FabSwingers.com forum: Face pic fail….

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

If I'd been speaking to someone for a bit I probably wouldn't ignore, I'd say something polite but clear.

It's really difficult though sometimes because - people can look far better in person and awful in photos. So sometimes I'd rather give someone a chance if we get on well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it all the time.

You can’t be attractive to everyone,

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

That's probably the reason I don't message anyone on here if I can't see what they look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on? "

You’re not bad at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I'd been speaking to someone for a bit I probably wouldn't ignore, I'd say something polite but clear.

It's really difficult though sometimes because - people can look far better in person and awful in photos. So sometimes I'd rather give someone a chance if we get on well."

Explains why I'm blocked then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I'd been speaking to someone for a bit I probably wouldn't ignore, I'd say something polite but clear.

It's really difficult though sometimes because - people can look far better in person and awful in photos. So sometimes I'd rather give someone a chance if we get on well."

That’s very polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on? "

Even us fuglies need some lurvin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We not exchange face pics very early on to avoid wasting time and effort. Anyone not willing to do so is in the past.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on?

You’re not bad at all

Are you hidden in a tree watching me through the window?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Politely tell them they're not my type, we're all adults at the end of the day. You can't be everyone's cup of tea.

I've had guys fab my pics, go to look at the profile and I'm blocked, just take everything on here with a pinch of salt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We not exchange face pics very early on to avoid wasting time and effort. Anyone not willing to do so is in the past."

Makes sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Politely tell them they're not my type, we're all adults at the end of the day. You can't be everyone's cup of tea.

I've had guys fab my pics, go to look at the profile and I'm blocked, just take everything on here with a pinch of salt."

Oh I absolutely do… it’s a thread posted in jest …just wondered if people just ghost or say ‘not for me’

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on? "

I'll just close my eyes and open my legs.

If you've got a beard, that's one of my kinks.

But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We not exchange face pics very early on to avoid wasting time and effort. Anyone not willing to do so is in the past.

Makes sense "

Apart from the typo. We now exchange

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"If I'd been speaking to someone for a bit I probably wouldn't ignore, I'd say something polite but clear.

It's really difficult though sometimes because - people can look far better in person and awful in photos. So sometimes I'd rather give someone a chance if we get on well.

That’s very polite

I'm pure class and soul me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been thinking same. I send face pics in my first messages and sometimes wonder if I scare people off. How many people like beards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to find the person attractive and do feel shallow if decline especially if we seem to get on. Probably should give more a chance as I don't photograph well myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on?

I'll just close my eyes and open my legs.

If you've got a beard, that's one of my kinks.

But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards."

If this is true then iv I'm buggered. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ask, never give and you'll never be dissapointed. (Also unlikely to ever meet but hey, who meets anyway)

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on? "

Bluntly that's just rude!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I scub up well with make up on

Without emmm probably they run for the high heavens

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on? "

Either you have the head of medusa, or you must have been talking to a face pic collector.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on? "

I keep my mug on view and yet get messsged by people who don’t wxht to show theirs. It’s like scaring people in reverse. But I do have a bitchy face so can’t blame em.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on?

I'll just close my eyes and open my legs.

If you've got a beard, that's one of my kinks.

But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards."

A beard is your kink….

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We not exchange face pics very early on to avoid wasting time and effort. Anyone not willing to do so is in the past.

Makes sense

Apart from the typo. We now exchange"

I took a guess haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I'd been speaking to someone for a bit I probably wouldn't ignore, I'd say something polite but clear.

It's really difficult though sometimes because - people can look far better in person and awful in photos. So sometimes I'd rather give someone a chance if we get on well.

That’s very polite

I'm pure class and soul me.

Who likes coffee?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I need to find the person attractive and do feel shallow if decline especially if we seem to get on. Probably should give more a chance as I don't photograph well myself."

Not shallow…just not matched

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never ask, never give and you'll never be dissapointed. (Also unlikely to ever meet but hey, who meets anyway)

Take a leap…. Let’s grab coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I'd been speaking to someone for a bit I probably wouldn't ignore, I'd say something polite but clear.

It's really difficult though sometimes because - people can look far better in person and awful in photos. So sometimes I'd rather give someone a chance if we get on well.

That’s very polite

I'm pure class and soul me.

Who likes coffee?"

I do. Drink to much lol

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

If I’m interested in someone sexually I would always exchange pics early on. If there’s no attraction from either side there’s very little point carrying on the conversation and I always make that clear, politely.

