FabSwingers.com forum: I'll ruin you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just watching a bbc documentary called planet sex. Really good.

Made me think...am I the only woman who hates the terms...ruin you,smash your back doors in or similar. I find it a total turn off

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Just watching a bbc documentary called planet sex. Really good.

Made me think...am I the only woman who hates the terms...ruin you,smash your back doors in or similar. I find it a total turn off"

I think you'll be in the majority....it does nothing for me either. Makes me roll my eyes, thats about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can comfortably say I've never said those works to a women, and when I hear people say that it makes me cringe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can comfortably say I've never said those works to a women, and when I hear people say that it makes me cringe "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just watching a bbc documentary called planet sex. Really good.

Made me think...am I the only woman who hates the terms...ruin you,smash your back doors in or similar. I find it a total turn off"

Totally hate it, if we wanted to see each other injured we would cut each others brake lines.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Had a few messages on here saying that.... instant delete.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

So do you fancy a rodgering hahahaha

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's coupled with 'destroy' yo, very often. It seems rather infantile, if you ask me.

If they want to fuck me, that'll do nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't like it with someone I've not met but I'd love hearing it from someone I know well if they were going to fuck me hard enough that I felt ruined

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

No thanks not for me either.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Despise all of them but love ruin your mascara

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Hate all of them

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

My response is

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Crass porno speak.

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By *r SteelhammerMan
over a year ago

belfast

Whilst you was watching documentaries I've just got off video chat to a woman showing me her deep throat skills I think anyway would drop to there knees for this woman

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

A total turn off. The I’ll pound you for hours and I’ll eat your arse and pussy like there groceries! Really !

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Ruin lipstick sounds great. But what's all this I'll break your bed crap

like some chuck Norris

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I wouldn't like it with someone I've not met but I'd love hearing it from someone I know well if they were going to fuck me hard enough that I felt ruined

I agree. So I’d never say it to a stranger or in the context off a one off / swinging , thats just weird.

But when you’ve got that relationship that allows you to be fun/cheeky, or just total deviant kinky - I’ll say things like that and much filthier! women make me do it actually , they play up purposely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A total turn off. The I’ll pound you for hours and I’ll eat your arse and pussy like there groceries! Really !"

….I’d wear you like a feed bag!….

I mean, that’s got to have you dropping your knickers or I give up.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"A total turn off. The I’ll pound you for hours and I’ll eat your arse and pussy like there groceries! Really !

….I’d wear you like a feed bag!….

I mean, that’s got to have you dropping your knickers or I give up.

Someone actually said this to me once

Safe to say it never happened

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A total turn off. The I’ll pound you for hours and I’ll eat your arse and pussy like there groceries! Really !

….I’d wear you like a feed bag!….

I mean, that’s got to have you dropping your knickers or I give up.

Someone actually said this to me once

Safe to say it never happened

Mrs "

Haha. There’s surely a better way to say how much you desire someone or how much they get your heart racing when you see them and they have you aching for a kiss when you look at them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d smash you like a piñata

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Erm...

It's rare I like it. Sometimes it's kind of sexy, if they whisper in to your ears while you're out and you've just handed them your knickers. Actually that's not kind of sexy. That's a full on yep, let's go.

If they sound like Matt Berry/Hugh Grant, I'm definitely on board with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d smash you like a piñata

I just heard the collective sound of knickers dropping everywhere!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Erm...

If they sound like Matt Berry/Hugh Grant, I'm definitely on board with that."

Note to self - bookmark Matt Berry/Hugh Grant films

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Yes it’s not that sexy tbh xx

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

I find if said by the right person at the right time then they become just words.

Surely in the heat of the moment, half dressed if your partner/s let a phrase slip you wouldn't go marching out in a huff with your clothes under your arm? Would you?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Just watching a bbc documentary called planet sex. Really good.

Made me think...am I the only woman who hates the terms...ruin you,smash your back doors in or similar. I find it a total turn off"
terms like this are in the moment things not that i ever say them guys that say them outside of this just stop it will you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d smash you like a piñata

I just heard the collective sound of knickers dropping everywhere!"

*copy and pasted into my messages.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

"Just watching a bbc documentary called planet sex. Really good.

