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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's everyone's opinon about fisting?

It's something that I've always wanted to try (giving) but I'm very nervous about it.

Yes, it's a major turn on for me but I'm afraid of doing something wrong and hurting the person I'm doing it with.

Am I worrying too much?

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Not are thing but each to there own mrs m

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not are thing but each to there own mrs m "

It is true that fisting is either something you do or don't do. There's not much middle ground there

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By *permdonorMan
over a year ago

driffield

There is a knack to it but I'm sure most pussys can be fisted

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

My opinion is that it's a horrendous thought & I just can't imagine why someone would enjoy it, or even be able to stretch enough without causing permanent damage!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my thing.

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

I've got big hands, I doubt i will ever get the opportunity to try doing it

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

no not my thing at all..

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Christ no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horrible thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have known one lady who enjoyed being fisted, perhaps fortunately I have relatively slender hands, she had children so had perhaps naturally been stretched somewhat. It was for me an enjoyable experience that we repeated quite a few times at her instigation. So there are ladies for whom this appeals but I would suggest that is “by invitation only” and not something that appeals to many .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interesting.

The general concensus so far is a big fat no to jus the thought of it.

Like most things to do with sex, you either like it or you don't, like anal sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've got big hands, I doubt i will ever get the opportunity to try doing it"

There is a couple here from Chester who seem way into it. One pic on their profile shows her with a massively fat dildo, probably as wide as my head.

I contacted them weeks ago but never got a reply, so its safe to say nothing is going to happen there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion is that it's a horrendous thought & I just can't imagine why someone would enjoy it, or even be able to stretch enough without causing permanent damage!!!"

You are aware that area on a woman is quite elastic! Not for you we get but it's not horrendous for those that enjoy it. And yes we do but as a treat now and again and only between us.

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By *ynda1978Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Liverpool

It's on my fantasy bucket list, but don't think I'll ever try it out in all honesty

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

"I've got big hands, I doubt i will ever get the opportunity to try doing it

There is a couple here from Chester who seem way into it. One pic on their profile shows her with a massively fat dildo, probably as wide as my head.

I contacted them weeks ago but never got a reply, so its safe to say nothing is going to happen there."

Oh wow

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I know a few people who enjoy it and frankly, it's a great way to keep your hands warm

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"I know a few people who enjoy it and frankly, it's a great way to keep your hands warm

Hands?? As in plural?? That's definitely taking up another notch

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I know a few people who enjoy it and frankly, it's a great way to keep your hands warm

Hands?? As in plural?? That's definitely taking up another notch

Requires a run up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know a few people who enjoy it and frankly, it's a great way to keep your hands warm

Hands?? As in plural?? That's definitely taking up another notch

And no mention of which hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done with trust and patience is quite an erotic experience.

From the ladies perspective, go slow and more lubrication than you'd imagine was required and the body will open up for you, from the guys perspective (so my play partner tells) it's quite a workout the hand doesn't just slip in it's a real push situation and harder than you'd expect

Hope this helps some and have fun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Done with trust and patience is quite an erotic experience.

Hope this helps some and have fun x"

I apprciate the advice.

Communication is the word I supose. Don't assume I know what to do and push too hard. Listen to the lady and proceed accordingly.

And remove any sharp rings

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By *edstockings2Couple
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Tips

Remove all rings and wrist watch.

Trim finger nails.

Use lots of lube.

After that listen to the moans of pleasure and joy.

One last thing not sure if all women are like me, but be prepared to get wet when you pull out and they cum, as I gush a lot. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have fisted a friend of mine , she is a nurse and was still in uniform , she had just finished a night shift and wanted a back rub to help her relax , I give a particularly good massage with oils and one thing lead to another !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, even the thought makes me clench!

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Ouch is my 1st thought and the 2nd one is to clench so tight even a finger can't get in there......

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By *aysLegs2020Couple
over a year ago

Peak District

Plenty of lube !

Each to their own, I enjoy the stretching feeling but I get its not for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tips

Remove all rings and wrist watch.

Trim finger nails.

Use lots of lube.

After that listen to the moans of pleasure and joy.

One last thing not sure if all women are like me, but be prepared to get wet when you pull out and they cum, as I gush a lot. Xx"

Well don't you sound like the perfect lady to help me fulfil my goal.

Unfortunately, our locations are a bit of an issue.

Too bad.

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By *ig P 23Man
over a year ago

town

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By *ig P 23Man
over a year ago

town

"Tips

Remove all rings and wrist watch.

Trim finger nails.

Use lots of lube.

After that listen to the moans of pleasure and joy.

Sounds perfect, my partner is exactly the same she explodes when I pull out. Says you are looking for a couple please let me know if you beautiful people would like to meet up xx

Take care xx

One last thing not sure if all women are like me, but be prepared to get wet when you pull out and they cum, as I gush a lot. Xx"

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By *edstockings2Couple
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

"Tips

Remove all rings and wrist watch.

