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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What made you choose the range you’ve chosen?

Are people so different at 41 than they are at 40? Did you do it to keep it tidy…cut offs in decade increments ?

Just curious

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By *unthum62Man
over a year ago

Benidorm

I left mine open because people with the right attitude can be any age.

I have met older people and younger people.

Some who are younger know themselves, their wants, needs and consequences better than some with more years but less awareness.

Some older people still have the enthusiasm, openess and fun attitude some younger people lack.

At the end of the day ots a personal choice I suppose.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I would imagine most people do decades because they are a nice round number.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

10 years above and 10 years younger is my range

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"10 years above and 10 years younger is my range "
home on the range

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

I am 61 and not had a gen meeting yet. I think it's because am sub bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it makes it interesting.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Mines chosen to act as another filter for messages more than anything else really. I don't put it much higher though because unfortunately I've found too many people lie about their age and say they are 50ish when they are actually a lot older. My lower limit is roughly about how low in age I would go though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have an age range, but in our profile have indicated that it's more of a guideline. It's more about the person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would imagine most people do decades because they are a nice round number. "

Neat & tidy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"10 years above and 10 years younger is my range "

Tidy logic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mines chosen to act as another filter for messages more than anything else really. I don't put it much higher though because unfortunately I've found too many people lie about their age and say they are 50ish when they are actually a lot older. My lower limit is roughly about how low in age I would go though. "

It’s a specific age at the lower end

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never been with a woman older than me at any stage in my life so my upper limit is irrelevant really.

My lower age limit will always be 10 years above the age of my eldest daughter and I adjust it every year.

That's set in stone and isn't open for negotiation.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I had to check mine; completely forgot what it was.

I think it was mainly chosen for filtering processes, to help reduce mail. I'm not particularly strict about it but as a general thing I'm more interested in those age ranges. To be honest, if it wasn't for the fact I like meeting women and women in couples, it would be a lot narrower.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I had to look mine up, which is how little it bothers me. 29-59, so a generous 15 years either way, but I'm not blocking anyone outside that because, as others have said, who knows?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No one young enough to be my child or old enough to be my mum/dad.

Mrs

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By *heSilverFox1701Man
over a year ago

Near Sleaford

It might be more to do with number of messages, if you age range it you don’t get all the Pervy old men and women messaging you!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't set mine to block anyone from getting in touch, it's just the age range that I'm usually attracted to. Doesn't mean there aren't people outside of that that do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cut off has to be drawn somewhere right? Helps with message filters and I am not a fan of men much younger than me. The upper range probably should come down a little. I suppose I altered it at some point as an exception with someone in mind at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think age matters much , it's all about what the person is like

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Austins eldest is younger than 40. He set that limit. Whilst he doesn’t look or act anywhere near his age I see most men his age appear much older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I’m not looking to meet anyone, only a certain someone…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I’m not looking to meet anyone, only a certain someone…"

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"10 years above and 10 years younger is my range "

This is not something I can subscribe to

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Because I'm hoping they'll still be swinging at 98/99 ...

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

10 years up, 10 years down

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Ours is a guideline the upper limit being more flexible than the lower one as we have a child who is early 20s and wouldn't want to meet one of her friends by chance but usually it depends on the person and their maturity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 61 and not had a gen meeting yet. I think it's because am sub bi "

Nah mate, it's because your bio is bare. Fair play on your pics, but try not to come across as too easy... Some people like a little bit of a challenge.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't set mine to block anyone from getting in touch, it's just the age range that I'm usually attracted to. Doesn't mean there aren't people outside of that that do it for me."

Don’t age ranges stop people outside that range getting in touch ?

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"It might be more to do with number of messages, if you age range it you don’t get all the Pervy old men and women messaging you! "

...there's pervy old women on here??!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The cut off has to be drawn somewhere right? Helps with message filters and I am not a fan of men much younger than me. The upper range probably should come down a little. I suppose I altered it at some point as an exception with someone in mind at the time.