If it’s for friendship then it doesn’t matter to me what anyone looks like, as long as they’re being themselves

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I live in fear of sending a pic of my 65 year old fizzog to a lady.

I was soooo good looking 30 years ago. Now i look in the mirror with depression and sadness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve definitely somehow scared a few people away, and I wasn’t even pulling stupid faces

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

I always show my face, saves wasting everyone's time as they can say no straight away.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Do what I do, go for the burds with dodgy eyesight!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

I am always polite and say no thanks, don't want to be leading anyone on so I like to do it nice and early

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I warn people to check their screen insurance before opening my face pics.

Winston

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"… But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards."

Wait, what? Really? Nobody told me …

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

My face is always on display

If it don’t fit eh ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her "can I see a face pic"

Me "There's loads on internet, just Google "face pic"

Her "twat"

Me "no, I think that will not show face pics on Google"

Her "No, you're a twat, I bet you're ugly and still a virgin"

Gotta love the fakes

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

"If I'd been speaking to someone for a bit I probably wouldn't ignore, I'd say something polite but clear.

It's really difficult though sometimes because - people can look far better in person and awful in photos. So sometimes I'd rather give someone a chance if we get on well.

That’s very polite

I'm pure class and soul me.

You really are Meli

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send face pictures fairly early on to people I'm chatting too, they are free to decide if they wish to carry on chatting as I know I won't be everyone's cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"… But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

Wait, what? Really? Nobody told me …

Or me

What do we stroke if there is no beard?

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on?

I'll just close my eyes and open my legs.

If you've got a beard, that's one of my kinks.

But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

A beard is your kink…. "

My vagina likes men with beards. What can I say to it? Hey Vagina just say no to beards!

Plus they tickle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"… But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

Wait, what? Really? Nobody told me …

Or me

What do we stroke if there is no beard? "

The ego if available

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

"If I'd been speaking to someone for a bit I probably wouldn't ignore, I'd say something polite but clear.

It's really difficult though sometimes because - people can look far better in person and awful in photos. So sometimes I'd rather give someone a chance if we get on well."

Completely agree! If they are chatty & witty via message they will probably be like that in person - it doesn't have to go any further than a social if you're really not feeling it after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time without fail for me

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By *orkmalewithPAMan
over a year ago

York

I have stopped taking on here as I have so much going on. Also having a housemate that randomly comes home even when they where meant to be staying at there boyfriends it is hard to have people come over..

But it is a new year and hopefully in the next few months I would have bought my own place

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"… But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

Wait, what? Really? Nobody told me …

Or me

What do we stroke if there is no beard? "

One playmate is quite hairy from the neck down so I like that. But again I think some women told him to have it all off.

We were in the club discussing body hair and he said oh well you know women don't like hairy men. I put my hand up and said Well you very well know I like your hairy chest! The next guy over in the club jacuzzi said he was going to laser remove his pubes. To be fair he had a pubic tattoo so.....

Each to their own.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"… But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

Wait, what? Really? Nobody told me …

Or me

What do we stroke if there is no beard?

The ego if available

Prefer stroking the hairy bits.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I’ve long been aware that I have one of those faces that really only seems to appeal to a small minority of people and I’ve got used to that over time so yes I’m sure I’m scaring people off on a daily basis!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"… But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

Wait, what? Really? Nobody told me …

Or me

What do we stroke if there is no beard?

The ego if available

Prefer stroking the hairy bits."

Someone with alopecia is out then

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I always had my face on show and expected a face message in first message. Even better if they had a face picture on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"… But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

Wait, what? Really? Nobody told me …

Or me

What do we stroke if there is no beard?

The ego if available

Prefer stroking the hairy bits."

I do like hairy bits too.

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By *orkmalewithPAMan
over a year ago

York

"… But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

Wait, what? Really? Nobody told me …

Or me

What do we stroke if there is no beard?

One playmate is quite hairy from the neck down so I like that. But again I think some women told him to have it all off.

Each to their own."

I love ladies with hairy bits I find it a massive turn on

So I know where you're coming from..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do what I do, go for the burds with dodgy eyesight!

How do you find them?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Do what I do, go for the burds with dodgy eyesight!

How do you find them? "

Hang around outside specsavers.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We do both…sometimes we reply and sometimes we just let it fade into the message black hole.

We’ve had both done to us too so I think it’s fairly standard.

