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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I consider myself to be a straight man, but I also love to look at penises, and I find it a massive turn-on to watch a man masturbate.

As I said, I think of myself as mostly straight. I'm not attracted to men romantically or emotionally, I'm not interested in the male body generally and I don't really like men's faces. Yet I love looking at the penis.

Am I alone in this, or do others like to do this as well?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I consider myself to be a straight man, but I also love to look at penises, and I find it a massive turn-on to watch a man masturbate.

As I said, I think of myself as mostly straight. I'm not attracted to men romantically or emotionally, I'm not interested in the male body generally and I don't really like men's faces. Yet I love looking at the penis.

Am I alone in this, or do others like to do this as well? "

You're not unique at all.

Many striaght guys feel the same. Some progress to being more curious and actually seek a physical encounter. Some then decide it's not for them, others embrace it as a pure physical thing.

I've never been romantically or emotionally attracted to a guy ever. Doesn't stop me enjoying a little same sex fun when Fox and I meet others. It's not a requirement and not smething I'd do with any guy, but I see it as a purely sexual thing. It's fun and enjoyable so why not.

Despite you never acting on it or doing anything with another guy, I'm sure there'll be a straight guy along shortly to tell you you're not actually straight due to some thoughts you've had.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, that’s not straight but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suspect it's actually really common. And may explain why so many men are keen to photograph and display their dicks.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I'm straight not at all attracted to women although have played with one well just because I could! And may again who knows? But I prefer looking at the woman form over men tbh x

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"I consider myself to be a straight man, but I also love to look at penises, and I find it a massive turn-on to watch a man masturbate.

As I said, I think of myself as mostly straight. I'm not attracted to men romantically or emotionally, I'm not interested in the male body generally and I don't really like men's faces. Yet I love looking at the penis.

Am I alone in this, or do others like to do this as well? "

I think this is quite commonplace, especially in places such as fab.

You're definitely not alone in feeling that way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But I prefer looking at the woman form over men tbh x"

I think that's probably because women are just more attractive generally, haha.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

When I first joined here I really struggled with all the penises on show. Over time I have become desensitised to seeing cocks, but I really cannot see them as attractive in any way.

It is not uncommon on here to feel like you do. But it's not straight. Even if ever so slightly bi, it's still a bit bi.

You yourself say you are "mostly straight", so you already have an inkling. Embrace it, and see where it takes you.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm likely to describe myself as hetero-flexible, if I were to try and put any name to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it’s possible to be a straight man and obsessive about another man’s cock.

Op you are most likely bi sexual .

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby

I class myself as straight, I have no interest in penis’s at all or watching other men wank.

When scrolling through pics I’ll scroll past male pics and stop for a look at the female pics.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not offended by it and really a closet bi/gay guy, it just doesn’t interest me.

Each to their own I suppose.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I'm likely to describe myself as hetero-flexible, if I were to try and put any name to it.

"

You really don’t need to put a name on it OP. If it floats your boat go with it. And enjoy your perving

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You really don’t need to put a name on it OP. If it floats your boat go with it. And enjoy your perving "

Thanks Littlebird. Already had a lot of people tell me I'm not straight, when I'm very confident in my sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You really don’t need to put a name on it OP. If it floats your boat go with it. And enjoy your perving

Thanks Littlebird. Already had a lot of people tell me I'm not straight, when I'm very confident in my sexuality. "

That’s not accurate Op . You opened this thread with I’m straight then just above you write you’re hetero-flexible.

You can be who you want to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on OP get that bro loving going

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"For me, that’s not straight but each to their own"

This

To fantasize about another man’s penis is not straight in my books, but whatever rocks your boat fella enjoy

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby


"You really don’t need to put a name on it OP. If it floats your boat go with it. And enjoy your perving

Thanks Littlebird. Already had a lot of people tell me I'm not straight, when I'm very confident in my sexuality. "

What’s so important about the straight label?

Instead of saying I’m straight, I like this

why not say I’m me and I like this?

I bet none of your friends or family care what you like doing behind closed doors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm straight not at all attracted to women although have played with one well just because I could! And may again who knows? But I prefer looking at the woman form over men tbh x"

This for me. Women are much more attractive overall, and I like contrasting/comparing my body to theirs. But men - they're just yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You really don’t need to put a name on it OP. If it floats your boat go with it. And enjoy your perving

Thanks Littlebird. Already had a lot of people tell me I'm not straight, when I'm very confident in my sexuality.

