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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you find that first date outfit… and it’s the ultimate LBD.

What would you guys wear on a first date this weekend?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

LBD...?

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By *ucks_cplCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"LBD...?

Have you just arrived on a dinghy lol

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"LBD...?

I presume little black dress, but for you it might mean large buttplug/dildo

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Have a brilliant time breaking that resolution Harlot.

It depends on what I'm doing really. Jumper dress and docs if something more casual. LBD if going for cocktails/dinner. If I'm going to end up back at theirs * cough cough *, I'd probably try and subtly work out what they'd like to see underneath. Well at least feel, I'm not a sex on the first date sort of woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Little black dress for the win, unless is something less formal like a coffee, a pint or a walk around

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By *kmale201633Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"LBD...?

Have you just arrived on a dinghy lol"

I'm on the same dinghy lol

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Whatever looks good on me on the day . I had a first day a while ago and wore tight blue jeans and blue jumper with killer heels x

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I would wear my current profile pic, looking like Julius Caesar

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"When you find that first date outfit… and it’s the ultimate LBD.

What would you guys wear on a first date this weekend?"
hoodie black slimfits and trainers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In this weather some form of trousers, with killer heels of course.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Thermals probably this weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to be body skimming and sensual to make my skin come alive as I move.

Comfortable enough to not be a distraction in the wrong way.

Sexy enough to keep my senses jangling whether sex is an option or not....

Could be a slinky stretchy dress over skin

Yoga pants and a vest top

Tight jeans and a silky something or nothing

It's one of my favourite parts... anticipating the lust bomb

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have a brilliant time breaking that resolution Harlot.

Hats off to you, Meli. You’re a stronger woman than I

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would wear my current profile pic, looking like Julius Caesar"

Second date guaranteed

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"When you find that first date outfit… and it’s the ultimate LBD.

What would you guys wear on a first date this weekend?"

See my “worst things to wear to a social” thread for my new first date bingo.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Little black dress for me or if it's cold skinny jeans, blouse and leather jacket with heals.

Mrs

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Lucky heels , unless bowling

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"When you find that first date outfit… and it’s the ultimate LBD.

What would you guys wear on a first date this weekend?"

A smile.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Have a brilliant time breaking that resolution Harlot.

Hats off to you, Meli. You’re a stronger woman than I

Ha, I'll be reminding myself of that next week.

Have a great time, sure you'll rock that LBD. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d wear my Gucci mankini.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"LBD...?

Have you just arrived on a dinghy lol

I'm on the same dinghy lol"

It’s going to start getting over crowded in here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you find that first date outfit… and it’s the ultimate LBD.

What would you guys wear on a first date this weekend?"

A little black dress on a big titty goth girl? What's not to love about that? Second date guaranteed there I reckon

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Something vintage and retro

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"LBD...?

Have you just arrived on a dinghy lol

I'm on the same dinghy lol

It’s going to start getting over crowded in here!"

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I thought perhaps it meant Louboutin, Balenciaga and Dior.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Depends on the date of course but for evening dinner/drinks I have a pair of high waisted wide leg print trousers and a plain black crop top. In winter it can be paired with a long black coat and boots and in summer, chunky sandals.

The tones in the trousers compliments my favourite shade of red lipstick so it ties in nicely and I don’t have to panic about what to wear.

The issues start if there’s a second date. I need a second date outfit!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on the date of course but for evening dinner/drinks I have a pair of high waisted wide leg print trousers and a plain black crop top. In winter it can be paired with a long black coat and boots and in summer, chunky sandals.

The tones in the trousers compliments my favourite shade of red lipstick so it ties in nicely and I don’t have to panic about what to wear.

The issues start if there’s a second date. I need a second date outfit! "

I haven’t thought this far ahead, but I’ve found Vinted very useful recently for outfits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to be a jumper dress and chunky boots type of woman, but not sure If I may have aged out of that look.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

The tones in the trousers compliments my favourite shade of red lipstick so it ties in nicely and I don’t have to panic about what to wear.

The issues start if there’s a second date. I need a second date outfit!

I haven’t thought this far ahead, but I’ve found Vinted very useful recently for outfits "

Vinted is fab! I love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what mode

Me mode

Jeans and t shirt and tranners

natalie mode

Midi dress with lingerie underneath just incase things get hot

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By *acktonatureMan
over a year ago

carlisle

Jeans and shirt…. Nice and comfy and relaxed… take the stress out of the situation…. Plenty of time to make an effort and get suited and booted if things go well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The tones in the trousers compliments my favourite shade of red lipstick so it ties in nicely and I don’t have to panic about what to wear.

The issues start if there’s a second date. I need a second date outfit!

I haven’t thought this far ahead, but I’ve found Vinted very useful recently for outfits "

Don't worry about that, naked is fine for the second date

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The tones in the trousers compliments my favourite shade of red lipstick so it ties in nicely and I don’t have to panic about what to wear.

The issues start if there’s a second date. I need a second date outfit!

I haven’t thought this far ahead, but I’ve found Vinted very useful recently for outfits

Vinted is fab! I love it!"

