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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "

Viagra just cause your penis to become erect for longer. It's not going to grow teeth...is this your first time using it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But a bad idea to let them know, just in case you have an adverse reaction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?

Viagra just cause your penis to become erect for longer. It's not going to grow teeth...is this your first time using it? "

I've never needed it

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'd probably take it as an insult to my physical attractiveness.

But I'm a prickly bitch so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?

Viagra just cause your penis to become erect for longer. It's not going to grow teeth...is this your first time using it?

I've never needed it "

Okay...asking for a friend?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd probably take it as an insult to my physical attractiveness.

But I'm a prickly bitch so."

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?

Viagra just cause your penis to become erect for longer. It's not going to grow teeth...is this your first time using it?

I've never needed it

Okay...asking for a friend? "

Just thinking out loud

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By *itonthesideWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I would wanna know

When it continues to stay up all night i would prefer to know that was medicated rather than thinking i hadn’t satisfied then enough

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "

'Destroy'?!! Nice

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If a guy plans on destroying my vagina I'd want to know so I could cancel. Jeez!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)

I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.

I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If a guy plans on destroying my vagina I'd want to know so I could cancel. Jeez!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy plans on destroying my vagina I'd want to know so I could cancel. Jeez!"

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?

Viagra just cause your penis to become erect for longer. It's not going to grow teeth...is this your first time using it?

I've never needed it "

Give it another 30 years - you might be lucky...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)

I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.

I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it. "

12 hours. Twelve hours! God I'd need food, drink and rest not to mention an ice pack. How unutterrably boring

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney


"I'd probably take it as an insult to my physical attractiveness.

But I'm a prickly bitch so."

Might view it as less of an insult than a floppy dick tho?

Age and various illnesses can make getting hard difficult, or impossible. Viagra "CAN" help. Sadly doesn't always.

An understanding and helpful sex partner is much more important.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)

I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.

I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it.

12 hours. Twelve hours! God I'd need food, drink and rest not to mention an ice pack. How unutterrably boring"

Tell me about it

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

There's a lot of misconceptions about Viagra. It's just increasing blood flow.

If you're not turned on, your blood doesn't go to your penis, so even if he has taken something it's not an affront to your sexuality as a woman.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I've no problem with a guy using viagra if he needs it.

We met a guy who took it despite not needing it. I would have found it considerate of him to have asked if I wanted repeat sex because I could have told him I don't and he could have cancelled or not taken the tablet.

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney


"There's a lot of misconceptions about Viagra. It's just increasing blood flow.

If you're not turned on, your blood doesn't go to your penis, so even if he has taken something it's not an affront to your sexuality as a woman. "

Spot on ??

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)

I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.

I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it. "

This should be the next 'Getting your moneies worth' McDonald's advert.

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By *itonthesideWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I've no problem with a guy using viagra if he needs it.

We met a guy who took it despite not needing it. I would have found it considerate of him to have asked if I wanted repeat sex because I could have told him I don't and he could have cancelled or not taken the tablet. "

yep there is a common misconception that women want to go “all night” … in reality ive found that to be a very very rare occasion that would be driven by total lust in the moment , rather than pre planned chemicals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "

Regardless of viagra it's not ethical to destroy a woman's vagina

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've no problem with a guy using viagra if he needs it.

We met a guy who took it despite not needing it. I would have found it considerate of him to have asked if I wanted repeat sex because I could have told him I don't and he could have cancelled or not taken the tablet.

yep there is a common misconception that women want to go “all night” … in reality ive found that to be a very very rare occasion that would be driven by total lust in the moment , rather than pre planned chemicals "

With me it might be an age thing. I'd much rather a flirty drink or meal followed by an erotic encounter. That's not to say that lengthy, repeat sessions don't have their place, they're just not for me

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?

Regardless of viagra it's not ethical to destroy a woman's vagina "

I'm a lover not a destroyer.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Might view it as less of an insult than a floppy dick tho?

Age and various illnesses can make getting hard difficult, or impossible. Viagra "CAN" help. Sadly doesn't always.

An understanding and helpful sex partner is much more important."

I have people who got the nerves and had issues getting or maintaining. There's plenty of fun can be had in other ways and that generally leads to the original issue being resolved.

I'd rather an honest floppy over chemical induced hard.

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By *itonthesideWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I've no problem with a guy using viagra if he needs it.