Trim finger nails.

Use lots of lube.

After that listen to the moans of pleasure and joy.

One last thing not sure if all women are like me, but be prepared to get wet when you pull out and they cum, as I gush a lot. Xx

Well don't you sound like the perfect lady to help me fulfil my goal.

Unfortunately, our locations are a bit of an issue.

Too bad."

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

something I admit I have enjoyed with a relatively small hand, but plenty of lube, gradual working up to it, no sudden hard moves and it can be most pleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never would have believed it was possible but with someone that I have complete trust in and who clearly knew what he was doing, it was one hell of an addictive experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never would have believed it was possible but with someone that I have complete trust in and who clearly knew what he was doing, it was one hell of an addictive experience

It was the first time you did this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never would have believed it was possible but with someone that I have complete trust in and who clearly knew what he was doing, it was one hell of an addictive experience

It was the first time you did this?"

Yes and it most definitely will not be the last!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never would have believed it was possible but with someone that I have complete trust in and who clearly knew what he was doing, it was one hell of an addictive experience

It was the first time you did this?

Yes and it most definitely will not be the last!!

A proper fist addict now.

Maybe you'll manage two hands one day.

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By *jsantagCouple
over a year ago

Hfd/Shrop/Worc area

S absolutely looooooves fisting. She says the stretched and really full feeling is amazing. I must say, when she cums with fist in, it’s reciprocally amazing!

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

"Tips

Remove all rings and wrist watch.

Trim finger nails.

Use lots of lube.

After that listen to the moans of pleasure and joy.

One last thing not sure if all women are like me, but be prepared to get wet when you pull out and they cum, as I gush a lot. Xx"

Oh the greatest session I've had was with a lady I knew from Southampton (miss her lots), one new years we were in a room together getting very filthy, which led to a great fisting session by the time I pulled out I was drenched.

Firmly stored in the wank bank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never would have believed it was possible but with someone that I have complete trust in and who clearly knew what he was doing, it was one hell of an addictive experience

It was the first time you did this?

Yes and it most definitely will not be the last!!

A proper fist addict now.

Maybe you'll manage two hands one day."

No that would be too extreme

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By *con7Man
over a year ago

BARNET

Not something i’d like to even see, let alone do to anyone. It’s just not for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never would have believed it was possible but with someone that I have complete trust in and who clearly knew what he was doing, it was one hell of an addictive experience

It was the first time you did this?

Yes and it most definitely will not be the last!!

A proper fist addict now.

Maybe you'll manage two hands one day.

No that would be too extreme

I believe it used to be a big thing in vintage german porn.

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By *edstockings2Couple
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

"Tips

Remove all rings and wrist watch.

Trim finger nails.

Use lots of lube.

After that listen to the moans of pleasure and joy.

One last thing not sure if all women are like me, but be prepared to get wet when you pull out and they cum, as I gush a lot. Xx

Firmly stored in the wank bank. "

I have a fisting buddy and he says that two best things are seeing me enjoy a good fisting and when he pulls out getting drenched.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"Not something i’d like to even see, let alone do to anyone. It’s just not for me. "

Same here- and I like watching weird & gruesome shit on the Internet! Lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not something i’d like to even see, let alone do to anyone. It’s just not for me. "

Im with you there. Nope lol

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"What's everyone's opinon about fisting?

It's something that I've always wanted to try (giving) but I'm very nervous about it.

Yes, it's a major turn on for me but I'm afraid of doing something wrong and hurting the person I'm doing it with.

Am I worrying too much?"

For me personally, I like the idea of everything in my pelvic region being tight.

For anyone else, going slow, lots of prep and lube, sobriety and communication from both partners is key to avoid injury.

Yes serious injury can occur.

I'm willing to learn on a man if that's what he wants. I have average size hands as I'm female and 5 foot 6.

I find men bigger internally than me and I find shorter women have smaller hands. I also find that men have longer arms.

Whichever partner, the receiving person needs to be able to say stop if it hurts.

I read recently a medical article about a group of gay guys who were d*unk and high in fisting parties. Yup don't do fisting d*unk and high.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's everyone's opinon about fisting?

It's something that I've always wanted to try (giving) but I'm very nervous about it.

Yes, it's a major turn on for me but I'm afraid of doing something wrong and hurting the person I'm doing it with.

Am I worrying too much?

For me personally, I like the idea of everything in my pelvic region being tight.

For anyone else, going slow, lots of prep and lube, sobriety and communication from both partners is key to avoid injury.

Yes serious injury can occur.

I'm willing to learn on a man if that's what he wants. I have average size hands as I'm female and 5 foot 6.

