot Travel!

Or profiles with no pics or verifications asking for photos with 1St message!

...

"

The first one is clear as a bell. Doesn't meet in their home. Doesn't travel further than they want to.

That still leave tons of options for meeting and for sex but im not about to spell them out.

Second one is clear as a bell also. The profile does not have a public pic BUT they want to see your pic privately before they meet or before they decide to reply.

If you don't want to organise things that way then that's fine. Do what you want ..... just as they are.

Spend your time doing things your way and not thinking about why others don't do it your way.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The one I find most confusing is:

Looking for: Couples, Females

Go to message them from our couples profile

"Sorry, the user has blocked everyone of your sex"

Pardon? :-S

I'm looking to meet men, couples, and women, as a general rule.

However, as I pretty much don't meet at the moment, I don't want the Fabmin of a normal single female inbox. (Most of the time it's a pain in the arse, it's worse when it's a guaranteed to be fruitless pain in the arse)

So I block them from messaging me, and, where appropriate, message them myself.

That all makes logical sense, I'm just more confused with how it works from a site point of view. From memory when I delved into the settings I don't recall a way to actually block an entire class of people other than by removing them from what is being looked for.

Clearly it must exist, but I didn't find it :-S

Use the mail filters. You can turn them off for each type "

Yes. I've turned them off for everyone. I call it my "fuck off" setting

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey


"Bizarre seeing profiles with infos I can't work out. So if you can help explain or add to it, Knock yourself out.

Examples:

Cannot Accommodate and Cannot Travel!

Or profiles with no pics or verifications asking for photos with 1St message!

...

"

I love these people. Gives me a fighting chance of making contact.

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