FabSwingers.com forum: Socials….

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you prefer a standard social of a coffee or an alcoholic drink in a pub setting?

Or a random …. Out the ‘ordinary’ type of social?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I like a daytime coffee meet for an initial check to make sure I don't get that 'Run' vibe.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Coffee as prefer daytime first meets x

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Standard. Coffee or a drink in a pub.

Whilst the idea of something 'out of the box' may seem a good idea it's probably best left for a follow up meet as there's little point going to any great expense or planning a complicated set of arrangements while there's the risk that you may think the other party is a total fruitloop or asshat after 10 minutes in their company.

Easy to get up and leave a Costa/Starbucks or bar/pub. Slightly harder if you're halfway up a rollercoaster, in a row boat in the middle of a lake or trapped in an escape room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer a pub social in the evening , doesn't have to mean alcohol is involved I just don't like coffee/tea so coffee shops not as great an idea for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's got to be a classic cheese board on a see saw

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

It will depend on my mood.

I've had a social in B&Q and then a cup of tea in a nearby cafe.

I have enjoyed sitting with men in a pub or bar in London too.

I prefer going into London as the pubs in my area are filled with ne'er-do-wells, and the carpets are sticky.

I'd love a social by the sea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you prefer a standard social of a coffee or an alcoholic drink in a pub setting?

Or a random …. Out the ‘ordinary’ type of social? "

Yes.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

So long as it’s a decent coffee we prefer that.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Daytime meet cafe or hotel bar for coffee or soft drink .

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Do you prefer a standard social of a coffee or an alcoholic drink in a pub setting?

Or a random …. Out the ‘ordinary’ type of social? "

Neither it's dry january and the sports therapist told me not to have more than one caffeine drink a day.

Coke Zero and Pepsi Max social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's got to be a classic cheese board on a see saw "

I’ll bring homemade chutney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

coffee is fine for me

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's got to be a classic cheese board on a see saw

I’ll bring homemade chutney

I'll meet you by the nearest see saw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's got to be a classic cheese board on a see saw

I’ll bring homemade chutney

I'll meet you by the nearest see saw

With banana bread

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I always suggest a coffee shop or a pub, but I quickly lose interest when he tries to change it to 'going for a drive' or finding somewhere discreet' instead; In other words, let's go somewhere so I can get noshed off

Never gonna happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's got to be a classic cheese board on a see saw

I’ll bring homemade chutney

I'll meet you by the nearest see saw

With banana bread "

So much YES!! I’m far too excited now…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always suggest a coffee shop or a pub, but I quickly lose interest when he tries to change it to 'going for a drive' or finding somewhere discreet' instead; In other words, let's go somewhere so I can get noshed off

Never gonna happen"

What about if I were to just ask outright if we could go somewhere for me to be noshed off?

I don’t beat about the bush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have the best intentions of having a social first but it never really happens

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I only have an initial meet whilst freediving.

If they don't enjoy being deep, soaking wet, and terrifyingly close to weird-looking creatures, they won't enjoy my bedroom skills.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

Honestly it depends who it is. I range from brief costa cuppas to sunday lunch with forest dog walks

A day meal on a cruise ship was quite fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf

Crazy golf is putting balls in holes. I do that too.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf

Crazy golf is putting balls in holes. I do that too. "

Crazy golf followed by bean bunging? The perfect social!

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Usually coffee but have had breakfast socials but it might be fun to try something different for a social anyone got any ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf

Crazy golf is putting balls in holes. I do that too.

Crazy golf followed by bean bunging? The perfect social!

Bean bungin’ you might need to tell me what that involves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never gonna happen"

Yeah I just bin them when they start suggesting that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hybrid. Drink or coffee but somewhere more interesting like a gallery, bookshop or just near a good walk.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

A drink (daytime or early evening) for the 1st social and something different left for the next social.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf

Crazy golf is putting balls in holes. I do that too.

Crazy golf followed by bean bunging? The perfect social!

Bean bungin’ you might need to tell me what that involves.

"When the gentleman inserts his testicles into his lover's vagina, or anus" Too much for a first social?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf

Crazy golf is putting balls in holes. I do that too.

Crazy golf followed by bean bunging? The perfect social!

Bean bungin’ you might need to tell me what that involves.

"When the gentleman inserts his testicles into his lover's vagina, or anus" Too much for a first social?!

After axe throwing its expected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf

Crazy golf is putting balls in holes. I do that too.