I’ve spent a fortune on there recently, but I’ve had great fun showing my colleagues my £1.50 clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has to be body skimming and sensual to make my skin come alive as I move.

Comfortable enough to not be a distraction in the wrong way.

Sexy enough to keep my senses jangling whether sex is an option or not....

Could be a slinky stretchy dress over skin

Yoga pants and a vest top

Tight jeans and a silky something or nothing

It's one of my favourite parts... anticipating the lust bomb

Ufff. Is it hot in here?!! *fans face frantically*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The tones in the trousers compliments my favourite shade of red lipstick so it ties in nicely and I don’t have to panic about what to wear.

The issues start if there’s a second date. I need a second date outfit!

I haven’t thought this far ahead, but I’ve found Vinted very useful recently for outfits

Don't worry about that, naked is fine for the second date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you find that first date outfit… and it’s the ultimate LBD.

What would you guys wear on a first date this weekend?"

Snorkel and scuba gear... Maybe a cock warmer just to make bits snug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you find that first date outfit… and it’s the ultimate LBD.

What would you guys wear on a first date this weekend?"

skinny jeans bardot top and boots

2nd date leggings long top and boots then lacy lingerie

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

A headband as I'd be sweatin

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"LBD...?

Little black dress lol

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

As I'd probably be using public transport I'd have jeans, a thick tee, a woolly roll-neck jumper, thick socks, fur-lined boots, Bridget Jones knickers, a scarf, a woolly hat and my shower-proof coat.

I'd do my hair and makeup though

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I haven't been on a first date for so long that I have no idea. I'd probably panic and think a lurex cat suit and tiara seemed like a good idea paired with six in heels. My date would probably have arranged a country walk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd wear a wrap dress with a plunging neckline. I'd wear tights, because I'm always freezing. And depending on where we were going, good walking boots or cute heeled boots. It's pretty much what I usually always wear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has to be body skimming and sensual to make my skin come alive as I move.

Comfortable enough to not be a distraction in the wrong way.

Sexy enough to keep my senses jangling whether sex is an option or not....

Could be a slinky stretchy dress over skin

Yoga pants and a vest top

Tight jeans and a silky something or nothing

It's one of my favourite parts... anticipating the lust bomb

Ufff. Is it hot in here?!! *fans face frantically*"

Exactly

....that'd be me the whole time

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By *r SteelhammerMan
over a year ago

belfast

Black skinny jeans and a shirt nothing too flashy but nothing to slobbish

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"I would wear my current profile pic, looking like Julius Caesar

Second date guaranteed

Really hope so because I have first date rules and I really want to do second date stuff with you

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By *ainbow_RoadWoman
over a year ago

Brighton

I mean, I would try and find something that doesnt smell too terrible...

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Something comfortable, usually I just go for coffee, so a casual jumper dress/ long jumper/day dress/ leggings and boots.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I want to be a jumper dress and chunky boots type of woman, but not sure If I may have aged out of that look.

I still wear that kind of thing! Fashion has no age limits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh man!

So I should pack my pvc catsuit away then?!

No Beer Maiden Outfits on first dates?!!!

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Oh man!

So I should pack my pvc catsuit away then?!

No Beer Maiden Outfits on first dates?!!!"

Never, ever pack it away. In fact please put it on now and send me a picture so I can die a semi-happy man

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Oh man!

So I should pack my pvc catsuit away then?!

No Beer Maiden Outfits on first dates?!!!"

Oh please tell me you’ve actually got a pvc catsuit (tries to ignore the twitch in his special place)

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

What? It’s nippy

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"T.

What? It’s nippy "

Why does t w e e d get reduced to a capital T?

Oh wait, now I know…

Really?

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I want to be a jumper dress and chunky boots type of woman, but not sure If I may have aged out of that look.

Oh please! Don’t let she stop you wearing what you want to.

I don’t do dates, but for 1st meets which are social I have 3 lbd, one is wrap style, one T shirt style with zip, one strappy with flowing skirt part. But I usually wear short stretch skirts with a nice sensual top…

When it’s not FUCKING FREEZING!!

I also have skinny jeans, wet look leggings etc

Depends on mood, season, where we’re meeting, weather etc

Usually stockings and either boots or heels.

I love deciding what to wear, working out what works best for certain meets etc. I talk to potential meets and people I’ve met before and I’m meeting again and they say what they like what they’re into and if it’s something I can do I’m happy to oblige.

I like to feel feminine, and sexy. I’m perhaps a little dated in certain aspects of my style as at heart I’m a combination of 80’s rock chick and hippy

It’s fun creating different outfits

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"LBD...?

I presume little black dress, but for you it might mean large buttplug/dildo

I had to Google LBD and the first thing that came up was Lewy body dementia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slim black jeans and black boots, iron a nice shirt. Shave my head. A spritz of Jonny Depps Sausage. I mean Sauvage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends where we ate going and time of day, but for evening probably a little wrap dress, tights and boots, spritz of perfume and a smile- oh and my big military style trench coat to keep me warm!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"LBD...?

