FabSwingers.com forum: I want my girlfriend to cheat???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone know why I’m having thoughts about wanting my girlfriend to sleep with other people and cheat on me? I’m a little confused why I would want this but recently it’s all I can think about. I want her to do it so badly. Any advice on why I would be thinking this way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you cheating possible guilty conscience, does she know you in here juat throwing it out there....easing your own conscience

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Tell her that I’ll do it

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

To make you feel less guilty about cheating on her?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Because you are looking to cheat on her and so this then makes it right?

Or you want to break up with her, but don’t want to be seen to be the bad guy?

Or you just want to involve her in your kinks with out her knowing?

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By *riendly older leggy wifeCouple
over a year ago

london

Careful what you wish for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No I don’t want to cheat on her at all, I want to remain loyal, but I want her to be in loyal to me so badly. Feel like she deserves to cheat on me and have as much fun as she wants

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Tell her your trying to cheat on her as well and hopefully she'll do the same!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you cheating possible guilty conscience, does she know you in here juat throwing it out there....easing your own conscience "

I’m not cheating no, I woundnt ever think about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tell her your trying to cheat on her as well and hopefully she'll do the same!"

I don’t want to cheat. I want her to be in loyal though, it turns me on thinking about it but I don’t know why

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

I’m confused popcorn anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m confused popcorn anyone

Why are you confused ?

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By *tar turn neMan
over a year ago

nearby

Hey you want to be cuckolded or humiliated. It's a common kink

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just to clear anything up. I don’t have a guilty conscience. I just can’t get it out of my head that I want her to cheat on me. It turns me on massively. But I’m not sure why it’s the only thing I can think about

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey you want to be cuckolded or humiliated. It's a common kink"

I’m not sure why though haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m confused popcorn anyone

Budge up I'll bring Nachos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if you want her to cheat, it's not cheating? Or am I confused?

Pity she can't read this!

Poor girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m confused popcorn anyone

Why are you confused ?"

cos you are on this site.

I shall pass on the popcorn but wait for the toffees to be passed round.

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By *ustABaldBeardedVikingMan
over a year ago

Hinckley

Power. You want her to have power of you and dominate your masculinity. The most humiliating way your consciousness thinks it can achieve that is by you watching or wanting her to get piped by someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm. On here as a single bi guy, with a girlfriend. Have you been open with her about your fab life of 5 weeks (on this profile)? If not, I'd consider that to be cheating, dishonest at the least.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

You're cheating by being on here if she doesn't know, I'm guessing you want her to even the score

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're cheating by being on here if she doesn't know, I'm guessing you want her to even the score "

She does know that I’m on here. I mainly use it for forums

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

"Are you cheating possible guilty conscience, does she know you in here juat throwing it out there....easing your own conscience

I’m not cheating no, I woundnt ever think about it "

But your profile says...

I’m a submissive man looking for a dominant woman or couple to own me and for me to serve them. Would like to experiment with humiliation tasks also.

Does that not class as "thinking about cheating" ?

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

"I’m confused popcorn anyone

Budge up I'll bring Nachos "

And I’ll bring the penis for OP’s girlfriends

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you cheating possible guilty conscience, does she know you in here juat throwing it out there....easing your own conscience

I’m not cheating no, I woundnt ever think about it

But your profile says...

I’m a submissive man looking for a dominant woman or couple to own me and for me to serve them. Would like to experiment with humiliation tasks also.

Does that not class as "thinking about cheating" ?"

No because she knows about this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably like your other thread, you want to be a cuck maybe.

Miss S x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"You're cheating by being on here if she doesn't know, I'm guessing you want her to even the score

She does know that I’m on here. I mainly use it for forums "

You’ve posted on literally 3 threads dude

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Probably like your other thread, you want to be a cuck maybe.

Miss S x

Yes potentially

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're cheating by being on here if she doesn't know, I'm guessing you want her to even the score

She does know that I’m on here. I mainly use it for forums

You’ve posted on literally 3 threads dude

What’s wrong with that?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"You're cheating by being on here if she doesn't know, I'm guessing you want her to even the score

She does know that I’m on here. I mainly use it for forums "

So you can obviously communicate with her well then so have you told her how you'd like her to cheat on you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're cheating by being on here if she doesn't know, I'm guessing you want her to even the score

She does know that I’m on here. I mainly use it for forums

You’ve posted on literally 3 threads dude

Oh the power of that little green arrow

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody's telling porkies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But in all seriousness, just have a chat with her. Communication is key

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because she knows about this "

What, exactly, does she know?

You are a Fab member?