Crazy golf followed by bean bunging? The perfect social!

Bean bungin’ you might need to tell me what that involves.

"When the gentleman inserts his testicles into his lover's vagina, or anus" Too much for a first social?!

Do you fancy a coffee at the local mini golf course?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I don’t mind what kind of social meet I have really. Will depend on the mood of what we both want to do. But naked is always nice for a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer coffee

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Standard. Coffee or a drink in a pub.

Easy to get up and leave a Costa/Starbucks or bar/pub. Slightly harder if you're halfway up a rollercoaster, in a row boat in the middle of a lake or trapped in an escape room.

Good point well presented

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"coffee is fine for me

Px "

Noted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf

I really want to try the axe throwing….

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always have the best intentions of having a social first but it never really happens "

What happens?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Prefer coffee "

Meet you at costa-lot-for-coffee then

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We can’t do day time meets so we always do pub socials ..

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Never gonna happen"

And that's why I no longer let anyone pick me up for a social.

Always a quick coffee, and a walk if the weather permits.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"It will depend on my mood.

I've had a social in B&Q and then a cup of tea in a nearby cafe.

I have enjoyed sitting with men in a pub or bar in London too.

I prefer going into London as the pubs in my area are filled with ne'er-do-wells, and the carpets are sticky.

I'd love a social by the sea."

Come down to the coast, I'll buy you coffee on the beach

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I usually had coffee or drinks. But I have been to museum/art gallery and I went to the zoo

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf

I'll see your darts, and raise you ping pong. See you at Bounce, Friday at 7?

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

Never gonna happen

What about if I were to just ask outright if we could go somewhere for me to be noshed off?

I don’t beat about the bush.

You'd be back in you car, alone driving back from whence you came

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee house for us

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

Never gonna happen

And that's why I no longer let anyone pick me up for a social.

Always a quick coffee, and a walk if the weather permits. "

I've only ever tried to arrange to meet someone at the pub etc. It's probably a good thing that they drop in these little suggestions beforehand, so I can cancel without wasting any more time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had 1 meet, due to different circumstances was only 30 mins outside

But I'd do get a social meet I don't mind if it's over a coffee or something stronger

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I usually drive to a social but I prefer a soft drink in a quiet bar to a busy coffee shop.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Coffee house for us "

At your house?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhhh I don’t mind, coffee, pints, game of snooker, walks, nothing dull

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

"Do you prefer a standard social of a coffee or an alcoholic drink in a pub setting?

Or a random …. Out the ‘ordinary’ type of social? "

Love a social…. Prefer the play clubs tho x

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf

Crazy golf is putting balls in holes. I do that too.

Crazy golf followed by bean bunging? The perfect social!

Bean bungin’ you might need to tell me what that involves.

"When the gentleman inserts his testicles into his lover's vagina, or anus" Too much for a first social?!

After axe throwing its expected

Fine - but if I win I get to do the bean bunging with my dildo and disco balls?

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf

Crazy golf is putting balls in holes. I do that too.

Crazy golf followed by bean bunging? The perfect social!

Bean bungin’ you might need to tell me what that involves.

"When the gentleman inserts his testicles into his lover's vagina, or anus" Too much for a first social?!

Do you fancy a coffee at the local mini golf course?

I'll meet you at the 19th hole

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf

I'll see your darts, and raise you ping pong. See you at Bounce, Friday at 7?"

It's a date. Those ping pong balls may not be the only things bouncing tho

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I quite like coffee/drink socials. Or bookshops. Or going for walks, one of the best socials I had was following a canal and meandering chatting nonsense during the summer, really enjoyed that.

I don't want too adventurous, I want to get to know someone a bit. But something that's a bit different is good for me.

Not an escape room though. Or anything involving games. Far too competitive and I'll destroy anyone's libido with a glimpse of that.

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

I think it depends on the initial connection. Normally I'd say a quick drink is fine to see if things will progress. But if there's a good connection and I'm confident we'll get on well then there's nothing wrong with a nice dinner and a chat

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We are putty for a good ballet or a night at the opera

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"We are putty for a good ballet or a night at the opera

Whaaaaat?!

You really know how to test my kegels.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are putty for a good ballet or a night at the opera

I have always wanted to go to an opera…. Just a reason to get ‘properly’ suited black tie style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are putty for a good ballet or a night at the opera

Yes!! Although I always cry at the opera or the ballet so I’d have to skip the social bit

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We can share a yop outside Co-Op!

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