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"10 years above and 10 years younger is my range " home on the range | |||
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"I would imagine most people do decades because they are a nice round number. " Neat & tidy | |||
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"10 years above and 10 years younger is my range " Tidy logic | |||
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"Mines chosen to act as another filter for messages more than anything else really. I don't put it much higher though because unfortunately I've found too many people lie about their age and say they are 50ish when they are actually a lot older. My lower limit is roughly about how low in age I would go though. " It’s a specific age at the lower end | |||
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"Because I’m not looking to meet anyone, only a certain someone…" | |||
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"10 years above and 10 years younger is my range " This is not something I can subscribe to | |||
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"I am 61 and not had a gen meeting yet. I think it's because am sub bi " Nah mate, it's because your bio is bare. Fair play on your pics, but try not to come across as too easy... Some people like a little bit of a challenge. | |||
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"I don't set mine to block anyone from getting in touch, it's just the age range that I'm usually attracted to. Doesn't mean there aren't people outside of that that do it for me." Don’t age ranges stop people outside that range getting in touch ? | |||
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"It might be more to do with number of messages, if you age range it you don’t get all the Pervy old men and women messaging you! " ...there's pervy old women on here??!!! | |||
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"The cut off has to be drawn somewhere right? Helps with message filters and I am not a fan of men much younger than me. The upper range probably should come down a little. I suppose I altered it at some point as an exception with someone in mind at the time. " It does indeed | |||
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" Because I'm hoping they'll still be swinging at 98/99 ... " That’s a good effort | |||
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"It might be more to do with number of messages, if you age range it you don’t get all the Pervy old men and women messaging you! ...there's pervy old women on here??!!! " Show me the pervy ladies please ..I haven’t found them yet | |||
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"I left mine open because people with the right attitude can be any age. I have met older people and younger people. Some who are younger know themselves, their wants, needs and consequences better than some with more years but less awareness. Some older people still have the enthusiasm, openess and fun attitude some younger people lack. At the end of the day ots a personal choice I suppose." Same. If I do find someone I'd like to contact, but I'm out of their range, I'll wink and leave it at that. Some do venture out of their ranges. | |||
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"10 years up, 10 years down I’m in…whoop whoop " Thighs!! | |||
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"10 years up, 10 years down I’m in…whoop whoop Thighs!! " I’ve told you before it’s just good lighting | |||
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"10 years up, 10 years down I’m in…whoop whoop Thighs!! I’ve told you before it’s just good lighting " Ruin my day why don't you!.... | |||
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"10 years up, 10 years down I’m in…whoop whoop Thighs!! I’ve told you before it’s just good lighting Ruin my day why don't you!.... " There’s 1 way to find out | |||
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" Because I'm hoping they'll still be swinging at 98/99 ... " Only another 16 years to go for me then, will there still be FAB though? that is the question. | |||
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"Because I’m not looking to meet anyone, only a certain someone… " | |||
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"Enjoy being 40 while you can OP, turn 41 and 'you're out of this users age range comes up alot'! " Just push your age back to 40 lol it’s 1 year no one is going to know | |||
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"Enjoy being 40 while you can OP, turn 41 and 'you're out of this users age range comes up alot'! Just push your age back to 40 lol it’s 1 year no one is going to know " can I be 30 forever instead | |||
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"We'll give some leeway either side. Ours is just a gage so if someone is attractive and can hold a conversation, it doesn't matter if they're slightly out, but I guess you have to have something set as I wouldn't agree having 18-99 We tend to get on better with people older than us. Miss S x" I’m Older | |||
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"Mines chosen to act as another filter for messages more than anything else really. I don't put it much higher though because unfortunately I've found too many people lie about their age and say they are 50ish when they are actually a lot older. My lower limit is roughly about how low in age I would go though. It’s a specific age at the lower end " There's a specific reason for that | |||
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"Mines chosen to act as another filter for messages more than anything else really. I don't put it much higher though because unfortunately I've found too many people lie about their age and say they are 50ish when they are actually a lot older. My lower limit is roughly about how low in age I would go though. It’s a specific age at the lower end There's a specific reason for that " Noted | |||
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"Are we talking actual age or mental age " I assume the age range is specific to number of birthdays had….unless I’m missing something that fab is meaning | |||
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"We'll give some leeway either side. Ours is just a gage so if someone is attractive and can hold a conversation, it doesn't matter if they're slightly out, but I guess you have to have something set as I wouldn't agree having 18-99 We tend to get on better with people older than us. Miss S x" Hi there, I'm older | |||
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"We'll give some leeway either side. Ours is just a gage so if someone is attractive and can hold a conversation, it doesn't matter if they're slightly out, but I guess you have to have something set as I wouldn't agree having 18-99 We tend to get on better with people older than us. Miss S x Hi there, I'm older " Miss S x | |||
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"We'll give some leeway either side. Ours is just a gage so if someone is attractive and can hold a conversation, it doesn't matter if they're slightly out, but I guess you have to have something set as I wouldn't agree having 18-99 We tend to get on better with people older than us. Miss S x Hi there, I'm older Miss S x" | |||
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"We'll give some leeway either side. Ours is just a gage so if someone is attractive and can hold a conversation, it doesn't matter if they're slightly out, but I guess you have to have something set as I wouldn't agree having 18-99 We tend to get on better with people older than us. Miss S x Hi there, I'm older Miss S x " What's goin on ere' Am I missing something? Hahaha Miss S x | |||
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"We'll give some leeway either side. Ours is just a gage so if someone is attractive and can hold a conversation, it doesn't matter if they're slightly out, but I guess you have to have something set as I wouldn't agree having 18-99 We tend to get on better with people older than us. Miss S x Hi there, I'm older Miss S x What's goin on ere' Am I missing something? Hahaha Miss S x" No idea haha | |||