What’s so important about the straight label?

Instead of saying I’m straight, I like this

why not say I’m me and I like this?

I bet none of your friends or family care what you like doing behind closed doors."

If only your statement was true.

Sadly homosexuals are still finding it difficult to come out. Most are rejected by their friends and families.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

That's not straight, that's "fab straight"

To be fair that's not even close to being the most egregious example of "fab straight"

Earlier I saw a "straight" profile where all the pics show a bloke bending over shoving a 15 inch penis shaped dildo up his backside.

Fab-straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not straight, that's "fab straight"

To be fair that's not even close to being the most egregious example of "fab straight"

Earlier I saw a "straight" profile where all the pics show a bloke bending over shoving a 15 inch penis shaped dildo up his backside.

Fab-straight "

Apparently men who enjoy anal sex are not straight

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence


"Apparently men who enjoy anal sex are not straight

"

It depends on what your eyes are focused on whilst doing it.

If you're the one looking at the pillow, that possibly crosses slightly more into the territory of "fab straight"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your confused you say straight then mainly straight

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"That's not straight, that's "fab straight"

To be fair that's not even close to being the most egregious example of "fab straight"

Earlier I saw a "straight" profile where all the pics show a bloke bending over shoving a 15 inch penis shaped dildo up his backside.

Fab-straight "

If a straight guy gets pegged by a woman is he any less straight?

A

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford


"That's not straight, that's "fab straight"

To be fair that's not even close to being the most egregious example of "fab straight"

Earlier I saw a "straight" profile where all the pics show a bloke bending over shoving a 15 inch penis shaped dildo up his backside.

Fab-straight

If a straight guy gets pegged by a woman is he any less straight?

A"

Let's find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might be enjoying the pictures from the perspective of imagining the man in the picture I’d yourself?

I consider myself straight (or, attracted to men only) but if I watch porn featuring a woman (I usually watch bi MMF or gay male porn) I won’t avoid looking at the woman. I look at her in a way that’s imaging I’m her, if that makes sense? So I’m not “perving on” her, I’m inserting myself in her place. It’s not bi to merely look at a woman.

Or, you might be a bit bi. Either way, nothing wrong with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You might be enjoying the pictures from the perspective of imagining the man in the picture I’d yourself?

I consider myself straight (or, attracted to men only) but if I watch porn featuring a woman (I usually watch bi MMF or gay male porn) I won’t avoid looking at the woman. I look at her in a way that’s imaging I’m her, if that makes sense? So I’m not “perving on” her, I’m inserting myself in her place. It’s not bi to merely look at a woman.

Or, you might be a bit bi. Either way, nothing wrong with it. "

That's an interesting perspective, but I don't think it really fits my situation. When I watch porn, I'm definitely imaging swapping places with the man, haha though.

Its the penis itself I'm interested in, the rest of the man I'm not bothered by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah, it's not for me, but you knock yourself out fella

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence


" If a straight guy gets pegged by a woman is he any less straight?

A"

Arbitrarily I'm saying it depends on the size.

If the appendage is bigger than the length of an index finger, I'd say that trends towards Fab-straight.

Apparently there's a strap-on called a "warhorse" which besides being humongous, has possibly the funniest name for a strap-on ever.

I'm going to start calling very large penises "warhorses"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I consider myself to be a straight man, but I also love to look at penises, and I find it a massive turn-on to watch a man masturbate.

As I said, I think of myself as mostly straight. I'm not attracted to men romantically or emotionally, I'm not interested in the male body generally and I don't really like men's faces. Yet I love looking at the penis.

Am I alone in this, or do others like to do this as well? "

I don’t do this. And I am straight.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


" If a straight guy gets pegged by a woman is he any less straight?

A

Arbitrarily I'm saying it depends on the size.

If the appendage is bigger than the length of an index finger, I'd say that trends towards Fab-straight.

D"

The size of something stuffed up your ass should bear no relevance to someone's sexual preferences.

A straight guy can enjoy playing with a dildo and still not be attracted to men, maybe he just really likes having his asshole played with.