We met a guy who took it despite not needing it. I would have found it considerate of him to have asked if I wanted repeat sex because I could have told him I don't and he could have cancelled or not taken the tablet.

yep there is a common misconception that women want to go “all night” … in reality ive found that to be a very very rare occasion that would be driven by total lust in the moment , rather than pre planned chemicals

With me it might be an age thing. I'd much rather a flirty drink or meal followed by an erotic encounter. That's not to say that lengthy, repeat sessions don't have their place, they're just not for me "

I don’t think it is age … at almost half your age i completely agree … its just more fun right!

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


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I've never needed it "

Everything comes to he who waits!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I'd want to know as I don't like lengthy sessions, I much prefer repeaters over the space of our time together. But if we are wanting to bump uglies we would already be friends and happy to discuss these matters

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"There's a lot of misconceptions about Viagra. It's just increasing blood flow.

If you're not turned on, your blood doesn't go to your penis, so even if he has taken something it's not an affront to your sexuality as a woman. "

That's not strictly true, when I'm sitting down on the loo, for a number two, getting a semi there and then is a sign that the tablet's working, as those local muscles are busy.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "

I'd think a blue pill just gives you a cock on, it doesn't give you stamina. So you might be ready but not able as you're all seized up, cramped and huffed out. That, and a they might have an early start so could kick you out as soon as you've popped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the person taking it doesn't have an erectile disfunction problem, they're using it for recreational drug purposes, so I'd like to know, yes, because I wouldn't want to meet anyone that uses recreational drugs.

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney


"Might view it as less of an insult than a floppy dick tho?

Age and various illnesses can make getting hard difficult, or impossible. Viagra "CAN" help. Sadly doesn't always.

An understanding and helpful sex partner is much more important.

I have people who got the nerves and had issues getting or maintaining. There's plenty of fun can be had in other ways and that generally leads to the original issue being resolved.

I'd rather an honest floppy over chemical induced hard."

As an earlier poster mentioned, viagra WILL NOT make you hard if you are not otherwise "turned on". It just allows some of us physical expression of that arousal that otherwise might have been impossible.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"There's a lot of misconceptions about Viagra. It's just increasing blood flow.

If you're not turned on, your blood doesn't go to your penis, so even if he has taken something it's not an affront to your sexuality as a woman.

That's not strictly true, when I'm sitting down on the loo, for a number two, getting a semi there and then is a sign that the tablet's working, as those local muscles are busy."

The anal stimuli must be getting your cogs turning. One of the police psyche test questions was do you get turned on having a poo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a lot of misconceptions about Viagra. It's just increasing blood flow.

If you're not turned on, your blood doesn't go to your penis, so even if he has taken something it's not an affront to your sexuality as a woman.

That's not strictly true, when I'm sitting down on the loo, for a number two, getting a semi there and then is a sign that the tablet's working, as those local muscles are busy.

The anal stimuli must be getting your cogs turning. One of the police psyche test questions was do you get turned on having a poo. "

"Do you get a boner when taking a shit"

Was also a question in Marilyn mansons biography

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I’d day its more ethical to just keep the inside thoughts inside and not subject strangers to them!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"As an earlier poster mentioned, viagra WILL NOT make you hard if you are not otherwise "turned on". It just allows some of us physical expression of that arousal that otherwise might have been impossible.

"

I'd rather an honest floppy over chemical induced hard.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

The thing about Viagra is this: it needs an hour to kick in so we will only take it if we need it.

Great for a meet and play, but wasted on a pure social.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Anyone professing to want to "destroy my vagina" would be best placed saving their money and not buying the blue pills, because they wouldn't be coming within a country mile of me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?

Regardless of viagra it's not ethical to destroy a woman's vagina "

It's only an expression...nothing more to it

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "

If you take it before meet and walk in with a hardon then yes she may get a shock

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By *renchy19Man
over a year ago

Heathrow


"I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)

I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.

I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it.

12 hours. Twelve hours! God I'd need food, drink and rest not to mention an ice pack. How unutterrably boring"

I was thinking much the same. I’d need about 4 T breaks, several sports drinks, Uber eats delivery and probably a defibrillator on stand by!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I've never needed it

Everything comes to he who waits!"

LOL. You just won the internet!

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"As an earlier poster mentioned, viagra WILL NOT make you hard if you are not otherwise "turned on". It just allows some of us physical expression of that arousal that otherwise might have been impossible.

I'd rather an honest floppy over chemical induced hard."

That's good to hear, but some of us blokes want to climax and can only do that with an erection.