Mainly we’ll reply…although if someone has sent their face pic without us asking/chatting then we’ll just delete.

It’s harder when it’s couples and one’s attractive and the other isn’t

At the end of the day we all can’t be for everyone so we take it on the chin and we’d expect others to do so too.

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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago

Here, There and Everywhere

I don't show my face......don't want to break anyone's phone and then get ghosted!

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on? "

Haha, I'm sure you're not scaring anyone, OP, but we've all been there!

If I've got to the point of swapping face pics, I'll always reply and say something awkward trying not to offend while also being clear I'm not interested!

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

It's why my face is always visible... Only the non scared should message me then, in theory

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

That's why I have face pics so people know what I look like before messaging me

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on?

I'll just close my eyes and open my legs.

If you've got a beard, that's one of my kinks.

But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards."

I like beards as a rule as long as they are short. I always say no thanks or your not my type as it’s easier if people know and I’m not offended if someone were to say it to me. We are all adults and have individual tastes.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

You need a thick skin on here mate. Just keep backing yourself.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I'm not that heartless. There's so much that makes up a complete package.

But then I rarely reply to any messages as I'm not looking to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet you're not bad looking. You might not be someone's cup of tea but hey, you might be someone's slice of cake!

I am quite particular about face pics. I like to know who I'm talking to, once the convo starts and I'm interested. I had too many men not showing me what they looked like, been also catfished in the past. So sorry, but it's just nice to know if there is any attraction forming and face is very important to me.

As for the part, where you politely decline someone based on their face pic or not. I do try to be always upfront and I politely say how I feel.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. It typically takes several rounds of mutual messaging, where revealed details cancel interest. And facial attraction is going to be essential for most people. Thus once shown, it's natural for an immediate end to the chat to arrive, for most of the chats.

If you have realistic expectations, all of this is factored in. If not, you will repeatedly give yourself what is avoidable pain.

Invest effort broadly.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on? "
I wouldn't deliberately hurt their feelings but unfortunately some people do and some people just get the wrong end of the stick

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Don’t let it bother you. So what. Move on. People are fickle. I’ve seen your boat due to the face pic Friday. You’re a good looking lad. Don’t let dickheads drag you down.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on? "

This sounds familiar.

I can be polite, I don’t accept ignoring or blocking is a polite no, so I think I’d try to be as tactful as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard isn't it? We can't be everyone's cup of tea but it still feels a bit personal.

Attraction is a strange thing, I've had meets where I wasn't sure if the attraction was fully there but I've taken a chance because we've gotten along well and it's been awesome.

And times where the physical attraction is there but the social has gone a bit wrong because there's no spark.

It never hurts to be polite though, that's just good manners.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We get it and just move on.

We also get rejected by some really ugly ppl and thank our lucky stars that we didnt have to reject them as well.

Doesnt bother us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I bet you're not bad looking. You might not be someone's cup of tea but hey, you might be someone's slice of cake!

As for the part, where you politely decline someone based on their face pic or not. I do try to be always upfront and I politely say how I feel.

Yeah I’ve just said how it is before…I feel bad just ghosting ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don’t let it bother you. So what. Move on. People are fickle. I’ve seen your boat due to the face pic Friday. You’re a good looking lad. Don’t let dickheads drag you down.

The mr "

Thanks kindly

I guess I was just curious about how others let others ow haha gently or off the cliff face

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By *ixie BeanMan
over a year ago

Wallasey

"Don’t let it bother you. So what. Move on. People are fickle. I’ve seen your boat due to the face pic Friday. You’re a good looking lad. Don’t let dickheads drag you down.

The mr

Thanks kindly

I guess I was just curious about how others let others ow haha gently or off the cliff face

I Embrace the ugliness . There's more to life than having a pretty face . Plus 99% of women don't care about what chair they sit on.. it's quite similar with a face once they've drank enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile pic is my face I’ve got nothing to hide what so ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told by one lady, “You can’t see there face if you sit on it”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on? "

"You look great but not what I'm looking for sorry. Hope you find someone nice. X"

I definitely wouldn't ignore or block because I'm an adult.

If someone does that they probably also use childish names for body parts......

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Both depending how much time I got on fab as face is a must like or no go

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"My profile pic is my face I’ve got nothing to hide what so ever "

Then I would be asking for dick and body pics

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Don’t let it bother you. So what. Move on. People are fickle. I’ve seen your boat due to the face pic Friday. You’re a good looking lad. Don’t let dickheads drag you down.