In the same way a lesbian isn't suddenly attracted to men if she enjoys playing with dildos.

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By *ostAirmenMan
over a year ago

crewe

I’m straight but have to say I do find it interesting to see what men are whelding . To be hoe at some guys on here are packing a serious size bats . It’s then I realise I’m Mr very Average .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" If a straight guy gets pegged by a woman is he any less straight?

A

Arbitrarily I'm saying it depends on the size.

If the appendage is bigger than the length of an index finger, I'd say that trends towards Fab-straight.

D

The size of something stuffed up your ass should bear no relevance to someone's sexual preferences.

A straight guy can enjoy playing with a dildo and still not be attracted to men, maybe he just really likes having his asshole played with.

In the same way a lesbian isn't suddenly attracted to men if she enjoys playing with dildos.

"

Agreed

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence


" If a straight guy gets pegged by a woman is he any less straight?

A

Arbitrarily I'm saying it depends on the size.

If the appendage is bigger than the length of an index finger, I'd say that trends towards Fab-straight.

D

The size of something stuffed up your ass should bear no relevance to someone's sexual preferences.

A straight guy can enjoy playing with a dildo and still not be attracted to men, maybe he just really likes having his asshole played with.

In the same way a lesbian isn't suddenly attracted to men if she enjoys playing with dildos.

"

I was really just trying to give facetious answers to show how little these labels matter, but to be poe-faced about it...you could see it like this

If you like sticking penis-like objects in your arse, then you like sticking things in your arse and it doesn't matter who is holding the object.

If you like someone to strap a penis like object to their torso and thrust it into you, which let's face it, is a de-facto simulation of someone using a penis in much the same way a man does naturally, then that is not quite the same as using a dildo independently on yourself, ergo possibly it could be reasonably suggested that may indicate some inclination to be shafted by the real McCoy at some point.

Possibly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m straight but have to say I do find it interesting to see what men are whelding . To be hoe at some guys on here are packing a serious size bats . It’s then I realise I’m Mr very Average . "

I am very similar. Love looking at all the meat on here, especially the huge ones.

Yours may be average but it looks lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just looking at other guys cocks doesn't make you bi or gay.

If you progress to the physical, then it just means you're bi not gay.

If from then on you only seek sex with men and a relationship, then you are gay.

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By *ostAirmenMan
over a year ago

crewe


"I’m straight but have to say I do find it interesting to see what men are whelding . To be hoe at some guys on here are packing a serious size bats . It’s then I realise I’m Mr very Average .

I am very similar. Love looking at all the meat on here, especially the huge ones.

Yours may be average but it looks lovely."

Thanks buddy proper cheered me up that .

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

I think sexuality is a lot more complex than any label. I understand that some people are this or that, but there’s a lot of nuances in between. And that’s ok. As long as no one is hurt in any way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think about women masturbating in front of me, whilst keep eye contact..

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've no idea if others share your interests op. All I can tell you is that I'm straight and I've not even the slightest interest in looking at another man's cock.

It's pretty hard to avoid on here but I've never once glanced over at another man at the urinal or in a changing room.

Maybe I'm unusual in that but I've never been curious in any way either sexually or for comparison purposes.

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay / Fleet


"I consider myself to be a straight man, but I also love to look at penises, and I find it a massive turn-on to watch a man masturbate.

As I said, I think of myself as mostly straight. I'm not attracted to men romantically or emotionally, I'm not interested in the male body generally and I don't really like men's faces. Yet I love looking at the penis.

Am I alone in this, or do others like to do this as well? "

You don’t sound straight at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" If a straight guy gets pegged by a woman is he any less straight?

A

Arbitrarily I'm saying it depends on the size.

If the appendage is bigger than the length of an index finger, I'd say that trends towards Fab-straight.

D

The size of something stuffed up your ass should bear no relevance to someone's sexual preferences.

A straight guy can enjoy playing with a dildo and still not be attracted to men, maybe he just really likes having his asshole played with.

In the same way a lesbian isn't suddenly attracted to men if she enjoys playing with dildos.

"

Totally agree with you. It was a strange assumption mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've no idea if others share your interests op. All I can tell you is that I'm straight and I've not even the slightest interest in looking at another man's cock.

