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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As I'm sure most ladies would agree, we men can always use some guidance on how to pleasure a lady orally.

Personally, I would love to have a FWB who would be willing to teach me how to give her an amazing oral orgasm or 3

Which has me wondering: How many ladies out there would be happy to do this for a local guy?

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

I attack it like a greggs pasty when I haven’t eaten for a week….

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Pointless thinking that what you were taught would work for every woman though.

I think what men really need to learn is how to listen and observe their sexual partners better. That’s a real skill few have and use.

The ones that do amazing!

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"Pointless thinking that what you were taught would work for every woman though.

I think what men really need to learn is how to listen and observe their sexual partners better. That’s a real skill few have and use.

The ones that do amazing! "

But my approach still makes you weak at the knees doesn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pointless thinking that what you were taught would work for every woman though.

I think what men really need to learn is how to listen and observe their sexual partners better. That’s a real skill few have and use.

The ones that do amazing! "

Women are not all the same..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pointless thinking that what you were taught would work for every woman though.

I think what men really need to learn is how to listen and observe their sexual partners better. That’s a real skill few have and use.

The ones that do amazing! "

A very valid point!

But in the case of a brand new partner (1 night stand or otherwise) surely there are some techniques that are 'universally' enjoyed by ladies?

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Highly unlikely mainly due to the way female physiology is. Ime it varies even more so than mens

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By *llblueMan
over a year ago

Irvine

Dive in with both hands and mouth, and attack it like a bulldog eating beetroot!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dive in with both hands and mouth, and attack it like a bulldog eating beetroot! "

Funny how I almost NEVER see a woman describe it like that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many ladies out there would be happy to do this for a local guy?"

I'm sure there's an opening for this.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas


"Pointless thinking that what you were taught would work for every woman though.

I think what men really need to learn is how to listen and observe their sexual partners better. That’s a real skill few have and use.

The ones that do amazing! "

It always comes down to this. There may be a couple of generic things that work for the majority but specifics and finer details about it all, the things that make it memorable are very much individual basis. Things that may make it for one, and be a total breaker for the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I attack it like a greggs pasty when I haven’t eaten for a week…. "

& straight out of the microwave, hot as the sun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OH MY GOD.....

GREGGS PASTY?????

BULLDOG EATING BEETROOT??????

Now why am I surprised that your wives don't have sex with you????

It's an art, it's not about munching away at your favorite meal or snack.

Ladies enjoy being flattered,explored,gently aroused. You have to spend time.

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By *amantMan
over a year ago

Alnmouth


"Pointless thinking that what you were taught would work for every woman though.

I think what men really need to learn is how to listen and observe their sexual partners better. That’s a real skill few have and use.

The ones that do amazing! "

Sounds remarkably like 'effort required'. Will never catch on among the general public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Effort required"...not "ere you are love....get noshing"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's not that complicated.

Locate clitoris and other bits of the anatomy of interest.

Explore with lips and tongue. Gently at first, then gradually try more pressure or intensity.

For feedback, listen to changes in breathing, noises, or anything she says.

(Different women like different things, some find it easier or more difficult, but this is a fail-safe exploration guide unless specifically told otherwise)

You're welcome.

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By *amela1987Woman
over a year ago

Enfield

Know where to lick

Know where to suck

Know where to kiss

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Pointless thinking that what you were taught would work for every woman though.

I think what men really need to learn is how to listen and observe their sexual partners better. That’s a real skill few have and use.

The ones that do amazing!

A very valid point!

But in the case of a brand new partner (1 night stand or otherwise) surely there are some techniques that are 'universally' enjoyed by ladies? "

No.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas


"OH MY GOD.....

GREGGS PASTY?????

BULLDOG EATING BEETROOT??????

Now why am I surprised that your wives don't have sex with you????

It's an art, it's not about munching away at your favorite meal or snack.

Ladies enjoy being flattered,explored,gently aroused. You have to spend time.

"

Except that for some (maybe a minority of a minority) that would enjoy those exact thing. Which is sort of the point, there is no definitive correct way that can be applied universal. Not all ladies (majority or not) want what you described either.

Its not something that can be taught, only advised on the basics, one those are done everything else is "like a box of chocolates"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"OH MY GOD.....

GREGGS PASTY?????

BULLDOG EATING BEETROOT??????

Now why am I surprised that your wives don't have sex with you????

It's an art, it's not about munching away at your favorite meal or snack.

Ladies enjoy being flattered,explored,gently aroused. You have to spend time.

Except that for some (maybe a minority of a minority) that would enjoy those exact thing. Which is sort of the point, there is no definitive correct way that can be applied universal. Not all ladies (majority or not) want what you described either.

Its not something that can be taught, only advised on the basics, one those are done everything else is "like a box of chocolates" "

Yeah. I think my guide is universal, but it's a universal "this is how you figure it out for each individual", not "put tongue on X spot, guaranteed orgasm"

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"It's not that complicated.

Locate clitoris and other bits of the anatomy of interest.

Explore with lips and tongue. Gently at first, then gradually try more pressure or intensity.

For feedback, listen to changes in breathing, noises, or anything she says.

(Different women like different things, some find it easier or more difficult, but this is a fail-safe exploration guide unless specifically told otherwise)

You're welcome."

You’re saying i wont need my drill???

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It's not that complicated.

Locate clitoris and other bits of the anatomy of interest.

Explore with lips and tongue. Gently at first, then gradually try more pressure or intensity.

For feedback, listen to changes in breathing, noises, or anything she says.

(Different women like different things, some find it easier or more difficult, but this is a fail-safe exploration guide unless specifically told otherwise)

You're welcome.

You’re saying i wont need my drill??? "

Wtf do you get up to

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’m addition we don’t like the same thing every time either how boring is that? Yet I know plenty of guys who fuck by numbers ex was one of them

Step 1 tweak nipples for 30 secs

Step 2 squeeze boobs a bit

Etc etc ??yawn!

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By *onnyJohnMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

No expert by any stretch of the imagination, i have however found that paying attention to what you do and paying attention to how the lady in question responds is critical, particularly how the lady responds.

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By *rchitectMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I learnt everything from a great book and it was the best thing I ever did.

A woman knows straight away if you know what you are doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having eaten a lot of ladies . There is no one full proof method. Just have good communication with your partner . And enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Pointless thinking that what you were taught would work for every woman though.

I think what men really need to learn is how to listen and observe their sexual partners better. That’s a real skill few have and use.

The ones that do amazing!

A very valid point!

But in the case of a brand new partner (1 night stand or otherwise) surely there are some techniques that are 'universally' enjoyed by ladies? "

Unlikely, from what I've read in the forums. Some don't even like oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her when you get the chance

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