You are bi?

You are actively seeking a couple and to be their sub?

Have you been completely and utterly honest with her?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're cheating by being on here if she doesn't know, I'm guessing you want her to even the score

She does know that I’m on here. I mainly use it for forums

So you can obviously communicate with her well then so have you told her how you'd like her to cheat on you?"

I’m not sure how to bring it up. Like people say she might think I’m using it as an excuse to cheat on her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I don’t want to cheat on her at all, I want to remain loyal, but I want her to be in loyal to me so badly. Feel like she deserves to cheat on me and have as much fun as she wants "

You don't want to cheat...but your profile, it's worded that you are looking to cheat?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Somebody's telling porkies

How so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so confused

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I don’t want to cheat on her at all, I want to remain loyal, but I want her to be in loyal to me so badly. Feel like she deserves to cheat on me and have as much fun as she wants

You don't want to cheat...but your profile, it's worded that you are looking to cheat? "

She’s quite ok with me being a sub to some couple

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Does anyone know why I’m having thoughts about wanting my girlfriend to sleep with other people and cheat on me? I’m a little confused why I would want this but recently it’s all I can think about. I want her to do it so badly. Any advice on why I would be thinking this way?"

sometimes trying to understand why we want something is not possible. You just want that type of relationship (or you think you'd like to try it). Could you have a a chat with her and maybe she could help you understand or even introduce a bit of roleplay to see how you feel?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Potentially yes. I just have to have the conversation with her x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you don't want to cheat on her OP ....why are you on here? Are you not planning on meeting anyone? x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Potentially yes. I just have to have the conversation with her x"

I hope it goes well and the two of you can enjoy your kink together. How will you feel if she doesn't like the idea at all?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you don't want to cheat on her OP ....why are you on here? Are you not planning on meeting anyone? x"

I read the forums mainly, but she’s been ok with the idea of me being a sub for a couple

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"If you don't want to cheat on her OP ....why are you on here? Are you not planning on meeting anyone? x"

His girlfriend is happy for him to be sub to someone

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"If you don't want to cheat on her OP ....why are you on here? Are you not planning on meeting anyone? x

I read the forums mainly, but she’s been ok with the idea of me being a sub for a couple "

Easiest answer: sit her down and voice your thoughts.

She will either love the idea or hate it....only she can give you the answer you are looking for more than a bunch of random strangers who don't really know your setup x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you don't want to cheat on her OP ....why are you on here? Are you not planning on meeting anyone? x

I read the forums mainly, but she’s been ok with the idea of me being a sub for a couple

Easiest answer: sit her down and voice your thoughts.

She will either love the idea or hate it....only she can give you the answer you are looking for more than a bunch of random strangers who don't really know your setup x"

Yeah I guess you’re right

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Just chat to her about it, although sometimes the fantasy can be better than the reality.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're on here without her knowledge, you are cheating. Maybe it's guilt which is making you obsess over it.

Does it turn you on to think of her not cheating but fucking another guy with you knowing and giving the green light? Or could it be the thought of being humiliated that does it for you? Maybe you enjoy feeling like shit and like she can do better?

My partner encourages me to be with other men, but would be distraught if I broke his trust.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you're on here without her knowledge, you are cheating. Maybe it's guilt which is making you obsess over it.

My partner encourages me to be with other men, but would be distraught if I broke his trust."

I want her to have more fun with a bigger and better cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're on here without her knowledge, you are cheating. Maybe it's guilt which is making you obsess over it.

My partner encourages me to be with other men, but would be distraught if I broke his trust.

I want her to have more fun with a bigger and better cock "

Sounds like cuckold to me. Maybe look into that dynamic. There's also stag and vixen too, but I don't think that's for you.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"If you don't want to cheat on her OP ....why are you on here? Are you not planning on meeting anyone? x

I read the forums mainly, but she’s been ok with the idea of me being a sub for a couple "

Or female?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

OP I think this has escalated in the 2 weeks since you wanted to be a cuckold couple. Time for a rethink of your relationship I think.

The green arrow never lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's time that you looked for a new girlfriend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think it's time that you looked for a new girlfriend "

Why so?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

its going end in tears,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking (maybe I'm wrong) that the op dosent actually have a girlfriend and has posted this for attention

If however I am wrong then I would suggest that you either let the girl know your thoughts and be fully open with her in addition to showing her your profile on here

Then let her decide what she wants to do

However as I said, I think this is fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's time that you looked for a new girlfriend

Why so?"

Seriously your asking why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s only so much Fab you can take in in a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s only so much Fab you can take in in a day "

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