It's pretty hard to avoid on here but I've never once glanced over at another man at the urinal or in a changing room.

Maybe I'm unusual in that but I've never been curious in any way either sexually or for comparison purposes. "

You’re a straight man.

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By *FunwithmenMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Do we have to put a name to it and categorise?

It works for some and not for others. It can be reassuring that you are not odd to know that others feel like you.

As long as you are happy and not hurting anyone, so what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might be enjoying the pictures from the perspective of imagining the man in the picture I’d yourself?

I consider myself straight (or, attracted to men only) but if I watch porn featuring a woman (I usually watch bi MMF or gay male porn) I won’t avoid looking at the woman. I look at her in a way that’s imaging I’m her, if that makes sense? So I’m not “perving on” her, I’m inserting myself in her place. It’s not bi to merely look at a woman.

Or, you might be a bit bi. Either way, nothing wrong with it.

That's an interesting perspective, but I don't think it really fits my situation. When I watch porn, I'm definitely imaging swapping places with the man, haha though.

Its the penis itself I'm interested in, the rest of the man I'm not bothered by. "

That’s fair! You might be a bit bi then.

I’m a bit At the men on here saying that even looking at cocks makes you bi. You can’t escape boobs/vaginas in porn and just looking at them doesn’t make a woman bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" If a straight guy gets pegged by a woman is he any less straight?

A

Arbitrarily I'm saying it depends on the size.

If the appendage is bigger than the length of an index finger, I'd say that trends towards Fab-straight.

D

The size of something stuffed up your ass should bear no relevance to someone's sexual preferences.

A straight guy can enjoy playing with a dildo and still not be attracted to men, maybe he just really likes having his asshole played with.

In the same way a lesbian isn't suddenly attracted to men if she enjoys playing with dildos.

I was really just trying to give facetious answers to show how little these labels matter, but to be poe-faced about it...you could see it like this

If you like sticking penis-like objects in your arse, then you like sticking things in your arse and it doesn't matter who is holding the object.

If you like someone to strap a penis like object to their torso and thrust it into you, which let's face it, is a de-facto simulation of someone using a penis in much the same way a man does naturally, then that is not quite the same as using a dildo independently on yourself, ergo possibly it could be reasonably suggested that may indicate some inclination to be shafted by the real McCoy at some point.

Possibly "

Eh. A woman enjoying receiving oral doesn’t mean she wants to try it with a woman. And a woman putting on a strap doesn’t mean she wants to have a penis *or* fuck women. It’s all subjective.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

The only dick I enjoy watching being played with is my own!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Nope. Not my flavour of fruit

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

I must say that I'm not often attracted to men and consider myself str8 m8!

But sometimes, I accidentally masturbate over images of muscular men with huge warhorse-tier dicks, and occasionally (regularly) only seek out male sexual interactions where I reluctantly fellate them until they are rock hard, at which point I present my arse cheeks to them for their perusal, and allow them to slide their throbbing dicks into my back-passage, not-enjoying the totally not-gay sensation of them thrusting against my buttocks until they have ejaculated. I have done this several hundred times despite not being attracted to them at all.

What does that make me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must say that I'm not often attracted to men and consider myself str8 m8!

But sometimes, I accidentally masturbate over images of muscular men with huge warhorse-tier dicks, and occasionally (regularly) only seek out male sexual interactions where I reluctantly fellate them until they are rock hard, at which point I present my arse cheeks to them for their perusal, and allow them to slide their throbbing dicks into my back-passage, not-enjoying the totally not-gay sensation of them thrusting against my buttocks until they have ejaculated. I have done this several hundred times despite not being attracted to them at all.

What does that make me? "

Straight! It was an accidental wank.

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Not at all, I consider myself Heteexible. Sometimes I’ll watch Bi porn, sometimes I’ll watch straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m straight but have to say I do find it interesting to see what men are whelding . To be hoe at some guys on here are packing a serious size bats . It’s then I realise I’m Mr very Average .

I am very similar. Love looking at all the meat on here, especially the huge ones.

Yours may be average but it looks lovely.

Thanks buddy proper cheered me up that ."

This is just my opinion, but the reasons I think it's nice are the size, the veins and it's uncut.

I love uncut cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess if we are limited to the fab labels would bi-curious best fit?

