FabSwingers.com forum: Long Message or a One liner!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you guys prefer as an opening message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn’t matter as long as it says something interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thing it depends if they have status try do funny one liner or something in profile sticks out

sure some like the effort but i don't like make it long winded at same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our ideal message from a couple would read.

Hi, we’re good looking, sexy, in shape, nice boobs, nice cock, well dressed, down to earth, bright, love orgasms and hate football.

We’d commence with dropping everything right now and catch a bus, to a meeting place.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

I like them to get to the point quickly.

Example...

"I’d give ur suck cock face and that tight bubble ass some serious COCKING n pounding. Where are u based and R those suck cock lips and tight bubble arse cheeks free 2day ? Leave contact number & postcode if yes"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer some shorter for a first message. Obviously not just a "hey" or "fancy a fuck?".....but something short and to the point is fine with me, even better if it's funny

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By *kmale201633Man
over a year ago

Southampton

'Do you like my boobs' and a picture of them would work for me I think. Not sure...

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By *irtyfuxCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk! NOT

One liners are lazy for starters. Long messages normally tend to be a generic cut and paste sent to many.

The message should be relevant to those you are messaging. Always be to the point to why you are messaging, being polite and never rude. Witty and playful may help.

Don’t allow your message to be about you, that’s what your profile is for. If your message intrigues, provokes and interests then the recipient will view your profile, pix and verifications if showing and if there is or seems to a connection you will no doubt be successful in receiving a reply.

Good luck from there.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

The messages that I receive — indeed the introductory ones — have substance and humour, which for me is a perfect and kindly ice-breaker.

Qualitative over quantitative is always appreciated.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"'Do you like my boobs' and a picture of them would work for me I think. Not sure..."

I might try that in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tbf, i get both, and some one liners are absolute corkers and enough for me to ignite a conversation based on them. then some longer messages just drone and don't really produce much by way of meaningful starting point to have a chat.

i don't know.

maybe i'm just fussy.

something in the middle... a medium-liner.. funny, to the point, with enough substance for me to engage a reply and take it from there

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

One liners are fine if they are funny or intrigue me.

Nothing too long as they are usually copy and paste messages I find.

I find it hard myself to do first messages, one of the reasons I rarely do them so I’m not expecting lots from a first message.

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By *kmale201633Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"'Do you like my boobs' and a picture of them would work for me I think. Not sure...

I might try that in future

Kx"

Glad to help! Haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a one liners

Hey

FAF

You free?

A great filtering tool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a one liners

Hey

FAF

You free?

A great filtering tool

I should say opening message as if I "know" you it's more than fine!

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By *rigginintherigginCouple
over a year ago

strummersville

"something in the middle... a medium-liner.. funny, to the point, with enough substance for me to engage a reply and take it from there

This

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Something interesting and make sure you’re hot and perfect for us

Not you thinking you’re hot when you’re not.

Our hot, not your hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something in between. I do not want to read a waffling essay about oneself, I want more than one sign of engagement with my profile, needs and some introduction but not a full bio. Give me a leaflet not a War and Peace.

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By *ostAirmenMan
over a year ago

crewe

Long message but to the point . Show that effort has been made to read you profile .

I really struggle with opening messages to stand out from the crowd .

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

A few lines and a face pic.

No cheesy chat up lines, crap jokes or bad erotic fiction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you guys prefer as an opening message? "

Think you is asking wrong sex, guys don't get first message....and if they do you should just do what the ladies do, delete

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By *kmale201633Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"What do you guys prefer as an opening message?

Think you is asking wrong sex, guys don't get first message....and if they do you should just do what the ladies do, delete

I'm hoping to get one along the lines of my suggestion hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you guys prefer as an opening message?

Think you is asking wrong sex, guys don't get first message....and if they do you should just do what the ladies do, delete

That’s not quite true. I’ve messaged a couple of single males, on the strength of their pictures and just said

‘That I’d absolutely love to watch you f@ck my beautiful wife senseless’

And that is straight up

But they ultimately turned out to be not worth the bother, as it soon become apparent they weren’t what we required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most recent first message I sent was a very short message about 69

It got quite a reaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The most recent first message I sent was a very short message about 69

It got quite a reaction

About 69 what ?

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Id prefer an opening message to include boobs, after that.... Say what you want

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"What do you guys prefer as an opening message? "

"I like your dick and I wanna fuck it".

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

"One liners are lazy for starters. Long messages normally tend to be a generic cut and paste sent to many.

The message should be relevant to those you are messaging. Always be to the point to why you are messaging, being polite and never rude. Witty and playful may help.

Good luck from there."

Flippin heck, not asking for much are you...maybe they should write 'war and peace'

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

The winning numbers for next week's euromillions are...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A one line "Hi, how's it going?" Is fine with me. If it's good enough for real life, it's good enough for here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I guess it’s 50/50, some people prefer a longer message, where others think it’s a copy and paste job.

Sometimes it’s hard to tailor a message to a profile if there’s not much on it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you guys prefer as an opening message? "

A good food recipe recommendation

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Do t mind as long as it not from a fake or fantasists. Too many on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it’s not a close up of a dick or cervical exam picture we’re not fussy! But those one word messages irk me!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thought the No dick pic rule in the first message was a given, but from reading these comments apparently not lol

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Successful first messages to me generally are a few lines long, mention something specific to my profile, and provide an interesting starting point to converse on.

If it's a big wall of impersonal text, it's a no. If it's just a hey how are you or some other kind of bland small talk, it's a no.

Respect, humour and intelligence are always valued.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn’t matter as long as it says something interesting."

This is definitely what inspires me to open /read /reply... Witty, funny +interesting

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

As long as it's not just one word or meet now? Fancy a fuck? Can we meet I don't really care.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought the No dick pic rule in the first message was a given, but from reading these comments apparently not lol "

But in fairness some people prefer this approach... One size doesn't fit all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you guys prefer as an opening message?

A good food recipe recommendation

Wait.. Was that me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought the No dick pic rule in the first message was a given, but from reading these comments apparently not lol

But in fairness some people prefer this approach... One size doesn't fit all"

What size would you prefer? …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought the No dick pic rule in the first message was a given, but from reading these comments apparently not lol

But in fairness some people prefer this approach... One size doesn't fit all

What size would you prefer? …

Small Harrold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought the No dick pic rule in the first message was a given, but from reading these comments apparently not lol

But in fairness some people prefer this approach... One size doesn't fit all

What size would you prefer? …

Small Harrold

Haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s always easier when a profile has “put x in the subject”

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