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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

Consider to be vanilla sex and do you consider yourself as 'vanilla'?

Does the word vanilla make you think of boring sex?

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By *ornyryan26Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"Consider to be vanilla sex and do you consider yourself as 'vanilla'?

Does the word vanilla make you think of boring sex?

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I don't think it boring but I am more then vanilla

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I never got the issue with vanilla.

Vanilla is good. Vanilla goes with everything.

Some things I do are definitely not Vanilla. But where the line is drawn I don't really know or care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla makes me think of sensual sex. That isn’t boring sex. It’s quite fulfilling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer chocolate ice-cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I moved away from vanilla when I found that I like a pineapple shoved up ma butt.

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax


"Vanilla makes me think of sensual sex. That isn’t boring sex. It’s quite fulfilling.

"

Totally agree

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Minimal (if any) foreplay, missionary with the lights off, roll over and go to sleep as soon as he cums.

It works for many I guess. It's possibly also better than nothing for some.

Wouldn't float our boat for 2 minutes though.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I moved away from vanilla when I found that I like a pineapple shoved up ma butt."

Which end first though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I moved away from vanilla when I found that I like a pineapple shoved up ma butt.

Which end first though? "

The spiky end.

I’m edgy and daring.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Vanilla makes me think of sensual sex. That isn’t boring sex. It’s quite fulfilling.

"

It makes me think of sensual sex too....I'm my book yh best kind of sex.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I love vanilla… my favourite flavour, occasionally it just needs a little extra sauce and sprinkles

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Minimal (if any) foreplay, missionary with the lights off, roll over and go to sleep as soon as he cums.

It works for many I guess. It's possibly also better than nothing for some.

Wouldn't float our boat for 2 minutes though.

A"

That's not vanilla, that's just a shit lazy fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla sex is anything non kinky in my book

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

For me vanilla doesn't involve toys and kinks in my sexual pleasure.

Yes I have quite a big vanilla side, and then sometimes the mischievous wants to come out to play

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Minimal (if any) foreplay, missionary with the lights off, roll over and go to sleep as soon as he cums.

It works for many I guess. It's possibly also better than nothing for some.

Wouldn't float our boat for 2 minutes though.

A

That's not vanilla, that's just a shit lazy fuck"

True.

But in my mind that's what I'd define it as. Of course my view is twisted by decades of debauchery, kink and group sex.

Everyone's definition of vanilla will of course vary.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My definition of vanilla is sex without passion and just mechanical and a cure for insomnia!

And yes I’ve certainly been Vanilla….. I guess most have at times! But aspiring to consign vanilla to history!!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Straight forward plain sex.

It’s not boring, it’s just not the swinging from the chandeliers aerobic workout type of passionate sex.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I prefer vanilla.

Kink smells like rubber and sweaty jock straps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer vanilla.

Kink smells like rubber and sweaty jock straps."

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100 vanilla. Never emptied my bladder on someone I know. Neither on someone I don’t know by the way.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Sex with no bells, whistles or gimmicks

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I just love sex, I don't need to be spanking their ass, slapping their tits together and choking them to have a good time

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I consider myself "enhanced vanilla" because my propensity towards sex is focused around passion, sensuality and romanticism, with leanings towards experimentation and 'mild-kink'. And nothing more.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Consider to be vanilla sex and do you consider yourself as 'vanilla'?

Does the word vanilla make you think of boring sex?

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No not at all. Doesn’t have to be all kink

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Surely without the chocolaty taste of Piscean_dream it has to be vanilla, right?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I am very vanilla sex wise. Suits me fine

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Surely without the chocolaty taste of Piscean_dream it has to be vanilla, right? "

They can add vanilla essence

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Consider to be vanilla sex and do you consider yourself as 'vanilla'?

Does the word vanilla make you think of boring sex?

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I watch vanilla sex porn

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Consider to be vanilla sex and do you consider yourself as 'vanilla'?

Does the word vanilla make you think of boring sex?

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I think that it's bizarre that vanilla is the chosen word to describe plain and ordinary. Vanilla is an exotic plant from exotic places!

Cal

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Vanilla sex equals

Missionary with socks on and the woman has one foot on the floor. The curtains are closed and the lights are off and not a sound is heard, not even bed springs.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"Vanilla sex equals

Missionary with socks on and the woman has one foot on the floor. The curtains are closed and the lights are off and not a sound is heard, not even bed springs.

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I prefer the dark / low light it adds to erotic feeling

I have an amazing memory foam mattress with no springs so it’s silent always.

Curtains are closed as I don’t want to be filmed and end up on tik tok

Socks yeah I’ll give you that though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One woman's vanilla is anothers neapolitan

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't think there's one particular thing I consider vanilla. You can always add kink if you wanted. But I don't see why vanilla is seen as boring.

There's so much to be said for sensuality, enjoying another's body without all the bells and whistles, without it being almost performative.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Vanilla makes me think of sensual sex. That isn’t boring sex. It’s quite fulfilling.

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I agree, sensual, passionate, intimate... Meaningful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vanilla makes me think of sensual sex. That isn’t boring sex. It’s quite fulfilling.

"

That's a lovely twist on vanilla definition. Can be quite versatile. It's nice for reconnecting.

T

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Consider to be vanilla sex and do you consider yourself as 'vanilla'?

Does the word vanilla make you think of boring sex?

"

The kind of sex I don’t do.

Is it boring? No, I just prefer other things.

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