We sometimes need chemical help with erections: just as much as you need lube from a bottle, when you are dry down there, from the hot tub, or menstrual cycle.

Imagine if I typed, "I'd rather an honest dry vagina over a bottle lubricated vagina" I'd get trolled for that.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)

I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.

I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it.

12 hours. Twelve hours! God I'd need food, drink and rest not to mention an ice pack. How unutterrably boring

I was thinking much the same. I’d need about 4 T breaks, several sports drinks, Uber eats delivery and probably a defibrillator on stand by!!"

Lazarus raised?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"That's good to hear, but some of us blokes want to climax and can only do that with an erection.

We sometimes need chemical help with erections: just as much as you need lube from a bottle, when you are dry down there, from the hot tub, or menstrual cycle.

Imagine if I typed, "I'd rather an honest dry vagina over a bottle lubricated vagina" I'd get trolled for that.

"

That's fine. But I have my preferences and I can like what I like.

One of my partners requires certain chemicals to function as a human. I usually avoid that in any sense, but he's important enough to me for that part not to matter. It's not a hard and fast rule, but it is a preference.

The question posed was regarding taking the blue pills on the sly in order to 'destroy' a vagina. I can't think of anything less appealing.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"That's good to hear, but some of us blokes want to climax and can only do that with an erection.

We sometimes need chemical help with erections: just as much as you need lube from a bottle, when you are dry down there, from the hot tub, or menstrual cycle.

Imagine if I typed, "I'd rather an honest dry vagina over a bottle lubricated vagina" I'd get trolled for that.

That's fine. But I have my preferences and I can like what I like.

One of my partners requires certain chemicals to function as a human. I usually avoid that in any sense, but he's important enough to me for that part not to matter. It's not a hard and fast rule, but it is a preference.

The question posed was regarding taking the blue pills on the sly in order to 'destroy' a vagina. I can't think of anything less appealing."

That's awful.

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney


"As an earlier poster mentioned, viagra WILL NOT make you hard if you are not otherwise "turned on". It just allows some of us physical expression of that arousal that otherwise might have been impossible.

I'd rather an honest floppy over chemical induced hard."

Still missing the point

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney


"That's good to hear, but some of us blokes want to climax and can only do that with an erection.

We sometimes need chemical help with erections: just as much as you need lube from a bottle, when you are dry down there, from the hot tub, or menstrual cycle.

Imagine if I typed, "I'd rather an honest dry vagina over a bottle lubricated vagina" I'd get trolled for that.

That's fine. But I have my preferences and I can like what I like.

One of my partners requires certain chemicals to function as a human. I usually avoid that in any sense, but he's important enough to me for that part not to matter. It's not a hard and fast rule, but it is a preference.

The question posed was regarding taking the blue pills on the sly in order to 'destroy' a vagina. I can't think of anything less appealing."

Many people need chemicals to live, never mind get a stiffie.

Diabetes, heart disease etc etc. It's no different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd probably take it as an insult to my physical attractiveness.

But I'm a prickly bitch so."

This is pretty common reaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "

Should a person have to also reveal if they’re taking anti depressants ?

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "

This is destroying her health, mental and physical and is a bit of a passion killer.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"That's good to hear, but some of us blokes want to climax and can only do that with an erection.

We sometimes need chemical help with erections: just as much as you need lube from a bottle, when you are dry down there, from the hot tub, or menstrual cycle.

Imagine if I typed, "I'd rather an honest dry vagina over a bottle lubricated vagina" I'd get trolled for that.

That's fine. But I have my preferences and I can like what I like.

One of my partners requires certain chemicals to function as a human. I usually avoid that in any sense, but he's important enough to me for that part not to matter. It's not a hard and fast rule, but it is a preference.

The question posed was regarding taking the blue pills on the sly in order to 'destroy' a vagina. I can't think of anything less appealing."

I've never understood why anyone would want to 'destroy a vagina'?

I've never heard any woman say 'ooh - I really want to rub a dick til the friction causes it to whittle down to nothing and burst into flames'.......

A

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)

I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.

I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it.

12 hours. Twelve hours! God I'd need food, drink and rest not to mention an ice pack. How unutterrably boring

I was thinking much the same. I’d need about 4 T breaks, several sports drinks, Uber eats delivery and probably a defibrillator on stand by!!"

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Destroy their vagina?!

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By *itonthesideWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?

