FabSwingers.com forum: Mum tum

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!

What do you think of ladies with bellies?

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By *ndianas bonerMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!

What do you think of ladies with bellies?

Irresistible

nothing better than a curvy milf

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney

Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch.

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By *icouple69Couple
over a year ago

Colchester

Nothing wrong with them at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

Need help taking flattering pics.. or gym membership

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I’m a proud owner of one. If someone doesn’t like it, it’s their problem, not mine.

Plenty athletic people on here, so kindly pass me by, please.

That’s what I think and hope you enjoy your new lingerie, as you do.

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

I’m slowly learning to love my tiger stripes, always found them attractive of others, just never myself, maybe it’s the angle of looking downwards

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By *nebworthMan
over a year ago

Knebworth

"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!

What do you think of ladies with bellies?

Do not see why anything is a problem. You look gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There just story lines you earned them be proud

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By *ub... girlWoman
over a year ago

worcester

I don't like mine either. It's all about camera shots. Considering the age of my kids, my tiger stripes (as referred to above, love it) haven't really gone.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch."

Erm, all women are real, they don't need proof

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By *ockchickCouple
over a year ago

Wonderland

If your happy thats all that matters.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It takes a lot of work to maintain a flat stomach after children, I take my hat off to women who do it. I'm too lazy so content myself with sucking my stomach in when I look in the mirror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely understand and agree with OP.

My mum tum is such a turn off,for me,hate seeing it.

Nothing can be done so I just try to pretend it's not there

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch.

Erm, all women are real, they don't need proof

Apart from the fake women. They aren't real *nods sagely*

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

There are loads of men on here that love mum tums

Wear that lingerie with pride and they will soon find you

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Lots of us have a mum tum.

It's part of what makes me, me. Try not to let it bother you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!

What do you think of ladies with bellies?

Love it

Who cares what anyone else thinks though, just be you and rock that mum bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men clam to be a bums or boobs fan, I’m a run fan, and nope it’s just just a flat stomach that gets me going- show me a mum Tim any day the week!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most men clam to be a bums or boobs fan, I’m a run fan, and nope it’s just just a flat stomach that gets me going- show me a mum Tim any day the week! "

*tum

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

We all have middle age spread eat well live well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!

What do you think of ladies with bellies?

Embrace it , it’s a sign of having lived a life , Shirley Valentine

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Funny how the majority of women in hot pics don't have one though, eh? Pretty sure they are real too

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Mine is more a gran gut

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By *ifemale32GGWoman
over a year ago

Telford

I was worried too but when I was at Chams on Saturday there were loads of ladies with wobbly bits and they just looked gorgeous because they were so confident and sexily dressed. Own it and love yourself.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I was worried too but when I was at Chams on Saturday there were loads of ladies with wobbly bits and they just looked gorgeous because they were so confident and sexily dressed. Own it and love yourself. "

You're certainly owning that outfit in your avatar.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I gave birth a long time ago, so I just have a tummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When tums get in the way of being able to get a good view of someone's tongue or fingers in pussy.

It's embarrassing having to flatten the raised tummy with hands.

Also when squatting on a face, the tum obscures the view from below and above.

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

Bane of my life. Having diastasis doesnt bloody help either

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Bane of my life. Having diastasis doesnt bloody help either"

I'd be too busy playing with your bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bane of my life. Having diastasis doesnt bloody help either"

If you have that then this position must be a definite No no..poor you

Gorgeous profile photos BTW

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

nothing wrong with a mum tum,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine ain't going to learnt to imbrasse it

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

You are all women in my eyes

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By *aretobstupidCouple
over a year ago

Moray

"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!

What do you think of ladies with bellies?

I feel this a lot after having my two. I hate it less now after rejoining fab surprisingly. If someone doesn't like it, their loss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with it at all, it is hard sometimes in certain lingerie i get that but hey, we're human

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a mum tum before I even had a baby. I had stretch marks and I've always had a little pouch.

I used to be very mean to myself about my tummy, and that reflected a lot in my confidence and how upset I'd get looking at myself naked. I embraced it one day, and now I absolutely love it. I like that it's not completely flat. I love how soft it is and I think it's pretty cute. I'm not afraid to show it off.

Be kind to yourself. You're your own worst enemy when it comes to this kind of thing.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Women have gorgeous bodies. I love em all

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"I had a mum tum before I even had a baby. I had stretch marks and I've always had a little pouch.

