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Deleting 'friends'

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By *ynda1978 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Liverpool

So you've added male/female as a friend whilst you've been chatting on here and you've met, or it's not worked out. Do you delete them, and if so, how long afterwards, or do you keep them on your friend list??

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Delete them as there's no point in keeping them there if your not planning to meet them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably keep them as friends just to keep in touch and check in on them from time to time

For me it really doesn’t matter I wouldn’t post anything as friends photos that I wouldn’t publicly post anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its evident that's nothing ever going to happen then I don't see the point in having them on my friends list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good old hump and dump

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

block 'em.

Next...

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"So you've added male/female as a friend whilst you've been chatting on here and you've met, or it's not worked out. Do you delete them, and if so, how long afterwards, or do you keep them on your friend list??

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delete and block sorry its the only way

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've 13 on mine and only met 5 of them and 4 of those were socially.

I cull every now and again when I'm in the mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hit delete

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Yes I delete.

Block those I'm not interested in meeting again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I delete.

Block those I'm not interested in meeting again"

Block me please

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia


"Yes I delete.

Block those I'm not interested in meeting again

Block me please "

Not friends and we haven't met unlucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i meet some socially, some I just like talking to, but there is one that I am scared to delete cos she then hassles me by kik, wats app, text and phone - so I just leave her there even though i don't like her! coward

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I have friends in my friends list, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I delete.

Block those I'm not interested in meeting again

Block me please

Not friends and we haven't met unlucky "

We aren’t friend and we haven’t meet and you blocked me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have some “club” friends and some men that we’ve played with previously and never know maybe will again so we keep them on our friend list.

They can remove themselves if they’re not happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I delete.

Block those I'm not interested in meeting again"

Nice rack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's personal choices, but this kind of shows how some pretreatment others as a simple commodity ?

I understand the nature of the site, and the fact there's some odd behaviour at times,but it takes two to form a friendship?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't have many on my friends list and I do a cull every so often especially if we haven't spoken in a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never delete friends. I’ve never met anyone I haven’t enjoyed.

I very rarely block, it has to be something really disgusting in a message or stalker like xx

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat


"So you've added male/female as a friend whilst you've been chatting on here and you've met, or it's not worked out. Do you delete them, and if so, how long afterwards, or do you keep them on your friend list??

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Depends. If they aren't posting media or status updates they aren't really on my radar. If they are active and I'm not interested in seeing their posts, then I'll delete.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I only have people on my friends list that I've actually met. Anyone else can go on the hot list.

But I would just delete straight away, don't over think it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We regularly remove people from our friends list, whether met or not if they aren’t actively speaking to us. It’s nothing personal and they’re welcome to rejoin if in touch.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Yeah just delete after a while especially if it's clear there's never going to be a meet

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By *ynda1978 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Liverpool

Thanks for the comments, everyone. I'll take them on board xx

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By *ndreisabelCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"So you've added male/female as a friend whilst you've been chatting on here and you've met, or it's not worked out. Do you delete them, and if so, how long afterwards, or do you keep them on your friend list??

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If the social meet went well but we decided that sexualy we aren't for each other we will keep them as friends. If the meet goes bad for whatever reason then we unfriend and block.

We don't see why we wouldn't be friends with another couple just because we dont fancy each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete "friends" on my list from time to time simply because I've not chatted to them for a while and know I'll never meet them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a friends list anymore as couldn't see the point.

My hotlist is my done / to do list!

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Am I the only person who naïvely uses my Friends List as a list of my friends? Regardless of whether or not sex has taken, or will take, place?

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

If we had met them and had a great time and they were nice people but sexually we just weren’t feeling it then I would see no reason to delete and block them.

Would only do that if we didn’t get on socially also.

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