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It does indeed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Because I'm hoping they'll still be swinging at 98/99 ... "

That’s a good effort

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"10 years up, 10 years down "

I’m in…whoop whoop

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It might be more to do with number of messages, if you age range it you don’t get all the Pervy old men and women messaging you!

...there's pervy old women on here??!!! "

Show me the pervy ladies please ..I haven’t found them yet

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By *iss Boot LoverTV/TS
over a year ago

tetbury

Mine was open but finding the offers from under 30s were a massive waste of time so have narrowed the gap a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I left mine open because people with the right attitude can be any age.

I have met older people and younger people.

Some who are younger know themselves, their wants, needs and consequences better than some with more years but less awareness.

Some older people still have the enthusiasm, openess and fun attitude some younger people lack.

At the end of the day ots a personal choice I suppose."

Same.

If I do find someone I'd like to contact, but I'm out of their range, I'll wink and leave it at that.

Some do venture out of their ranges.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"10 years up, 10 years down

I’m in…whoop whoop "

Thighs!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"10 years up, 10 years down

I’m in…whoop whoop

Thighs!! "

I’ve told you before it’s just good lighting

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"10 years up, 10 years down

I’m in…whoop whoop

Thighs!!

I’ve told you before it’s just good lighting "

Ruin my day why don't you!....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"10 years up, 10 years down

I’m in…whoop whoop

Thighs!!

I’ve told you before it’s just good lighting

Ruin my day why don't you!.... "

There’s 1 way to find out

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Ours is more of a message filter as above and below those ages the messages tended to be less interesting.

Given we mostly meet at clubs ages are largely irrelevant as it goes on attraction at the time. I've never been asked my age in a club in over a decade.

It's also different for us as there's a fair few years between Fox and I anyway. She runs the inbox and does her own browsing so age doesn't come into play when searching.

I've always wondered jow things would play out if Fab did away with ages on profiles and people had to make choices based on what they saw and read. Might stop a lot of lazy silhouette profile pic profiles and let's face it - line up 20 ranfom people from 31 to 50 years old and toud be hard pushed to accurately guess everyone's age correctly.

A

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Set mine 30 to 55 because I'm happy to go a few years older, but younger I decided to stop at the point they could be young enough to be my kids. 30 is still very mature though, so I can go outside that bracket for the right people, which is why I don't block messages outside the range.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


"

Because I'm hoping they'll still be swinging at 98/99 ... "

Only another 16 years to go for me then, will there still be FAB though? that is the question.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

The upper limit is not so important to me, I'll use pics to judge if they're too old for me or not.

The lower limit is specifically chosen to basically filter out under 30s, but allow some leeway for people technically under 30 but have the right attitude.

Pretty much anyone under 25 is a write off for various reasons I won't go into, at risk of causing offence.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

They're more like guidelines Like you said, it's just a sound decade but we don't exclude people from messaging based on age either

LvM

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

Mine is more like soft guideline as it entirely depends on the person. My lower age range is a hard rule though because the thought of fucking a teenager seems grim

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By *kmale201633Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Enjoy being 40 while you can OP, turn 41 and 'you're out of this users age range comes up alot'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I’m not looking to meet anyone, only a certain someone…

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is simply guidelines

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

As peoples(Singles/couples) birthday's pass do you change your age range, same as some profiles still state not meeting till after covid, but they had a meet last week

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"Enjoy being 40 while you can OP, turn 41 and 'you're out of this users age range comes up alot'! "

Just push your age back to 40 lol it’s 1 year no one is going to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll give some leeway either side. Ours is just a gage so if someone is attractive and can hold a conversation, it doesn't matter if they're slightly out, but I guess you have to have something set as I wouldn't agree having 18-99

We tend to get on better with people older than us.

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Enjoy being 40 while you can OP, turn 41 and 'you're out of this users age range comes up alot'!

Just push your age back to 40 lol it’s 1 year no one is going to know "

can I be 30 forever instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really mind about age too much so I leave mine open. I don’t think I would meet with someone 99 but it’s so unlikely to happen I keep it that high out of laziness. If there is someone 99 on here then props to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We'll give some leeway either side. Ours is just a gage so if someone is attractive and can hold a conversation, it doesn't matter if they're slightly out, but I guess you have to have something set as I wouldn't agree having 18-99

We tend to get on better with people older than us.