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"I set mine for compatibility. A lot of messages I get from men that are a lot older than me are just trying to convince me age is just a number because they can still get an erection. For me I’m more concerned with their personality. If they’re too much older, I struggle to find things in common with them. Or they’ll say things like ‘Back in my day we played out until the streets lamps came on’ and I have to pinch myself to stay awake during a history lesson " On the plus side, plenty of opportunities if they're rich and have a dodgy ticker | |||
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"I set mine for compatibility. A lot of messages I get from men that are a lot older than me are just trying to convince me age is just a number because they can still get an erection. For me I’m more concerned with their personality. If they’re too much older, I struggle to find things in common with them. Or they’ll say things like ‘Back in my day we played out until the streets lamps came on’ and I have to pinch myself to stay awake during a history lesson " | |||
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"I set mine for compatibility. A lot of messages I get from men that are a lot older than me are just trying to convince me age is just a number because they can still get an erection. For me I’m more concerned with their personality. If they’re too much older, I struggle to find things in common with them. Or they’ll say things like ‘Back in my day we played out until the streets lamps came on’ and I have to pinch myself to stay awake during a history lesson " This made me chuckle!! | |||
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"Had to check mine as its arbitrary and is solely to act as a filter based on my preferences through past experience. Never even thought about the lower end but should probably change that. I do go older but get my prowl on for the 40+ guys! " What an exciting thought Couga...... | |||
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"I set mine for compatibility. A lot of messages I get from men that are a lot older than me are just trying to convince me age is just a number because they can still get an erection. For me I’m more concerned with their personality. If they’re too much older, I struggle to find things in common with them. Or they’ll say things like ‘Back in my day we played out until the streets lamps came on’ and I have to pinch myself to stay awake during a history lesson " Well now I feel old Cheers for that | |||
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" Because I'm hoping they'll still be swinging at 98/99 ... " That's my girl!! | |||
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"What made you choose the range you’ve chosen? Are people so different at 41 than they are at 40? Did you do it to keep it tidy…cut offs in decade increments ? Just curious " Dating 18 to 28 Fucking 18 and above | |||
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"Had to check mine as its arbitrary and is solely to act as a filter based on my preferences through past experience. Never even thought about the lower end but should probably change that. I do go older but get my prowl on for the 40+ guys! " Yes I would appreciate you prowling my way please | |||
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"Too many people think that if they are within the specified age range, a fuck is a dead cert. " What!!! This isn’t the case | |||
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"What made you choose the range you’ve chosen? Are people so different at 41 than they are at 40? Did you do it to keep it tidy…cut offs in decade increments ? Just curious " Mine are set 30-70 but just depends on the person really. | |||
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"With age ranges set it means those outside of that can’t contact you…. Which takes away the ‘it’s about the person’ comments because not everyone can get in touch to show themselves in a way that might attract them to you…. " Thank you for the clarification as I thought, wrongly at first, that it meant the opposite. | |||
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"With age ranges set it means those outside of that can’t contact you…. Which takes away the ‘it’s about the person’ comments because not everyone can get in touch to show themselves in a way that might attract them to you…. Thank you for the clarification as I thought, wrongly at first, that it meant the opposite. " If only your comment were sincere but I feel that is not the case | |||
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"i just have the horn for older men. Px " How old you saying? 40? | |||
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"I changed mine ….. I was aware my younger limit was 15 years below me …bit much perhaps " I wouldn’t reject younger ladies too quickly IMO. I’ve dated ladies 20 years my junior and even in recent months had liaisons with 2 ladies in their early 20s. The younger ladies aren’t interested in relationships understandably. But the meets have been a lot of fun. | |||
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"I changed mine ….. I was aware my younger limit was 15 years below me …bit much perhaps I wouldn’t reject younger ladies too quickly IMO. I’ve dated ladies 20 years my junior and even in recent months had liaisons with 2 ladies in their early 20s. The younger ladies aren’t interested in relationships understandably. But the meets have been a lot of fun. " I just didn’t think they’d want this old fart | |||
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"I changed mine ….. I was aware my younger limit was 15 years below me …bit much perhaps " If you've met someone outside fab you probably wouldn't pay that much attention to it. | |||
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"I changed mine ….. I was aware my younger limit was 15 years below me …bit much perhaps I wouldn’t reject younger ladies too quickly IMO. I’ve dated ladies 20 years my junior and even in recent months had liaisons with 2 ladies in their early 20s. The younger ladies aren’t interested in relationships understandably. But the meets have been a lot of fun. I just didn’t think they’d want this old fart " Stimulate the mind Is the strongest aphrodisiac | |||
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"I had to check mine. My filters are wide open though but I prefer younger than me " Another one that loves cake, why do all the ones that don't meet love cake? | |||
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"I changed mine ….. I was aware my younger limit was 15 years below me …bit much perhaps If you've met someone outside fab you probably wouldn't pay that much attention to it. " Very true as you can’t work that out in person most of the time | |||
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"I had to check mine. My filters are wide open though but I prefer younger than me Another one that loves cake, why do all the ones that don't meet love cake? " You do know that cake is a beautiful thing? And it is also a euphemism | |||
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"Too many people think that if they are within the specified age range, a fuck is a dead cert. " Or in my case a Fuck could mean a Death Certificate | |||
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"I remember the days when I didn’t set an age range…those were dark dark days. Just constant inbox deletion and abuse " Sorry to hear that | |||
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"Too many people think that if they are within the specified age range, a fuck is a dead cert. Or in my case a Fuck could mean a Death Certificate " x | |||
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