FabSwingers.com forum: Take a hint

By *r Steelhammer OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

When someone can't take a hint do you have to be cruel for them to understand. What does everybody else do in this situation especially when they obsess like a teenage girl over a boy band and create different accounts on media to message you

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Pull their bra strap or give them a wedgie?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’m not a stud like you OP so I’ve never had this problem

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Don't hint, tell them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not cruel, just be straight with them.

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By *r Steelhammer OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

"Pull their bra strap or give them a wedgie?"

Trust me I'd never go near her.

I don't go younger nor does she understand my mind.

Her words: why don't you go for someone that's bubbly that wants to settle, sex is not that important and also said what's your fascination of other girls having sex or even kissing

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

I'd say don't air your dirty washing in public...or something like that

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By *r Steelhammer OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

"I'd say don't air your dirty washing in public...or something like that

I have a tumble dryer for a reason

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Just write to her family and friends and tell them what a fucking nutter she is!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Pull their bra strap or give them a wedgie?

Trust me I'd never go near her.

I don't go younger nor does she understand my mind.

Her words: why don't you go for someone that's bubbly that wants to settle, sex is not that important and also said what's your fascination of other girls having sex or even kissing

Your profile stated you want to meet 18 years old + so??

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By *r Steelhammer OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

I've been telling her since last summer I'm not interested and I definitely do not sugar coat stuff cause of my adhd I always say it how it is but she still won't take a hint

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By *r Steelhammer OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

"Pull their bra strap or give them a wedgie?

Trust me I'd never go near her.

I don't go younger nor does she understand my mind.

Her words: why don't you go for someone that's bubbly that wants to settle, sex is not that important and also said what's your fascination of other girls having sex or even kissing

Your profile stated you want to meet 18 years old + so??"

I didn't even realise

so that needs changing thank you for pointing that out

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By *r Steelhammer OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

"Just write to her family and friends and tell them what a fucking nutter she is!

Hahaha not a bad idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been telling her since last summer I'm not interested and I definitely do not sugar coat stuff cause of my adhd I always say it how it is but she still won't take a hint "

Don't engage in any contact then.

Zero.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"I've been telling her since last summer I'm not interested and I definitely do not sugar coat stuff cause of my adhd I always say it how it is but she still won't take a hint "

You clearly have magic sex powers that most mere mortal men can only wistfully dream of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't hint, tell them."

This.

Just be straight up.

Miss S x

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By *r Steelhammer OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

"I've been telling her since last summer I'm not interested and I definitely do not sugar coat stuff cause of my adhd I always say it how it is but she still won't take a hint

You clearly have magic sex powers that most mere mortal men can only wistfully dream of"

I fucking wish I can barely pull a muscle these days let alone women

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By *r Steelhammer OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

"I've been telling her since last summer I'm not interested and I definitely do not sugar coat stuff cause of my adhd I always say it how it is but she still won't take a hint

Don't engage in any contact then.

Zero."

Very good point

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Block her?

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By *r Steelhammer OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

"Block her?

I do that again just creates a new account on everything just to message me

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"I've been telling her since last summer I'm not interested and I definitely do not sugar coat stuff cause of my adhd I always say it how it is but she still won't take a hint

You clearly have magic sex powers that most mere mortal men can only wistfully dream of

I fucking wish I can barely pull a muscle these days let alone women

Oh right. Your secret is safe with me.

Have you tried the block button? I find that quite effective

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Block her?

I do that again just creates a new account on everything just to message me

Just keep blocking, have you met her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before anyone asks, it wasn’t me

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By *r Steelhammer OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

"I've been telling her since last summer I'm not interested and I definitely do not sugar coat stuff cause of my adhd I always say it how it is but she still won't take a hint

You clearly have magic sex powers that most mere mortal men can only wistfully dream of

I fucking wish I can barely pull a muscle these days let alone women

Oh right. Your secret is safe with me.

