FabSwingers.com forum: what age is most attractive

By *urious1973 OP Man
over a year ago

angus

At what age would you say men or woman were at there most attractive

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

Tough one, women are good at any age i think, but older mature is nice, guys probably 40 to mid 50s where i am, so many variables its hard to pin point, find too young can be immature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men aged 59

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

45-50 for men , 25-30 for women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men, 25 - 35

Women, any age if they look after themselves

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By *urious1973 OP Man
over a year ago

angus

I like your answer

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

As I get older I can see beauty in every age. Attractiveness not so much

I think between 25 and 55 is optimum attractiveness for most. A beautiful person (physically) is usually beautiful all their adult life.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Men 25-45

Women 25-55.

That’s my general opinion. Obviously there’s always going to be people that fall outside those brackets for me

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By *exleypeteMan
over a year ago

bexleyheath

"Tough one, women are good at any age i think, but older mature is nice, guys probably 40 to mid 50s where i am, so many variables its hard to pin point, find too young can be immature. "

Totally agree with you

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

It changes with age I reckon, I remember thinking people in their 40's looked ancient in my early 20's. And who I thought were attractive in my early 20's I'd find too child like now.

I think some people have an age that suits them most and they then shine at that time. And I think that is attractive in itself

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Even by my own definition of attractive age I'm well past it

I didn't think that one through

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I think some people have an age that suits them most and they then shine at that time. And I think that is attractive in itself

I love this Frida.

I don't think there's a simple way of saying it like oh men at this age etc, it's such a fluid thing. So varied. But people peak at different stages in their life, grow confident and beautiful with who they are. Whatever age that is, that's their most beautiful.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Even by my own definition of attractive age I'm well past it

I didn't think that one through "

This has made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly prefer men who are older than me

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Surely it's never going to be as simple as that. Considering there are people that look much older or younger than they are.

Hell, more often than not personalities will be tied to certain ages and their view of things. This can make or break attractiveness just as much as appearance can.

I can be and have been attracted to mid 20 year old just as much as I have been to a 60 year old, some reasons the same, some reasons completely different.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Even by my own definition of attractive age I'm well past it

I didn't think that one through

This has made me chuckle

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I think some people have an age that suits them most and they then shine at that time. And I think that is attractive in itself

I love this Frida.

Gosh damn it Meli, yes it's exactly what you've written

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I repeat 59 for men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20-35

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

For most people I feel its between 25 til 55

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

20-25 for women

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

What ever age it is for men I've past it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or as the old saying goes - 'The face you have at 20 is a gift from God - the face you have at 50 is the face you deserve'

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

It's not that simple for me but I'm guessing most men will choose low age for women, unless they're looking for a milf to fuck.

That's sexual attractiveness because they want better sex from an older woman who knows what she wants.

Women are more complex than that.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I find men attractive who are not conventionally physically attractive.

For sex, I choose men who are physically superior to me, because two fat, stiff people aren't going to get much done in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

49 years 4 months

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"49 years 4 months "

Fake news. Give it a few weeks and they would have changed their mind to 49 years 5 months. Attraction is fickle like that

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

For men I find the age bracket of 35-45 the most attractive.

For women it’s a broader spectrum but I find myself attracted to a similar age bracket.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"49 years 4 months

Fake news. Give it a few weeks and they would have changed their mind to 49 years 5 months. Attraction is fickle like that"

49 years 4 months and a few weeks.

Nailing versatility today.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I don’t think attractiveness has anything to do with age. I’ve seen young people of both sexes really unattractive, and by that I mean often because of their attitude, and older people with beautiful approach to life, young heart and soul.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I find intelligence very attractive these days. I also believe age and wisdom goes hand in hand. Admittedly older people can still be ignorant and idiotic but in general I think we are at our best from late 40’s to early 60’s. Sadly like my Mother certain illnesses can overcome you later on in life.