Be kind to yourself. You're your own worst enemy when it comes to this kind of thing.

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,, you have figure men love,,

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

"Bane of my life. Having diastasis doesnt bloody help either

If you have that then this position must be a definite No no..poor you

Gorgeous profile photos BTW

Thank you xxx. Yeah its a kicker and i only happened to find out by chance and then realised all my planks and crunches were doing more harm. Hopefully will be able to repair the damage without surgical intervention x

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

"Bane of my life. Having diastasis doesnt bloody help either

I'd be too busy playing with your bum.

Oh you

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney

"Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch.

Erm, all women are real, they don't need proof

Sadly, these days, womanhood is a state of mind, a personal choice regardless of biology. Total bollocks imo, but that's the law.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch.

Erm, all women are real, they don't need proof

Sadly, these days, womanhood is a state of mind, a personal choice regardless of biology. Total bollocks imo, but that's the law."

Absolutely no need for comments like that

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Own it and love yourself....

Amen to this

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

I have a big tum but I'm not a mum. Just got ye olde PCOS tyre

- Xeno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely hate my Mum tum, plus the ugly operation scar I have above my Mum tum. Both really horrible so I avoid getting totally naked in a club or on a meet if I can.

The strange thing is though, a Mum tum on other women, I think absolutely nothing negative about them, in fact I rarely notice them. It's just mine I have a problem with.

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney

"Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch.

Erm, all women are real, they don't need proof

Sadly, these days, womanhood is a state of mind, a personal choice regardless of biology. Total bollocks imo, but that's the law.

Absolutely no need for comments like that"

Truth not welcome on the forum?

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

I dont think anyone is happy with their tums, I think its very natural to feel that way...I just lay flat or wear something to cover it or Simon Cowell pants

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch.

Erm, all women are real, they don't need proof

Sadly, these days, womanhood is a state of mind, a personal choice regardless of biology. Total bollocks imo, but that's the law.

Absolutely no need for comments like that

Truth not welcome on the forum?"

Transphobia most certainly isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unhealthy

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney

"Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch.

Erm, all women are real, they don't need proof

Sadly, these days, womanhood is a state of mind, a personal choice regardless of biology. Total bollocks imo, but that's the law.

Absolutely no need for comments like that

Truth not welcome on the forum?

Transphobia most certainly isn't."

Not a transphobe, just have an opinion, to which I am entitled. As you are to yours.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch.

Erm, all women are real, they don't need proof

Sadly, these days, womanhood is a state of mind, a personal choice regardless of biology. Total bollocks imo, but that's the law.

Absolutely no need for comments like that

Truth not welcome on the forum?

Transphobia most certainly isn't.

Not a transphobe, just have an opinion, to which I am entitled. As you are to yours."

That's not even what the thread is about though, so why bring it up? You obviously have an issue with it.

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By *ood at oralMan
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

Nothing better than a woman with a mum tum and real woman's curves.and you look gorgeous

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

local

"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!

What do you think of ladies with bellies?

Mum Tums are great woman worry too much about their figures. Curvy girls are the best

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone (mainly everyone!) For all your comments, low self esteem not helping and try as I can to feel sexy I'm struggling! I do love curves on ladies and don't notice on others but I am my worst critic.

Need to learn how to pose!! Xx

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By *ertfordshiremaleMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Mum Tums are great woman worry too much about their figures. Curvy girls are the best

I agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mum tum here but I'm not a mum

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"You are all women in my eyes

Even the dudes?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mum tum here but I'm not a mum

Gorgeous

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I hate mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!

What do you think of ladies with bellies?

You are gorgeous. X

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

local

"I hate mine. "

Just guessing but i reckon not to many men focus on your Tum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sexy hot woman will always be sexy and hot. Mum tum or not.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I hate mine.

Just guessing but i reckon not to many men focus on your Tum

Thanks

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!

What do you think of ladies with bellies?

If I like the woman, I like her body.

I'm sure the lingerie looks great on you, OP. But for me, I say only wear stuff you feel good in; if something makes you feel self conscious, I wouldn't wear it as you won't feel confident, no matter how much someone else says it looks great.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Mum tum here but I'm not a mum

Snap

and keeping it that way

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!

What do you think of ladies with bellies?

They win at seesaw?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got one, I'm happy with it as is the guys I meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!

What do you think of ladies with bellies?

If I like the woman, I like her body.