Miss S x"

I’m

Older

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

We move our age range up every now and again. We simply can't offer what much younger people want. A year might not make much difference but at the upper end of our range we've factored in the likelihood of 'fab age' being deployed.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Mines chosen to act as another filter for messages more than anything else really. I don't put it much higher though because unfortunately I've found too many people lie about their age and say they are 50ish when they are actually a lot older. My lower limit is roughly about how low in age I would go though.

It’s a specific age at the lower end "

There's a specific reason for that

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By *eregrinosCouple
over a year ago

chorley

Are we talking actual age or mental age

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mines chosen to act as another filter for messages more than anything else really. I don't put it much higher though because unfortunately I've found too many people lie about their age and say they are 50ish when they are actually a lot older. My lower limit is roughly about how low in age I would go though.

It’s a specific age at the lower end

There's a specific reason for that "

Noted

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Old burds are less picky!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are we talking actual age or mental age "

I assume the age range is specific to number of birthdays had….unless I’m missing something that fab is meaning

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I change mine now and then but rarely go older than myself.

I don't know why but I rarely find older men sexually attractive.

My youngest age has moved up as I've got older.

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

At my advanced age I’m glad people seem to be relatively open-minded! It is only a number after all, allow me to show you!!!

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby


"We'll give some leeway either side. Ours is just a gage so if someone is attractive and can hold a conversation, it doesn't matter if they're slightly out, but I guess you have to have something set as I wouldn't agree having 18-99

We tend to get on better with people older than us.

Miss S x"

Hi there, I'm older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'll give some leeway either side. Ours is just a gage so if someone is attractive and can hold a conversation, it doesn't matter if they're slightly out, but I guess you have to have something set as I wouldn't agree having 18-99

We tend to get on better with people older than us.

Miss S x

Hi there, I'm older "

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We'll give some leeway either side. Ours is just a gage so if someone is attractive and can hold a conversation, it doesn't matter if they're slightly out, but I guess you have to have something set as I wouldn't agree having 18-99

We tend to get on better with people older than us.

Miss S x

Hi there, I'm older

Miss S x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'll give some leeway either side. Ours is just a gage so if someone is attractive and can hold a conversation, it doesn't matter if they're slightly out, but I guess you have to have something set as I wouldn't agree having 18-99

We tend to get on better with people older than us.

Miss S x

Hi there, I'm older

Miss S x

"

What's goin on ere'

Am I missing something? Hahaha

Miss S x

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I set mine for compatibility. A lot of messages I get from men that are a lot older than me are just trying to convince me age is just a number because they can still get an erection. For me I’m more concerned with their personality. If they’re too much older, I struggle to find things in common with them. Or they’ll say things like ‘Back in my day we played out until the streets lamps came on’ and I have to pinch myself to stay awake during a history lesson

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

My 18-99 year old filter is tighter than a submarine door

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I currently use mine as a message filter, I am liking doing my own “ foraging “ without having to deal with an oversubscribed inbox .

Prior to that it varied a little but typically from late 30’s to early 60’s, this is the age range I would be comfortable meeting for a one on one. Admittedly I do not ID people at parties or clubs and been know to venture outside of my preferred age range

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We'll give some leeway either side. Ours is just a gage so if someone is attractive and can hold a conversation, it doesn't matter if they're slightly out, but I guess you have to have something set as I wouldn't agree having 18-99

We tend to get on better with people older than us.

