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By *ezza_80 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Honest question being on the smaller side lol

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Of course it does.

But it matters differently to different people.

One person's 'wow' is another's too big/too small.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Yes I find at clubs they go for the bigger cock well that’s what I tell myself

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you're playing in a small village church or a cathedral

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Of course it does.

But it matters differently to different people.

One person's 'wow' is another's too big/too small."

Very much so

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Depends if your talking about your height or cock size

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Yes and no. Some people love it - others look for other things. Just like life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t do anything about it so why worry about the answer to the question.

Use what ya got to the best of your ability.

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

Personally I prefer girth rather than length...

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax


"Depends if you're playing in a small village church or a cathedral "

Lol...

Got to do the pelvic floor exercises & a good orgasm or orgasms definitely help with that..

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax


"Honest question being on the smaller side lol"

What do you class as small?..

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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago

galway


"Honest question being on the smaller side lol"

Yes for me although I still need a connection and they have to know how to use it. No point in meeting something with a big one of they are only in to please themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends what your nailing

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By *onnyJohnMan
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Honest question being on the smaller side lol"

Some will say yes, some will say no..

That being said a very very large amount of profiles on here will say they are looking for "w/e" or "v/w/e" ect ect, its very rare that you'll find any saying their looking for small..

So yes i would say the truth is that size does matter to an extent, also it must be said that some say it doesn't matter but you have to know how to use it..

The fact is nothing anyone says is going to really answer your question..

All i can say is be happy with what you got

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past my size has affected my sex life, as its too big apparently

So I suppose about 7 inch is the Preferred size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a large cock visually appealing, most of the time I find a large cock physically pleasing but it’s not a deal breaker.

Gemini

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

No but spelling does matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose the dose size matters dependant upon what it is your taking.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Honest question being on the smaller side lol

Some will say yes, some will say no..

That being said a very very large amount of profiles on here will say they are looking for "w/e" or "v/w/e" ect ect, its very rare that you'll find any saying their looking for small..

So yes i would say the truth is that size does matter to an extent, also it must be said that some say it doesn't matter but you have to know how to use it..

The fact is nothing anyone says is going to really answer your question..

All i can say is be happy with what you got"

The loudest are not always the majority.

You notice those that state they want it, while those that don't never really stand out by default.

The majority don't state at all, a lot say vwe, a reasonable amount state they don't want over 7".

Those that want big tend to be the ones that are vocal about it. That's all it is.

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By *onnyJohnMan
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Honest question being on the smaller side lol

Some will say yes, some will say no..

That being said a very very large amount of profiles on here will say they are looking for "w/e" or "v/w/e" ect ect, its very rare that you'll find any saying their looking for small..

So yes i would say the truth is that size does matter to an extent, also it must be said that some say it doesn't matter but you have to know how to use it..

The fact is nothing anyone says is going to really answer your question..

All i can say is be happy with what you got

The loudest are not always the majority.

You notice those that state they want it, while those that don't never really stand out by default.

The majority don't state at all, a lot say vwe, a reasonable amount state they don't want over 7".

Those that want big tend to be the ones that are vocal about it. That's all it is. "

Its a good point you make, i can only go by what i see..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes. Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honest question being on the smaller side lol"

How big are your thumbs?

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By *eardedD84Man
over a year ago

Ryde

Well girth and size would depend on what the other person is looking for

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Yes.

To both of us.

It can be the case with some couples that they seek larger guys because that's something they don't have access to at home. For others, if they're used to a certain size then there can be a reluctance to look for anyone significantly smaller.

As other have said though. It's more important to some than others and you can't change what you've got, so little point worrying about it.

A

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Do you mean height or length?

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By *iker and Mare!Couple
over a year ago

Torbay


"Do you mean height or length?"

Doesn't matter.... Got both bases covered!

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Don't like tiny cocks and bad spelling

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By *iscrete2meatMan
over a year ago

Stockton on Tees


"Don't like tiny cocks and bad spelling "

That is a bad combo, thank heavens for the spell checker...the other thing unfortunately is beyond my control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve never asked someone what their cock size is before a meet.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

For me no, I'd much rather a 4 inch that knows how to use it than an 8 inch jackhammer.