You are right, if it doesn't make you feel good then don't wear it. Thank you for reminding me x

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

I've got a post C Section x 3 mum tum belly ledge going on....nowt I can really do about it so fuck it is my view ...

OP just be you, men rarely care about it anyway from my experiences

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"I've got a post C Section x 3 mum tum belly ledge going on....nowt I can really do about it so fuck it is my view ...

OP just be you, men rarely care about it anyway from my experiences

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.. dead right we dont,,

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!

What do you think of ladies with bellies?

If I like the woman, I like her body.

You are right, if it doesn't make you feel good then don't wear it. Thank you for reminding me x"

Sorry, I didn't mean for it to sound like you shouldn't wear anything you want to. You should! But feeling confident in something is key, I think (for me anyway, but I know it's easier for guys)

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

Hate mine so much it really gets me down, it’s lovely reading so many positive comments on here

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By *ohn8210tCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

We both absolutely love mum tums, or bigger tums if you’ve not been a mum.

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I was talking about mine this evening. About how I can't stand how I look when I'm dressed, but can stand naked and proud in front of people. We decided that it must be because people have seen what I look like, so I have nothing to worry about

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch."

Thats didnt take long to appear in the thread

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch.

Erm, all women are real, they don't need proof

Sadly, these days, womanhood is a state of mind, a personal choice regardless of biology. Total bollocks imo, but that's the law.

Absolutely no need for comments like that

Truth not welcome on the forum?

Transphobia most certainly isn't."

You do realise that throwing around silly accusations like this just dilutes the actual meaning of the word dont you?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx"

Easier said than done, when you've been conditioned by societal norms that to be fat and with a wobbly tummy and saggy boobs is unattractive. Throughout my teen years, we were bombarded with images of Kate Moss et.al. "Heroin chic", they called it. That was the size women were "supposed" to be.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I’ve come to accept it over the years but still gets to me some days

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx

Well thats what most men find attractive, or at least did in her day. Now they probably prefer a little bigger, but still slim and fit.

This is nothing to do with 'societal norms', this is purely down to what body type is generally desirable and what isn't

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx

Well thats what most men find attractive, or at least did in her day. Now they probably prefer a little bigger, but still slim and fit.

This is nothing to do with 'societal norms', this is purely down to what body type is generally desirable and what isn't "

I think people assume (rightly or wrongly) that whatever aesthetic is being promoted widely e.g. in the media, that this is what people find attractive?

Anyway, despite being a great fat lump with saggy boobs, I've been happily married for 13.5yrs and we've been together 19yrs, so that'll do for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx

Well thats what most men find attractive, or at least did in her day. Now they probably prefer a little bigger, but still slim and fit.

This is nothing to do with 'societal norms', this is purely down to what body type is generally desirable and what isn't "

I think from this thread we can see that slim and fit isn't the only body type desirable but rather some do like curves and a little something to hold on too.

Personally although I might question myself I've looked at a lot of the profiles from the ladies who have posted and each have very beautiful pictures but above that have personalities that shine xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mum tums and dad bods I think there are more of them on FAB than athletic!

Do I know it is there? Yes. Does it bother me? No. It is an old cliché but it is about what is inside that counts.

I understand and sympathise with all the mum tums out there. But love your body, because it is you, that mum tum gave you wonderful children (I get not all of have had children). Next time you look in the mirror look at your mum tum and say thank you, you did me proud, you looked after my baby for 9 months. I know you are not perfect or even what I want but you are mine and I love you for that.

If you have not had children be equally grateful, you are you and you look great!

You have to love yourself before you can love others. Love that beautiful body of yours and tell yourself every day!

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx

Well thats what most men find attractive, or at least did in her day. Now they probably prefer a little bigger, but still slim and fit.

This is nothing to do with 'societal norms', this is purely down to what body type is generally desirable and what isn't

I think people assume (rightly or wrongly) that whatever aesthetic is being promoted widely e.g. in the media, that this is what people find attractive?

Anyway, despite being a great fat lump with saggy boobs, I've been happily married for 13.5yrs and we've been together 19yrs, so that'll do for me

The media dont influence us to be attracted to anyone, they promote those who are attractive already. They wouldnt do it if the body type in question wasnt in demand already, otherwise nobody would buy/read/click whatever they're peddling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx

Well thats what most men find attractive, or at least did in her day. Now they probably prefer a little bigger, but still slim and fit.

