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Think about this on a tuesday night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you making the most of life or are you living through the motions as I feel guilty of doing.

Do you think its one life you have so make the most of it ? I think like that but I'm guilty if not making the most of life.

I'm sure there are many more intelligent people than me who put this into words. So on let's hear you !?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm making the most of life as far as it's possible for me to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

currently pissing my life away in a downward spiral tbh.

but 'going through the motions' makes it sounds far more eloquent.

Px

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Trying to live our best life but commitments elsewhere and money of course prevent us from living our very best life. It we had a choice we would retire now but we can't, so we won't.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

The old saying comes to mind, nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Life should be grabbing with both hands, live it to the max. Take some risks, they may not always pay off, but then it's a learning experience.

You are a long time dead

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Taking steps backwards, but most of my life has been unreal in an enjoyable way

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By *yronutMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I’ve made a pigs ear of my life, I’m trying to make amends but age is against me so I do what I can to pass the days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes just surviving is OK ! Life is hard and challenging in so many ways and 'going through the motions' can be an achievement in itself. If you're not happy with your life then it's always good to take practical steps to change it, but don't be too hard on yourself for just enduring.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmm great comments fabbers

I think life was already written for me. I'm on a stage and I will play my part.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmm great comments fabbers

I think life was already written for me. I'm on a stage and I will play my part. "

I mean I have to do it. That's what I meant by living through the motions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just bumbling my way through at the moment. Riding the rough seas in the hood of calmer waters in the not too distant future.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do anyone else feel they have been stuck in the same gear forever?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'm trying to live it but I'm finding too many every day distractions interfering with my plans, i shall try and thwart these though and do them on a lesser scale

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Definitely currently just going through motions, Life has been shit last year or so with end of 15 year relationship, heart attack that nearly ended life and death of a good lifelong friend. So much can change in short space of time feels like yesterday lived happily with my family, everyone just got to keep going and hope that better times come soon

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Are you making the most of life or are you living through the motions as I feel guilty of doing.

Do you think its one life you have so make the most of it ? I think like that but I'm guilty if not making the most of life.

I'm sure there are many more intelligent people than me who put this into words. So on let's hear you !?"

You’re in a much better place than many. For many ‘making the most of it’ is excesses and hedonism that masks that kind of awareness & search for meaning. Dig deep

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nice words people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"currently pissing my life away in a downward spiral tbh.

but 'going through the motions' makes it sounds far more eloquent.

Px"

I think this is still an achievement. Plodding on is better than not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really know what making the most of life means, sometimes I feel like there has to be more to it than there is...like it can be work, eat, sleep, repeat a lot and of the time...

..usually when I feel like I need excitement I end up making reckless decisions...so yeah, not sure what the answer is..

Probably meditation or something

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