Should a person have to also reveal if they’re taking anti depressants ? "

You dont have to reveal anything

But if the chances are it could impede or enhance your ability to perform on what has been planned as a sexual meet … surely it feels like something you would want to

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?

Should a person have to also reveal if they’re taking anti depressants ? "

Yes, for two reasons. ADs can cause impotence, even years afterwards. This removes the "is it him or me?" cycling thinking of self-doubt for her afterwards.

There is far too much stigma floating around, talking kills shame.

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

When you drive past the Pfizer factory in Cork in the evening all of the forklifts are parked up with their masts fully extended.

Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd definitely want a heads up if someone thought they were going to "destroy my vagina" just so I can cancel.

Pxx

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?

Should a person have to also reveal if they’re taking anti depressants ?

You dont have to reveal anything

But if the chances are it could impede or enhance your ability to perform on what has been planned as a sexual meet … surely it feels like something you would want to "

Never going to mention that I used to have 12 hr sessions as that would definitely impede future meets by the sounds of it. ()

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"That's good to hear, but some of us blokes want to climax and can only do that with an erection.

We sometimes need chemical help with erections: just as much as you need lube from a bottle, when you are dry down there, from the hot tub, or menstrual cycle.

Imagine if I typed, "I'd rather an honest dry vagina over a bottle lubricated vagina" I'd get trolled for that.

That's fine. But I have my preferences and I can like what I like.

One of my partners requires certain chemicals to function as a human. I usually avoid that in any sense, but he's important enough to me for that part not to matter. It's not a hard and fast rule, but it is a preference.

The question posed was regarding taking the blue pills on the sly in order to 'destroy' a vagina. I can't think of anything less appealing."

What, any chemicals? I require chemicals (aka medically prescribed drugs) to function every single day, as do millions of people.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"That's good to hear, but some of us blokes want to climax and can only do that with an erection.

We sometimes need chemical help with erections: just as much as you need lube from a bottle, when you are dry down there, from the hot tub, or menstrual cycle.

Imagine if I typed, "I'd rather an honest dry vagina over a bottle lubricated vagina" I'd get trolled for that.

That's fine. But I have my preferences and I can like what I like.

One of my partners requires certain chemicals to function as a human. I usually avoid that in any sense, but he's important enough to me for that part not to matter. It's not a hard and fast rule, but it is a preference.

The question posed was regarding taking the blue pills on the sly in order to 'destroy' a vagina. I can't think of anything less appealing.

What, any chemicals? I require chemicals (aka medically prescribed drugs) to function every single day, as do millions of people. "

A GMC questionnaire is given out pre meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There seem to be a few strange ideas knocking around this thread.

Viagra helps with erection problems - it doesn’t make you into an uncontrollable machine, and it certainly doesn’t override respect (or even plain decency) and make you “destroy” anything. I know it’s a turn of phrase and probably nothing is meant by it, but it’s still not nice and it clouds what could have been a good discussion about ED.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"There seem to be a few strange ideas knocking around this thread.

Viagra helps with erection problems - it doesn’t make you into an uncontrollable machine, and it certainly doesn’t override respect (or even plain decency) and make you “destroy” anything. I know it’s a turn of phrase and probably nothing is meant by it, but it’s still not nice and it clouds what could have been a good discussion about ED.

"

Was harbouring on saying something about how internet phrasing can be taken out of context but couldn't be arsed.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

*labouring even?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would want to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seem to be a few strange ideas knocking around this thread.

Viagra helps with erection problems - it doesn’t make you into an uncontrollable machine, and it certainly doesn’t override respect (or even plain decency) and make you “destroy” anything. I know it’s a turn of phrase and probably nothing is meant by it, but it’s still not nice and it clouds what could have been a good discussion about ED.

Was harbouring on saying something about how internet phrasing can be taken out of context but couldn't be arsed. "

I acknowledged that it was a turn of phrase, albeit an unpleasant one. Not sure how I ever took it out of context? We’re both talking about sex, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some rather troubling lack of knowledge in the thread.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "

I wouldn’t meet anyone using it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy plans on destroying my vagina I'd want to know so I could cancel. Jeez!"
And using that word implies that he's confident and experienced and in need of viagra.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One time I took four viagra and I could see my heart moving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd probably take it as an insult to my physical attractiveness.

But I'm a prickly bitch so."

That is one way of seeing it.

However, he might be a little nervous fucking someone he's not met before and doesn't want to let them down.

