FabSwingers.com forum: Poly and proud

By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

To all who are poly (not the parrot), let yourselves be know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am proud to be proud of that helps ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, as no one else replied except me, but my life is pathetic, so, I’ll bump it until it reaches 175 posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over here.

Can we get a better flag already so I can wave it proudly?

It's hideous.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Happily poly. It's the only way I've ever been happy and I'm just glad I've found the community after just thinking I was a slut for years haha.

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By *essicagraceWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Meeee! And _ea monkey, obv. Since I discovered poly and started living comfortably as myself the world's been a lot nicer. I as a rule don't date mono people though, or hierarchal poly people. Nothing personal just doesn't work for me. Fascinating all the different relationship styles you uncover when you start exploring it right?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

*raises hand*

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Please don’t judge but can somebody explain what poly is? Thanx

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Very much poly, very happily poly.

I struggled at first with it, didn't realise quite how much unpacking I had to do. But now? Yep, love it. Can't see myself becoming monogamous any time soon.

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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"Please don’t judge but can somebody explain what poly is? Thanx"
Polyamory is a form of ethical non-monogamy that involves committed relationships between two or more people — typically romantic relationships. Essentially, being in a polyamorous relationship means that you and your partner have the option of dating other people.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Sorted thanx

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By *rying-AloneMan
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I would absolutely love to connect and hopefully find a relationship with open poly people but having trouble down the south of England. ( Hampshire) ideal would be to find a nice down to earth m/f couple

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

But are you really poly or are you ENM or wanting an open relationship?

Many people seem to identify as poly, but just want to fuck about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poly here, I do like the freedom and all the different dynamics it allows

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

To me its like having your cake and eating it

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By *rying-AloneMan
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"But are you really poly or are you ENM or wanting an open relationship?

Many people seem to identify as poly, but just want to fuck about!

Oh no I have never cheated in my life and would genuinely love a full on relationship and settle down

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

"To me its like having your cake and eating it"

No point having a cake if you can't eat it

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

*waves enthusiastically* That's me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so proud to be Poly that I’ll put the kettle on

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

"To me its like having your cake and eating it

No point having a cake if you can't eat it

I just buy cake to feed the birds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m so proud to be Poly that I’ll put the kettle on

I’ll bring the Jaffa cakes

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By *elsh_naturist_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Newport

We are open to the idea if we find the right person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wish we was

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By *ingerbeardman-Man
over a year ago

Sutton-in-Ashfield

Poly here too! Dating as a poly guy sucks though aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But are you really poly or are you ENM or wanting an open relationship?

Many people seem to identify as poly, but just want to fuck about!

Absolutely poly. 1 local partner of 5 years, LDR of 2 years, a regular partner of 3yrs and another of 8 months who I care for very much, and the occasional comet.

Not everyone wants to fuck about.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I like the idea of being poly but Im struggling to find regular playmates let alone ones for a any kind of romantic relationship.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

I'm solo poly.

Happily in 3 loving, nurturing and caring relationships. But we choose not to blend our financial and childrens lives.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I'm solo poly.

Happily in 3 loving, nurturing and caring relationships. But we choose not to blend our financial and childrens lives."

This is what’s great about Poly; so many different dynamics

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By *essicagraceWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

"Poly here too! Dating as a poly guy sucks though aha"

What do you find is your hardest thing?

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I’m poly, but he’s mono. It’s not easy as a poly girl solo or not either

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Please don’t judge but can somebody explain what poly is? ThanxPolyamory is a form of ethical non-monogamy that involves committed relationships between two or more people — typically romantic relationships. Essentially, being in a polyamorous relationship means that you and your partner have the option of dating other people."

Whats the 'ethical' bit in reference to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats the 'ethical' bit in reference to? "

I took it as opposed to unethically cheating, lying, sneaking or hurting others kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being poly would never work for me

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By *andaloriansCouple
over a year ago

Malvern

C is. I myself am not, but i dont mind sharing her in that manner as her happiness is mine

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By *ulldipadovaMan
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I want to try a poly relationship experience In Dorset area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mans out here

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