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Good or bad, does it matter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If someone is crap at oral, does it matter?

After all my cock is at least getting some kind of attention isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it matters.

I’d rather not have any, than suffer bad oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhhhh so it's all about YOU then?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Yes it matters.

I’d rather not have any, than suffer bad oral. "

This.

It's probably more frustrating having a bad blowie than none at all.

You can't be disappointed about something you never had.

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it matters.

I’d rather not have any, than suffer bad oral. "

So what makes it bad?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ahhhhhh so it's all about YOU then?"

No. Anyone can join in the thread… ….

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as there's no scrape of teeth!

If someone is bad at oral, I tend to offer to give them oral instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it matters.

I’d rather not have any, than suffer bad oral.

So what makes it bad?

"

When they blow instead of suck.

Too much teeth scratching.

Too much stubble rub.

Trying to wrestle the life out of it while using hands.

Many more besides but that springs to mind immediately.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

The issue is the giver doesn't know what you enjoy unless you tell them.

I have been told many times my oral technique is amazing and on almost all occasions the men ask for more but one guy said it wasn't working for him. He wouldn't tell my why or what I needed to change to make it better.

Oral is not a one size fits all thing, what works for one might not work for another. Sometimes we need a few hints as to what works for you.

Just saying it was a bad bj without saying why doesn't help either party. Communication is key!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it matters.

I’d rather not have any, than suffer bad oral.

So what makes it bad?

….

Trying to wrestle the life out of it while using hands. …"

This reminds me, I need a clutch fixing.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Yes it matters.

I’d rather not have any, than suffer bad oral.

So what makes it bad?

….

Trying to wrestle the life out of it while using hands. …

This reminds me, I need a clutch fixing. "

I laughed way too hard then.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely matters I'd rather go without than someone do the A,B,C's with their tongue

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Of course it matters. Otherwise it’s pointless.

Like being poked with a stick and being an asked if you’re enjoying yourself.

The mr

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"If someone is crap at oral, does it matter?

"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes absolutely it matters, if you can’t do anything properly then do do it at all . Something I pride myself on

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Oh yes absolutely it matters, if you can’t do anything properly then do do it at all . Something I pride myself on "

Or get a man in that can......

A

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence


"Yes it matters.

I’d rather not have any, than suffer bad oral.

So what makes it bad?

When they blow instead of suck.

Too much teeth scratching.

Too much stubble rub.

Trying to wrestle the life out of it while using hands.

Many more besides but that springs to mind immediately."

Let me add : so much saliva it feels like you've stuck your dick inside of a Hotpoint Whirlpool halfway through a wool wash cycle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone is bad at oral it suggests they’ll also be bad at other core life skills like getaway driving, or sorting skittles by colour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone is crap at oral, does it matter?

After all my cock is at least getting some kind of attention isn’t it? "

It matters. Have had it so bad I struggled to walk for days after but am too british/polite to complain!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aye, it matters. Px

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat


"If someone is crap at oral, does it matter?

After all my cock is at least getting some kind of attention isn’t it?

It matters. Have had it so bad I struggled to walk for days after but am too british/polite to complain! "

Sorry what now??

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

An ex of mine wasn't the best there was far to much teath involved, she just wouldn't do much with it once it was in her mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it matters.

I’d rather not have any, than suffer bad oral. "

Definitely agree!

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone is crap at oral, does it matter?

After all my cock is at least getting some kind of attention isn’t it?

It matters. Have had it so bad I struggled to walk for days after but am too british/polite to complain!

Sorry what now?? "

Twice girls have used a lot of teeth and almost grated it!

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By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby


"If someone is crap at oral, does it matter?

After all my cock is at least getting some kind of attention isn’t it? "

Sadly, I think it depends on your situation.

For me, I've only had two ladies do it for me - both were okay, albeit a bit ‘teethy’, but I've not quite been ‘blown away’, if you pardon the pun! I think this is mostly down to me having a very limited sample set of women I've received oral sex from, and not discovering what I enjoy. More suggestions and attempts would be welcome!

From an oral-giver's perspective, I've given oral sex to a fair number of females. Whether I've been good or bad, I'm not quite sure, although I did have a few occasions where they seemed to enjoy it, with some ladies wanting repeat sessions. I'm on the fence on whether to say I'm good or bad, though.

Overall, like the OP, I'm just grateful for the attention, as it can be seriously lacking sometimes, plus you never know what you might discover liking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bad blow isn't good but it's a blow job so why complain. You can always say to the person and help improve things

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By *r SteelhammerMan
over a year ago

belfast

If they shape like a cheese grater with teeth not for me thanks I like my dick to be in one piece

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t particularly find oral sex on me that enjoyable so if they were shit at it I’d be happy to not go down that road.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If someone is crap at oral, does it matter?

After all my cock is at least getting some kind of attention isn’t it?

It matters. Have had it so bad I struggled to walk for days after but am too british/polite to complain!

Sorry what now??

Twice girls have used a lot of teeth and almost grated it! "

Who uses teeth? I thought it was always a threat.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Yes it matters.

I’d rather not have any, than suffer bad oral. "

This.

I need both enthusiasm and skill from my partners.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich


"I don’t particularly find oral sex on me that enjoyable so if they were shit at it I’d be happy to not go down that road.

"

I am similar. If they’re a great fuck it doesn’t necessarily matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is too short for shit sex and that includes oral.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs


"Life is too short for shit sex and that includes oral."

This...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes it does. I'm another who isn't the biggest fan of oral sex, I can count on one hand the partners I've enjoyed receiving it from.

So I'd much rather focus on doing things we both enjoy. I can quite happily go without receiving, it's not that important to me.

I will say, sometimes at first it's not that good but over time a person learns to read my body, listen to the sounds I make more and what you might think isn't good can become very very good.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"If someone is bad at oral it suggests they’ll also be bad at other core life skills like getaway driving, or sorting skittles by colour. "

Skittle sorting is so underrated darling.... as is this comment of yours...

wasted dear, you are wasted !

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Life is too short for shit sex and that includes oral."

ewwwww shit sex Not for me thanks No pee no poo

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

I'm guessing everyone here is an expert at it and highly skilled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guessing everyone here is an expert at it and highly skilled "

Fab is the place for experts & professionals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you cock stays perky then it must be enjoying it, shit or not

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I'm guessing everyone here is an expert at it and highly skilled "

No complaints I’d whip them if they did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guessing everyone here is an expert at it and highly skilled

Fab is the place for experts & professionals "

I hope so. My lasts Tinder date told me she’s a throat goat

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

My cock knows and won’t stay hard if it’s not up to the acceptable O level standards

K

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

I'd say it matters to the guy. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cock knows and won’t stay hard if it’s not up to the acceptable O level standards

K"

O level standards hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone is bad at oral it suggests they’ll also be bad at other core life skills like getaway driving, or sorting skittles by colour.

Skittle sorting is so underrated darling.... as is this comment of yours...

wasted dear, you are wasted !"

Nonsense dahlink I’ve hardly drank today

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

Tbh I am more into fucking so a bad suck isn’t really that much of an issue as it won’t be in their mouth for long anyway

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"As long as there's no scrape of teeth!

If someone is bad at oral, I tend to offer to give them oral instead"

And that's why we do it... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely. But direction is free, so is the exit

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