So it can be seen as a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One time I took four viagra and I could see my heart moving "

Did you become transparent?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"What, any chemicals? I require chemicals (aka medically prescribed drugs) to function every single day, as do millions of people. "

I prefer to know. As I said, one of my partners requires them himself. I have too many recovering addicts in my life to be comfortable with anyone being under the influence of any chemicals in my space without complete openness and honesty, and even then it can fuck with my head badly.

I'm aware how much this cuts down my pool of potential suitors, and that it's unfair, and that it obviously doesn't stand up to the force of an amazing person like the partner mentioned above.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"What, any chemicals? I require chemicals (aka medically prescribed drugs) to function every single day, as do millions of people.

I prefer to know. As I said, one of my partners requires them himself. I have too many recovering addicts in my life to be comfortable with anyone being under the influence of any chemicals in my space without complete openness and honesty, and even then it can fuck with my head badly.

I'm aware how much this cuts down my pool of potential suitors, and that it's unfair, and that it obviously doesn't stand up to the force of an amazing person like the partner mentioned above."

Should I put a disclaimer on my profile that I require hormones to manage an autoimmune disorder?

I also do better with dihydrogen monoxide in large quantities. Objectively a chemical.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"What, any chemicals? I require chemicals (aka medically prescribed drugs) to function every single day, as do millions of people.

I prefer to know. As I said, one of my partners requires them himself. I have too many recovering addicts in my life to be comfortable with anyone being under the influence of any chemicals in my space without complete openness and honesty, and even then it can fuck with my head badly.

I'm aware how much this cuts down my pool of potential suitors, and that it's unfair, and that it obviously doesn't stand up to the force of an amazing person like the partner mentioned above.

Should I put a disclaimer on my profile that I require hormones to manage an autoimmune disorder?

I also do better with dihydrogen monoxide in large quantities. Objectively a chemical."

Off to the suggestions forum to denand a full medical declaration added to every profile.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"As an earlier poster mentioned, viagra WILL NOT make you hard if you are not otherwise "turned on". It just allows some of us physical expression of that arousal that otherwise might have been impossible.

I'd rather an honest floppy over chemical induced hard."

in a meet its about two people not just one though .. I take some viagra/cialis as I am on oestrogen for years so it affects my testosterone aka erections. .. I want to have fun in meets not push around a floppy cock all the time ... I can do that on my own at home easy enough so wouldn't want to waste my time meeting if I cant enjoy myself fully either ...

It's not like blue pills give people instant erections and rampaging hard ons 24/7. .. the only way to guarantee that is to inject caverject or trimix about 15min and then you are rock hard for 2-4 hours regardless of anything ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?

Viagra just cause your penis to become erect for longer. It's not going to grow teeth...is this your first time using it? "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

M8 I won't be telling anyone if I have to lube up okay ..... there's no need to say you took viagra unless it was pre agreed that floppy dick was de rigour .. and a quick cum was required.

No woman worth her salt is going to let you piston pump regardless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooo god destroy emmm op have you seen the size off some off my toys

Sorry to say op I would handle with easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One time I took four viagra and I could see my heart moving

Did you become transparent?

"

No but I could see it beating

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "

I guess it might make things more comfortable to let the lady know- from what I understand, it has to be taken in advance, so he's gonna turn up with a stalk on before anythings happened...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see any burning need to mention it, although in my experience my sexual partners *have* told me because we had that kind of connection, and I didn’t think any differently of them because of it. In fact, I liked that they felt comfortable enough to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Premeditated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "

I think letting a girl know I’m going to destroy her vagina is simply the gentleman thing to do…

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "

"Destroy their vagina"

You clearly know nothing about pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say you need to be arrested op

Just for the thought alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What, any chemicals? I require chemicals (aka medically prescribed drugs) to function every single day, as do millions of people.

I prefer to know. As I said, one of my partners requires them himself. I have too many recovering addicts in my life to be comfortable with anyone being under the influence of any chemicals in my space without complete openness and honesty, and even then it can fuck with my head badly.

I'm aware how much this cuts down my pool of potential suitors, and that it's unfair, and that it obviously doesn't stand up to the force of an amazing person like the partner mentioned above.

Should I put a disclaimer on my profile that I require hormones to manage an autoimmune disorder?

I also do better with dihydrogen monoxide in large quantities. Objectively a chemical."

That's different though isn't it? Your drugs are prescribed by a physician I'm guessing. How many people take viagra without Dr's advice? I would want to know just in case of a medical emergency

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What, any chemicals? I require chemicals (aka medically prescribed drugs) to function every single day, as do millions of people.

