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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If females were as well represented on the site in general as the forums, the world of Fab would be a brighter place for the poor guys who keep moaning about lack of meets.

One has to assume that the ladies on here like a bit of a cerebral joust, or at least, like to be humoured a bit, before they invite you to fuck them.

And, no, I'm not complaining, just pointing out that perhaps it's true, the female mind needs stimulating before you gonna get the possibility of any naughtiness. Whereas, a lot of guys will fuck anything, whether or not there is any rapport, humour, even attraction, mental or physical.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"If females were as well represented on the site in general as the forums, the world of Fab would be a brighter place for the poor guys who keep moaning about lack of meets.

One has to assume that the ladies on here like a bit of a cerebral joust, or at least, like to be humoured a bit, before they invite you to fuck them.

And, no, I'm not complaining, just pointing out that perhaps it's true, the female mind needs stimulating before you gonna get the possibility of any naughtiness. Whereas, a lot of guys will fuck anything, whether or not there is any rapport, humour, even attraction, mental or physical."

Possibly true to some extent but a little unfair on guys. I have met a lot who I have had a lovely time with cerebrally as well as sexually. There may be some guys who are just interested in fucking whoever - but there are also women who are interested in that too. Something for everyone on here if you can find it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women on here are picky because they can afford to be right or wrong, i get dozens of messages a day asking for meets, so why would i choose the guy who mails me with a message saying.....fancy a fuck, with no pic attached?

Guys are less fussy because they get less offers of meets than women

If the odds were turned and it was 200 women to every man on here men would get more fussy and women wouldnt have so many offers to choose from so couldnt be as picky and maybe would reply to that ever boring.....fancy a fuck message

its just basic maths really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yep, it's true, single girls get more mail than Santa. A female(without photos) who just joined locally said she'd more than 50 messages on first day. And another lady left me her mobile number for a meet that evening, I was out for an hour, I texted her when I got in and read her message, I was too late, she'd arranged summat else.

Throughout history, man has often had to make massive efforts to woo the woman he desires, Fab's the same.

The real world, is, however, not that different, a good woman can be elusive, and hotly pursued, not stay single long enough for you to work your magic, etc.

I reckon the library, your local animal sanctuary, care home, hospital (careful how you access these), yoga class or whatever is probably the way forward.

Personally, I quite like Fab, it is what it is. I've met four people in three months on here, plus a few more lined up for the future..

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

I will have a laugh and joke with most. Yes I set my age range admitaly I don't apply filters as I've made friends with some young guys but they know I won't meet them. If I set them I couldn't spk to them one of them has a lot of probs he treats me like a mum. I don't like it when I get texts sayin hi u want a shag

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

I will have a laugh and joke with most. Yes I set my age range admitaly I don't apply filters as I've made friends with some young guys but they know I won't meet them. If I set them I couldn't spk to them one of them has a lot of probs he treats me like a mum. I don't like it when I get texts sayin hi u want a shag

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Opps sorry posted it twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

great!! cerebral jousting love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As usual, I started rambling a bit and veered off course. My point was supposed to be that females represent themselves well, both numerically and vocally in the forums. A good ratio and a good balance between the sexes. I was just ruminating over this and thinking how nice it would be for all if this equilibrium reflected Fab as a whole..P.S. Happy New Year to all man!!!

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