I've a soft spot for a tiny peen.

(Not an invite to send dick pics to the inbox)

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical body size, body hair and cleanliness will have much more bearing in reality but in some quarters especially if you enjoy taking photos being larger in the manhood dept won't be a disadvantage

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

The rare times I meet a guy. Cock size is important for as I find larger ones / bigger balls a turn on / arousal .

If I am not visually stimulated first then I am not interested, so none of this motion of the ocean nonsense would matter to me.

This is just my own personal reason and humans are varied as many have said before. Enjoy what you enjoy and deal with what you have as best as you can

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

It's not the plane, it's the pilot.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Do you mean height or length?

Doesn't matter.... Got both bases covered! "

You go girl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To men, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To men, yes"

Let’s be honest size does matter to men and women.

Undersized is clearly an issue as is oversized.

I’ve had partners who commented that they prefer a thick appendage then someone with a thin penis.

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By *dmundwilsonMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

A dose is a dose, needs sorted

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"To men, yes"

Partially some women (and other men) have their part to blame for that.

Preference is preference and nobody should have it dictated what they can or should like, but as said further up those that prefer larger size are the more vocal and loudest at it, making it more of a thing.

The reassurance is generally silent until situations like this pop up and then go silent again until the next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found quite often those with the biggest cock are the biggest dicks, and generally only men give a f***

Note I said generally not always

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes, not a fan of Vwe/hung. Prefer average.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

Don't think women want a dose whatever size!

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Female perspective by proxy here...

All of my girlfriends have said yes.

None of them have liked a tiny one, but 5"-6" can do the job.

All of them have preferred something in the 7" range.

But... apparently anything larger can be problematic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To men, yes

Let’s be honest size does matter to men and women.

Undersized is clearly an issue as is oversized.

I’ve had partners who commented that they prefer a thick appendage then someone with a thin penis.

"

Yes but you're talking about the biggest and smallest 1% of dicks. So 98% of men shouldn't worry too much about it

Men think that a big dick is all it takes to pleasure a woman and that's the problem. We know that there's not a correlation.

The main reason we go for guys with bigger dicks is because it's what my husband enjoys watching

This was my point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Female perspective by proxy here...

All of my girlfriends have said yes.

None of them have liked a tiny one, but 5"-6" can do the job.

All of them have preferred something in the 7" range.

But... apparently anything larger can be problematic.

"

Foof and bum are very different

The wife can accommodate more than me ??

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Female perspective by proxy here...

All of my girlfriends have said yes.

None of them have liked a tiny one, but 5"-6" can do the job.

All of them have preferred something in the 7" range.

But... apparently anything larger can be problematic.

Foof and bum are very different

The wife can accommodate more than me ?? "

I'm just relaying what I've been told.

What I like is another matter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's about what's attached to the cock, 1st meet I ever had.. The guy had a cock like a horse.. But he was a bigger prick!! I am happy with average and a nice smelling guy. Also love heavy Cummers x

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Yes door frames for example if youre over 6'6" too tall you'll have to duck and if you live in a five hundred year old cottage with beams definitely your gonna have to duck

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

K likes bigger when with someone else, to be honest, it's real turn for me especially when she goes on meet on her own and comes home to me and tells me they were bigger than me.

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax


"Don't think women want a dose whatever size!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you can fill a bog roll inner tube and match a Sky remote, or is it a can of Lynx Africa?, you're good. Fab standard issue cock...

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By *heron212Man
over a year ago

London

If it didn't matter, then this post wouldn't exist.

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By *con7Man
over a year ago

BARNET

I hope it does haha

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"All depends what your nailing "

Your colours to the mast?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it matters.

But you cant change it, so little point stressing over it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all about the girth which is lucky for me as I don’t have a lot of length

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee

100% it does.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Not really, I cum easily, so as long as it's not a baked bean it's fine.

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By *ayleePhoenixTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

More depends on how they are operated.

Some big cocks are real dickheads. Some smaller ones make me smile in a good way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To some extent sure (a micropenis must be an acquired taste). But having a bigger dick isn't all its cracked up to be.