I presume little black dress, but for you it might mean large buttplug/dildo

I had to Google LBD and the first thing that came up was Lewy body dementia.

Google is working fine here, I have clublondon

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Nice shirt, decent trousers or good jeans, boots. Long coat if it's a posh place, short black jacket if it's a pub

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well tonight is the night that the dress gets its outing

Wish me luck, fellow fabbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhh good luck! I miss going on first dates and wear nice dresses

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Well tonight is the night that the dress gets its outing

Wish me luck, fellow fabbers. "

No luck required!!

I hope the outing is short for the best reason

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Well tonight is the night that the dress gets its outing

Wish me luck, fellow fabbers. "

Good luck and don't do anything I wouldn't

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I wore a tailored suit on my first date with my partner. 8 years ago, It worked.

Now I would wear something a bit androgynous and hella stylish.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"When you find that first date outfit… and it’s the ultimate LBD.

What would you guys wear on a first date this weekend?"

I wouldn't know. I haven't found anyone to go on a date with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well tonight is the night that the dress gets its outing

Wish me luck, fellow fabbers.

Good luck and don't do anything I wouldn't

Doesn’t leave much

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ohhh good luck! I miss going on first dates and wear nice dresses

Come on a first date with me and wear a nice dress

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"When you find that first date outfit… and it’s the ultimate LBD.

What would you guys wear on a first date this weekend?

I wouldn't know. I haven't found anyone to go on a date with

On my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ohhh good luck! I miss going on first dates and wear nice dresses

Come on a first date with me and wear a nice dress

Don’t tell me twice

A trip to Wirral might be just what I need

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ohhh good luck! I miss going on first dates and wear nice dresses

Come on a first date with me and wear a nice dress

Don’t tell me twice

A trip to Wirral might be just what I need

Pack your first date dress, I’ll meet you at the train station

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ohhh good luck! I miss going on first dates and wear nice dresses

Come on a first date with me and wear a nice dress

Don’t tell me twice

A trip to Wirral might be just what I need

Pack your first date dress, I’ll meet you at the train station

*Scrambles to the shops to get a first date dress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well tonight is the night that the dress gets its outing

Wish me luck, fellow fabbers. "

Good luck gorgeous, although I'm sure you're not going to need it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well tonight is the night that the dress gets its outing

Wish me luck, fellow fabbers.

Good luck gorgeous, although I'm sure you're not going to need it

I need all the lick I can get at all times!

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

"When you find that first date outfit… and it’s the ultimate LBD."

Ooh! Can we see?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you find that first date outfit… and it’s the ultimate LBD.

Ooh! Can we see?"

I might upload a photo in it later x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need all the lick I can get at all times!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a date date? Smart casual. Jeans and a shirt or pants and a shirt. Maybe a blazer if I was really going for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For a date date? Smart casual. Jeans and a shirt or pants and a shirt. Maybe a blazer if I was really going for it. "

Having said this. I’d spend more time choosing my shoes and body sprays.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I need all the lick I can get at all times!

It wasn’t a typo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need all the lick I can get at all times!

It wasn’t a typo

I realised that, but I thought it might have been tongue in cheek!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need all the lick I can get at all times!

It wasn’t a typo

I realised that, but I thought it might have been tongue in cheek!"

Plus I liked the next response in the series which said: Ooh! Can we see?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well tonight is the night that the dress gets its outing

Wish me luck, fellow fabbers.

Good luck gorgeous, although I'm sure you're not going to need it

I need all the lick I can get at all times!"

That’s easily arranged too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well tonight is the night that the dress gets its outing

Wish me luck, fellow fabbers.

Good luck gorgeous, although I'm sure you're not going to need it

I need all the lick I can get at all times!

That’s easily arranged too

What time was your train getting here again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well tonight is the night that the dress gets its outing

Wish me luck, fellow fabbers.

Good luck gorgeous, although I'm sure you're not going to need it

I need all the lick I can get at all times!

That’s easily arranged too

What time was your train getting here again?

Not soon enough

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

"When you find that first date outfit… and it’s the ultimate LBD.

Ooh! Can we see?

I might upload a photo in it later x"

Yay!

Hope the date goes well

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Well tonight is the night that the dress gets its outing

Wish me luck, fellow fabbers.

Good luck gorgeous, although I'm sure you're not going to need it

I need all the lick I can get at all times!

That’s easily arranged too

What time was your train getting here again?

Not soon enough

Two weeks time for when I’m down in the Wirral…..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well tonight is the night that the dress gets its outing

Wish me luck, fellow fabbers.

Good luck gorgeous, although I'm sure you're not going to need it

I need all the lick I can get at all times!

That’s easily arranged too

What time was your train getting here again?

Not soon enough

Two weeks time for when I’m down in the Wirral…..?

Erm…no, sorry

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Well tonight is the night that the dress gets its outing

Wish me luck, fellow fabbers.

Good luck and don't do anything I wouldn't

Doesn’t leave much

How, you don't know what I wouldn't

plus you don't have a willy

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