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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been on here now for 6 months and to date not had a meet.

Some have simply said that because I'm not verified they're not interested

How can a person prove they're genuine without a verification?

Surely we all started that way?

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Photo verification is easy enough. (And have a profile pic and a public photo)

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP, there's plenty who meet those without verifications.

However, very few will respond to a profile with no visible photos.

Maybe try a club.

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By *aracarMan
over a year ago

waterford

Maybe put up a profile picture and add some photos to your account, nothing worse than a blank profile

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Go to a club or social, get a cam verification.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes it makes sense actually, I'm gonna get myself spruced up 1st and take a few pics......cheers guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet people who don’t insist that you’re verified. They probably outnumber the ones that do insist.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

To the guys only, would you talk to a woman who's not verified on the site??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the guys only, would you talk to someone pretending to be a woman who's not verified on the site??"

Fixed that for you...

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"To the guys only, would you talk to a woman who's not verified on the site??"

Yes, I meet one every month, neither of us can be arsed with verifications which mean nothing…

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"To the guys only, would you talk to a woman who's not verified on the site??"

Talk to, yes. I'd be cautious but I'd have no issue talking.

Majority of cases, fakes are a fairly obvious giveaway, or manage to slip early on. Actually met without any proof they are real, now that's a whole different thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll meet you op

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

A verification to me says that the person is who they say they are, show up to arranged meets, and were enjoyable enough to leave a recommendation.

I'll talk to someone unverified. I'd meet them if they came across well on messages. But it is a red flag to me if someone has been here a while and hasn't managed to achieve the basics above.

Clubs and socials will get you verifications for the first two parts. It's not a difficult task. If someone isn't willing to go to clubs and be social we're unlikely to get along.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

I see, yeah as I noticed there's a lot of fake profiles on here so thinking only talk to those who are verified

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By *inojCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We had a fab couple message us on kik. We checked their profile and it had face pics so we exchanged a few messages and pics with the supposed female of the duo. A few pics in, which were the same faces as the profile pics the lady asked if we would verify them now.

We said we would verify if they sent a quick selfie clip saying Hi Vinoj it's xxxx from yyyy couple on fab...guess what?

Never heard a peep from them again

Scary to think what their motives are...so to answer the original question we think veris matter even if they end up being non published ones i.e. personalised selfies just between you and the potential meet to be sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't need meet verifications for us. Just a photo verification.

Probably better luck attending a club and talking to people. I'm sure if you're a decent human being and talk to people in a club. They can help you get a verification.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"I see, yeah as I noticed there's a lot of fake profiles on here so thinking only talk to those who are verified"

Many have fake verifications, don't assume because they have some it's not a Man pretending to be a Woman. Experience will teach you how to spot the fake profiles. If you speak to a Woman on the phone or see a Woman standing in front of you, yes it's a Woman. Be aware though there are loads of fake profiles on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a lounge social in Manchester in the summer. A good opportunity to get yourself several verifications by meeting

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London


"There’s a lounge social in Manchester in the summer. A good opportunity to get yourself several verifications by meeting "
Thank you, I will note this down if I decide to go up to Manchester

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"To the guys only, would you talk to a woman who's not verified on the site??"

Yes and we hit it off even exchanged numbers and have known each other now several years eventually they got themselves verified by the site and recently even became a site supporter

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

My first veri was a webcam, my second was someone I chatted to outside the club, the third was a couple I played with in a room. Natural progress.

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