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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Do you find certain times for socials/dates lead to a more potentially... flirty atmosphere?

Say you can't really get your flirt on bleary eyed at 9am in the morning but come lunchtime you could flirt with a watermelon.

Do you have a preference for what sort of time you meet someone for the first time? Or are you more of a sod it, I'm good to meet at any time person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work in progress....but more like work has a cause and effect...not usually available until after 7pm, good job I'm a night owl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer early evening in a nice relaxed setting for 1st meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the morning socials. I'm much calmer and able to pay more attention.

Tho I hate early mornings but sometimes it's cool to have a walk or something, chat, and get on with the day.

Also it restricts the amount of time spent, however that is usually enough to work out if there's a second meet or a no thankyou.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Anyone trying to flirt with me before 10am and at least 4 coffees is in for a bad time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind off a I am good to meet anytime

As long as it isn’t a crazy time like those

D*unk 1am-2am-3am messages you get

Come to mine I pay your taxi

Emmm no thanks ha ha

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Timing isn’t always an issue especially when the chemistry matches time just flys by

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Do you find certain times for socials/dates lead to a more potentially... flirty atmosphere?

Say you can't really get your flirt on bleary eyed at 9am in the morning but come lunchtime you could flirt with a watermelon.

Do you have a preference for what sort of time you meet someone for the first time? Or are you more of a sod it, I'm good to meet at any time person."

I'm not a morning person unless it involves morning sex continuing from the night before.

Because I have things to do most days. My meets are usually afternoon and evening meets, especially at clubs.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Hey there cowgirl

We like to do our flirting at high noon.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

For socials I liked afternoon as I was never going to have sex with them. For sex meets Start about 7pm

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I can't meet during term time at all. During holidays, I will meet during the day and have had some lovely socials then, but would very rarely feel flirty. I'm very much a night-owl. That's when my flirt comes on.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Just call me Martini

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Work in progress....but more like work has a cause and effect...not usually available until after 7pm, good job I'm a night owl"
Mr.

Ah, that would definitely have an effect on your mindset about socials, when your body clock is set it kind of dictates your mood through the hours.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Only when meeting at 9.30am for a cuppa with an intent to have a 10am day use hotel. I am a lark so bright eyed and bushy tailed in the mornings

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I could flirt with a post-box. Time of day is unimportant

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

As long as its before 9pm I am a dream boat.

After 9pm I become the yawn monster!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Work in progress....but more like work has a cause and effect...not usually available until after 7pm, good job I'm a night owlMr.

Ah, that would definitely have an effect on your mindset about socials, when your body clock is set it kind of dictates your mood through the hours. "

I'm never a grumps and have taken time off for an early social, and one thing I don't get is mood swings, I'm bouncy bouncy 24/7 me

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

It really doesn’t matter to me Meli. If there’s a connection then whatever the time of day I’m sure that it will just be utterly perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would have to be middle of the day for me to be functioning. I would likely be asleep in your lap before or after the 9 o clocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could flirt with a post-box. Time of day is unimportant

"

I thought was you the other day with head jammed in the slot .... Any holes a goal girlie

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"I like the morning socials. I'm much calmer and able to pay more attention.

Tho I hate early mornings but sometimes it's cool to have a walk or something, chat, and get on with the day.

Also it restricts the amount of time spent, however that is usually enough to work out if there's a second meet or a no thankyou."

There's definitely a certain calmness to the early mornings. But is that the most conducive to a flirty coffee/drink? I'm not sure.

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Anyone trying to flirt with me before 10am and at least 4 coffees is in for a bad time."

I was this person. I do not miss those days. Before 10am for flirting is rather early isn't it? Great if you're having a duvet day, less so if you're struggling to form a chat while you've got an image of their willy in your mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone trying to flirt with me before 10am and at least 4 coffees is in for a bad time.

I was this person. I do not miss those days. Before 10am for flirting is rather early isn't it? Great if you're having a duvet day, less so if you're struggling to form a chat while you've got an image of their willy in your mind."

In your mind...most get them in there inbox!!

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Hey there cowgirl

We like to do our flirting at high noon.

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Hey there GlueMouth and ShovelHands.

High noon sounds rather saucy. If you're ever in need of a buxom wench... hi.

(P.S do not call me thirsty. Let this slide)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find certain times for socials/dates lead to a more potentially... flirty atmosphere?

Say you can't really get your flirt on bleary eyed at 9am in the morning but come lunchtime you could flirt with a watermelon.

Do you have a preference for what sort of time you meet someone for the first time? Or are you more of a sod it, I'm good to meet at any time person."

For us, our free time dictates when we are able to meet. We both have kids with previous partners and work commitments...so we take what we can get really

Mrs

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

Our last social started with a drink at 2:30pm in costa and ended with us walking out of their place about 9pm. it's all about the connection with the person or people in our case, not the time of day in our opinion.

Sweet x

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Do you find certain times for socials/dates lead to a more potentially... flirty atmosphere?

Say you can't really get your flirt on bleary eyed at 9am in the morning but come lunchtime you could flirt with a watermelon.

Do you have a preference for what sort of time you meet someone for the first time? Or are you more of a sod it, I'm good to meet at any time person."
On here everything happens after midnight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can flirt anytime

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

LH

Good question. Sunday nights are not great with the Monday blues looming

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

I'm pretty sure that when I actually have any flirt it tends to be mid afternoon to the middle of the night.

But my flirt appears to have abandoned me since about August... if anyone fonds it please let me know.

Thanks

Posh

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Jeez, I don't think I could contemplate meeting someone on a morning (unless I've spent the night with them of course). I'm not a morning person at all and can take me a while to be my cheery flirty self.

I find afternoon/evening works best for me. I can relax more into it too and feel more flirty then.

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pretty sure that when I actually have any flirt it tends to be mid afternoon to the middle of the night.

But my flirt appears to have abandoned me since about August... if anyone fonds it please let me know.

Thanks

Posh "

I’ve had it hostage in my basement Posh Pants. Still waitin on the ransom.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I use to like meeting people for a drink in the evening but then changed to coffee in the afternoon just seemed more time bound, casual etc. Also no ones traveling very far so you're not commenting yourself to a weekend. Got myself in some bad situations.

Coffee is just enough time to know yep I'd like to see this person again.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Hello Meli,

Nope for me it’s all about the person I am meeting regardless of the time or place.

If there’s something connecting us then it’s that that determines what happens next

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Hello Meli,

Nope for me it’s all about the person I am meeting regardless of the time or place.

If there’s something connecting us then it’s that that determines what happens next "

Dear LadyBugs,

This is very sweet. And true. Sometimes you meet people and it's just *there*. Undeniably so. Regardless of the time.

Thank you for appearing in my thread.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

He's right, if a person tickles that part of me that makes me excited, it can be at any point of the day.

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By *omtom21100Man
over a year ago

Fareham/Portchester

For me, 23:38 is an ideal time to start, especially if you have a nice voice….

Or in the afternoon, with a coffee, leaves time to explore if common ground is found and plans made!

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