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By *emaleinthedark OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

I’ve noticed that some people hide their profile after meeting people. I have met- so far two people on here and then a couple of days after the meet, they hide their profile… why is this?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Have you asked them why they did it?

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

They're taking a break? They're busy... Could be any number of reasons.

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By *emaleinthedark OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

No didn’t want to be nosy.

I just thought it was a coincidence-

, considering it’s always after I meet someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be any number of reasons. Who knows, maybe they only have their profile public when they're looking to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of guys do that, I asked one why and he said he doesn't use Fab much, he's in my hotlist and maybe doesn't realise I can see when he's on line, which is usually every night

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

They don’t want to be found easily…

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We did that a few times after a meet to take a break from everything.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

Well it could be that they just tend to do that after meets you'd say something if they went and blocked you after meeting you but you can still message regardless maybe ask them for the reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hide ours after a club or play if we are satisfied and don't plan on playing for a couple of months, it's never anything to do with the people we have played with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry this happened to you

There are legit reasons but mostly it’s a cop out for

Easy ghosting technique off the old hump and dump

Basically

Hump hide profile / take a brake

And hopefully the person forgets about them

Comes back a month or two later when need another shag

Says to the offects I am back and reptiles over again

With someone else if not even may try and contact you for another shag

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By *itonthesideWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I've had a couple of guys do that, I asked one why and he said he doesn't use Fab much, he's in my hotlist and maybe doesn't realise I can see when he's on line, which is usually every night "

Oh i do this and say this … what i really mean is i am not on fab much looking for meets or chat that we both know will lead to trying to set a date for a meet

I’m on just poking / doomscrolling around the forums reading 5* more than i ever bother posting to

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I've had a couple of guys do that, I asked one why and he said he doesn't use Fab much, he's in my hotlist and maybe doesn't realise I can see when he's on line, which is usually every night

Oh i do this and say this … what i really mean is i am not on fab much looking for meets or chat that we both know will lead to trying to set a date for a meet

I’m on just poking / doomscrolling around the forums reading 5* more than i ever bother posting to "

People need to be honest, if the right person pushes the right buttons with me then of course I would want to meet them eventually, but at least I have the courtesy to engage in a conversation first. The worst part about this site is the endless "wanna fuck?" openers.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

There are a few valid reasons

To stop from getting messages at unsociable hours.

To stop getting messages from people who are trying to farm pics, often at unsociable hours.

To stay hidden from local new accounts which tend to popup at unsociable hours and are very often spam/scam

To stop from getting profiles views & getting your pics fabbed, which increases your visibility to all the aforementioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve noticed that some people hide their profile after meeting people. I have met- so far two people on here and then a couple of days after the meet, they hide their profile… why is this?"

It's weird yes.. I wouldn't do it

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

People get inundated with messages and hiding their profile gives them a bit of control so they can search and message who they want rather then getting bulk of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a few valid reasons

To stop from getting messages at unsociable hours.

To stop getting messages from people who are trying to farm pics, often at unsociable hours.

To stay hidden from local new accounts which tend to popup at unsociable hours and are very often spam/scam

To stop from getting profiles views & getting your pics fabbed, which increases your visibility to all the aforementioned"

Farm pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve noticed that some people hide their profile after meeting people. I have met- so far two people on here and then a couple of days after the meet, they hide their profile… why is this?"

Is it 'that' coincidental?! 2 people

I often hide my profile, randomly for various reasons...ie: I'm fed up of the relentless barrage of messages, I'm fed up of being 'available', i don't want to interact as I'm too busy to give friends thoughtful follow ups, I'm having a break from being fabbed , I'm away (maybe at a meet lol), or I'm not going to be on fab much .. So many reasons!

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By *onnyJohnMan
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I’ve noticed that some people hide their profile after meeting people. I have met- so far two people on here and then a couple of days after the meet, they hide their profile… why is this?"

A number of fabbers that are close to my location who i chat with occasionally have said a very similar thing, personally ive no idea why they'd do it, but it certainly seems to be what some people do....

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence


"Farm pics?"

Farm pics/pic farmer = pic collector

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve noticed that some people hide their profile after meeting people. I have met- so far two people on here and then a couple of days after the meet, they hide their profile… why is this?

Is it 'that' coincidental?! 2 people

I often hide my profile, randomly for various reasons...ie: I'm fed up of the relentless barrage of messages, I'm fed up of being 'available', i don't want to interact as I'm too busy to give friends thoughtful follow ups, I'm having a break from being fabbed , I'm away (maybe at a meet lol), or I'm not going to be on fab much .. So many reasons! "

This. I fail to see why hiding a profile is such a weird thing to people

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