Have you tried the block button? I find that quite effective"

Ohhh it's definitely not a secret haha

And yeah this one seems to be a bit crazy and keeps creating new accounts it's kind of stalkerish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say media, do you mean here or Bookface?

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By *r Steelhammer OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

"Block her?

I do that again just creates a new account on everything just to message me

Just keep blocking, have you met her? "

Met her once but I never agreed to meet up with her it was an invitation before she started stalking me at a wedding as I was running the bar

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"Pull their bra strap or give them a wedgie?"

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By *r Steelhammer OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

"When you say media, do you mean here or Bookface?"

Instagram, Snapchat, twatbook, email, all sorts

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By *r Steelhammer OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

"Before anyone asks, it wasn’t me "

Hahah hmmm are you sure haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you say media, do you mean here or Bookface?

Instagram, Snapchat, twatbook, email, all sorts

Just stay safe in here then!

Your mail box will remain blissfully clear until its time for your site-supporter pass to be renewed!

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By *r Steelhammer OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

She even went through the trouble and messaged my friend on twatbook to complain I was being too honest

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Just give her one and make it horrendously rubbish and then they go away!

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By *r Steelhammer OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

"When you say media, do you mean here or Bookface?

Instagram, Snapchat, twatbook, email, all sorts

Just stay safe in here then!

Your mail box will remain blissfully clear until its time for your site-supporter pass to be renewed!

Ohh I know I'm safe in here haha she's not on this site but I never get messages here either so I'm very lucky

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By *r Steelhammer OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

"Just give her one and make it horrendously rubbish and then they go away!

I'm going to have to search how to give bad sex

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Just give her one and make it horrendously rubbish and then they go away!

Exactly this

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It goes beyond simply taking the hint if they are exhibiting stalker like behaviour.

It then requires a blunt and direct response. If that fails then it is reportable behaviour, even to the police.

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe

"Block her?

I do that again just creates a new account on everything just to message me

I had this issue and I deactivated all my social media accounts for about a year,you could just stop anyone new from messaging you or requesting friendships.

I eventually had to call the police, they will just go and talk to her and explain how serious it is without her actually getting 'in trouble' if that was a concern.

She needs to know how serious it is.

Please whatever you do from now just do not engage at all because any response from you She may see as a positive.

Hope you sort it soon.xx

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By *r Steelhammer OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

"It goes beyond simply taking the hint if they are exhibiting stalker like behaviour.

It then requires a blunt and direct response. If that fails then it is reportable behaviour, even to the police."

I can understand that and is a valid point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have told her you want nothing to do with her and she messages, that's harassment. If she's going to the trouble of creating multiple accounts and involving other people to get messages to you, that's stalking and is very risky. It needs reporting to the police.

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

It’s sounding a lot like stalking you can report it directly to the police or on the .Gov site they will go and have a word with her.

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By *r Steelhammer OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

"Block her?

I do that again just creates a new account on everything just to message me

I had this issue and I deactivated all my social media accounts for about a year,you could just stop anyone new from messaging you or requesting friendships.

I eventually had to call the police, they will just go and talk to her and explain how serious it is without her actually getting 'in trouble' if that was a concern.

She needs to know how serious it is.

Please whatever you do from now just do not engage at all because any response from you She may see as a positive.

Hope you sort it soon.xx"

Thank you so much xxx

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"I've been telling her since last summer I'm not interested and I definitely do not sugar coat stuff cause of my adhd I always say it how it is but she still won't take a hint

You clearly have magic sex powers that most mere mortal men can only wistfully dream of"

This

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

theres laws about stalking its for all sexes not just us women .... seek advice from a solicitor and have a letter sent if she takes no hint then report her to the police ... if you dont do something it will only get worse ... ive had 2 stalkers in 30 years on this scene one got so bad that he resorted to damaging my car and garden walls lucky for us we had cctv installed (because of him) the other one was just plain stupid but still a pain

both were reported to the police who sorted everything out ..stalkers tend to grow with some kind of weird confidence and then become a total pain or worse dangerous

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