But if not limited to those labels then why label yourself at all OP…you do you…call it whatever you want to call it…

You used another term……hetexible….if that’s your label use it…. But by using that label you haven’t used straight…so could that be determined that you don’t see yourself as straight?

In a world of a label requirement …we can see why confusion can occur

Just my opinion and not pushed on anyone else

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By *r SteelhammerMan
over a year ago

belfast


"For me, that’s not straight but each to their own"

It's not gay unless you push back

I agree if you like dick you like dick but doesn't mean your straight

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence


"Eh. A woman enjoying receiving oral doesn’t mean she wants to try it with a woman. And a woman putting on a strap doesn’t mean she wants to have a penis *or* fuck women. It’s all subjective. "

Of course it does not necessarily mean she wants to identify as a man in real life, BUT for the purpose of the, characteristically-male sexual function she wishes to perform, she needs to equip what is effectively a fake penis, because there is no way a woman is naturally able to penetrate either a vagina or an anus in the same torso-thrusting way a man does, without it.

Oral sex is characteristically gender neutral, as all that's needed is a mouth and a tongue, which both sexes possess.

But originally this is about what it means to be the male recipient of anal sex. However you want to cut & slice it, it is still someone with an appendage essentially topping your arse. If the fact that it's a woman with a plastic dick makes you feel less gay then that's up to you, but it's exactly the same act whether the dick is real or plastic. You're still getting railed

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I consider myself to be a straight man….

As I said, I think of myself as ‘mostly’ straight. "

Oh you reveal yourself too easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh. A woman enjoying receiving oral doesn’t mean she wants to try it with a woman. And a woman putting on a strap doesn’t mean she wants to have a penis *or* fuck women. It’s all subjective.

Of course it does not necessarily mean she wants to identify as a man in real life, BUT for the purpose of the, characteristically-male sexual function she wishes to perform, she needs to equip what is effectively a fake penis, because there is no way a woman is naturally able to penetrate either a vagina or an anus in the same torso-thrusting way a man does, without it.

Oral sex is characteristically gender neutral, as all that's needed is a mouth and a tongue, which both sexes possess.

But originally this is about what it means to be the male recipient of anal sex. However you want to cut & slice it, it is still someone with an appendage essentially topping your arse. If the fact that it's a woman with a plastic dick makes you feel less gay then that's up to you, but it's exactly the same act whether the dick is real or plastic. You're still getting railed "

If you were to fuck your wife in the arse would that constitute you being homosexual?

Just a question…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I consider myself to be a straight man, but I also love to look at penises, and I find it a massive turn-on to watch a man masturbate.

As I said, I think of myself as mostly straight. I'm not attracted to men romantically or emotionally, I'm not interested in the male body generally and I don't really like men's faces. Yet I love looking at the penis.

Am I alone in this, or do others like to do this as well? "

I have no attaction towards men but I like to see a woman enjoying a big a cock, her sex appeal to me increases.

I don't have much interest at all in watching a man masturbating. However if big Harold posted a video and I came across it, I would have a look.

I think you want more though OP. You have a picture of your arse and that to me suggests you want anal sex.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It means you’re gay mate

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I think it depends on if it leads you to want to do anything about it ie meet a man and explore .

In straight & wouldn't want to look at lady bits .

I have seen straight women say that they enjoy looking at other women ,so that could be similar.

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I have never contributed to such thread before as its exactly the same every time. Someone telling someone else what they are. Some of the answers are quite amusing of course and that's ok. The best ones are the ones that just say be what you are and enjoy. However what is rather interesting that some view being attached to a particular label like a trophy with some intrinsic value chasing a place at the top of the pyramid. Anyone confident in who they are should not feel the need to assert it in my opinion. Probably the first and last time I contributed to a post like this and I am now out. Enjoy the debate and OP, why you needed to ask in the first place the opinion of others does surprise me a little.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence


"If you were to fuck your wife in the arse would that constitute you being homosexual?

Just a question… "

Technically, no. Exactly the same as asking if being pegged by a woman is homosexual, technically no it isn't. Technically...