Miss S x

Hi there, I'm older

Miss S x

What's goin on ere'

Am I missing something? Hahaha

Miss S x"

No idea haha

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby


"I set mine for compatibility. A lot of messages I get from men that are a lot older than me are just trying to convince me age is just a number because they can still get an erection. For me I’m more concerned with their personality. If they’re too much older, I struggle to find things in common with them. Or they’ll say things like ‘Back in my day we played out until the streets lamps came on’ and I have to pinch myself to stay awake during a history lesson "

On the plus side, plenty of opportunities if they're rich and have a dodgy ticker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I set mine for compatibility. A lot of messages I get from men that are a lot older than me are just trying to convince me age is just a number because they can still get an erection. For me I’m more concerned with their personality. If they’re too much older, I struggle to find things in common with them. Or they’ll say things like ‘Back in my day we played out until the streets lamps came on’ and I have to pinch myself to stay awake during a history lesson "

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I prefer younger men....simple as that

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"I set mine for compatibility. A lot of messages I get from men that are a lot older than me are just trying to convince me age is just a number because they can still get an erection. For me I’m more concerned with their personality. If they’re too much older, I struggle to find things in common with them. Or they’ll say things like ‘Back in my day we played out until the streets lamps came on’ and I have to pinch myself to stay awake during a history lesson "

This made me chuckle!!

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Until recently I had mine at 18-99. You know - cast the net wide and all that.

Something about hitting 46 made think, hang on a minute - everyone I've ever spoken to under 30 has (to me) been flaky. That's probably due to my age and not because I'm devastatingly handsome.....

And, realistically, I'm not too fussed about anyone over 65 as that makes them near my dad's age!

But they're guidelines and I would chat to anyone if they piqued my interest.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Had to check mine as its arbitrary and is solely to act as a filter based on my preferences through past experience. Never even thought about the lower end but should probably change that. I do go older but get my prowl on for the 40+ guys!

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"Had to check mine as its arbitrary and is solely to act as a filter based on my preferences through past experience. Never even thought about the lower end but should probably change that. I do go older but get my prowl on for the 40+ guys! "

What an exciting thought Couga......

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Port talbot


"I set mine for compatibility. A lot of messages I get from men that are a lot older than me are just trying to convince me age is just a number because they can still get an erection. For me I’m more concerned with their personality. If they’re too much older, I struggle to find things in common with them. Or they’ll say things like ‘Back in my day we played out until the streets lamps came on’ and I have to pinch myself to stay awake during a history lesson "

Well now I feel old

Cheers for that

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We've gone roughly +/-10yrs round our ages. We don't want to meet people our son's sort of age (he's 20), nor people old enough to be our parents. This is our preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many people think that if they are within the specified age range, a fuck is a dead cert.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Mines open because Its all about attitudes not age.

And I never lie about my age. I am in pretty good shape for a 59yr old and working on getting fitter this year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used statistical significance to identify my optimum age range.

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"

Because I'm hoping they'll still be swinging at 98/99 ... "

That's my girl!!

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

my age range is what i felt most attracted to age wise and then add 5yrs above and below just in case im missing something

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By *ayleePhoenixTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

More as an initial filter. But it is not set in stone.

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By *ustSomeDarkieMan
over a year ago

Salford


"What made you choose the range you’ve chosen?

Are people so different at 41 than they are at 40? Did you do it to keep it tidy…cut offs in decade increments ?

Just curious "

Dating 18 to 28

Fucking 18 and above

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Our age range is set 8 years either side of our own age. It's not used as a filter, and we have met outside that range. But I do find the thought of meeting under 30s a bit odd. I'd have to be massively attracted to them to do that

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

For reasons I know are irrational, I can't come at under 25 because I feel they're too young. That's my hard limit.

I increasingly prefer meeting around my own age, although I have several friends I meet who are well outside my upper limit. My upper limit is an inbox control device (when I allow messages).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had to check mine as its arbitrary and is solely to act as a filter based on my preferences through past experience. Never even thought about the lower end but should probably change that. I do go older but get my prowl on for the 40+ guys! "

Yes I would appreciate you prowling my way please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Too many people think that if they are within the specified age range, a fuck is a dead cert. "

What!!! This isn’t the case

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By *lovetoowatchMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

All depends on person and which scenario im thinking of

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London


"What made you choose the range you’ve chosen?

Are people so different at 41 than they are at 40? Did you do it to keep it tidy…cut offs in decade increments ?