I prefer to know. As I said, one of my partners requires them himself. I have too many recovering addicts in my life to be comfortable with anyone being under the influence of any chemicals in my space without complete openness and honesty, and even then it can fuck with my head badly.

I'm aware how much this cuts down my pool of potential suitors, and that it's unfair, and that it obviously doesn't stand up to the force of an amazing person like the partner mentioned above.

Should I put a disclaimer on my profile that I require hormones to manage an autoimmune disorder?

I also do better with dihydrogen monoxide in large quantities. Objectively a chemical.

That's different though isn't it? Your drugs are prescribed by a physician I'm guessing. How many people take viagra without Dr's advice? I would want to know just in case of a medical emergency "

Especially if in a rural environment

Wait ages for an ambulance

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "

Destroy their vagina....that's a bad start to begin with.

In answer to your question I'd say no...you don't have to say.

Although....if you have a y concerns like getting hard then you can always talk about them.

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? If you take it before meet and walk in with a hardon then yes she may get a shock "

Handy if you're not very tall and can't reach the door knocker though...

*Editors note - vaginas are not to be destroyed.

Winston

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I'd probably take it as an insult to my physical attractiveness.

But I'm a prickly bitch so."

I wouldn't think that it was anything personal just one of those things that are sent to try us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)

I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.

I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it.

12 hours. Twelve hours! God I'd need food, drink and rest not to mention an ice pack. How unutterrably boring"

Very boring indeed. I’d have gone to have food and watch Netflix and long long long time before that haha

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Leaving aside the vaginal destruction, I've had one partner who took viagra regularly.

He told me about it not because he was some sort of walking priapism but because it gave some side effects he wanted me to be aware of.

I didn't view it as any sort of judgement on my attractiveness and we had a fantastic sex life for the years we were together.

If it was my first time with someone and they announced it then maybe I'd be dubious (why do I need to know? What is their expectation of the night? Are they looking to destroy my vagina?) but thankfully I've not been in that situation to have to deal with it.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Anyone professing to want to "destroy my vagina" would be best placed saving their money and not buying the blue pills, because they wouldn't be coming within a country mile of me "

This

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

Vishnu - the destroyer of worlds.

Viagra - destroyer of fannies.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd probably take it as an insult to my physical attractiveness.

"

are you?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Vishnu - the destroyer of worlds.

Viagra - destroyer of fannies.

Winston "

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"are you?"

Am I what?

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

If childbirth is incapable of destroying a vagina, I highly doubt your cock will. "Slightly" overestimating your abilities I think!!!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Comings back to this thread after a week has tickled me. The amount of drugs I've ingested since my last contribution - jeez. I should have a H&S warning attached

Please can I have two copies of the medical questionnaire? One side of A4 won't be enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Comings back to this thread after a week has tickled me. The amount of drugs I've ingested since my last contribution - jeez. I should have a H&S warning attached

Please can I have two copies of the medical questionnaire? One side of A4 won't be enough "

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's the viagra that destroys it. It's going at the vagina with their DJ fingers and camel tongue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to the size of my cock, the only it destroys it is my ego

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?

It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "

No you don't have to end of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I think it’s right that a meet should be told of viagra is going to be used.

Taking viagra gives the impression (along with the words ‘destroy your vagina’ that you intend it be a lengthy rough session, which the other participant may not want or like. Always be honest beforehand about what you’re looking for to ensure compatibility.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"Yes I think it’s right that a meet should be told of viagra is going to be used.

Taking viagra gives the impression (along with the words ‘destroy your vagina’ that you intend it be a lengthy rough session, which the other participant may not want or like. Always be honest beforehand about what you’re looking for to ensure compatibility."

Surely it is equally fair to advise a meet that without viagra the possibility of penetration might not be guaranteed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)

I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.

I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it.

12 hours. Twelve hours! God I'd need food, drink and rest not to mention an ice pack. How unutterrably boring"

I'd worry about blisters

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By *ddylixMan
over a year ago

South London


"I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)

I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.

I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it. "

Tbf my ex was like this (no chemicals). Though he was in his early 20s so maybe it was viagra in her case?

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By *bonybucksMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Nah I don’t think it needs to be mentioned

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

No hard feelings either way.

I’d like to think they don’t have to hide it if they wanted to take it.

Wouldn’t be offended.

Probably going to become apparent as the meet progresses anyway

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