But clearly there is also a grey area where opinion can go either way, and I don't think you could blame anyone too much for thinking that it's a pretty thin & blurry line between a man getting poled up the buns by a penis-shaped object strapped to someones groin, and anal intercourse that takes place between 2 people with naturally acquired penises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were to fuck your wife in the arse would that constitute you being homosexual?

Just a question…

Technically, no. Exactly the same as asking if being pegged by a woman is homosexual, technically no it isn't. Technically...

But clearly there is also a grey area where opinion can go either way, and I don't think you could blame anyone too much for thinking that it's a pretty thin & blurry line between a man getting poled up the buns by a penis-shaped object strapped to someones groin, and anal intercourse that takes place between 2 people with naturally acquired penises "

As I said…Just a question….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site should have a sliding scale of straightness or something. 10 you’re uncomfortable even touching a guy, 6 you like dick probably, bi tops are around a 5 etc.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"This site should have a sliding scale of straightness or something. 10 you’re uncomfortable even touching a guy, 6 you like dick probably, bi tops are around a 5 etc.

"

I’d probably be 11 on that scale then

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By *hester-jj75Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

May I ask you a question then?

Would you meet a TV/TS?

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden


"I consider myself to be a straight man, but I also love to look at penises, and I find it a massive turn-on to watch a man masturbate.

As I said, I think of myself as mostly straight. I'm not attracted to men romantically or emotionally, I'm not interested in the male body generally and I don't really like men's faces. Yet I love looking at the penis.

Am I alone in this, or do others like to do this as well? "

Just enjoy what you enjoy and don’t worry.

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By *hester-jj75Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

May I ask you a question then?

Would you meet a TV/TS?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site should have a sliding scale of straightness or something. 10 you’re uncomfortable even touching a guy, 6 you like dick probably, bi tops are around a 5 etc.

I’d probably be 11 on that scale then "

What like the Spinal Tap of straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh. A woman enjoying receiving oral doesn’t mean she wants to try it with a woman. And a woman putting on a strap doesn’t mean she wants to have a penis *or* fuck women. It’s all subjective.

Of course it does not necessarily mean she wants to identify as a man in real life, BUT for the purpose of the, characteristically-male sexual function she wishes to perform, she needs to equip what is effectively a fake penis, because there is no way a woman is naturally able to penetrate either a vagina or an anus in the same torso-thrusting way a man does, without it.

Oral sex is characteristically gender neutral, as all that's needed is a mouth and a tongue, which both sexes possess.

But originally this is about what it means to be the male recipient of anal sex. However you want to cut & slice it, it is still someone with an appendage essentially topping your arse. If the fact that it's a woman with a plastic dick makes you feel less gay then that's up to you, but it's exactly the same act whether the dick is real or plastic. You're still getting railed "

Or it could be about a gay woman wanting to be penetrated by a strap, that doesn’t make her secretly straight if she’s attracted to women only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fwiw I think if the OP wants to identify as straight then he can, or if he wants to say he’s bi that’s cool too. Personally I’m a masc leaning person with a vagina, so labels are fluid for me too (outside of fab I identify as either a genderfluid person or a crossdresser). But I don’t think enjoying being penetrated makes a man gay or bi; I’m vers myself, I like to penetrate or be penetrated and I identify as purely androsexual (or straight) because I have no interest in penetrating a woman or being penetrated by a woman with a strap. But if I’m topping a guy and he identifies as straight, that’s fine.

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

I (Mr) can vouch for that. I first found myself aroused by looking at another fella’s penis and particularly watching them masturbate as a young adult.

I still enjoy this to this day and my lady has been so supportive so much so this is part of our fun on the scene.

I’ve never been emotionally attracted to men or paid attention to looks but have always enjoyed the penis.

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By *just.meMan
over a year ago

hartlepool


"I consider myself to be a straight man, but I also love to look at penises, and I find it a massive turn-on to watch a man masturbate.

As I said, I think of myself as mostly straight. I'm not attracted to men romantically or emotionally, I'm not interested in the male body generally and I don't really like men's faces. Yet I love looking at the penis.

Am I alone in this, or do others like to do this as well? "

Same

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence


"Or it could be about a gay woman wanting to be penetrated by a strap, that doesn’t make her secretly straight if she’s attracted to women only.

"

The comment I responded to initially was talking about a man getting pegged.