So for both men and women I’d say 47 - 62

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"At what age would you say men or woman were at there most attractive "

Depends on the an or woman.

I've met people who look their age, those that look older/younger and those that I honestly couldn't even guess how old they were.

Some get better looking with age, some don't.

It's an impossible question to answer.

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By *ornyryan26Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"At what age would you say men or woman were at there most attractive "
I prover the older woman but I do like the younger woman I go to 20 to 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at my age maybe it's time to give up then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At what age would you say men or woman were at there most attractive "

I dunno,

…..,when they look amazing!

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"at my age maybe it's time to give up then

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never give up because you look amazing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"at my age maybe it's time to give up then

You and me both, oh and Dan59!

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Really want to answer without coming across all PC, but no Idea honestly we've found some people a decade older more attractive than others in their 20's.

Also some we've met in their 20's far more interesting and fun than some our own age, therefore attractive.

Met those we didn't find appealing via their profile at club's and it was a total yes!

Horses for course heh!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really want to answer without coming across all PC, but no Idea honestly we've found some people a decade older more attractive than others in their 20's.

Also some we've met in their 20's far more interesting and fun than some our own age, therefore attractive.

Met those we didn't find appealing via their profile at club's and it was a total yes!

Horses for course heh!?"

Never understand why coming across as PC is a bad thing.

PC to me means being considerate and respectful of others. Is that such a bad thing in 2023?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s such a pretty looking number.

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Near You

For me, it depends on the person but anywhere between 30 and mid-50s is the hotspot. Of course, there are many exceptions to this.

Personally, I think I was more attractive in my mid-20s. Toned body, unsatiable sexual appetite and the stamina of an Olympic rower.

I sometimes get told by people I knew in my twenties that I've aged well and I'm more attractive now. I don't feel it though. Being more Dad-bod than God-bod, the odd grey hair and having wrinkles around the eyes don't do much to make me feel very attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I get older I can see beauty in every age. Attractiveness not so much

I think between 25 and 55 is optimum attractiveness for most. A beautiful person (physically) is usually beautiful all their adult life. "

I agree with you wholeheartedly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men 25-45

Women 25-55.

That’s my general opinion. Obviously there’s always going to be people that fall outside those brackets for me"

Ahhhh shit!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabs on the whole seems to be about physical attributes. And I read how people are sharing their thoughts on attraction based on body shape and looks.

For me, I’m drawn by the person. Their personality. Their life experiences, personal values. We are all shaped by the experiences we have from the people we meet.

Age is a number and is no indication on beauty or attractiveness for me.

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

I myself am like a good bottle of wine improving with age...

Lots more confidence now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I myself am like a good bottle of wine improving with age...

Lots more confidence now...

Have you taken the cork out yet?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

For me personally the age I'm attracted to changes with my ago. When I was 20 I didn't find 45-year-olds attractive but I did like 20-year-olds. Now I'm nearly 50 the attraction is the other way round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully 35, going on 36

lol

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By *heron212Man
over a year ago

London

The one I'm in as long as I live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally have always liked older men regardless of what age I have been. Between 5 and 10 years older. Or more.

However I think men are most attractive in their 40's and 50's.

Women are different and can be attractive at any age.

I just struggle to find younger than me in either sex attractive for various reasons. Dare I say it but I find younger sometimes too confident or arrogant and that's not attractive for me.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I genuinely believe I'm the only one who has struggled with this question. It's like asking which shade of the deepest-darkest-blackest of black is the most attractive.

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

"I myself am like a good bottle of wine improving with age...

Lots more confidence now...

Have you taken the cork out yet?

No...waiting for it to pop

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I think it all depends on the individual.

I'm hoping I have a few years of hotness left in me yet before I'm in the for disposal pile

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By *ipppyMan
over a year ago

Poole

"Even by my own definition of attractive age I'm well past it

I didn't think that one through "
it’s an ever increasing number!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as a woman reaches menopause… bareback without fearing to pay child support

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men 25-45

Women 25-55.