I find men bigger internally than me and I find shorter women have smaller hands. I also find that men have longer arms.

Whichever partner, the receiving person needs to be able to say stop if it hurts.

I read recently a medical article about a group of gay guys who were d*unk and high in fisting parties. Yup don't do fisting d*unk and high.

I have a personal question.

You say you find men bigger internally than you.

Obviously, male fisting involves the anus.

Are you comparing your anus to a mans, or your vagina to a man's anus?

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By *oredcuriousWoman
over a year ago

london / Scotland

I love being fisted, it’s one of the most amazing feelings ever. I never thought I’d be into it and I’ve only ever let one man do it to me, my boyfriend. It definitely has to be done right and he takes it really slow especially to start with. I have multiple orgasms every time and they are so intense, makes my pussy gush and the feeling of fullness and my pussy clenching tight around his fist as i cum is incredible x

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

"What's everyone's opinon about fisting?

It's something that I've always wanted to try (giving) but I'm very nervous about it.

Yes, it's a major turn on for me but I'm afraid of doing something wrong and hurting the person I'm doing it with.

Am I worrying too much?"

Go slow. She must be aroused, relaxed and you will need lube no matter how wet she is.

Make your hand into its smallest possible size and try to do other things like kiss, stroke, pinch or scratch her thighs/body (depending on what she is into), just to keep up the arousal.

Trim your nails and don't hammer her like she's a punch bag.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

"I love being fisted, it’s one of the most amazing feelings ever. I never thought I’d be into it and I’ve only ever let one man do it to me, my boyfriend. It definitely has to be done right and he takes it really slow especially to start with. I have multiple orgasms every time and they are so intense, makes my pussy gush and the feeling of fullness and my pussy clenching tight around his fist as i cum is incredible x"

Amazing

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Couldn't imagine how stretched a hole would have to be to accommodate a fist you just no its not going to be of much use again after that

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By *ig P 23Man
over a year ago

town

"Tips

Remove all rings and wrist watch.

Trim finger nails.

Use lots of lube.

After that listen to the moans of pleasure and joy.

One last thing not sure if all women are like me, but be prepared to get wet when you pull out and they cum, as I gush a lot. Xx

Well don't you sound like the perfect lady to help me fulfil my goal.

Unfortunately, our locations are a bit of an issue.

Too bad.

Ohhh no really we are only a few mile away in Barnstable xx

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

Watching fisting in porn can be got too, what has always put me right off though is rosebudding.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"What's everyone's opinon about fisting?

It's something that I've always wanted to try (giving) but I'm very nervous about it.

Yes, it's a major turn on for me but I'm afraid of doing something wrong and hurting the person I'm doing it with.

Am I worrying too much?

For me personally, I like the idea of everything in my pelvic region being tight.

For anyone else, going slow, lots of prep and lube, sobriety and communication from both partners is key to avoid injury.

Yes serious injury can occur.

I'm willing to learn on a man if that's what he wants. I have average size hands as I'm female and 5 foot 6.

I find men bigger internally than me and I find shorter women have smaller hands. I also find that men have longer arms.

Whichever partner, the receiving person needs to be able to say stop if it hurts.

I read recently a medical article about a group of gay guys who were d*unk and high in fisting parties. Yup don't do fisting d*unk and high.

I have a personal question.

You say you find men bigger internally than you.

Obviously, male fisting involves the anus.

Are you comparing your anus to a mans, or your vagina to a man's anus?"

My rectum and vagina to a man's rectum. Especially tall men! Anus is the entrance not all the way in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love fisting tbh. Feeling of opening up is amazing! I have given a few and now training to take one hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Watching fisting in porn can be got too, what has always put me right off though is rosebudding."

Seems to becoming a thing, doesn't look good to me but sure there's a few things that we do that don't appeal to others

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By *ickey73Man
over a year ago

cardiff

My ex loved having her pussy stretched, she’d never been fisted until we got together and is now slowly trying to persuade her new guy to do the things I used to do to her. I opened her eyes to a lot of new things….arousal, plenty of lube if needed and don’t try and force your hand in. Hurting them could put them off for life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love fisting! Have given a few and now training to take one. No better feeling than being opened up

hehe

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

A really old boy who was a self proclaimed fisting specialist at a local cruising spot tried it on me about 7 years ago.

He got up to the knuckles but I had to tap out, I couldn't go any further without risking injury lol

To be fair he was a gentleman and immediately stopped. Then we had a nice chat about football afterwards

He was knocking on 80 back then and I haven't seen him for about 5 years, he might have passed on now

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

Quite simply you need to be enjoying this with someone else that also wants to enjoy it and surly you will be able to read the reaction!

If it's going to be fun it has to be for all involved

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By *rBeejayMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Definitely into it, though I've fisted more men than women.

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