The mr

Thanks kindly

I guess I was just curious about how others let others ow haha gently or off the cliff face

I Embrace the ugliness . There's more to life than having a pretty face . Plus 99% of women don't care about what chair they sit on.. it's quite similar with a face once they've drank enough

I wouldn't want someone for sex if they're only doing it because they're too d*unk to realise who they're fucking...yuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was told by one lady, “You can’t see there face if you sit on it”

Love this haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My profile pic is my face I’ve got nothing to hide what so ever

Then I would be asking for dick and body pics

Get all the details

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By *onnyJohnMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on? "

I always say no thanks if they're not for me, and to be fair I've never had a nasty reply to saying no thanks..

That being said, ive been ghosted plenty of times after sending a face pic so that may indicate that ive a face like a bull dog licking pi*s off a thistle... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pumpkin always asks to exchange face pics pretty early on. She has hers public so that hopefully people can save themselves the trouble of messaging if they don’t find her attractive in the first place. If she’s not attracted then it’s a very polite ‘not for us thanks’ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was told by one lady, “You can’t see there face if you sit on it”

Love this haha "

I couldn’t argue with her, my voice was

“MUFF”led!

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I usually say I am happy to keep chatting but would probably not meet in person…

But some others, who just think I’ve been waiting for them all my life I just ghost

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pumpkin always asks to exchange face pics pretty early on. She has hers public so that hopefully people can save themselves the trouble of messaging if they don’t find her attractive in the first place. If she’s not attracted then it’s a very polite ‘not for us thanks’ x"

What a stunner she is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve long been aware that I have one of those faces that really only seems to appeal to a small minority of people and I’ve got used to that over time so yes I’m sure I’m scaring people off on a daily basis!"

I think you're handsome and I'd of thought you would be popular with your looks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think you're handsome and I'd of thought you would be popular with your looks. "

Well that’s very kind of you to say

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"… But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

Wait, what? Really? Nobody told me …

Or me

What do we stroke if there is no beard?

The ego if available

Prefer stroking the hairy bits.

Someone with alopecia is out then

It's a preference not a deal breaker. I have been with non-hairy men. Black and East Asian men often do not have a lot of body hair. Been with bald men also.

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over a year ago

"… But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

Wait, what? Really? Nobody told me …

Or me

What do we stroke if there is no beard?

The ego if available

Prefer stroking the hairy bits.

Someone with alopecia is out then

It's a preference not a deal breaker. I have been with non-hairy men. Black and East Asian men often do not have a lot of body hair. Been with bald men also."

I'm an upside down baldie

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"… But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

Wait, what? Really? Nobody told me …

Or me

What do we stroke if there is no beard?

The ego if available

Prefer stroking the hairy bits.

I do like hairy bits too. "

arms and legs but nowt wrong with a tug on the pubic hair of a man. I probably draw the line at hairy balls if he wants me to lick them. I prefer my labia hair-free otherwise gets caught in the knicker elastic!!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"… But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

Wait, what? Really? Nobody told me …

Or me

What do we stroke if there is no beard?

The ego if available

Prefer stroking the hairy bits.

Someone with alopecia is out then

It's a preference not a deal breaker. I have been with non-hairy men. Black and East Asian men often do not have a lot of body hair. Been with bald men also.

I'm an upside down baldie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"… But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

Wait, what? Really? Nobody told me …

Or me

What do we stroke if there is no beard?

The ego if available

Prefer stroking the hairy bits.

Someone with alopecia is out then

It's a preference not a deal breaker. I have been with non-hairy men. Black and East Asian men often do not have a lot of body hair. Been with bald men also.

I'm an upside down baldie

Lots of whispy pubes on my head...if I went down you'd look like a privet bush

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yeah definitely happens.

I guess it is awkward for them, no one wants to hear, you look terrible. So I don't mind if they just disappear to be honest....

Unfortunately I get told I look better in real life so am at a definite disadvantage online.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"… But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

Wait, what? Really? Nobody told me …

Or me

What do we stroke if there is no beard?

One playmate is quite hairy from the neck down so I like that. But again I think some women told him to have it all off.

Each to their own.

I love ladies with hairy bits I find it a massive turn on

So I know where you're coming from.. "

I just keep the strip/triangle... can't be scaring/scarring the kids at the local swimming pool with it coming out the sides of the swimsuit. lol!