This is nothing to do with 'societal norms', this is purely down to what body type is generally desirable and what isn't

I think from this thread we can see that slim and fit isn't the only body type desirable but rather some do like curves and a little something to hold on too.

Personally although I might question myself I've looked at a lot of the profiles from the ladies who have posted and each have very beautiful pictures but above that have personalities that shine xx"

They are so many men that appreciate a woman with a fuller figure. We all have different tastes, so don't worry about it at all, embrace your body. X

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Mum tums are beautiful if the lady is a nice person.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx

Well thats what most men find attractive, or at least did in her day. Now they probably prefer a little bigger, but still slim and fit.

This is nothing to do with 'societal norms', this is purely down to what body type is generally desirable and what isn't

I think people assume (rightly or wrongly) that whatever aesthetic is being promoted widely e.g. in the media, that this is what people find attractive?

Anyway, despite being a great fat lump with saggy boobs, I've been happily married for 13.5yrs and we've been together 19yrs, so that'll do for me

Well, whatever is in the media, one whole other person on this earth found me attractive and it is/was reciprocal, so that's all I need to know.

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan
over a year ago

Lymington

Another fan, even mention it so in my profile.

A mum tum and tiger stripes are just as attractive if not more so than without.

To me it shows the dedication, commitment and love to produce a child and I think that's way more sexy than a duck face and fake lashes.

Keep it real, real is sexy

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx

Well thats what most men find attractive, or at least did in her day. Now they probably prefer a little bigger, but still slim and fit.

This is nothing to do with 'societal norms', this is purely down to what body type is generally desirable and what isn't

I think people assume (rightly or wrongly) that whatever aesthetic is being promoted widely e.g. in the media, that this is what people find attractive?

Anyway, despite being a great fat lump with saggy boobs, I've been happily married for 13.5yrs and we've been together 19yrs, so that'll do for me

Well, whatever is in the media, one whole other person on this earth found me attractive and it is/was reciprocal, so that's all I need to know. "

More than one

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx

Well thats what most men find attractive, or at least did in her day. Now they probably prefer a little bigger, but still slim and fit.

This is nothing to do with 'societal norms', this is purely down to what body type is generally desirable and what isn't

I think people assume (rightly or wrongly) that whatever aesthetic is being promoted widely e.g. in the media, that this is what people find attractive?

Anyway, despite being a great fat lump with saggy boobs, I've been happily married for 13.5yrs and we've been together 19yrs, so that'll do for me

Well, whatever is in the media, one whole other person on this earth found me attractive and it is/was reciprocal, so that's all I need to know. "

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over a year ago

"Another fan, even mention it so in my profile.

A mum tum and tiger stripes are just as attractive if not more so than without.

To me it shows the dedication, commitment and love to produce a child and I think that's way more sexy than a duck face and fake lashes.

Keep it real, real is sexy"

Well said!

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx

Well thats what most men find attractive, or at least did in her day. Now they probably prefer a little bigger, but still slim and fit.

This is nothing to do with 'societal norms', this is purely down to what body type is generally desirable and what isn't

I think people assume (rightly or wrongly) that whatever aesthetic is being promoted widely e.g. in the media, that this is what people find attractive?

Anyway, despite being a great fat lump with saggy boobs, I've been happily married for 13.5yrs and we've been together 19yrs, so that'll do for me

Well, whatever is in the media, one whole other person on this earth found me attractive and it is/was reciprocal, so that's all I need to know. "

Oh im sure theres plenty more than one. My comments are relating to your body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!

What do you think of ladies with bellies?

The way your body looks is not so important. Its how you use it in bed that matters.

I've had some stunning girls in my life who couldn't give a decent blowjob and I've had some chunky girls with mummy tummy who gave me the ride of my life.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

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"Thanks everyone (mainly everyone!) For all your comments, low self esteem not helping and try as I can to feel sexy I'm struggling! I do love curves on ladies and don't notice on others but I am my worst critic.

Need to learn how to pose!! Xx "

Maybe get someone else to take the pics for you. and you post them. The resulting positivity helps with loving yourself.

I hated my post child spaniel ears for years, until a man I adore took pics of me. I posted them when I first joined here, and off to page 2 hotpics I went

That helped loads to overcome my dislike and realise that men did find them attractive and I now love my saggy spaniel ears x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Mum-tums and muffin tops absolutely rock. They are so damn sexy. I love them.

Luke

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By *exiSalliTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

You look gorgeous xxx curves are sexy xx

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