FabSwingers.com forum: I love you!!

By *unx2019 OP Couple
over a year ago

Moray

When you say “I love you” what’s your partners normal response?

He usually says, “yeah I know”, “me too” or even worse “ how much it going to cost me”. Does my head in at times

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Made the mistake of saying that once, never again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone tells me they love me, I say “who doesn’t?”

Not that it happens these days

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It varies, usually I love you too, sometimes "ok", sometimes "thanks/cheers" and sometimes "well someone has to"

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to be that lovey dovey person but we always tell eachother, so he would reply I love you too or I love you more

Miss S x

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By *oreveryoungkWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Single 10 years so no one to say it to

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

There's one and she shamelessly steals the line from Ghost

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He says I love you too or gives me 3 kisses 1 for each word.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Every morning every night and when we leave for work.

Usually followed by a lovely cuddle.

37 years and still in love.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

I'm single.

But when I'm with somebody they say I love you, and I respond with "I know" it they don't accept that as the perfect answer, it may be the end of things there and then.

They will know exactly what I'm saying, that right there makes them a keeper!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

3000

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Every morning every night and when we leave for work.

Usually followed by a lovely cuddle.

37 years and still in love."

awwwwwwwwww can I squidge in the middle ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

O.P.

Is this a serious question ?

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

Get a Rabbit instead

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

I werf yeow!

(but then he's from Tamworth)

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By *unx2019 OP Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Yes, he honestly does my head in at times, he thinks he’s funny

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By *altyMouthsCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

We tell each other I love you all the time, though not so much (to us anyway) that it seems too much.

When I played with regular couple, she said it to him while we were all playing, then caught herself and said to me: I like you. It was a really sweet moment that meant we were all having fun but that they were still with each other.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"3000

Adorable.

I sometimes say I love you too. Or I kind of love you. Or make an awkward joke that lightens and deflects with how bad it is.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"When you say “I love you” what’s your partners normal response?

He usually says, “yeah I know”, “me too” or even worse “ how much it going to cost me”. Does my head in at times

"
lol ditch him for a newer version but alas you love him

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

The person who tells me they love me and miss me most often and me back is one of my mates.typicall whatapp exchange

Miss you man, love you

Love you more mate

let’s catch up soon xxx

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Lie you too.

Love you more x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Yes, he honestly does my head in at times, he thinks he’s funny

Well in that case .... here's my answer.

It's not pleasant ever for someone you love to not give you reassurance back.

I know it's often said that some find it difficult to say but to me if they can't say it then they are in high denial of their love or lack of it.

They also lack empathy if they cannot imagine how detrimental to the 'other' this constant denial is. It is damaging to the person who never hears it back. It just re enforces what they think ( which could be that they are not loved - which may not be the truth but it sets doubt in motion and keeps it there )

Don't go all do lally though ..... sometimes it's easier to think about how you are treated or protected or respected by your other......some are less inclined to say it than others but it's shown in their behaviours and attitudes...

Personally id rather not be told at all than told a thousand times a day by a liar who finds words easy .....

And love is different to different folk and I bet my bottom dollar you two have never discussed 'what love is' to each of you and what you expect from a loving relationship....

My daughter always moaned that her husband didn't love her ..... I used to say .... he does... just not in the way you want to be loved.

Did her head in

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Every morning every night and when we leave for work.

Usually followed by a lovely cuddle.

37 years and still in love.

awwwwwwwwww can I squidge in the middle ?"

Of course you can x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, he honestly does my head in at times, he thinks he’s funny

Well in that case .... here's my answer.

It's not pleasant ever for someone you love to not give you reassurance back.

I know it's often said that some find it difficult to say but to me if they can't say it then they are in high denial of their love or lack of it.

Personally id rather not be told at all than told a thousand times a day by a liar who finds words easy .....

And love is different to different folk and I bet my bottom dollar you two have never discussed 'what love is' to each of you and what you expect from a loving relationship....

My daughter always moaned that her husband didn't love her ..... I used to say .... he does... just not in the way you want to be loved.

Did her head in

I think thats what is known as your love language, there are different ways that people show their love.

Buht as ever, open communication is the key x

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By *obbiKentMan
over a year ago

maidstone

"I werf yeow!

(but then he's from Tamworth)"

"we just want to be together" love yeow too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry everyone, but Mr would say “I love you too soo much” ….. unless I’ve said “i loovvvee you” whilst sat online shopping! Then he’d say “what do you want now” hahaha

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you say “I love you” what’s your partners normal response?

He usually says, “yeah I know”, “me too” or even worse “ how much it going to cost me”. Does my head in at times

No longer have a partner. But I tell my dad when I see him for dinner each week, and my mum when I call her a couple times a week (lives in Athens) my two closest friends get it to when we talk/see each other, and my Bros too.

And everyone says it back.

Not the same as OPs original post. But after being with someone for over 10 years and hearing it every day, am lucky to have close friends and family!

Sorry that was longer than it needed to be.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

It's something I only say to family.

Spent too long with it just being a call and response thing and hearing it from someone I'm intimate with makes my skin crawl, so I don't encourage that.

Not that I don't care deeply about my partners, I just associate the word in that situation with manipulation and falsehoods, so I don't like to use it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My partner and I used to say it all the while and discuss what we loved about each other

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"Sorry to be that lovey dovey person but we always tell eachother, so he would reply I love you too or I love you more

Miss S x"

This for us too

Tinder x

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