Made me think...am I the only woman who hates the terms...ruin you,smash your back doors in or similar. I find it a total turn off"

If it's said by a random on here in a message to us = block. Or anyone with a profile name or profile mentions of back door smasher or similar = blocked.

However if my man said something like this is, at the beginning or middle of sex between us. My knickers would hit thr floor instantly. Well they would if I was wearing any. I would know I'm in for a rough and animalistic session.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Tell me you watch a lot of porn without telling me you watch a lot of porn!

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Ope not for me either

Gets a block.

Had on the other day saying he and mate had day off and wanted to ruin me on film and other crass nonsense. Rude reply and block

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Phrases like smash your back doors or ruin you have nothing to do with sex.

I know people can use them without thinking and maybe that's part of the problem.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

From a random, it's a definite delete and or block depending on mood.

From someone I already know and enjoy, it works.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

If they sound like Matt Berry/Hugh Grant, I'm definitely on board with that."

Matt Berry does have a great voice. Like the secret love-child of Brian Blessed and Kenneth Williams

But even he had better never dare with the smashing or doors or ruining. In the choice of fight, flight or fuck - that just gives me instant fight. Possibly I’m a little aggressive

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

How about lovingly ruined?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe need some kinda sex talk retreat or similar but I've generally found keeping it simple with pleasurable moans, 'I want you so bads', 'you feel amazings' work and leave little room for awkwardness.

Anything as mentioned is usually said very tongue in cheek and we know it's playful.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I’d smash you like a piñata

Oooh. Hit me with your big stick and see if you can get me to spill my sweet treats

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"How about lovingly ruined? "

What has 'ruin' got to do with good sex ?

Especially from a woman's perspective ?

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

When Hades, home after a long day at work, horny because I've been teasing him all day with photos and messages that had his pulse racing and cock throbbing, closes the front door, looks at me with dark, lustfull eyes and says 'oh Babygirl, I am going to ruin you...' well that just has my dam breaking

A message from a random telling us he wants to ruin me just makes me laugh! Does absolutely nothing apart from turn me right off!

Cherry x

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Just watching a bbc documentary called planet sex. Really good.

Made me think...am I the only woman who hates the terms...ruin you,smash your back doors in or similar. I find it a total turn off

If it's said by a random on here in a message to us = block. Or anyone with a profile name or profile mentions of back door smasher or similar = blocked.

That, exactly!!

But it's a favourite thing for me to tell him too.. Once I have him tied to the bed and as I tighten my harness

O:-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If some random messages and says that, our initial instinct is "you're definitely not going to get the chance to"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When Hades, home after a long day at work, horny because I've been teasing him all day with photos and messages that had his pulse racing and cock throbbing, closes the front door, looks at me with dark, lustfull eyes and says 'oh Babygirl, I am going to ruin you...' well that just has my dam breaking

A message from a random telling us he wants to ruin me just makes me laugh! Does absolutely nothing apart from turn me right off!

Cherry x

Oh the dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm...

If they sound like Matt Berry/Hugh Grant, I'm definitely on board with that."

*nods in agreement

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I am a bloke and I find the terms offensive. Just because we like alternatives when it comes to sex dosent mean we have to lower ourselves to gutter language.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

When I'm pinned against something by my boyfriend as he growls how he's going to ruin me and leave me a useless mess on the floor.... Instant arousal

Randomer on the internet as a first message?

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

(we are an equal opportunities couple though... I get to ruin him too

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

Probably alpha-male terminology. Why the fucking brutality????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d smash you like a piñata

Oooh. Hit me with your big stick and see if you can get me to spill my sweet treats

I’d eat you like a 10p mix up.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I think it's great guys talk freely rather than moderate their language. It really helps with the filtering process.

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

Twats like Andrew Tate have a lot to answer for.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I find if said by the right person at the right time then they become just words.

Surely in the heat of the moment, half dressed if your partner/s let a phrase slip you wouldn't go marching out in a huff with your clothes under your arm? Would you? "

Depending on what they said, yes. That might well stop play! Really annoys me that people think they can get away with saying/doing things on the heat of the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me.. Mr O, will sometimes use that term, but in a funny satirical way and only once I’ve got to know the lady. If you knew my sense of humour, you’d understand.

In a totally Keith Lemon sort of way

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

Also, who's got the energy to ruin anyone?!

It sounds exhausting...

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