That’s my general opinion. Obviously there’s always going to be people that fall outside those brackets for me"

I'm in my prime!!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Biologically wise I would probably say we look our best between 21-26 before aging processes start to engage and lifestyle damage kicks in to play .

Real world is harder as people can often look better when older due to numerous life choices. Could have a very overweight or underweight person in their 20s. Get ripped into shape / perfect a look that suits later in life and look incredible.

Equally goes the over way , I think as well as we age our perceptions on what see as value in beauty change with our age brackets on when we look at people.

Most men will always have some attraction to young women physically wise as it’s hardwired into men to be visually aroused stimulated more so than women as people age .

I tend to find women are cute and pretty in their twenties but in 30+ they become far more alluring / attractive as some marks of life become visible overall in how they carry / talk / vibe give off from a lived experience.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

1969, that was a good year.

We are talking about cars aren't we?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20-45, just personal experience and opinion.

But we have seen slightly younger/older that have been wowzers too!

Miss S x

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

42 years 5 months and 9 days

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Difficult one to answer because some just have natural beauty whereas some later in life produce once crawling out of ugly Ness which I don't think even exists anymore

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Personally, I think I've got better as I've got older... So I'm going to say 38+ for women, it's more of a feeling these days and an attitude.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

a mix - it is all about fitness, charm, erotic appeal and personality x

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I've heard 47 is an optimal age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever since my 20s I've always gravitated towards men 40-45. That bracket has stayed the same even as I've slowly edged towards it myself. I don't know what I'll do when I hit the upper limit, as I can't bring myself to sleep with people younger than me! I'll either have to start considering men older than that or suck up my age hang ups and embrace becoming a cougar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

40, however last year I would have said 39,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

35 plus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without going into too much detail, it can come down to the eye of the beholder.

Somewhere there is someone who will adore you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"35 plus

Ah I noticed some went into explanation mode.

It's rare I have mutual vibing energy with people under that age, sorry millennial crowd

Sex wise it can be great, but the mentality and way of approaching things can be distinctly different. Hard to describe, just a feeling. Only decade it seems but noticeable to my soul radar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm, I'm not sure on a number but I usually find women who are a little older more attractive. I think it’s because most women that age are confident, and more aware of what they want and who they are. I dunno, I see lots of pretty people around especially young women but the ones most attractive to me and stand out are definitely 30 upwards.

I like older men, so 35 to 55ish I suppose.

It's difficult to answer.

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

18-99

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

29.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"92."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30’s for women, 30’s and 40’s for men.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I think women are in their sexual prime from their 40s onwards. I think around that age people start to stop worrying what others think of them and they start to focus on what they want - they have the experience to know what is good sex and bad sex and start to look for what they want rather than what they think everyone else is doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men 25-45

Women 25-55.

That’s my general opinion. Obviously there’s always going to be people that fall outside those brackets for me"

So you think a woman is at her best looking at 55 ..where a guy isn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think women are in their sexual prime from their 40s onwards(...) and start to look for what they want rather than what they think everyone else is doing."

The last bit. Nodding eagerly.

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By *mateur100Man
over a year ago

nr faversham

18-30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, it all depends on the people involved,if a guy or girl love each other age doesn't matter... wherever it is found it doesn't matter , true love is priceless and age never comes into it, l find different attractiveness in all ages that lm interested in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"at my age maybe it's time to give up then

never give up because you look amazing x"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"at my age maybe it's time to give up then

You and me both, oh and Dan59!

Keep playing, nothing wrong with your body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think women are in their sexual prime from their 40s onwards. I think around that age people start to stop worrying what others think of them and they start to focus on what they want - they have the experience to know what is good sex and bad sex and start to look for what they want rather than what they think everyone else is doing."

Slightly biased but

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I agree. I’m the best I’ve ever been in a billion ways.

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