Just curious "

Mine are set 30-70 but just depends on the person really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waiting to fuck my first 99 years old x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 28 and my ex was 38 all I can say a women knows what she doing but early 20’s is something where you can teach em

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

With age ranges set it means those outside of that can’t contact you…. Which takes away the ‘it’s about the person’ comments because not everyone can get in touch to show themselves in a way that might attract them to you….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With age ranges set it means those outside of that can’t contact you…. Which takes away the ‘it’s about the person’ comments because not everyone can get in touch to show themselves in a way that might attract them to you…. "

Thank you for the clarification as I thought, wrongly at first, that it meant the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With age ranges set it means those outside of that can’t contact you…. Which takes away the ‘it’s about the person’ comments because not everyone can get in touch to show themselves in a way that might attract them to you….

Thank you for the clarification as I thought, wrongly at first, that it meant the opposite. "

If only your comment were sincere but I feel that is not the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just have the horn for older men. Px

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i just have the horn for older men. Px "

How old you saying? 40?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to check. It was wide open before, because it was based on chatting, and I'll chat to any age. Now I can't be arsed to change it...

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I had to check mine. My filters are wide open though but I prefer younger than me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I changed mine ….. I was aware my younger limit was 15 years below me …bit much perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think we've ever fucked over 55's but would love to..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I changed mine ….. I was aware my younger limit was 15 years below me …bit much perhaps "

I wouldn’t reject younger ladies too quickly IMO.

I’ve dated ladies 20 years my junior and even in recent months had liaisons with 2 ladies in their early 20s. The younger ladies aren’t interested in relationships understandably. But the meets have been a lot of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine arent rules, more like guidelines!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I changed mine ….. I was aware my younger limit was 15 years below me …bit much perhaps

I wouldn’t reject younger ladies too quickly IMO.

I’ve dated ladies 20 years my junior and even in recent months had liaisons with 2 ladies in their early 20s. The younger ladies aren’t interested in relationships understandably. But the meets have been a lot of fun.

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I just didn’t think they’d want this old fart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I changed mine ….. I was aware my younger limit was 15 years below me …bit much perhaps "

If you've met someone outside fab you probably wouldn't pay that much attention to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I changed mine ….. I was aware my younger limit was 15 years below me …bit much perhaps

I wouldn’t reject younger ladies too quickly IMO.

I’ve dated ladies 20 years my junior and even in recent months had liaisons with 2 ladies in their early 20s. The younger ladies aren’t interested in relationships understandably. But the meets have been a lot of fun.

I just didn’t think they’d want this old fart "

Stimulate the mind Is the strongest aphrodisiac

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I had to check mine. My filters are wide open though but I prefer younger than me "

Another one that loves cake, why do all the ones that don't meet love cake?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I changed mine ….. I was aware my younger limit was 15 years below me …bit much perhaps

If you've met someone outside fab you probably wouldn't pay that much attention to it. "

Very true as you can’t work that out in person most of the time

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I had to check mine. My filters are wide open though but I prefer younger than me

Another one that loves cake, why do all the ones that don't meet love cake? "

You do know that cake is a beautiful thing? And it is also a euphemism

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I love older women

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


"Too many people think that if they are within the specified age range, a fuck is a dead cert. "

Or in my case a Fuck could mean a Death Certificate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember the days when I didn’t set an age range…those were dark dark days. Just constant inbox deletion and abuse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I remember the days when I didn’t set an age range…those were dark dark days. Just constant inbox deletion and abuse "

Sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer to meet people around our own age. Our age range on here is a bit wider but that’s so we don’t miss out on someone because of a few years.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We’re basing it on the fact we’re unlikely to find people much younger or much older than us attractive. It’s not a looks thing it’s about having things in common other than membership of fab.

We’ve no idea what 25 year olds are into, or indeed 65 year olds, and bare with us here, even though this is a sex site there has to be something other than how a person looks in order for them to be attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many people think that if they are within the specified age range, a fuck is a dead cert.

Or in my case a Fuck could mean a Death Certificate "

x

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By *igDave8Man
over a year ago

Tonbridge

Literally 18-99 is mine.

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