Seen that once on the beach in Nice with an Italian Family. The Mom was pregnant. My pregnant friends went and got waxed since they couldn't reach around the bump. lol!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"… But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

Wait, what? Really? Nobody told me …

Or me

What do we stroke if there is no beard?

The ego if available

Prefer stroking the hairy bits.

Someone with alopecia is out then

It's a preference not a deal breaker. I have been with non-hairy men. Black and East Asian men often do not have a lot of body hair. Been with bald men also.

I'm an upside down baldie

Lots of whispy pubes on my head...if I went down you'd look like a privet bush

*Covers my innocent eyes*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"… But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

Wait, what? Really? Nobody told me …

Or me

What do we stroke if there is no beard?

The ego if available

Prefer stroking the hairy bits.

Someone with alopecia is out then

It's a preference not a deal breaker. I have been with non-hairy men. Black and East Asian men often do not have a lot of body hair. Been with bald men also.

I'm an upside down baldie

Lots of whispy pubes on my head...if I went down you'd look like a privet bush

*Covers my innocent eyes*

Innocent...isn't we all on fab!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on? "

I always respond to a face pic even if it's just to say thanks but no thanks.

Some take it well some not so well

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"… But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

Wait, what? Really? Nobody told me …

Or me

What do we stroke if there is no beard?

The ego if available

Prefer stroking the hairy bits.

Someone with alopecia is out then

It's a preference not a deal breaker. I have been with non-hairy men. Black and East Asian men often do not have a lot of body hair. Been with bald men also.

I'm an upside down baldie

Lots of whispy pubes on my head...if I went down you'd look like a privet bush

*Covers my innocent eyes*

Innocent...isn't we all on fab!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on?

I always respond to a face pic even if it's just to say thanks but no thanks.

Some take it well some not so well

Seriously tempted to send you a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"… But the majority consensus among the fab women is that they don't like beards.

Wait, what? Really? Nobody told me …

Or me

What do we stroke if there is no beard?

The ego if available

Prefer stroking the hairy bits.

Someone with alopecia is out then

It's a preference not a deal breaker. I have been with non-hairy men. Black and East Asian men often do not have a lot of body hair. Been with bald men also.

I'm an upside down baldie

Lots of whispy pubes on my head...if I went down you'd look like a privet bush

*Covers my innocent eyes*

Innocent...isn't we all on fab!!

No good fanny fluttering...guilty until proven innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a face pic fail yesterday.

Asked for one, sent and blanked since

Oh well

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

We are not looking to date and take home to Mum???

I’m more concerned about veris just to prove they are real and serious.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

If they send one and it's obvious they didn't read the profile and they're not what I'm looking for, I just delete.

If they're just not my type I say no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on?

I always respond to a face pic even if it's just to say thanks but no thanks.

Some take it well some not so well

Seriously tempted to send you a face pic

Sorry hun but I filter out men from being able to message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on? "

This is pretty much my Fab journey haha.

Personally I wouldn't just ghost/block which I've had. I think that's more disrespectful than politely letting somebody know you're not for them. I actually had that response, and it felt more dignified. Even for an Ogre like me

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I'm probably scaring a few with mine, but I'd rather do that at the beginning than after days of messages.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Anyone else out here scaring folk?

Face pic? Yes of course here’s me…ghosted

I’m not that bad am I

Would you say no thanks to someone if they’re not for you or would you just ignore & move on? "

You are definitely not scary

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

If no response I’m happy to delete and move on, not overly bothered either way, it’s fab and not everyone looking for the same thing, if I’m not for them someone else will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im always happy to scare people with my ugly mug

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

I love scaring people, that's why I enjoy dressing up for Halloween.

Dead sailor

Dead undertaker

Day of the dead

Plague doctor

Dr Arthur Arden (AHS) this really was scary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very common to be blocked and no reply on here even when chatting for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had something similar. Turned on my cam in the chat, conversation goes dead. Only my head/toro in shot, not doing anything weird, clearly not what she was looking for!

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

"Politely tell them they're not my type, we're all adults at the end of the day. You can't be everyone's cup of tea.

I've had guys fab my pics, go to look at the profile and I'm blocked, just take everything on here with a pinch of salt.

Oh I absolutely do… it’s a thread posted in jest …just wondered if people just ghost or say ‘not for me’

I often say, not for me thanks.

I'm trying to convey its my attraction to them that's not there, not their attractiveness in general.

If that makes sense?

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