Whether it's a "str8" man or a lesbian, they're both hypothetical people. I'm very sure that bisexual women do exist, just as I'm very very sure that men who like to get pegged by their girlfriend and have bisexual tenancies also exist.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Doesn't sound like a straight mind to me but you crack on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably because you have penis in common, you know how it works, how it feels. I like watching women masturbate in videos sometimes but I’m straight too.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I'm Bi but I do recognise that some cocks are just ugly and would put me off just looking at them. Of course the opposite is true as well and some cocks are just fucking glorious.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Not for me. But do as you wish does others opinions matter ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message just Pete he is into this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message just Pete he is into this. "

Just you.

Vive le cul sec x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message just Pete he is into this.

Just you.

Vive le cul sec x"

Et la bite molle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message just Pete he is into this.

Just you.

Vive le cul sec x

Et la bite molle "

It is very Tour Eiffelly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably because you have penis in common, you know how it works, how it feels. I like watching women masturbate in videos sometimes but I’m straight too. "

I feel that this is probably what it is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"May I ask you a question then?

Would you meet a TV/TS?

"

I’d very happily meet a transwoman; a transman not really - as I said, I’m not particularly interested in men.

Not interested in amab people who cross dress either. More power to them, but it’s not something that interests me.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

It's called fab straight its a real thing

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By *igDave8Man
over a year ago

Tonbridge


"I consider myself to be a straight man, but I also love to look at penises, and I find it a massive turn-on to watch a man masturbate.

As I said, I think of myself as mostly straight. I'm not attracted to men romantically or emotionally, I'm not interested in the male body generally and I don't really like men's faces. Yet I love looking at the penis.

Am I alone in this, or do others like to do this as well? "

Exactly this. Same reason straight guys are more drawn to a big cock than a small cock!

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

OPs one and only pic is of his arse

Fab-straight

I have lots of arse-out pics too & I have them for a reason

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

OP: You are not alone in this.

If I could suggest anything, it's not to question or predict too hard where your flexibilities lie. Just accept that humans are an incredibly adaptable and inquisitive species, and follow your own path of adventure and discovery.

We're not born with labels (though we tend to acquire them, rightly or wrongly later.)

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Im gonna say this and I dont care if its offensive or controversal, if a straight man claims his straight but sleeps with men or likes the look of mens pictures etc then sorry he aint straight

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By *exi_LexiTV/TS
over a year ago

caerphilly

Spaghetti is straight until wet

But I get you, I'm not attracted to men what so ever, it's just the cock that interests me, otherwise its women all the way

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Always odd when someone feels so strongly about a subject they're necromancer threads all over the shop to spout their opinion of straight.

Sexuality is a fairly fluid thing in my opinion.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Sexuality is a fairly fluid thing in my opinion."

I’ll drink to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message just Pete he is into this.

Just you.

Vive le cul sec x

Et la bite molle

It is very Tour Eiffelly"

Especially when I think of you

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I've no idea if others share your interests op. All I can tell you is that I'm straight and I've not even the slightest interest in looking at another man's cock.

It's pretty hard to avoid on here but I've never once glanced over at another man at the urinal or in a changing room.

Maybe I'm unusual in that but I've never been curious in any way either sexually or for comparison purposes.

You’re a straight man. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always odd when someone feels so strongly about a subject they're necromancer threads all over the shop to spout their opinion of straight."

Absolutely agreed; especially when from their opinion its clear they didn't read or misunderstood the OP

Oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow down a bit... I need more popcorn...

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

Sexuality isn't set in stone.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport


"You really don’t need to put a name on it OP. If it floats your boat go with it. And enjoy your perving

Thanks Littlebird. Already had a lot of people tell me I'm not straight, when I'm very confident in my sexuality. "

I agree it's not something that needs a label.

You do you.

It's not anyone else's business what you like .

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


"I've no idea if others share your interests op. All I can tell you is that I'm straight and I've not even the slightest interest in looking at another man's cock.

It's pretty hard to avoid on here but I've never once glanced over at another man at the urinal or in a changing room.

Maybe I'm unusual in that but I've never been curious in any way either sexually or for comparison purposes.

You’re a straight man.

This sums up my position spot on"

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

Living vacariously ? Maybe he's fantasising about being the owner of a massive dick

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