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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

chemistry.

How accurate are your thoughts/predictions about chemistry?

Have you ever been pleasantly surprised? I'm stepping away from the negative currently so not interested in tales of things being flat. Sorry!

Are there certain things that make you think, yep... we'll definitely have chemistry when we meet?

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

It's difficult to say, you just know when that spark is there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My gut feeling is usually fairly accurate with these things. Although I have been pleasantly surprised once or twice

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

As long as there are not other outside influences at the time, then yes so far I have been pretty spot on regarding chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mostly yes.

i thinks it just the vibe you get when you're connecting and conversing. Px

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I usually know going into it whether its a fuck yes or just a fuck it why not.

I was very pleasantly surprised by an old flame last year, I assumed things wouldn't be so intense so fast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer biology to chemistry.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I have been pretty much accurate so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the ease of the conversation, and how free you both are to laugh are key indicators of chemistry; however, I do think these things can come over time and that chemistry is that is not always immediately.

Also, would just like to Melli, you're questions are always so interesting and thought provoking.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I usually judge pretty well. Sometimes even before there's been any 1-2-1 contact either via message or phone.

Depends entirely on the person but for example there have been many occasions when I've seen good profiles on Fab and having observed forum interactions, status updates, profile rewrites and even just from images - I've known the chemistry will be good.

Very rarely has it been a case of false advertising.

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"It's difficult to say, you just know when that spark is there "

But you can get that spark wrong no? You might think it's there, you might not think it is and then... bam. Topsy-turvy world.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Friendship chemistry, I've been right every single time

Romantic chemistry is mixed with attraction, so is less easily predicted for me

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

You know, I'm something of a scientist myself

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

You can get a feeling if you have things in common...

But ultimately you don't know until you actually meet physically...

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

"It's difficult to say, you just know when that spark is there

But you can get that spark wrong no? You might think it's there, you might not think it is and then... bam. Topsy-turvy world."

Yes...it can go tits up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes...it can go tits up..."

Tbf, tits up is something I quite like

... sorry, I meant tits out.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’ve been mostly right but also so wrong on a small number of occasions.

So many things affect sexual chemistry like type of eye contact, posture, voice and how they are in person vs text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’ve got a pretty good radar for spotting the chemistry. It might take me a while to work out, but I get it right more often than wrong.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I think I’m pretty good with these kind of things Meli. I seem to attract like minded souls. Free spirits mostly. The chemistry normally develops from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know what! I thought I was really good at this and I believe I was but one time it didn't go the way we/I expected it to go, the male half was a completely different personality on message as he was in person, he literally didn't speak and we tried so hard to engage him and it was quite awkward.

Mind blowing that someone can be that different in person. Nothing against him at all, just sharing our experience on it is all.

Miss S x

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"As long as there are not other outside influences at the time, then yes so far I have been pretty spot on regarding chemistry."

Outside influences? In what sort of way?

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"I usually know going into it whether its a fuck yes or just a fuck it why not.

I was very pleasantly surprised by an old flame last year, I assumed things wouldn't be so intense so fast."

Fuck it why not.

You have a charming turn of phrase, genuinely. Very direct.

Yes, intensity can be very surprising can't it? Sometimes things are undeniably there and it builds very quickly. And pleasurably.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I usually know going into it whether its a fuck yes or just a fuck it why not.

I was very pleasantly surprised by an old flame last year, I assumed things wouldn't be so intense so fast.

Fuck it why not.

You have a charming turn of phrase, genuinely. Very direct.

Yes, intensity can be very surprising can't it? Sometimes things are undeniably there and it builds very quickly. And pleasurably."

I'm often told my word vomit is almost poetic. Though usually by people who are trying to get in my pants.

I've never been wrong about a fuck yes. I have been happily impressed by the occasional fuck it why not, but those ones are far from guaranteed.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I never really know until I meet someone... People can be very different in real life from their on screen persona.

I need to feel their energy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry? I prefer matching with her biology

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The rare ones I click with usually end up coming out of nowhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s no specific thing, so you can get that feeling in different ways with different people. I think if it’s there in messages, then at least there’s a chance of there still being chemistry in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The rare ones I click with usually end up coming out of nowhere "

That's premature of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite difficult via the medium of text especially staccato text in messages or forums.

Eye contact and how they hold and break it is a big teller for me.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

If they want my dick we usually get on well.

Or H’s sweet sweet righty tighty little love hole obvs.

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"I think the ease of the conversation, and how free you both are to laugh are key indicators of chemistry; however, I do think these things can come over time and that chemistry is that is not always immediately.

Also, would just like to Melli, you're questions are always so interesting and thought provoking. "

It would be really mean to ignore this post albeit responding late!

Thank you. They tend to be a reflection of conversation with friends, situational. It's fairly easy to read my thoughts, mood etc and I'm very lucky that some people don't read them. I'd cringe quite hard.

Yes, I think you can sometimes find that chemistry isn't immediate. There's this slight shift, maybe you notice someone in a different light. Maybe you're more open to it. However chemistry is discovered, it's wonderful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just knew something was there, from that first message. It was an instant spark, which ignited a special connection. I could feel her vibe and energy, there was that chemistry straight away. It felt like we had known each other for ages

Then when we met in person it just confirmed everything we thought and felt. I do believe if it’s meant to happen it will at the right time and place

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I got an A level in chemistry, so I must be halfway okay at it...

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I think it's either just there or it isn't, if I've spoken to someone on the phone enough then I can tell if there will be sparks in person or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every chance of chemistry being successful if we all exhibited judicial temperament: open-mindedness, courtesy, tact, courage, patience, punctuality, firmness, understanding, compassion, humility & common sense. These qualities demonstrated consistently would lead us to harmonious relationship.

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