If you're not careful, you can cause pain or discomfort by going too fast / too deep too soon. Hard ons in public are a nightmare. And anal? That's one brave partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does, but it's not as simple as: I want a monster cock or I don't want anything below xyz size.

It does affect experience to certain extent depending on what occurs between the bedsheets. So yes it does matter. I had a partner before who was pretty small and found being able to orgasm through penetrative sex difficult and slightly frustrating. I also had a partner who was huge and I couldn't swallow him whole during oral which felt like I was underperforming or not giving him enough satisfaction. So all depends on circumstances.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No. It's what he can do with it that matters to me. Being small or big, it doesn't matter if he's a shit fuck

Pop it in and pound away is not a good mantra

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

I dont think its the size of the hammer but the nail

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By *ustyBrunette666Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes....but more so girth than massive length

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Yes....but more so girth than massive length "

;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. It's what he can do with it that matters to me. Being small or big, it doesn't matter if he's a shit fuck

Pop it in and pound away is not a good mantra "

I find it mind boggling that in this day and age with much higher levels of education available and a significantly more sexually open society people still don't put any effort in to improving their technique or approach - especially in an environment like this one.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I dont think its the size of the hammer but the nail "

I think you might be doing it wrong

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Why suck a little cock when you can suck a big fat juicy one?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Why suck a little cock when you can suck a big fat juicy one? "

Gobstoppers can be hard to manipulate

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Why suck a little cock when you can suck a big fat juicy one?

Gobstoppers can be hard to manipulate "

But worth the juicy centre though right?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Why suck a little cock when you can suck a big fat juicy one?

Gobstoppers can be hard to manipulate

But worth the juicy centre though right? "

Depends on the brand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find a large cock visually appealing, most of the time I find a large cock physically pleasing but it’s not a deal breaker.

Gemini "

Yes, spot-on with this answer, couldn't agree more.....obviously for Little Un.....not Kim Jong.....just to make that clear.....she prefers thick links to chipolatas.....no offence meant (-:

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Why suck a little cock when you can suck a big fat juicy one?

Gobstoppers can be hard to manipulate

But worth the juicy centre though right?

Depends on the brand "

I don’t like Wrigleys

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

It really doesn't to me...cock doesn't make me cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a man to be on the smaller side

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

It also depends on what it looks like, K says the vains on mine feel nice and is a nice fit but she also likes to feel like she is filled up by bigger (her words).

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

My wife tells me regularly that size matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op hasn't returned to the thread

Your honesty has scared him away!

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Op hasn't returned to the thread

Your honesty has scared him away! "

Haha I reckon to most girls it does matter it's that they are too nice

and don't want to hurt the feelings of men, or they never had one that didn't do the job maybe or I could be talk utter drivel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op hasn't returned to the thread

Your honesty has scared him away!

Haha I reckon to most girls it does matter it's that they are too nice

and don't want to hurt the feelings of men, or they never had one that didn't do the job maybe or I could be talk utter drivel "

I agree

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

verity ius the spice of life however for me if under average then im not too interested one to one but if part of a group then go for it..

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

So much debate about the size of the package!! So many other factors...i find it really shallow

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"To men, yes

Let’s be honest size does matter to men and women.

Undersized is clearly an issue as is oversized.

I’ve had partners who commented that they prefer a thick appendage then someone with a thin penis.

Yes but you're talking about the biggest and smallest 1% of dicks. So 98% of men shouldn't worry too much about it

Men think that a big dick is all it takes to pleasure a woman and that's the problem. We know that there's not a correlation.

The main reason we go for guys with bigger dicks is because it's what my husband enjoys watching

This was my point "

It was explained to me by a husband once….”she can have burger at home so when go out we like a steak”…..think I’m a quarter pounder

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"verity ius the spice of life however for me if under average then im not too interested one to one but if part of a group then go for it..

"

Yes. I’ve found this…..lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To a certain extent I hear women say so but some also say feel intimidated. So pros and cons.....each to their own. Be proud of what u have, big or small!

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"To a certain extent I hear women say so but some also say feel intimidated. So pros and cons.....each to their own. Be proud of what u have, big or small!"
,, exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and no. Some people love it - others look for other things. Just like life."

What a profile intro.

Think im wet

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